Had a great plate for the last 2.5 months; weekly sex dates at mine and have gotten on great since we first met. Last time she came around (2 weeks ago), we showered together and she pulled out the: "Let me know if you start getting emotionally attached, we get along really well and I don't want either of us to get hurt, let's just both be honest." I agreed. Last week she didn't come around ad it was her Birthday week and she had a busy week, but she apologised and set up a date for tomorrow night. She msg'd me tonight saying that: "Hey DiggerClam, I think I have to stop seeing you, I'm getting emotionally attached and it's probably better to stop now." "But I tell you what I've had a blast, and you will make a lucky girl very happy one day."
Now I understand that she could either have been getting emotionally attached, or she's found someone else, or I just wasn't fucking her hard enough (even though she said I was her best, blah blah, 'her actions not her words') etc, whatever. I knew she was a plate and all plates eventually fall. I haven't seen anything on here on how to best to play this situation in terms of wanting her to eventually want to come back.
Apanthropos 11y ago
She already found another guy and was thinking about it during the shower.
It doesnt matter how hard you fucked her. It is irrelevant. Move on.
Chaohinon 11y ago
Eh, I'd give her props for at least going about this in a nondestructive manner. Sure beats the hell out of having a plate act scorned because you held up the no-relationship bargain to a T
DiggerClam 11y ago
Yeah, figured as much. Radio Silence then. This is the first plate that has fallen by themselves; still learning.
[deleted] 11y ago
Yeah that's the best policy. Go out and have some fun with your bros too
vandaalen 11y ago
They will inevitably all fall after some time. A woman is only able to give sex without reciprocration for a limited period of time, which will mostly be a maximum of six months.
Just wish her all the best and tell her to keep your number. Sometimes they come back.
DiggerClam 11y ago
Thanks. I did exactly this.
blacwidonsfw 11y ago
Wow I just made a comment in another thread that said plate limit was 6 months as well. Crazy, its like all girls are like that or something.
ToshiroOzuwara 11y ago
You don't want her back. She set you free without drama. It doesn't get much better than this. Go get another plate or three.
DiggerClam 11y ago
Thanks for the replies. Wished her all the best and told her to keep my number safe.