I have friends but most are out of town, working a 48hr shift (we're firefighters so that's normal) or housesitting. So is going to the bar alone something you guys do or is that a taboo thing?
The-Self-Post-Guy
Posted 10y ago in Uncategorized - Permalink - Locked - 1.1K Views
Ask TRP
Created By bambinosupremo
Ask questions related to TRP, dating, life advice.
2.3K Members
Public Tribe
Unsubscribed
Ask TRP Sidebar
Original Reddit Red Pill sub (quarantine bypass) that contains the full original sidebar
Welcome To AskTRP
Here we have Red Pill Discussion for personalized questions about specific situations, people, scenarios.
Rule Zero of all TRP subreddits.
You are REQUIRED to read these before posting. Ignorance of the rules is not an excuse.
Our comprehensive knowledge base is on the sidebar of our Parent Sub: /r/TheRedPill
New and not sure where to start? The Red Pill Primer - A Sidebar Made Simple
Collected advice for newbies and beginners
Frequently AskTRP'd Questions
How to OPEN and CLOSE: Beginner's guide
Plates! How do I define, choose, and maintain them?
Are we exclusive? Handling "The Talk."
Dating: How to use dating sites, set a sexual frame, and utilize Push-Pull?
Should we cohabitate before marriage? TR;DR NO!
How to get laid like a WARLORD
What are Shit Tests and how do I handle them?
Older RPers, advice for young men starting out?
Red Pill general FAQ. 15 most common mistakes seen on AskTRP
In a hurry? Here are 20 Redpill FAQs with 1-line answers.
Red Pill Problem Solver
Got a stranger pregnant: a guide
Jealousy and games: Don't mate guard!
All-in-one Legal Guide: False rape/DV, Divorce, Child support etc
Identify and avoid BPD women Pt 1 Pt.2
Fitness and Self-Improvement
Our Build-A-Man workshop for becoming your best on the outside and inside
To the young man I saw at the gym last night
FR: Going to an event where you don't know anyone
Beyond passive/aggressive: Be ASSERTIVE
Red Pill Series Posts
Some of our best writers have written entire SERIES on topics of interest to TRP newcomers.
CorporateLand: Rat race survival guide
50 Shades of Red | 50 shades Redder | 50 more
Everything OmLaLa ever wrote
Rules
We've made this new place to help beginners and those with specific questions about game or handling specific parts of your life in a red pill context.
- Please no links, only text posts.
- Standard discourse rules from TRP apply
- Textwalls without paragraph breaks will be deleted without notice.
- Please be constructive, it's ok to make mistakes.
Avoid asking questions like "is this alpha" or "is this beta?" Instead focus on asking whether or not your actions were congruent with your goals.
A Note on Moderation
We are removing new posts from new accounts that are young or have little karma. If you want to ask a question, we suggest you spend some time lurking and entering into discussion first. Spend some time reading the /r/theredpill sidebar.
If you see a troll or problem post, don't engage them but use the REPORT link; this will bring it quickly to the attention of the mod team.
Red Pill WOMEN Portal
Attention Women, TRP is a male space so the content may seem shocking. Go to /r/redpillwomen to learn Red Pill theory from the female perspective.
Men: RedPillWomen is a female space where you're best off not posting. If you post and cause trouble there, it will follow you back here.
IRC Channel
servercentral.il.us.quakenet.org #theredpill
The Red Pill Network
/r/TheRedPill
/r/RedPillWomen
/r/askTRP
/r/thankTRP
/r/becomeaman
/r/altTRP
LasherDeviance 10y ago
I find that the best place to practice your tactics, are doing day trips when you are alone. I get my best results on my way in to and from work; for instance pulling out game on hoes at the bus depot, or while at the gas station buying beer, or at the library perusing books. I find it easier in public places where the women are isolated. Plus the shit tests that they have built up for the bar don't work as well in public during the daytime, it makes it easier to knock that shit down.
narcissus88 10y ago
I go out alone most of the time. As someone else said, unless you go out with a guy who's good at this, any friends will likely hold you back or act embarrassed if you hit on girls the right way.
md619 10y ago
Not at all. In fact, unless you have a wingman who actually knows what he is doing it's preferred. They're just going to hold you back.
RedSeddit 10y ago
Pua tactics are just a fancy term for being a cool dude and you can do that anywhere, not just at bars. Day game also works well solo.
UnpluggedMaestro 10y ago
Its just that night game is easier to reel DTF girls.
VZPurp 10y ago
In my experience, going solo leads to the fastest improvements. It's also quite fun because then all of your social interactions must involve new people (unless you run into familiar people as you go out).
If I'm out with a group I'll tend to separate every now and then as well. Too often I find them unwilling to engage others outside the group.
LasherDeviance 10y ago
Plus going solo makes it easier when you hook up with a chick and want to leave; you dont have to worry about shit like "Damn, I have to drop my boy off at home cause he rode with me to the bar." That shit can kill a one nighter because for her it's like "fuck me now" and plus hoes don't want everyone to know their business, and your buddy will know that after you drop him off you are going to smash and that might make her feel uncomfortable and make you look beta for being the "sweet guy" who puts his friends before the pussy. Now, don't get me wrong, thats how it should be, but hoes need that ego boost of "He's ditching his friends, I'm more important." Going solo immediately kills that shit-test, and leaves her open for the smashing.
Really_Puck 10y ago
My local bar is walking distance from my house so I do this all the time,or used to at least. At this point I've gone often enough that I know all of the bartenders and most of the "regulars" so whenever I walk in there I'm basically going to meet friends.
Meglomaniac 10y ago
I go to the bar every weekend alone.
Ive been working in the bar industry and the area for almost 10 years. I can walk into any bar any night and know people there I can hang out with.
But I am lucky, Make friends. part of being a like able guy is being able to carry a conversation with anyone. Just start chatting to people.
Talk to MEN. if you start going to the same areas and the same bars, if you know the guys they will happily let you enter their social circle and talk to girls. You dont get any sort of resistance from friends/acquaintances then you would from strangers.
tremenfing 10y ago
What do you do if you get stuck talking to a weirdo? Last time I tried this the guy kept rambling about some conspiracy
Meglomaniac 10y ago
Dude, learn to walk away.
"Oh thats great, Be right back" and just walk off like a confident alpha male.
Its easy, If he tries to stop you just be like "yes?" and if it isnt fucking important be like "okay" and just walk off.
He is a stranger and a weirdo, Dont worry about his fucking feelings.
mrust 10y ago
Haha, it's funny to read this because it's what I did two weeks ago. Then I ran into him again two days later. He confronted me with "Got bored of talking to me huh?" And I said, "Got a text, family emergency" and then just walked away again.
This guy was proper batshit crazy, talking about how the Egyptians built the pyramids for the purpose of time travel.