Before I left the church I was paired up with a mentor, an older man in the church who would meet up with me to talk.
These talks were rarely that religious and more focused on general things of life, and his advice to me as I was trying to handle new situations and learn important lessons.
However almost two years have passed and in that time I've closed the gap and I feel like I'm left with nothing to learn from him. I tried to talk about new developments and he is hellbent on talking about the same old stuff I've moved past.
I've no idea if anyone will have a helpful answer for this but I just want to find someone older than myself to learn from. Being 23 I've still lots to learn.
Edit: I live in Scotland btw.
tits_out_forTheBoys 11y ago
There are plenty of RedPill books with invaluable life advice for young men.
Just to name a few:
The Rational Male
The Book of Pook
No More Mr. Nice Guy
For more excellent reading material, search for a post on TRP sub called "Comprehensive Red Pill Books - Redux."
cheeky--kunt 11y ago
Just my 2cents:
The Rational Male - holy bible of trp, sort of. Explains male/female behavior on psychological_animalbrain level. Good for learning how people are hardwired, and then brainwashed to think otherwise.
Models by Mark Manson seems to sum up many of red pill aspects too, using terms which freshly unplugged are able to ingest easily. I had easier reading and understanding of this book when I read Rational Male before.
married man sex life for LTR (not just for marriage, basically dread game, improving yourself, holding frame)
[deleted] 11y ago
You can do it on your own better if you stop fearing life.
Making mistakes and moving on from them is a much better learning experience than your "give me the knowledge" attitude.
tits_out_forTheBoys 11y ago
This was the exact point I wanted to preface my comment with, but I didn't know how to word it. So thank you.
OP, a wise man does not give his time away for free. So if you want great life advice, then you're better off reading books that were written by wise men who are getting paid for their invaluable life advice. You are the only mentor you need because you're a Man. Meaning your level of effort/dedication toward your mission will determine your eventual level of patriarchial wisdom.
robotghow 11y ago
Money-makers are not necessarily wise, it may mean they're just pandering to the masses.