i was over at a mates pool party and i was dictating the conversations and the attention of the people i was talking to. A girl who i was talking with and starting flirting responded well then she asked "why don't you get in the water?" i think nothing of it move on, she continually asked i didn't click until the moment passed any tips so i can pass more effectively in real time
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Misteralcala 11y ago
A shit test is anything a woman says / does that puts you on the defensive and makes you question yourself or attempts to get a reaction from you. Shit tests are designed to rattle your frame and women test us to see how we react. If we can pass her shit tests, then we are seen as confident, capable high-value men. If we fail shit tests, then we are seen as weak beta imposters.
kingofpoplives 11y ago
This.
If you find yourself feeling uncomfortable, challenged, flustered, uneasy, insecure, confused, etc. -- you have just been the victim of a shit test.
Also if the woman is acting bratty, rebellious, pouty, etc.
[deleted] 11y ago
It is just practice, there is no shortcut to identifying and responding correctly. Try an enjoy the journey more and be outcome independent, this will help you relax into your frame and eventually it will just become second nature.
[deleted] 11y ago
This doesn't sound like a shit test to me. She may have wanted you to swim with her/flirt more.
Please capitalize "I"
SeekingTheWay 11y ago
use your wit. 'i'm not waterproof under 1 ft" etc
[deleted] 11y ago
This isn't a shit test. (Unless you can't swim or are afraid of it for some reason.)
You could push her in and "As I was saying" to her friend. You could, "Why don't I? Why don't we?" and pick her up physically and jump in with her. You could "I don't like being in pools cus I know you pee in them". You could "I can't swim, I nearly drowned as a kid and I have been terrified of water ever since" solemn face. Then laugh.
It'll come with experience but yeah, a shit test isn't just a question... It's any type of question designed specifically to elicit an emotional binary answer for her suitability scoring. If she's asking you to get in the water because you're boring the group then step back and think about whether you were actually dominating conversation badly or whether they were genuinely interested in what you were saying.