Like I tell every guy with the same problem, learn social skills and stop whining

This whole women thing really isn't hard if you just learn how to talk to people.

It's social skills all the way down and some of you will not accept that.

You don't even have to run any game if you are valuable enough and your social skills are great. Women just start gaming themselves at that point

Jesus dudes... Learn social skills already

https://www.forums.red/p/theredpill/322057/the_permanent_game_noob_the_autistic_alpha_and_how_to_fix_it

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I somehow feel entitled as if all the progress I made was not for me.

good that you recognise this is wrong.

it is NOT... "build muscles and each oz of muscle gets you 2.5 girls".

being physically hot is great, but it's not everything

I resent it when they ghost me (irl and online) and go for someone else. After every cold approach I felt good and bad. My social circle is filled with guys who are worse than me.

don't think of guys as worse than you. it's fucking you up. especially when they get girls. they're just different. better at some things, worse at others. stop seeing it as a hierarchy.

I keep on expanding to different social circles but maybe because of the conservativeness (I'm not from the west) I haven't found a decent one with women maybe I should really go to a cooking or yoga class ( is it desperate?).

try it

I know it feel kn my heart If I remain on social media trying to land women from there it'll wreck my mental peace. I just feel tired at this point. Sometimes I look at a woman and I wonder all the cute act the silly act she puts on up. Uglier people,Fatter people,Broke people have it better than me while I have lost the grit to do cold approaches and social circles are deadwater.

Ok, so you need to:

• Be attractive
• Have a social life
• Find some sort of peace within yourself.

Because you sound immature, resentful and you think guys who are less successful than you are ... are more successful... and it's all fucking with your head.

Grow up a bit my dude... grow up. We're all on a journey. That small shitty guy? Turns out he's worth millions. That dumb looking dopey guy? Twelve inch dick. You just don't know, so stop thinking like that.

What exactly is your question?

Your post is just this meandering whiny screed.

Do you know how to converse with people? Do you know how to converse with people in a state of outcome independence?

You are like a character in Elden ring with maxed out stats and a top-tier build. But you don’t know how to dodge or anything about game mechanics (pun intended).

Not only that, you are like someone in Elden Ring who DOESN’T WANT to learn game mechanics or how to play well. And getting angry that you can’t face tank bosses with your high stats.

Learn game. Learn social skills.

Cold approach is usually a losers game. It might get you to face your fears, but the approach is absolutely dog shit as far as results.

I can tell by the way that you write and your thought process that you are very outcome dependant and coming from the autistic no fap forums.

So cold approach is basically you forcing your presence on women. Attraction is women wanting to be in your presence.

You need to drop some ideas. First off stop comparing yourself to others. People will only show you the good parts of their life, not the messy parts.

Learn to jerk off without guilt. Use your imagination and don't rely on porn.

And start having fun. Don't go out to get chicks, go out to have fun and talk to people that are also having fun. The rest of this shit you wrote is "woe is me" useless garbage.