I‘m talking about those women who are doing well in life (intelligent, happy, good social status) and look better than 99%. Who do they end up marrying?
I‘m doing well in terms of SMV and expect it to get better into my 30s since I have a good career lined up. Part of me is worried that the really desirable, 10/10 once in a blue moon women will get snatched up by rich fucks who take them on expensive vacations and buy a big house at 30.
Is that realistically what happens? Or do they date the same losers that all the other halfway attractive woman are also dating (honestly based on my few observations so far that’s what actually happens)
Attempt to answer own Question: don’t worry thinking about what women want, you’re the prize. But still, I can’t help but wonder.
Lone_Ranger 3 1d ago
forget about the 0.1% women.
Really, forget about it. You have better things to be thinkng about.
Dxmx99 3d ago
Find a girl who is pretty/cute but slightly on the spectrum. If she's dumb, she's gullible. If she's dumb, hot, and autistic you can pretty much keep her in line.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 6d ago
You're going to hate this answer but honestly a lot of guys just grow up around or happen to already be in proximity to these women
Or their family already knows them or whatever
Some of you guys thinking there is a magic pussy password to certain women but women fuck dudes and date dudes for all kinds of reasons
And for every mega hot desireable woman out there there is some man who is so sick of her shit he has left her.
You guys need to stop pedestalizing hypothetical unicorns
Sure, being a giga Chad helps but women also go for familiarity or the plot she has been given the story to already
It's not all skill or ability
Red_dead Should i (x1) 2d ago
This is the truth. One thing I learned in social psychology is that the greatest indicator of a romantic relationship is proximity.
I grew up with chads tpyical tall athletic good looking types. None of us really ended up with any dimes, because we never established a solid group of girls.
When you go out look around most really attractive women are hanging around a group of guys they already know and will fuck and rotate through those guys assuming they have any semblance of game. There are guys who don’t have really anything going for them but they lucked into a friend group where hot girls are constantly around, so they always get lucky, ive seen it.
Maybe a guy has a hot sister with hot friends or knows a ton of former soristitutes. Comfort, preselection and logistics are all in your favor. Plus if you see a girl frequently it gives you more time to demonstrate value rather than forcing her to make a split decision.
As for the second part, I used to hang around a bunch of these types in college and guys would lose their minds, meanwhile im thinking how annoying and crazy they are.
MrSupreme 6d ago
I think of this every time i find a beauty out there, some guy got tired of her shit, and I might too, and it is ok if I do.
medstudentgerman2002 6d ago
On one hand thats good, if it's outside of my control there's no point in expending my energy.
On the other hand, I always kind of hoped that if I become successful there will be a big trophy in the form of a woman that's only accessible when you have that level of success. In reality that woman is probably getting back together for the 3rd time with her ex she met in college
SpiritualEnema 6d ago
While that might sound nice in your mind, you don’t want one of those women (most women) who only show up at the finish line and pick the winners. If she is willing to ride the struggle bus with you through medical school, then she might have just enough loyalty and integrity to not make your life miserable when you finally start making money.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 6d ago
Your chances go up but you're not gauranteed shit
You should aim to get successful for your own happiness
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 6d ago
A) that's a massive covert contract. Read "No More Mr. NiceGuy" by Dr. Robert Glover and use what he says in there to try to eliminate thinking along the lines of covert contracts.
B) like @SpiritualEnema said, a woman that only wants you because of your success, status, prestige, whatever and wasn't struggling along with you to get there isn't likely to be as loyal as one who was.
And I'd take a loyal and pleasant 6 over a spoiled, bitchy 9 who will jump on the next upgrade.
Red_dead Should i (x1) 2d ago
Can you elaborate on this. I’ve recently decided to give up on dating to focus on my career. The effort to pay off ratio is not there for me. But a rather large part of me is hoping I could close the gap with this.
Lone_Ranger 3 3h ago
Focus on your career, on yourself, your social network and your circle of guy friends and associates.
There are women everywhere, and they are bored. The one thing that hurts your SMV is 'dating'. Just forget about it. Most men have woken up to this.
'Dating' is fast becoming just millions of women looking for pay pigs, and the pigs have left.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 2d ago
Which part?
MrSupreme 6d ago
Women who are 10% looks will definitely be more on the lookout for ways to exploit this one powerful strength, it can be those gym chicks everyone wants to fuck, a beautiful model or whatever.
What is common between the men these women end up choosing for long term relationships? Money-Looks-Status-Game
What is common between the men the other 90% of women end up choosing for long term relationships? Money-Looks-Status-Game
In different proportions, some will value money more (like Dubai traveling girls), others game (model bored of pretty boys who simp and don't make her tingle), others looks (gym girls who only date super fit and muscular guys) and the status is what girls who like getting banged by guys in bands,artists,and any guy who will make her feel like she's famous and into that lifestyle, this includes being popular in bars too.Fame is crack.
They all care about the same things, stop pedestalizing them because they're fucking gorgeous and hot. Do your part and ger more money, look better, have game and IMO the hardest part is the Status but do your best there too.
mattyanon Admin 5d ago
Right.
Best plan as a man is to plan on fucking lots of women. You basically can't find your equal because it almost never exists. Certainly much rarer. So go for quantity over quality. It's what we are "supposed to do", genetically speaking.
Betas, by definition. Top 0.1% men don't need to or want to get married.
I really know, can't think I've met many 0.1% women and most women are not honest about their dating practices with anyone. Perhaps not even themselves.
Musicgoon78 3 5d ago
I've found that the vast majority of these women chase money. They are very expensive. They put a lot of work into themselves. To translate that: they put very little work into you.
So I call this a fuck-chick. What that means is you eventually get fucked over in some sort of way from them. They will look for a rich guy that will take them places and lavish them with great things. Once thoroughly spoiled, they will fuck the alpha pool boy or the personal trainer. The provider guy gets fucked out of his money. And the alpha guy will want more than she's willing to give.
Now, it sounds like you're unicorn hunting. Get your head out of your ass. If you're not in the top 0.1% of billionaires in the world ,this shit doesn't matter.
Find girls that you like and fuck them. Is your measure of success a trophy wife?
No-Stress-Cat 5d ago
First of all, let us define the terms. To me, 0.1% women are 10/10's, which are supermodels, actresses, PYT singers, etc. Realistically speaking, only the rich and famous are able to afford these types of women. The rest of us are stuck with the hard body butterfaces, and cute to kinda-hot at best women. The average woman is going to be a 7 on her best days.
Speaking of American women, 21% are single moms, 40% are obese, 32% are age 30 and older (2024). That's not including the other red flags (married, crazy, tats and bull rings, feminist, liberal, butt-ugly, etc.).
That narrows the field down for anyone looking to seriously date anyone skinny, cute, and normal. We should strive for the best, but the truth is, at most we're only able to get the best that we can get.
PS: There's nothing wrong with being a rich fuck. You should strive to become a rich fuck yourself so that you can get all the 0.1% pussy you could ever want too. ;)