Hey guys, I have been reading Red Pill content in my free time since January. I’ve read Manson, and Greene. I’ve been lifting consistently since spring. Basically, I’ve turned my entire life around. Just like everyone else here. I have structured my entire life, and I am planning my future around the RP lifestyle. And everything has been going just fantastically, I’ve never felt surer of myself. Then, boom, a month ago, a girl I used to have a major crush on walks back into my life. We used to go to school together, but we both moved away in opposite directions. I’ve been talking with her, catching up and all of that jazz, and this time she like me hard too. Like, serious flirting back and forth and such. Man, I am being absolutely crushed by my old feelings for her. I think she’s pretty cool, she seems to be the sort of girl you all say to go after. Young, sweet, and fresh. Not tainted yet. But she lives so far away that any chance of sweeping her up before college in the fall is near to nil. The reason that I mentioned my RP journey in the beginning is that, in all of my readings, I have never encountered what to do when you like someone again. In general, my feelings towards girls at this point are mostly physical. I’d given up all hopes of encountering one worth my full attention. Is this some sort of bitch mode relapse? Or am I rightly mourning a missed opportunity? Ah hell, my entire mindset has gone topsy turvy over the past couple days. Apparently, no matter how much you will to not care, you're not able to choose who you like or do not like.
T-bear96
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mudra311 11y ago
Thou shall not date oneitis.
Fuck other girls first, get this chick off your brain, and approach her again.
T-bear96 11y ago
Thank you Mudra ... sounds like a plan.
laere 11y ago
Cut contact with her, move on with your life.
3.5 billion women.
T-bear96 11y ago
No, im not going to do that. Its not like she's blue balling me or anything, she just lives half way across the country. She's a good friend though. And I'd say if she were here, shed be crawling over me. Bad logistics. I just had a day of weakness where I fell in like with a girl that likes me. Its every guys biggest weakness.
aguy01 11y ago
Yea this is a bitch relapse. She is just another girl, especially under the circumstances. If you can't fuck her the next time you see her you should move on. Tell her to come over and watch a movie. Go caveman on her. If you don't fuck her, then cut all contact and move on because you won't ever fuck her and she will try to keep you in her orbit.
T-bear96 11y ago
Thanks for confirming my thoughts dude. I'm all locked in my head and I couldn't think objectively.
[deleted] 11y ago
I'm going through the same now...Would really like some anwers
[deleted] 11y ago
How many girls are you seeing?
T-bear96 11y ago
Everyone else is right, its temporary oneitis. As soon as you guys mentioned it, I knew it was true. I'm feeling back in my place again already. It was just a day of tired weakness. Thank you for your interest though! ... One by the way. I just need to go out and talk to some other girls for perspective.