Everything I've read on here seems to be about being the perfect mate to produce the perfect offspring in a stable environment.

Then you haven't read enough. TRP is amoral and does not proscribe any given goal or life plan. It's just a theoretical framework combined with practical advice for how men can be better men and how to interact with women to get what you want out of life.

The TRP community consists of men across the spectrum. From players looking to score with as many women as possible, to married men looking to fix a broken marriage, to divorced men looking to find Mrs Right.

You apply TRP to your life, your goals, to get what you want.

Doesn't /r/childfree have an attached dating / meetup site? IIRC.

Edit: yeah, it's /r/cf4cf/

TRP is a sexual strategy. It puts you into a position to be more successful with better quality women. This is the essence of dating. Eventually you may find one you will want to make a LTR with.

But before you do any of this, you need to understand TRP. And clearly you have no idea what it's about. Go back and read the sidebar materials at /r/theredpill.

Trp teaches you sexual strategy aka how to get girls to want your d. Why wouldn't you want to use that knowledge? I think that is useful for any relationship no matter how casual or serious. A lot of it is based on traditional, evolutionary gender roles but you definitely don't need to follow them to use trp. I would say a majority of trpers want to be life long bachelors. Keep banging new chicks, eventually you'll find one not to have kids with.

Even if you don't want kids, and she doesn't either, qualities that make you seem like a good father are what will attract her.

Unfortunately, my ideologies do not seem to align with TRP's. Everything here seems to revolve around traditional gender roles, but there is a lot of sound advice coming from here, in my opinion.

The point of TRP is not that traditional gender roles are "good" in a moral sense, the point is that women tend to respond better to them. As an analogy, fat acceptance justice warriors might dislike the idea that obesity is bad for you, but the fact is that they're disgusting fat slobs who will die an early death.

Everything I've read on here seems to be about being the perfect mate to produce the perfect offspring in a stable environment.

? perfect.. Not sure RP wants that..

I don't want marriage, as they usually fail and the idea seems archaic and arbitrary.

Not true. In fact, if 2 people have degrees they're very likely to stay together.

You haven't explained what kind of information you're looking for... It seems also you're afraid of failing, or taking a risk with women. If she cheats on you, your marriage fails, the idea is that you have enough value to move to the next one. Women will be women. Frankly, if she's into you and you're afraid she will also be afraid of the future. If she stays, it's has a lot to do with your value as a man. Perfection is simply not attainable, nor desired.

I feel the exact same way. fuck getting married and having £200000 little bags of noise.

TRP isn't a manifesto to be followed to the letter. It's a shared collection of observations, tactics and ideas that stress the importance of self-improvement and help navigate the social landscape.

"We take what we want and leave the rest, just like your salad bar."

• Egg Shen, 'Big Trouble in Little China'

I don't want kids because,

this isn't ask men, we don't give a fuck, to each his own.

Date, A LOT at least 3 nights and 2 day dates per week. Collect a large number of knoches. Your goal at this point is sex and that is non negotiablem, if the bitch plays the waiting game be polite and just walk away, no explication or negotiation.

Do not commit to any of those women, if you like them just repeat until you stop liking them or they break up with you.

Always be honest about your non exclusivity.

Younger is better.

After 6 months of this put your top 10 on a list and call them back to "catch up". Fuck them, loosen your frame just a bit so they don't feel just like "another woman". Spend time with them and get to know them . You deepen the relationship until you drop them, they start the relationship game or leave.

You push until there are only 3, you tell them your stances they will care significantly more than us. You tell them that they are non negotiable. And you tell them that if that isn't what they want to not bullshit you and just leave.

We don't judge based on personal wishes, we do not believe in a obligatory/ideal/optimal path in life, that is why we are here, we have rejected the "ideology" and the roles society imposed on us and decided we want better.