Who are your role models?

There's a bit in "No More Mr Nice Guy!" (as recommended here, and has really helped me make fantastic progress) where it's suggested that for certain situations, you should pause, take stock, and think "what would a healthy male do in this situation?". The idea being that you stop and consider your actions in order to change them, rather than operating out of the same bad habitual behaviour.

It occurred to me though, often I have no idea what a healthy male should do, or often even be. My father was a very poor role model, and thinking about it, I realised I had basically modelled my concept of a healthy male on the beta blue pilled white knight nice guys in TV and movies; in the absence of an alternative, this was how I constructed my idea of healthy behaviour.

Now, having swallowed the red pill, I often find it difficult to imagine what a good reaction would be to particuar scenarios; in particular, confrontations.

There's a few good, specific examples in movies etc, but these are few and far between. One person I think who seemed to have it figured out was David Lee Roth- I couldn't imagine him getting flustered, embarrassed and agitated, but then I can't imagine how he might deal with someone trying to screw him over either, where he'd actively have to make a stand against someone- he's just too laid back.

So, TRP, who are your role models?