Does anyone feel that because of the NiceGuysTM stereotype, it's affected genuinely good guys as well, even though the people who criticise the former always make out like it doesn't. For example, you could have a guy that:
- is genuinely kind, empathetic, compassionate, etc. and therefore does not use acts of kindness to get into a woman's pants
- has genuinely attractive qualities and therefore only seeks to date women of the same league
- still struggles with dating
But because of r/niceguys and NiceGuyTM stereotyping, these guys can't talk about their struggles and also people will assume the worst about you: that you are a NiceGuyTM, that you are an "incel", that you are an NEET neckbeard, etc. All so that some people can have a cheap thrill out of making fun of some douchebags on the internet (r/niceguys sub).
Who would like to see a discussion platform for good men with good values, where anti-nice guy logic is ripped apart, with screenshots, etc. Kind of like a reverse r/niceguys idea to prove to people (and yes, feminists) that there do indeed exist guys who:
- is genuinely kind, empathetic, compassionate, etc. and therefore does not use acts of kindness to get into a woman's pants
- has genuinely attractive qualities and therefore only seeks to date women of the same league
- still struggles with dating
For this reason, I have started r/goodmengoodvalues
[deleted] 5y ago
Well women do a great job of turning nice guys into assholes
kevin32 Mod 5y ago
Thanks for posting here u/SRU_91. This post is allowed mainly because you offered a perspective instead of just asking questions.
When you have the opportunity, check out our sidebar so that you understand what this sub's about and what posts are allowed, especially rules 3 and 5. It might also help to read a few of the most upvoted posts here for a better idea of what's allowed.
[deleted] 5y ago
Ok. Thanks. Sorry that I did not notice this. From my browser, the rules 3-5 only seem to be available from the old reddit. I don't know what this is as I have turned ad-block off and everything!
kevin32 Mod 5y ago
Thanks for informing me of this. Yes, we're currently using Old Reddit for now so I'll need to update the New Reddit side so those viewers can know as well.
[deleted] 5y ago
I think that phrase 'Nice Guys' is just a way for these women (and ass kissing beta males) to try to keep less desirable men in their place, the same way the advice of being 'nice' to women is a way to keep them optimistic but out of the mating pool
IntrovertedMagma 5y ago
And it is important to keep the nice guys optimistic so they can keep working hard in the plantation so daddy government can raise Chad's kids with nice guys' money.