A community for men to share their stories and perspectives on the "Where are all the good men?" subject. Also the sister tribe of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen.
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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3. Submissions must be an essay which addresses the "Where are all the good men?" subject. Personal stories, theories, venting, and even how awesome life is as a MGTOW are all welcomed, but ultimately the reader should be able to understand from your perspective why women can't find a "good man", or why good men are avoiding commitment. Our Recommended Reading list contains great examples that fit our theme.
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VladMartel 4 years ago
> You can be "good" (nice, moral, religious, kind) and it won't get you anywhere; in fact it will hurt you in the long run.
Maybe. I still think this is what we need to be, though. Because as much as we don't recognize it anymore, women are still fragile. They're the weaker sex. They age worse as a general rule. They're extremely easy to take advantage of - and they are often but the State, for better or ill, protects them from feeling the worst of it.
As gay and LARPy as it sounds, what we really need to be is a "knight", figuratively-speaking. Noble and virtuous, but also strong and willing to cave in another man's head if the need should truly arise. Not a beta, not a thug, but a mix of the best of both parts.
If you manage to find a good girl, you need to be beta enough to want to cherish her and protect her (especially from her own worst impulses) but alpha enough to be able to do it.
Otherwise, you're just going to be part of the problem. You're going to create another alpha-widow and more children of single mothers.
Maybe I'm still too idealistic, but that's what I want to do. I want to walk that line.
Rick_OShay1 4 years ago
Why aren't parts 2 and 3 on this subreddit?
[deleted] 4 years ago
because I didn't move them over here.
Rick_OShay1 4 years ago
Why not? Not enough fresh comments to make it worth your while?
[deleted] 4 years ago
no. I just didn't think about it.
Is this a passive aggressive way of saying "you're a comment whore"? What's your point?
Rick_OShay1 4 years ago
No; it's that whenever I read something on Reddit, I instinctively try to respond; but alas, once a subreddit is archived, I can say nothing.
I had a response or two of my own on II or III, but I couldn't.