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swhitney186
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Rick_OShay1 5y ago
Her moving in would make her your de-facto wife in 16 different states.
Rick_OShay1 5y ago
And people who deny that you were ever a nice guy have the nasty habit of swapping the cause for the effect.
AllahHatesFags 5y ago
Maybe this is where the old stories about vampires and not inviting into your home come from. Never invite a blood-sucking parasite into your home because they will be extremely difficult to get rid of!
Turnheartsoffathers 5y ago
Vampires are actually based on jews; for example the blood drinking is part of the drinking of blood from the mutilated foreskin, or the blood libel.
[deleted] 5y ago
I knew a couple who invited a single mother to live with them "until she got back on her feet". Well, what was supposed to be a few weeks, turned into a few months, turned into a year and a half. The lady had multiple boyfriends, often staying at their place while they were at work. She always seemed to have trouble finding or keeping a job and of course, it was "never her fault".
Long story short, they use their sob stories and exploit mens' sympathy for their children to leech off of them. They don't care or respect the host for anything, just as long as whatever they are doing is securing another day free rent. I explained that they are going to have trouble with her and if they had to evict her, she was going to make their lives miserable until the very hour the police come by and extract her from their home. I explained that it would be better to convince her to willingly leave rather than deal with any troubles as the courts will not hold her accountable for anything, and they would be painted as the "bad people putting a needy mother on the street with her small children." Luckily, it didn't come to that as she managed to find another place to mooch off of after a few more weeks, but it had to get to the point of them talking to a lawyer about their options before that happened.
Don't be that guy, don't help them do anything. They have all the support of their government agents to survive and provide for their children. They made their decisions, now they need to pay for them. That isn't even "not being a nice guy" that is just "not being a pushover".
houseoftolstoy Mod 5y ago
It does not make any man virtuous to be taken advantage of. Rather it makes him a target for those who just wish to use people. Anyone who accuses a man of being a "fake nice guy" for refusing to help people who are ungrateful or are unwilling to return any favors fail to understand that helping that kind of person means that it only brings harm to society, since providing help rewards bad people for their negative actions. Along with that, it enables people who have not figured out how to help themselves to continue to make the same bad decisions if they only use the help they received to just repeat their mistakes.
swhitney186 5y ago
Literally the timeframe she gave me. And since I own multiple firearms, a bunch of expensive music equipment, and an entire garage of tools, car parts and random collectibles, I’d rather not have her train of dudes going through my stuff while I’m at work (I work long hours usually 6 days a week). Last thing I need Is for one of her men of the hour to break into my firearms (gun cabinet, not vault) and trying to blow me away with my own guns because of some retarded drama she’s got going on. I’ve played the roommate game before, but only with people that I absolutely trust. Hell, my current roommate is a 6’3” lesbian chick that I’ve known for years. She’s like one of the guys, no drama, has my back when I need it. And there is no sexual attraction on either end, which eliminates any possibility of extra bullshit between the two of us. For me, it just works.
Rick_OShay1 5y ago
That would creep me out as well.
If she's unattractive, then she does not qualify as a "chick".