I've always been very attracted to him, however he has let himself go a bit and I have mentioned to him in really nice ways how to better himself. Stuff like how he can dress better, I've even offered to help him pick out things if he's unsure, we do cook a lot of healthy things together, I help him with workouts etc.

Within the past few months I find myself VERY attracted to other men.

Any questions, gents? YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO TAKE A FUCKING BREAK AND ENJOY YOURSELF....WELL...UNLESS YOU HAVE LEO MONEY.

Remember SMV has 3 categories. And you better be net positive in at least 2 or you're gonna be kissing your GF's mouth that had some dude's cock in it not too long ago.

She makes a solid point, and I don't see how we could expect anything less from her. Boyfriend can be compared to a stock, and her's is dropping in value. She is too inexperienced to see whether there's hope he will turn around or not so she is looking to sell quick for more promising opportunities, who can blame her.

I think the best lesson here is that if you're a guy and you're not making sure you are on top of your game in life you're asking for trouble.

I got a similar feeling from it. This is just reality.

Wait a minute! I just reread it. This fucking slut asks if this is normal for someone who was in a relationship "for so long, while so young!" WTF! 20 is 'so young'???? If it was, she sure AF isn't 'so young' now! This whore is trying to justify what she's doing and she expects us to fall for it. That's what bothers me, talking shit, and expecting us to agree with it.

6 years and not cheating on her beta boyfriend? Someone should give this chick a gold medal!

This post came from Red Pill women... go over there and read the chick responses to her.....

"I would be fine with it, as long as it was just sexual".

And there's the difference. Men woudn't be. lol. She's ok if he just fucks someone, but we know he'll get feelz and the other partner will likely try to lock him down eventually. Oh nooo can't have that.

But her ride the CC? Sure, no problem. lol.

i wasnt sure if you were a girl or a gay man until i arrived at the tldr

Hooefully the advice she got was to go ride some cock. I mean shit that's obviously what she's gonna do anyway

Do whatever the fuck you want but a woman's value drops when she sleeps around.

If a guy posted this on any relationship forum and said he was sexually attracted to a lot of other women the general advice would be to stifle his desires and stay faithful to his girlfriend.

Yeah unfortunately for her, she doesn't realize how good his game probably is to get sex from her regularly over 6 years, so when she does fuck up (And she will) he will probably ghost her hard and she will be widowed for good, giving her even more of a justification to ride the CC.

I'm very curious why no one has yet pointed out that the cause could be that he didn't knock her up yet (in addition to him letting himself go).

There's the 2 year drop, 5 year drop, and 7 year drop. You can survive the first few by keeping her happy but it's rare to survive the third without a baby.

Her body is telling her, "This man can't knock you up; his sperm is weak." You're FAR more likely to keep a girl faithful if she's too busy taking care of a baby to find side-cock. Also, her commitment to you emotionally in reinforced since she has been infected by a life-long virus by you (i.e., a baby). Her body won't soon forget that. In some way, she will be attached to you for life. Whether that's a good or bad thing depends on you and her.

If you don't want children, or think they're enslavement or something like that, don't expect to have an LTR that lasts more than half a decade, if that.

This is the missing element. It's biological. It's amoral. Perfect fit.

EDIT: a few people have pointed it out but made it tangential points. It's the biggest factor here. There's is nothing more dominant in male-sex relations than to knock a chick up.

Alright, I'm going to lay this out as simple as possible, you have two options.

Option 1: Stay with your boyfriend and suck it up. Do not cheat on him and stay faithful.

Option 2: Leave your boyfriend and ride the cock carousel.

That's it. Cut and dry, no bullshit. Don't cheat on him cause that's wrong.

However it sounds like he has been complacent and is starting to get comfortable, it might be best to leave him to "wake him up." However be weary of this, because he might not come back.

Also don't ride the carousel too hard because you might get a bad rep and make yourself undateable except for beta providers. Have fun, do your thing, just make sure you're not whoring yourself out on the regular.

That's my advice.

Why are you even surprised? Imagine having a car of the company. It's reliable, being taken care of, everything is perfect and fine, and then these leasing companies start teasing you and asking you for a test-drive, looking into other leaseplans and what not. What if you got invited for interviews, even though you have a job you are really happy with?

Eventually the surplus of offer you are receiving will turn you into a guy that wants to take a few test-drives and get some interviews with some companies and see where it goes, even though you would get alot of shit if your boss would find out.

It's only natural to eventually get interested into something that just gets thrown into your face so often. Eventually you just want to have a piece of if and see what it's all about.

This girl doesn't want to fuck another guy because he is Alpha, but because he is different. She's secure with her ooyfriend, but this other guy is different, doesn't know him, which all adds to excitement and tingles.

If I would get approached by a woman and could for that split second see exactly how I will fuck her and exactly how she will react to anything I would ever do or say, it would become the most boring thing ever, except for the moment where I rip her clothes off, do my thing and blow my load. I had a girl tell me the same thing. "Sex is not as exciting anymore, I know you too well...".

TBH, people are just not built for monogamy, and it shows in posts like that.

6 years is a fucking long time to be with one person when you're 20-something

26 years old, 6 years with one guy, and no kids to keep them busy, no wonder she's looking to stray.

Dressing better and losing weight won't help him now. He should either get some buns in dat oven ASAP or dump her and start fresh, because nothing good will come of it.

At 26 she's got a year at the most of fucking hot guys before she gets anxious about not being able to lock down a quality guy for the long haul. Really should've realized this at 22, at 26 it's unlikely she can get a better guy than she had.

I'm starting to feel like I didn't "get it all out" for lack of a better term.

Get it out of her system. hah. Nothing does that, toots. You'll just hit the wall and lose the ability to pull the sort of men that make you went in the furry place.

TLDR: chick's boyfriend is getting soft and lazy and she immediately feels desire to get fucked by other men; she lays it out very clearly and explicitly

Just like....countless men who want to fuck hotter women cause after the marriage homegirl throws on a snuggie and 400 lbs.

men and women aren't any different in our depravity. her boyfriend SHOULD HAVE got off his ass, on the flip this, this ho needs to be real with her shit. I don't think she's doin anything wrong. She doesn't want to be "stuck" with a guy whose already letting shit go after 6 years. Flip the genders, would you blame the guy? No! Don't front lol.

but if she goes outside the "contract" without letting her partner know, then just like the dude that does it, she's an ass hole.

Now, I feel like I would feel fine sleeping around for fun and I'm a lot more comfortable and confident with myself.

= Comfortable and confident with herself while being supported by her committed boyfriend.

I don't really want to break up because so many aspects of our relationship are so good and he's the kindest person who has been through so much with me.

Women are in complete denial of their own nature, because admitting how she feels would make her look bad.... and lose that beta commitment.

He's even already mentioned not wanting to have a break and then getting back together because he wouldn't want to be with me if I was with someone else during that break.

Well, at least he's got half a brain and knows what "taking a break" means.

Also of note: she's looking for ways to blame her boyfriend for her imminent cheating. "He's let himself go / doesn't know how to dress".

He's done pretty well to maintain an active sex life for 6 years, credit to him for that, but now she's losing respect for him as justification for her being about to cheat or leave. Most likely the former, and she'll blame him for it... so that she can stay "a good person".

why did you post this OP?

what's she's talking about is called hypergamy and we discuss it all the time

AWALT

and this is also the reason virgins make terrible LTR's ,, they get curious about what they're 'missing out on' like this chick, even though this chick has had 'a couple of' other fucks before this guy, they were her first 'two or three fucks' -- and nowhere comparable to the sex she's learnt to have since in her LTR

and now she wonders if "that really hot guy just might be better in bed than the ols bf .... hmmm?And once thaqt seed has sprouted there's not much left to do but watch

I like how everyone in this post is mad at the girl, she didn't cheat and her boyfriend is the one letting himself go.

I've always been very attracted to him, however he has let himself go a bit and I have mentioned to him in really nice ways how to better himself. Stuff like how he can dress better, I've even offered to help him pick out things if he's unsure, we do cook a lot of healthy things together, I help him with workouts etc.

You can actually hear the hamster running.

I wanted to mention what /u/Thotwrecker explained pretty well: it doesn't matter if his flaws are there objectively. It's true to her, she wants a dick, end of story.

What I didn't see being mentioned however is strategical error of a guy:

He was very stern about "not wanting to share".

You don't say that ever. It's the same as with newly met sluts you vet: stay "open" to anything. Deflect these questions or straight out lie, because these are red flags that eventually will surface later.

I reflect w this as a male though you get tired of the same thing. Esp with something long term when they start letting themselves go out of comfort. Monogamy is unnatural. also where was this pulled from?

This post follows another post on here about emotional volatility really well.

Watch what she does and not listen to what she says.

She is making a change. The boyfriend's solution is to change himself.

I noticed a lot of folks here lately have this defeatist attitude. Stop it. You're men. You take what is and mold it to what you want it to be since the beginning of time.

I've always been very attracted to him, however he has let himself go a bit and I have mentioned to him in really nice ways how to better himself. Stuff like how he can dress better, I've even offered to help him pick out things if he's unsure, we do cook a lot of healthy things together, I help him with workouts etc.

I could have stopped reading right there and knew where this was going. This guy is toast.

I don't buy this post.

Not that isn't possible or just unlikely, but the whole writing is fishy as fuck.

Hey Op, what medium was this posted on?

She's in the track and field ready set go position to ride the cc...its already a wrap for homie

She's being pretty honest and it makes you just want to smack her boyfriend and her at the same time.

Why should she be smacked, or the boyfriend?

20 - 6 is fucking 14, he was probably her first.

EDIT: I stand corrected:

I did sleep with a few other guys before this relationship, but I'm starting to feel like I didn't "get it all out" for lack of a better term.

Now like any normal person male or female she is wondering what it would be like to sleep with someone else. It's fucking natural.

Sounds like the boyfriend set some boundaries with her, and she is keeping them for now, and feeling guilty on top of it.

So again I ask, why should she or the boyfriend be smacked?

This was a dumb ass post.

I saw this thread on sex sub and I wanted to kick her

Well a six year relationship is insane. Also this girl actually feels bad for the shit she did and her hamstering is insanely low. However, she's also just 20 so might go down hill.

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Anyway, like the title says, I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years, so just after I turned 20.

So she was probably sexually active for about five, or more, years before meeting the boyfriend.

I never really got to "sleep around" before dating this guy, because I wasn't super confident in myself when I was a bit younger and I also just wasn't really comfortable doing that.

Uh huh...

I did sleep with a few other guys before this relationship, but I'm starting to feel like I didn't "get it all out" for lack of a better term.

There's the trickle truth starting.

This is also why marrying a young doesn't work nowadays. They see their friends having fun on the CC, and decide they missed out. Then the same logic this girl is using kicks in.

I saw this post and facepalmed hard. She tries to justify the fact she wants the CC by writing this irrelevant wall of text. AWALT

he's very supportive, all of the good things you would want in a relationship and I do love him very much. He has a very high sex drive and mine is pretty high as well. We have sex regularly (few times a week, basically whenever we see each other) and he is very into pleasing me and down to try basically whatever I would like.

So all the things women claim to WANT in a relationship actually dries her pussy up... and just reading that made me cringe for the guy... he does ANYTHING SHE WANTS.

She's been getting a lot of attention from attractive/hot men and now she has that burning feeling between her legs. I give her 6 weeks before she cheats. In her mind she's already decided - that's why she is looking for approval from Reddit...if just one of her friends gives her a green light her relationship is over.