I am a crisis manager for a huge software company. My role lets me move from project to project to help with serious problems and crisis management. Our policy of inter-office relationships is very loose so there are many couples in this company. In one of my groups there is a girl who catches my eye; smart, fun and good looking. I do not think much more about her but at some point we end up on the same couch at an afterwork event. One thing leads to another and we go back to her place. She is incredible in bed so we hookup almost every evening for the following week.
Then one morning after I come out of a management meeting I see that she is coming into work holding hands with a guy from one of my other projects; short, pasty nerd type that never lifted or even seen a weight in his life. I just assume she branch swung to him but I am surprised that he is her type. Oh well.
Later that evening she calls me over and I put a load down her throat. I ask about the guys and she just says:
"Yea he is my boyfriend"
"What?..."
"Yea, he is coming over later so you can't sleep here"
So get up immediately, put my clothes on, open her door to leave and of course he fucking standing right there. In my mind I am so fucking angry; this bitch just put me in a real shitty situation since I am more or less this guy's boss. In facto I am the manager over his boss, so two steps up. I just leave and say "See you tomorrow guys".
Well the next morning they come in together, he is red-eyed and it looks like he has been crying. That was now three weeks ago and they are still together. Obviously I am not accepting her invites anymore.
Not sure what the point is with this post (AWALT perhaps or some blue pill shit) but I just had to get it off my chest.
DarkHitmontop 7y ago
Crisis Management at it's finest.
Crisis Managed
grewapair 7y ago
Here's your point. While we grew up learning sports and video games, women were learning manipulation. The same way we are better at our activities, they are better at theirs. She used you to manipulate him.
He'll now treat her better, worried that she'll leave him for you.
Women are master manipulators. They see early on that men have lots of power, and figure out the easiest way to obtain it is through manipulation. So they study it and practice it.
It would be as lopsided a fight as if you challenged her to a video game competition using a game shed never seen, but you had been playing all your life. Both you and he, never had a chance.
jackmack786 7y ago
I disagree that OP "never had a chance". He could've have not fucked someone from his company. If she wasn't from the company, then even if she had sex with him to manipulate Billy beta, OP doesn't get any disadvantage.
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[deleted] 7y ago
I'm guessing non western company.
FLFTW16 7y ago
Did....did you just bragplain?
SMGPthrowaway 7y ago
Yes he did. However, i feel it's okay.
Dude had sex. Cool.
But he's more upset over the entire situation and I'm inferring that he's subtly looking for some advice on his next moves, which commenters have been readily giving.
Mckallidon 7y ago
I'm giving OP a pass because there are lessons to this story.
GroundhogLiberator 7y ago
It's called an explanabrag.
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dr_warlock 7y ago
But scarcity mentality is not attractive in men. She's actively creating the very thing she despises. We know women better than they know themselves. How sad.
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Mckallidon 7y ago
Holding down a man is already becoming trendy again. Younger women have seen all the thirty and forty something catfarming sluts are not like on Sex in the City. They've seen their moms get divorced and be shitty people filled with shittier ideas. Everyone is burned out on POF and Tinder games. Gen Z is up and coming, conservative and have seen the logical outcome of Liberal horsehit. Watch, when we're old they'll talk about 50 years of Liberalism brought American cultural decline and social ills, but we're better now.
I_Need_More_Space_ 7y ago
The topic of Gen Z would be a good thread. I'm way to tired to type though. Great weekend kind of tired.
Anyway, the speculation is that Gen Z will be a tipping point back to a more normal rationale. But, I will not believe it until I see it. I'm just 32, so hopefully I can pick up some freshman college student gals in a couple of years. I honestly can't date any of the current "modern" trash that floats around. We'll see about Gen Z...
Mckallidon 7y ago
OMG women our ages are pure fucking trash. Can barely stand listening to them project their self-delusions just to bang them. I can't wait to be 45 with a nice 20 yo redpilled woman who isn't a walking DSM and pharmaceutical toilet and won't fuck my kids up lol.
I_Need_More_Space_ 7y ago
Honestly, man, the Gen X'ers and Millennials are just shit. They weren't bad when I was a kid up til high school. Then after college people just got twisted, and I have had trouble finding any kind of real resonance with men and women (beta bitches and cunty whores, respectively). My best friends are 53, 55, 63, 42, 30, and 30. Pretty crazy, but indicative of my shitty generation (between Gen X and Millennial).
I really hope a better crop of women is coming up. I still don't want to marry them due to the laws that will not change although women may perhaps change. But, I still look forward to enjoying better company that is accompanied by sex instead of putting up with trash to get sex.
I'm not asking for a Unicorn. No. Not at all. I'm just asking for pretty (not make up caked face), well mannered, not overly opinionated, and knows when to shut up and suck a cock. LOL
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Velebit 7y ago
This short text of yours sums up a huge amount of culture now. Well done! What is pof?
Mckallidon 7y ago
POF.com
Or what most dudes call Plenty of Whales or plenty offish, online dating site/app. Not the first but the first best. Like 10 years ago it was a pussy goldmine omg. It was ridiculous even for my shithole town. And when it was a new, thing every moist hole above the ground passed through there at some time.
Tinder never had shit on it in my experience, or in my city. Before POF I was in single digits, (but also young). That site made a damn man out of me but it has declined. I think it's portion of female users has dropped drastically. Mostly morbidly obese borderlines and 45 yo 3s that try to pass for 33 6s. The the random prime that gets the fuck out in like a day bc of how thirsty the men are. I think the heyday of online dating is gone and normal people are going back to real life because the last year or so it is been real slim pickings on there.
cake_eater 7y ago
Before Pof it was aol hahaah
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Mckallidon 7y ago
Haha she's gonna get rammed by someone else anyways lol. Suckers.
thecomputerp 7y ago
The amount of fanfiction on the RedPill subreddit is ridiculous.
Lsegundo 7y ago
No. You put yourself in a shitty situation by making two mistakes. If you have any evidence the hookup was consensual you better archive it, email it to yourself, put it on your dropbox and possibly give a copy to a trusted friend. You may need it in court or the HR department very soon.
What kind of a slag fucks a guy from work when she also has a bf at the same work place coming over on the same night? hahaha
RoboRaptorReindeer 7y ago
Bitch clearly wanted them to run into each other for some ulterior motive that benefits her.
TheRedStoic 7y ago
Rule 1. Never shit where you eat.
Additionally, you weren't aware of this social contract she held with this guy, but it shouldn't have happened anyway, because of rule 1.
jb_trp 7y ago
This is the only comment that matters.
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Luckyluke23 7y ago
that's rule 0 in my book.
3 places you should never shit.
gym work close friends
there 1000000000000000 of girls out there, who are connected to any of these.
TALzFGxawb 7y ago
i'm breaking rule 1 right now. unusual circumstances because we'd been fwbs for ~a year before she started working in the same place. (edit: there's no power dynamic. neither of us are the other's superior at work)
but have been avoiding breaking rule 1 again: the ceo's gf wants to fuck me. i feel like he'd be okay with that (or at least say he was), but i also like keeping bullshit risk to a minimum
whythecynic 7y ago
Rule 1 exists not because of what you know others will do, but because of what you don't know others might do.
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It just makes it really uncomfortable. I've always worked in smaller companies and did this twice (one currently at my place). I was the girls boss both times. First time sucked hard and this bitch made life miserable trying to get her to do shit. The second time passed with time as this chick realized she wouldn't go far in this company without my help. Life lessons for sure. Just not worth it.
TheRedStoic 7y ago
This guy has it right here. Op, hope you have learned from this.
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I am getting a kick out of the fact that he's a crisis manager.
It could only be better if he is the HR director
goldnhorde 7y ago
Very much this.
I would think a crisis manager would be more equipped in the forethought department to understand why you don't sleep with co workers .... even if it seems to be acceptable.
add note: even if the company finds it acceptable, if they end up in court, the company's "norm" will be lost in what the court finds "the norm" and reasonable.
coolred8611 7y ago
I know that HR directors can get in trouble, but it's kinda cool to be that guy and be smug as shit and reply, " what are you gonna do, report me, to me?" LOL.
2dogsandpizza 7y ago
This is such a golden rule yet there are still so many guys that think it'll never happen to them. We just lost one of our senior engineers after he slept with the intern. Once again abundance mentality solves this problem.
yomo86 7y ago
It is the male version of the hamster. One that has its territory in the real world instead of feelings. Problems are not rationalized by emotions rather male emotions over-ride any skepticism of ones own skills.
Never shit where you eat! - No! I can handle it because I am TRP and alpha and whatever.
good_guy_submitter 7y ago
The secret is to wind her up and then get her to introduce you to her friends. But never, ever go anywhere alone with her. She will talk and brag on you nonstop, especially if you are her superior at work and she thinks she has a shot. The social proof she will provide will make it incredibly easy. Then you bang her friends and make sure you have a solid trail that nothing ever happened between you and her. Basically free pussy without any of the downsides.
RoboRaptorReindeer 7y ago
This right here is great advice.
Your_Coke_Dealer 7y ago
Well, he basically shat in his subordinate's food rather than his own, but who wants to be around to smell that?
ransay3277 7y ago
Listen to TheRedStoic. These folks could screw you in ways you never saw coming.
Blemper 7y ago
He's literally trying to learn over here.
ransay3277 7y ago
Your right. Sorry for being an ass. But I still hold my points as valid.
SilviaS13 7y ago
So much this. As much as I want to fuck the hot red-head nurse in my department the potential fallout for when I ghost her keeps my dick in my pants
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GroundhogLiberator 7y ago
You should go for it. At the rate Americans are growing obese I'm pretty sure there are more job openings in healthcare than there are hot redheads left.
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GroundhogLiberator 7y ago
Well SJWs with dyed hair are obviously nuts, but natural redheads are all crazy too. It's just biology.
no_face 7y ago
There is a 1% chance this guy will murder you. Good luck.
Overkillengine 7y ago
Polish your resume and get the hell out of there ASAP. You were, and are still, playing with fire.
Yes, she was deceiving you via omission, but you still fucked up by shitting where you eat and giving her the chance to do so, regardless of lax company policy. The moment she decides she can gain more (or just feels like it) by removing you via a misconduct accusation, you are fucked.
Full stop, do not Pass Go, do not collect $200.
The company will happily toss you under a fleet of buses to avoid a PR shitstorm. Pasty boy will happily corroborate with any accusations she cares to make. Any witnesses at the after-work event wanting to open up a promotion path will most likely corroborate as well.
Or just ignore this and keep playing Russian Roulette with your career.
Igaunija 7y ago
I don't understand American companies. So Chad Thundercock fucked beta Billies "gf". Who gives a fuck?
jackmack786 7y ago
That's not how it would come out. It would be "evil crisis manager coerces young woman to suck him off". And that's what Billy beta would corroborate on.
niczar 7y ago
Yeah intruding into people's private life, especially if followed by dismissal, would be the cause for a serious trouble; and wrongful termination is the only case where businesses routinely have to shell out big bucks in damages in Europe compared to the US.
Arnoux 7y ago
Yeah I don't understand either. I am from EU
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Infinity6 7y ago
You should talk to the guy and explain the situation. So he can leave her.
NolanKnowstheTruth 7y ago
Him walking out of her apartment should be reasom enough. If not, the cum breath would be.
the99percent1 7y ago
Congrats.. you have just compromised your reputation and livelihood. You dumbfuck
nyjl 7y ago
Love americans, their "livelihood" is always so easily ruined.
jrjohnson305 7y ago
Up voted because you "put a load down her throat."
brewmastermonk 7y ago
"See you tomorrow guys." Dude, you're supposed to be a crisis manager and that's what you came up with?
epixs 7y ago
Man i learned this lesson from watching a senior surgeon get in major shit for sleeping with some of the medical student 3rd years. Almost lost his chief attending status. Its a easy temptation, but just not worth it if you're a successful male. Get your pussy from somewhere else where the bitch can't follow you around or spread rumors.
On a sidenote wish I could sleep with attending doc's and get honor pass evaluations like my female medical student counterparts lol
Vizard47 7y ago
This kind of guys is necessary in my opinion because the more there is the better we appear to be
But since he is below her she's probably doing this to satisfy her superiority and she's probably holding something on him or keeps telling him that she is the best thing that ever happened to him to keep him feeling shitty and feeding on it
spinalmemes 7y ago
That or shes just using the cuck as her personal slave dangling her sexuality in front of him like a carrot in front of a horse.
redestofthereds 7y ago
This reminds me when an ex broke up with me. I was going to my coworker to tell him my problems. He would be like "Aw, dude that sucks. I'm sorry."
The guy gets promoted to manager. Leaves to a different location. Some months later I come to find out that he's been seeing my ex, even while I was telling him my woes. Ahh, I thought we were good friends. I wasn't even mad. She was really hot. Gorgeous I would say. So I couldn't blame the guy.
Mckallidon 7y ago
This actually makes me laugh but only because I've boned staff's gfs before. None of them ever knew though lol. This dude is über cuck. Cried and stayed after tasting his own bosses dick lol. Those guys would have nexted those sluts so fast, probably more like just trade lol. Bitches act like fucking an authority confers some on to them. So stupid.
mksu 7y ago
Watch out, next week she will file a sexual harassment complaint with HR because her bf will out her.
princessvaginaalpha 7y ago
Hurm, if she was a good fuck why not play around with her? Everyone needs a good fuck. No commitments, well let her think that there was some but there isn't any.
Mckallidon 7y ago
Because before OP thought it was simpler. This is a hot mess and OP is wide to pull the 'chute.
whyisrumgone 7y ago
If you were unsure what the point of the post was, you probably shouldn't have posted. There was a mod post a few days back, with possibly that exact phrase in it (correct me if I'm wrong). For your issue, I don't think you have the right to be angry at all. It was someone from your work so there is only 2 options, but you chose B. Which should have been "sleep with her then NEXT at the slightest sign of trouble/discovery" (if the job was most important). You saw her with Man2 but continued anyway. Now you're upset that she tried to cover her ass. It seemed like you had a covert contract of; treating her like pump and dump but wanting exclusivity or something more. Everything for the foresight and hindsight to your post is in the side bar.
Lsegundo 7y ago
This post serves as a reminder why TRP has rules about fucking at work.
It also shows just how fucked up modern women are becoming. Not only is she cheating, but its another guy from work. Her BP bf is such a pathetic fuck that she wants Chad on the same night he is coming over.
The third lesson is how sad a BP man is. Catching some other dude walking out of your gf’s apartment = ghosting. BP losers are so pathetic not only do they give her a chance to explain they stay in the relationship.
Returnofthemack3 7y ago
This is why you dont shit where you eat. As a manager you should know better, I don't care if the policy is 'lax' at work. For Christ's sake man, you reap what you sow
spinalmemes 7y ago
Chicks these days. Lol. Theyve been taught thats normal behavior
Mckallidon 7y ago
And that they're entitled to it and you're a sexist bigot otherwise.
Ganaria_Gente 7y ago
And with the inevitable sexual harassment allegations, is always the man's fault!
Never hers.
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Well she's right. It works for them.
[deleted] 7y ago
I got the impression you're in California. It's probably rape to have sex with your boss there now.
Mckallidon 7y ago
Even with a signed consent form. He made me sign it lol.
Hillarysdilddo_2016 7y ago
What? You put yourself in this situation by shitting where you eat. Basic office politics dude.
Atavisionary 7y ago
Well, that sucks but its not like you knew about it. She is is the slut. If she did that to him, she would have probably done it to you at some point so just put it out of your mind.
Acquin 7y ago
Yeah sex for a chance at promotion or at least a good word from you. It's just hypergamy. That guy offered her nothing - but you had something.
Velebit 7y ago
he is obviously offering her something, she already had this guy but decided to bring this one in
Velebit 7y ago
They are both very mentally unstable people, probably would not pass the loop.
Blemper 7y ago
That's a good way to get it, but the shit out of your country, just as nice as the man which is the best though.
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Mckallidon 7y ago
Theme: fuck bitches, repeat.
wheresMYsteakAt 7y ago
I don't know why I have a smile on my face right now.
OneDayInHeaven 7y ago
maybe he'll just be a good little boy and know his fucking place. I would continue to rope in her mouth.
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Jeezus.... The power of the pussy strikes again.....
prodigy2throw 7y ago
If there's no lesson here I'll just go ahead and assume this is some weird TRP fan fiction.
This sub isn't for your thathappened stories.
Mckallidon 7y ago
The lesson is AWALT and don't shit where you eat, like most posts. At least it was a quick read.
prodigy2throw 7y ago
Really? Because nobody here knows AWALT? I can make up a story and say AWALT too. This sub is better than that. This is lazy pandering to TRP.
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LordThunderbolt 7y ago
I don't know man. I'd just be fucking her even more after that. I'd put her on a strict regiment of anal, just to get back at her for the powerless bf.
Blemper 7y ago
proves the person giving it is where to go out to be sober and clean, sound of mind and body.
LordThunderbolt 7y ago
Dude take your meds. You write absolute complete nonsense