After seeing things though a red pill lense, I can understand fully why women choose the men they are with. I seen women choose muscular guys and I seen women choose skinny guys, I seen them choose guys with a job and I seen them choose guys without a job. However once I get to know the back story I can understand completely why the choice was made.
The point of my post is to discourage guys who have trouble with women to enter into the cycle of self hatred in which they believe if they constantly self improve themselves that everything will magically be right with women. Unless you are 300 pounds over weight or your face has been burnt with acid , your current state should be able to get you laid without much effort.
My story consist of two brothers one is named James, he is fit with a six pack, plays sports , and his brother Dee , who works instead of playing sports is over weight and has boobs. Not a little Gyno, huge amounts of gyno. He was never afraid to take his short off, and accepted himself.
Now I can hear all the "blue red pillers" saying oh girls are animals by nature and would choose the fit brother, and while this is true , because of james attitude with women he got cuckolded.
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Both got girlfriends, however Dee didn't pay much attention to his girlfriend, always talk shit to her, and would ignore her calls and block her number if she got too crazy.
- James paid too much attention and while physically superior to his brother, he went 50% beta. He wasn't overly beta but when you are dealing with 18 year old women they want fast guys, fast alpha's , not a mixture of beta and alpha. He bought her a few gifts, dinner a few times, and talk to her when she called.
Two weeks later she cheated, he cried, messaged her on face book to tell her how much he loved her , he called her constantly (confirming his beta status)
tl;dr Girls prefer Alpha Chad Gyno, too Six back beta bob
Note: This isn't a post to attack looking good or self improvement, just know it means very little when it comes to Alpha/Beta behaviors and these are the real killers.
KyfhoMyoba 7y ago
Once again, I have to note that for women's sexual desire, a male's behavioral traits trump genetic traits six ways from Sunday.
dking168 7y ago
The English in this thread is appalling
ArkAngelEV 7y ago
Was more disgusted with the man tits actually
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Lsegundo 7y ago
Its almost like you made a post where a Honda and a Ferrari with an empty gas tank got into a race. Surprise the Honda won! Therefore Honda > Ferrari.
Are the two brothers gfs both 5s or is James dating a 9 while Dee has a 3? Overall the point is good. Never act beta. This is apples vs oranges though.
circlhat 7y ago
Both are quite attractive , neither over weight, My post isn't to discourage lifting or improving yourself but rather to increase understanding of women in general , looks only go so far , attitude is everything
AnjaJutta 7y ago
However important the Alpha attitude is, lifting and fitness will always raise your SMV and make your life better in all aspects. Trying to find which of the traits is better is a waste of our time. TRP already knows that the combination of both fitness and Alpha behaviours ( with a tinge of beta to pass a few comfort tests)is the most effective. Putting all this aside, your post is at best anecdotal evidence.
circlhat 7y ago
The entire red pill is anecdotal evidence , we share our experiences for a better understanding of women and the world around us.
I never said don't lift, I said lift for yourself , lifting can only help you get in the door, it won't keep her happy
AnjaJutta 7y ago
Where do you say "lift for yourself" in your post? Honestly, all I got was that you know a guy with gynecomastia who has a girlfriend.
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Battle-Scars 7y ago
Two typos in your title, chose (past tense) not choose, and Brother, not bother. Good point otherwise on idgaf attitude.
thekingmaker88 7y ago
How are you gonna waste time correcting spelling of the title and not waste more time correcting the spelling of the post?
calebdrums 7y ago
I'm 19 and 5"6 and I've always had trouble making friends and getting girls, my main problem is that I never make an effort though, I guess I'm afraid of rejection. I'm nowhere near beta male level in fact I'm usually an ass or not super friendly to everyone. TRP says this type of asshole attitude should be good but it never works for me.
circlhat 7y ago
Define asshole? There is a saying a Wise man doesn't tell a woman what to do, he tells a woman what he will do.
A attractive asshole is the type of guy who doesn't want to go to his girlfriends parents funeral, because he is busy playing video games
A unattractive asshole demands his girlfriend come to his parents funeral because he is controlling.
BestSC86 7y ago
That is a really poor example of attractive asshole....you better be packing a 10in dick and the orgasm skills of a 30 year porn star, if you plan on doing that.
calebdrums 7y ago
Asshole in the sense that I tend to focus on the wellbeing of myself over that of my peers. I won't do something at my own expense just to please others. I won't drive 5 miles to buy a girl some food if I'm busy or don't feel like it, even if I really like her.
thekingmaker88 7y ago
Something's wrong with you then.
Gotcha.
calebdrums 7y ago
Well I'm not good at explaining my situation, I'm not an ass like I'm mean to people but I'm not a cheerful social butterfly around people and sometimes I'll just ignore people that annoy me, which seems to be a lot of people. I agree there's something wrong with me in the sense that it's hard for me to be social and start conversation but there's also something wrong with other people as well.
thekingmaker88 7y ago
Hamstering. There is no valid reason to not be able to make friends. I'm guessing you're extremely pretentious and think you're better than everyone you meet.
calebdrums 7y ago
That's not true at all, people tend to get that impression but like I already mentioned (if you had opened your eyes) that I'm just shy and have trouble starting conversation, that's a valid reason.
thekingmaker88 7y ago
LOL. Proving my point for me.
calebdrums 7y ago
Run along now, I'll wait for a reply from someone who actually cares and isn't an asshole.
calebdrums 7y ago
You can dish it out by calling me pretentious and saying I'm better than everyone else but you cry when I tell you to pay attention to what you're reading, how sad.
thekingmaker88 7y ago
LOLLL, it is blatantly obvious now why you have no friends. Holy shit.
calebdrums 7y ago
I never I said I have no friends I said I have trouble making friends.
BestSC86 7y ago
Open YOUR own eyes...he was trying to help yet you stepped right in the pile of crap which he forecasted was your problem with making friends.
I will add that you get butthurt really easy so you can not just hang and banter put downs with the bros either which makes you crap to hang out with because every set of friends is going to give each other jabs putdowns and trash talking. Having to deal with a jackwad who always storms off mad and butthurt sucks
calebdrums 7y ago
You have no idea how I am around my peers, they bust my balls and I bust theirs right back we all have fun. Someone on the internet clearly trying to upset me is a whole different story.
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calebdrums 7y ago
Or don't base your life choices off posts on the internet. As long as your guy isn't a push-over pussy and you two like each other then you should be fine. Go for an alpha male if you want to be treated like shit. "He does not make the social effort to show his evolutionary superiority to those around him." And this concerns you why exactly? Who gives a shit?
circlhat 7y ago
Go with your feelings, does he make you feel good, both in and out of bed?