Well it is the man's fault.

Not for the reasons stated though. It started when he get oneits for her. Continued as she tested him to see if she was in complete control of the relationship (she was) parlayed that into a marriage where she had all the leverage and he had none.

The final act was that she realized he was her little bitchboy and that she needed (not wanted, needed) to be fucked by a man that was strong masculine and most importantly, could take her or leave her and not give two shits. So she made that happen and why not? She knew if the husband ever found out he'd blame himself and she would come up with all kinds of ways to reinforce that idea.

In the end they'd do some counceling, maybe she'd shed a few crocodile tears asnd let him have a little starfish sex (after all, her anus needs a rest from her chad's cock) and things would go back to normal.

So yeah, tells you right there at least 40% of men who get into LTRs do it the wrong way for the wrong reason and get the only possible result from that. blame the women for being women all you want it isn't going to change them.

Women cheat for three reasons.

1. To attempt a branch swing
2. To validate themselves even more
3. To get back at their partner

All three being cunt moves which should only confirm your suspicions and prime her for nuclear hard nexting.

Also, women that believe they are somehow 'winning' when they are getting pumped and dumped by Chad. They are not, they are losing every single time. Women "get fucked" after all, it's in the words. If a guy bounces after nailing the girl she essentially lost it all whilst getting nothing in return. Don't be fooled gentlemen. The sluts you observe in life are bellow you, not above you.

Those are not reasons, those are excuses. women cheat because they lack the moral compass and society gave the carte blanche with freedom of responsibility.

"Lack of appreciation. Make two appreciative gestures daily"

This isn't outright wrong. If she cooks you a nice meal and gives you a bj, show her your appreciation.

The problem is the lack of things women to for men to even deserve appreciation. These women think they deserve it just because they exist.

We all cheat and we will continue to cheat. Period.

Remember they're like cheeky children, you have to watch them like children, and are responsible for them like they're your kid. Sure you have to keep working hard but don't forget to spend time with them like they're your little girl so they can have that "daddy cares about me!" Thought in their head, try to appreciate what they do like you would appreciate your kids doing chores so they're encouraged to continue working hard, give them a challenge in the kitchen even and pretend to like it even though if they mess up.

In all the strongest families where the wife is still head over heals the girls still do house chores as does the wife and the men don't lift a finger because it's a woman's job, the men tend to do outdoor related chores and fix things. When it comes to older kids in their late teens/ adulthood the wife is no longer an authority parent figure but one of the kids that has some more control over money and permissions of things but the husband is the boss.

What's the biggest cause of divorce? Marriage. What poor retard even gets married anymore?

I lived in Shanghai, and I'm in Shenzhen now. I can't believe how rampant cheating is over here. Since you're Chinese, you probably know about the social media app.s WeChat and TanTan. When I use the "look around" feature for the former, I get faceless women who befriend me. After they send a pic. and I probe a bit, I find out that they're married.

But then again, you did say "arranged marriages."

As a single, childless man in his late 30's, I've been with more married woman than not. I cannot tell you how easy it is to sway an even happily married woman into my bed and I've been doing it since I was 15. I don't trust any women aside from my own mom. AWALT

Silverlining-

You have a 40% chance of fucking a married woman

"She say she only fucked like 4-5 niggas, So you know you gotta multiply by 3." - J. Cole

the tone of the overall video was that it was sort of the man's fault she cheated in the first place

Women get support, men get blame. Regardless of who is really at fault.

When a man does something, he's responsible and guilty by default.

When a woman does something, the boyfriend is blamed first, immediately followed by any men in her past, immediately followed by her controlling father (if she was raised in a two parent family) or her absent father (if raised by a single mother).

The social need to protect-the-women is now "protect women's feels" and "protect women's self-respect and dignity even where none exists". Anyone doing otherwise is a traitor (if female) or a bully (if male).

Any time the facade of the feminine mystique is pierced, the blame is displaced elsewhere. Often reframed as men's fault.

The real reason women cheat: because they can.

Again, this number is pretty useless unless we get the number for men too. Yes, women are inherently unfaithful and will fuck an alpha if they are so inclined, but men will fuck women outside their relationships too.

PEOPLE are unfaithful. Stop putting men on pedestal and perpetuating this 'woe is me' victim mentality. I've seen enough people cheat from both genders to not trust anyone with genitals and a sex drive.

Basically, a woman claiming her man drove her into cheating is like a rapist claiming his victim drove him into raping. With that being said: Women will never not cheat and they will always find some way to rationalize it to themselves later. It doesn't matter if their arguments are complete BS because society will forgive them and there'll be tons of men willing to fuck them and work their ass of for them regardless of their cheating history. Their arguments are just for themselves. Deep down they know what scum whores they are but by finding shitty explanations for their behavior they can keep on doing what they do without having a bad conscience ever.

You can't prevent cheating. You can do everything right, and she can still run away with new, sexy Chad she just met, treating you as if you never existed.

All you can do to be sure is not making arrangements where sex with another guy is cheating. Whether that means polyamory or MGTOW (and giving up on sex altogether) is up to you.

I dunno, I can pretty much tell if a woman is going to cheat or not. I just don't go for sluts. You can't unplug a slut. Yes, sluts look hot and are attractive but they're sluts. Just don't fall for it or give it the time of day. Bang one out with a rubber on now and again, but you're crazy to go any further than that. Let the coming onslaught of Muslims deal with their bullshit, I guess. Who cares what happens to sluts any more than who cares what happens to Gypsies and homeless people? They're not in my life. I ain't no "savior."

You can't do anything with sluts. You can't talk sense into them, you can't convert them into housewives, you can't do shit with them. Just let them go. Catch and release, at best. Sluts are just horrible, horrible women that will do whatever they can to manipulate men with their bodies. It's stupid.

All the PUA and RP theory in the world isn't going to do much to "change" a slut. And even if you thought you'd converted the ho into a housewife, HOW THE FUCK would you even measure your results? What are you going to do, hire private detectives for the rest of your life? Yeah, those guys will bang her too and not tell you. You can't change people. Cock is like a drug to sluts. How are you going to cure a cocaine addict with your private stash of cocaine? Lol.

You have to high expectations for non-western women.

The rates of cuckholdry outside the 1st world are astronomical.

• Women will cuck their male partner 39% of the time
• Society blames men for women's infidelity
• Men say 'fuck this' and never marry
• Society is surprised at drop in marriage

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Yes, people cheat. Both men and women cheat, there are women who cheat and blame it on her husband/boyfriend, and there are men who cheat who blame it on their wife/girlfriend. There are shitty humans beings and non-shitty human beings. This post doesn't mean shit, other than to stroke the e-peen of men who feel wronged by wimmin.

I think it was Scott Adams that came up with a "rule" about cheating.

If the ability to cheat is there

If the likelihood of being caught is low

If there's a benefit to it.

Then it's irrational to suggest that cheating is not occouring. It was in relation to business and laws but the same thing applies.

That's a terrible title, but the statistics if they really are 39% then that actually isn't so bad. However, if like how OP suggested - that this is under reported, then it could paint a much worse picture. Ultimately, I know well over 39% of relationships that frigid, if not openly toxic where both partners hace no emotional connection, are not in a relationship they take seriously, or otherwise hate each other.

There's much more to this subject than the percentage of infidelity. If you don't have children and don't get married - I hardly see how it would matter. To the rest of you, sorry for having to dodge bullets a daily basis.

My relatives in China have strong family units because the women are taught and trained well to listen to their man.

where's your family from? my family is from Shanghai and one of my female cousins is 32 and the last one still married out of her group of college friends b/c all their husbands cheated on them w/ younger women. then he cheated on her and wanted to leave her for the other woman (AND take their kid with him - on what basis?), but his family who loved his wife wouldn't let him. she took him back b/c she realized her prospects were better with him than divorced :-/ do you defend men like him? do you think she is just being a good wife? genuinely wondering. all theory and TRP-ing aside, I just think he's a POS and I feel bad for her

Can anyone find the research on this?

it's funny at one point you talk about guys sitting and listen to a women's problems.

I went a level deeper and thought. " what emotions would be running in her mind if I just sat there and listen to her problems?"

the on answer i could come up with is " bad Emotions".

that's why, Next time I'm going to try bring out good emotions instead of the bad emotions.

thansk man

I've been to China. Women cheat there just as much as in the West.

Been treating everyone like ants since senior year of high school and my life has only gotten better. Thank you red pill.

My relatives in China have strong family units because the women >are taught and trained well to listen to their man.

You are right, everything comes from a family. Family values are one thing we shouldn't let be destroyed. But image how things are going to be when all these kids raising by single moms grow up.

If a woman cheats, its the mans fault.

If a man cheats, its NEVER the womans fault. (but usually it is).

Not that I doubt OP (but I do) but can I get a second opinion here from people from these communities? Do you agree or disagree with OP on this?

Most Chinese women (in china) who have arranged marriages would not cheat at all. Their culture/family would (rightfully) shun them for life. Same goes for vietnamese, Indian, and Middle Eastern cultures. Possibly African as well.

Truth is TRP is mostly about western men having issues with their partners. My relatives in China have strong family units because the women are taught and trained well to listen to their man. Most Chinese women (in china) who have arranged marriages would not cheat at all. Their culture/family would (rightfully) shun them for life. Same goes for vietnamese, Indian, and Middle Eastern cultures. Possibly African as well. So when it comes to this link, understand that the smaller pool of western women who date and have not had arranged marriages are most likely going to have much higher rates. Most people in TRP are dating/marrying in this pool

Honestly social and economic liberty is far better then living under the CCP, or other facsimile of a feudalist system. Family is nice but the elder structures controlled the manifest destiny of men. As in Each generation was made subservient to the family, the city and the state. The monopolies of old didn't give men freedom or liberty, just made them slaves and allowed the tyranny of the few and the mob of the weak to harvest their surplus powers of productivity. Such a thing degenerated and slowed the progression of economic systems, a system which is slowly progressing away from an economic environment of scarcity, and adjoining control of those corruptible forces in society.

As well when those women come to North America or any other western nation they become exactly as their western counter parts. In fact in Japan as a relative anomaly the salary man is cheated on in the same fevor as his western counter part despite the prevalence of conservative outlooks on women there. Once China starts giving the people a greater degree of social and economic liberty the delusion of an RP China will liquefy as it has in every advanced economy.