As I have more and more success with TRP sexual strategy it's becoming increasingly clear to me that the manosphere should experiment with making overt polygamy a real thing in the West.

There are a few long term endgames in TRP land, and they're all either shitty or unattainable:

  1. Standard TRP Endgame. Cycle through LTRs. When you're single you casually fuck around until you find a "good one." You LTR the "good one" and then wait for the LTR to explode one way or another. Rinse and repeat. This gets boring and tedious after a while.
  2. Red Pill Marriage Endgame. Cycle through LTRs until you find a real hottie among hotties, and put on a ring on it. She's a perfect 10, she works out consistently, she cooks, she'll take care of the kids, she has a high IQ, and she fucks you enthusiastically multiple times daily. You go full patriarch on her and she's addicted to you. Maybe she has some mild tendency toward eating-disordered habits and diet fads. Maybe she goes on about essential oils or Eastern spirituality form time to time. Whatever, she's a woman. This is the best it's going to get, literally. She'll still be fuckable at 42, and you'll be close to your death bed by then anyway, so great. Maybe you'll cheat a few times every decade just to maintain some minimal game and sanity.
  3. Apex Alpha Endgame. Casually fuck around forever, never LTR. This is hard for most men, even in TRP land. Very few men can get sex daily outside of an LTR, and daily sex is nice. When I say daily, I mean daily. There do exist Apex Alphas who have the same amount of attention on tinder as a smoking hot perfect 10 instagram chick. They're tall, they're millionaires, they're 220lb of pure muscle, and their game is perfect. They'll hit the apps/bars hard and fuck a new girl every night for 10 nights in a row. Their partner count by age 65 will be some multiple of 100, or maybe some small multiple of 1000, and they'll still be going at it. Most men will never see this sort of success with women. If you're starting from BP nothingness then endgames #1 or #2 are more realistic.

These three endgames can't possibly be the whole picture. Polygamy has to be in there somewhere, as some sacred yet-to-be-discovered Red Pill truth.

In BP land you derive great satisfaction from your relationship. You feel needy and incomplete without it. Your pedestalized woman completes you. Yet, at the same time your testosterone is telling you that this is not the way life should be. You have a vague sense that you're relationship and lifestyle are actually fucked to hell. The idea of cheating feels erotic, exhilarating, and freeing. You feel guilt about this because your desire to cheat threatens to tear apart the life and illusions that you've built up around your pedestalized angle, your oneitis, your one and only.

In RP land you don't derive any transcendental satisfaction from your relationships. You're her rock, her patriarch, and her perfect mix of Alpha seed and beta need. You're saving her from hitting the Wall without having found that elusive Alpha who will spray a baby inside her but then also LTR her up afterward. She derives her transcendental satisfaction from you, and not the other way around. You're the higher value partner, so the relationship is a huge gift you're giving her. If you spend significant time with another woman on the side you don't feel bad about it. Having two patriarchal Red Pill LTRs at once feels more like finding two stray puppies out in the cold and rescuing both of them because you have enough food and space.

When discussing polygamy people are likely to shout "Well if the guy gets the fuck around indiscriminatingly, then shouldn't the girl get to also!?"

This is misguided.

Men and women can both harbor the sex fantasy of having their partner let them fuck around indiscriminatingly, but it's subtly different for each gender. Men will always want to fuck around indiscriminatingly to spread their seed. It costs them nothing. But for women it's different. A woman only wants to fuck around indiscriminatingly so she can get pregnant with a higher value man and then have her cuck husband provide for her long-term security.

The real female fantasy is getting pregnant with a top tier Alpha guy and then having him stick around to provide iron clad resources, security, and child rearing. Women want this Alpha-plus-security fantasy as consistently as men want access to unlimited sex. The unlimited sex fantasy for women is very circumstantial, fleeting, and dependent on her life phase. But the Alpha-plus-security fantasy, that's forever.

If she can get Alpha-plus-security by being wife #4, then she'll go for it. It's exactly the same effect as when she swallows after a blow job with her Alpha lover, but won't even give her beta hubby a blow job in the first place. Her disgust or arousal at a sex act is completely dependent on the man and the context.

Likewise, her level of disgust or arousal at the thought of her man fucking other women is completely dependent on the man and the context. If you're higher SMV and you're playing dread game, then it's hot for her because it confirms your Alpha status. If you're lower SMV and you're cheating, then she'll leave you because you're violating her beta bux expectations, which is an existential threat for her.

It feels like polygamy shouldn't be hard to pull off if you're dating multiple woman who are slightly below your SMV. I can't speak from experience, but I imagine it would be very satisfying to do the full patriarch thing with multiple women in the house at once. I wonder why it's not more discussed in the manosphere, and not done more often in practice.