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- Hide Preview | 76 Comments | submitted 5 months ago by thetotalpackage7 [Post Locked]

This is a top post today from the Off My Chest Sub. IT IS NOT MY STORY. How screwed is this dude about to get:

She was one of those popular girls in High School. Heck, she was better than those popular girls at school because she never gossiped or said anything bad about anyone to anyone. She was nice to me, always said hello to me, always smiled. She was the one all the boys wanted. I helped her out once on a school project and as a thank you she took me out to dinner when she was driving me home (she had a license and I didn't!). I had such a crush on her.

What shot did a nerdy (My mom still bought my clothes for me at 16!) bookworm like me have with a popular girl like her? Even though I knew she'd say no, I don't think I could have dealt with the rejection so I never tried asking her out. After High School, I would run into her occasionally at the clubs and sometimes when visiting friends at her school (we went to different colleges in town). And that was pretty much it, after I graduated I didn't see her at all and she passed into memory.

Fast forward to this year. I've changed quite a bit obviously, more confident and comfortable in my skin as all adults should be by now (Although ironically, I'm posting this with a throwaway). She popped up on my recommended friends list on facebook so I added her. We started chatting, catching up on what happened to the both of us after high school and made plans to meet up for dinner to catch up in person.

Meeting up at dinner, she still looked every bit as beautiful as the day I met her. Still the same pinball smile and bright eyes that all made my heart skip a beat everytime she looked my way in highschool. She told me that she had always found me nicer than the other boys at school and really cute and smart. I admitted to her that I had a huge crush on her all throughout high school. She acted surprised and asked me why I didn't ask her out if I had a crush. A little part of me died knowing that I actually had a shot with her back then. Dinner was wonderful and we went out to a pub for a quick evening drink and made plans to meet up again on the weekend.

And then as we were walking back to our vehicles, we stopped and said goodnight and we finally kissed. 16 year old me would be so proud.

(Comments indicate that she has kids now too of course and they "love him")

[-] BugDestroyer 189 Points 5 months ago

This woman knows what's she doing. Post-wall single mom is aware that he's a nerd who can't get laid. He's going to raise her kid. Until one day, she divorce rapes him and he'll have to pay child support. Basically she's a parasite who found a host.

[-] Truedemocracy4 14 Points 5 months ago

Yep she's securing resources. Already has the chad alpha genes in the kid, now getting the dollars for the kids education and needs. Maybe she actually likes him - who knows. But beta bux alpha fucks applies most often with single mothers looking for that safety net and some beta loser finally glad he can get a hot girl

[-] TheObservationalist 4 Points 5 months ago

Yup. Bro in law (in army) 'fell in love' with 'sweet' girl with 'abusive ex' and a kid, replete with a sob story of substance abuse and mental health issues (all dem boxes checked). He takes her in, buys house, she doesn't work, he pays for bastard child's open heart surgery, the happy ever after starts getting rocky. So dream hoe lies, says she's taking birth control (isn't) gets knocked up by him. She immediately attempts divorce rape which largely works, 4 years later he's still fighting for the basic right to see his kid semi annually and payrolling this princess.

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Wrap it before you tap it boys, and don't LTR single moms.

[-] Truedemocracy4 1 Point 5 months ago

Sadly enough I see a TON of military guys go the Beta Bux provider route. These are people who generally have no issue of the selfless role and taking on additional burden so others dont have to. Sadly it's easy to be taken advantage of.

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[-] CrazyHorseInvincible 8 Points 5 months ago

GTFO my TRP.

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[-] 420KUSHBUSH -7 Point 5 months ago

How many hits of whatever drug you took to make you this paranoid?

[-] BugDestroyer 15 Points 5 months ago

A small dose of reality. You should try it sometimes.

[-] 420KUSHBUSH -5 Point 5 months ago

I did and it was detrimental. I'm happy now, that "dose of reality" you mention is taking shit too seriously

[-] Walker501_S 5 Points 5 months ago

No his not. It's just how things are. This shit happens extremely often and alpha fux beta bux is a proven concept beyond discussion.

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[-] HappyScribe 74 Points 5 months ago

She told me that she had always found me nicer than the other boys at school and really cute and smart.

This shows how women will post rationalize. I guarantee she didn't have a single sexual thought about him in high school. Now, that she's hit the wall, she sees it differently.

we stopped and said goodnight and we finally kissed

That didn't escalate the way I expected.

[-] Pezotecom 43 Points 5 months ago

More like

We stopped and she kissed me so that I would hamster all night and sell my commitment for free.

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[-] VasiliyZaitzev 33 Points 5 months ago

That didn't escalate the way I expected.

What, you didn't expect 24 years of foreplay?

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[-] We_Are_Legion 14 Points 5 months ago

I guarantee she didn't have a single sexual thought about him in high school.

And why should she? Women aren't attracted to passive orbiters.

The Wall is a thing... but what happened to this guy is his own fault. If he never made moves on women (beginning with his oneitis and continuing uptil now), then this is what that leads to.

[-] HurricaneHugues 3 Points 5 months ago

She took him out to dinner and drove him home. She was interested and did her part. The guy was just didnt have the fonfidence to believe that the girl liked him. Its obvious that she was interested in highschool. When hoes wanna use a nerd, they donttake him out to dinner and drive him home. They say "I'll text you" and never actually do.

[-] magx01 2 Points 5 months ago

So she was a ho that was raised a bit more decently than most. Doesn't change the underlying biological imperatives.

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[-] Psychological_Radish 52 Points 5 months ago

Makes me feel sad, in a way, that the Blue Pill world derives warm and fuzzy feelings from this story, while the denizens of this forum see ugly truth lurking beneath the surface.

Single mom, way beyond the Wall and likely struggling financially, meets nerdy (and likely high income) man with a deeply embedded belief that he is fated to be with The One™ . Yep, easy to see where this one leads. Hard to believe that this was written by a 40 year-old, given his fawning tone.

While this would have ended with divorce rape in the case of a younger man, it is less likely here - the divorce rate for post-30 marriages is pretty low. What he is in for, though, is a lifetime of supplication, resource transfer, and transactional starfish sex (and he will be lucky to even get that in 10 years)...and that's the best-case scenario.

[-] Auxfite 7 Points 5 months ago

He’ll be lucky if she doesn’t fuck other men

[-] TheTriviaMan 8 Points 5 months ago

It seems to me that her fucking other men is a given. She might even force him into an "open relationship" so she can ride her post-wall CC for a little while longer while still having the beta bucks. That's the vibe I get.

[-] friendandadvisor 2 Points 5 months ago

He’ll be lucky if she doesn’t fuck other men

"He'll be sad when she fucks other men."

FTFY

[-] Truedemocracy4 2 Points 5 months ago

Yep. The red pill pulls back the curtain on love for what it really is.

[-] AceMav21 1 Point 5 months ago

lmfao transnational starfish sex

[-] 2comment 1 Point 5 months ago

There's something strange about the dichotomy about how Disney-style love stories appeal to both young girls and blue pilled men.

Of course, even at the draw for the girls is being the center of attention and so on.

[-] Lucifers_sausage 43 Points 5 months ago

24 years later would make him 40 years old yet he’s still referring to her appearance in the same effeminate way he did in high school

[-] [deleted] 4 Points 5 months ago

Dude, you don't know that. You don't know what this dude was like in high school. It could be way way worse.

[-] Pezotecom 40 Points 5 months ago

16 year old me would be so proud

Yeah, of course 16 year old you would be proud that you are still masturbating to the girl you never had the guts to approach to. But hey, who doesn't want to wait 24 years to get a girl? Congratulations, "man".

[-] RunawayGrain 38 Points 5 months ago

Something like this happened at a thirty year reunion I attended this year. Dude nailed his high school oneitis in a van in the parking lot. I guess it's just a conquest thing for some guys?

Also

Meeting up at dinner, she still looked every bit as beautiful as the day I met her.

Bullshit. Girl that the dude at my reunion banged wasn't bad for her age but she didn't hold a candle to how she looked in high school.

[-] VasiliyZaitzev 45 Points 5 months ago

I guess it's just a conquest thing for some guys?

It's the "nostalgia fuck" element. I nailed a girl I knew in HS years down the road, but the difference was she called me up out of the blue and basically propositioned me. She still passed the "boner test", and so I plated her for about year, until she figured out that I wasn't going to wife her up.

This guy is still pining away about how she could have made him a man when he was 16. That was never going to happen.

To wit:

A little part of me died knowing that I actually had a shot with her back then.

Spoiler Alert: He didn't.

[-] exit_sandman 12 Points 5 months ago

This guy is still pining away about how she could have made him a man when he was 16. That was never going to happen.

Perfectly nailed his as well as her thoughts on that subject.

[-] DancesWithPugs 6 Points 5 months ago

"Why didn't you ask me out?" =/= "I wished you would have fucked me"

[-] furiouszeno 17 Points 5 months ago

Meeting up at dinner, she still looked every bit as beautiful as the day I met her.

Bullshit. Girl that the dude at my reunion banged wasn't bad for her age but she didn't hold a candle to how she looked in high school.

Of course not, but the guy is wearing the bluepill™ rose-tinted glasses

[-] Celicni 16 Points 5 months ago

I guess it's just a conquest thing for some guys?

Absolutely. No matter how ugly she looked right now (within limits of course) I'd still smash, if it's a chick that rejected me in the past. Just to feel I finally "won" that specific battle. Of course, dump afterwards and never speak to again, unless she's still hot.

[-] Truedemocracy4 3 Points 5 months ago

Eh man when you have love eyes for someone this can be true. Like yes to most/all men she looks a lot worse/older. But if this is your oneitis, and many of us have been there, it takes A LOT for them to look worse, even against age

[-] bemore_ 30 Points 5 months ago

This is so sad. A 40 year old man being happy with a kiss at the end of a dinner date. That is not a man's sexuality yet he speaks of being comfortable in his own skin. He would puke if he even had a vague idea of what she's been up to the last 24 years

[-] Auxfite 13 Points 5 months ago

This dude needs testosterone

[-] jihocech 10 Points 5 months ago

He needs a strong father figure.

[-] JohnIan101 2 Points 5 months ago

You read that?

I read closure.

[-] bemore_ 2 Points 5 months ago

I'm looking at the 40 year old not the 16 year old

[-] JohnIan101 2 Points 5 months ago

Again. I'm read that a closure, that 40 year old moving on.

Not knowing can haunt a person.

He can cross that off his list; that's a good thing.

[-] bemore_ 2 Points 5 months ago

You're quite idealistic then. The reality here is a little darker

[-] JohnIan101 2 Points 5 months ago

Not idealistic, just human.

I have my own regrets, things I squandered or flat out fucked-up.

Knowing if it would've turned out different... that would snuff out those ponders.

[-] bemore_ 2 Points 5 months ago

There's a million what ifs in life. As I like to think, when one door closes another opens, such is the abundance of life

But really look at what's going on in the story above. 24 years on they are different people in different circumstances. She's a single mother in her 40's now. He gets "closure". Let's look at it from her perspective. What does she get out of talking with this guy ?

[-] JohnIan101 1 Point 5 months ago

No.

Are are moments in your life which had serious weight at the time, not filler.

The path not taken.

He gets "closure". Let's look at it from her perspective. What does she get out of talking with this guy ?

Nothing. This wasn't about her.

[-] bemore_ 2 Points 5 months ago

Hahaha she gets nothing. Well there we go

[-] JohnIan101 1 Point 5 months ago

This was about his closure.

[-] Luckyluke23 9 Points 5 months ago

as someone who has FUCKED his oneitis girl (multiple times). it's a fool's errand.

[-] CJ_900 2 Points 5 months ago

How is it a fools errand if you succeeded?

[-] Luckyluke23 18 Points 5 months ago

because the women will never love you like you want to be loved.

[-] CJ_900 3 Points 5 months ago

in that case fair enough, however if your goal was just sex then it's a win in that case.

[-] StrongAttitude 7 Points 5 months ago

What do you expect from a beta? They are disgusting as always.

[-] ex_addict_bro 6 Points 5 months ago

IDK, mate. I attended a few "retro computing" events in past years, eventually I grew out of it.

[-] max_peenor 1 Point 5 months ago

Did a post about it, but I had one brought to my house. I ended up 1UP'ing that but only because the situation at the time, not because of the gal I know 30 years before. Old games may be fun but you aren't playing it like you played it then. There is no regaining glory long past. Just worry about the new games, even if they look like old games.

[-] Auvergnat 5 Points 5 months ago

Good old beta in waiting

[-] DocZTheRockstar 1 Point 5 months ago

Everyone get a turn in line. All the chads in the front of line and the betas in the back.

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[-] [deleted] 4 Points 5 months ago

why is banging your oneitus frowned upon? you clearly liked that girl when you were younger, showing her a good time when you're actually worth a shit is probably one of the things that can actually give you satisfaction to say YEAH! I've come far....not if she's an ugly looking troll tho.

[-] zue3 1 Point 5 months ago

If you still care about her feelings and situation then I don't think you've really swallowed the red pill yet.

[-] [deleted] 2 Points 5 months ago

yeah where did I say care about her feelings

[-] lonelystar82 3 Points 5 months ago

This is a classic example. If you have a crush, be a man and ask the lady out. If she rejects, move the fuck on. Thank you TRP for teaching me the abundance principle.

[-] yomo86 2 Points 5 months ago

Ok. 16 + 24 = 40. 40 in male years is 87. Sarcasm aside.

Don't get me wrong more power to you but dating a 40 yo woman as a man with a stable income is like trying to get a yes from grandpa as a 21 yo stripper with double Ds - not very difficult.

[-] U-94 2 Points 5 months ago

Someone needs to record a "Beauty and the Beast" parody song "Spergie and the Bitch" since this seems to be a tale as old as time.

[-] jihocech 1 Point 5 months ago

Just don´t be too mean to this guy. One year ago would I call him good and honest man and that true love is worth waiting. Nevermore.

[-] Standard_Nebula 1 Point 5 months ago

It's a Cold War. You better know what you're fighting for.

[-] ramot1 1 Point 5 months ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eRULqLhxKBU

Ray Charles-You don't know me. One great song, but I sort of think of it as the blue pill anthem. Anyone agree?

[-] rafaelvicuna4 1 Point 4 months ago

Fell off the cock carousel and is now settling for the beta.

[-] nothing03 1 Point 5 months ago

I think you should ignore all the harsh comments here. You did a good job. You can probably get further than a kiss on a first date with a woman who is attracted to you, but I believe that you did well for where you're at right now. Ask her out again.

[-] Truedemocracy4 1 Point 5 months ago

Hard to tell is she always liked him (possible) or is just using him as a wallet for the kids (cynical red pill take).

I will say that any single mother in her 20s is a result of very poor decision making and likely pretty low value. Also you will never see a woman more eager to scoop up a beta bux than after they have a kid and are single. Good for the guy if he's happy but this just shows the power of pussy in society. A woman can fuck her entire life up and still secure a paycheck from some sap

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[-] 420KUSHBUSH -2 Point 5 months ago

this sub got so much more toxic as of recently