Summary: Girls talk about cheating on their boyfriends/husbands and keeping it a secret. Thread contains rock-hard RedPill truths about hypergamy, branch swinging and shit testing.
Some people say that sharks are the most deadly animal in the world - but I think it's the hamster. The hamster will cheat with impunity and then try to shift the responsibility to someone - anyone - but itself. The hamster is especially dangerous when it runs around in the mind of a woman.
Case in point, another AskWomen thread about cheating. See if you can spot the RedPill truths yourself in these posts:
I've been married to my husband for 5 years and together 4 before that. I've also been having an affair for the last 18 months. I have a dead bedroom at home. This isn't an excuse it's just for context. I craved attention and feeling like I'm sexy. I posted to gone wild and got lots of messages and comments. One message stood out and we struck up a conversation and it was purely about sharing photos at the beginning. We are very far away geographically (UK to US) but over the first few months we became more friendly and realised how similar we were. We both had dead bedrooms and other similar marital issues. Long story short we text/face timed all day everyday and slowly fell for each other.
During this time it actually improved my relationship with my husband as my confidence grew. I won't lie there were times I compared the two of them but I'm not silly enough to believe Mr Affair would be as perfect in real life. I loved my husband through all of this that didn't and won't change. I didn't even realise it was possible to love two people before then. My affair was over a couple of months ago after being discovered by his wife. My husband doesn't know about it. Our relationship is better now than it was before the affair started but there is also a lot of other factors that could be behind this.
Process that for a second through a red-tinted lens. Bet you anything her husband had become a complete beta - fat, lazy, supplicating. So what does the wife do? "Till death do us part"... nah, she hops on the cyber cock carousel and sends boobies across the internet to random strangers. One of whom she starts to have an affair with. After her physical appetite is sated, she goes back to her provisionary beta husband. never telling him about what happened.
This man is going to die eventually and be buried by his lying cheating wife, without ever knowing what had actually happened. This man's entire family life will be a story of deceit, and the poor schmuck doesn't even know about it. This could be you, it could be any of us if we're not careful.
I have cheated but it wasn't really an affair. It was a guy I turned to whenever my relationship sucked, yet we weren't in love. I did it because he gave me the attention and affection my former SO didn't give me in those moments. He had a girlfriend as well and we never intended to be together, it was just for fun times. I did love my SO, but obviously I didn't respect him enough to stay faithful. He has never known and probably because of that I've never really felt guilty, since technically I didn't hurt him. Horrible I know, yet the truth.
Remember, even if she cheated, it still wasn't an affair! How does that make sense, you ask? Why, because it was just sex, nothing more. No emotions were involved. Therefore it doesn't count. Welcome to the mind of a woman.
He [my boyfriend] is awesome. Was then, is now. (He's next to me, playing Destiny.) The cheating wasn't about him. It was about me. He has always rocked. I didn't love the other guy. He had a big penis, liked sex and didn't ask me about my kid ever. My husband was(is) a great dad and I was an asshole with self esteem issues and an existential crisis to work out.
Alpha fux, beta bux. It literally cannot get clearer than this. Her side-man has a huge penis and is an alpha to the core. Her husband is a video game playing, child-raising beta male who quietly accepts his lot in life. Going by the tone of her comment, he probably has no idea his wife goes out and gets railed by Brett ThunderDude on the weekends.
He's an absolutely wonderful person who I loved and respected. He was also several thousand miles away, never had time to speak to me, and I was lonely and depressed to the point where I was spending at least a few hours out of every day crying and going for months without speaking to anyone in person. When I started meeting up with my old friend, I intended to keep saying no to his romantic advances, but in the end I stopped saying it. I fucked up. It's not my partner's fault.
Typical case of "I didn't mean to!!! It was just a one-time mistake!! You don't understand, I was so lonely!" She had the option of breaking up with her boyfriend but she didn't; most likely the guy was working towards some high-status education or work goal far away, and she didn't want to lose that meal ticket just yet. So she maintained a long-distance relationship with him while spreading her legs for another man at home who was persistent enough. This is why you don't do long-distance, kids.
Read the whole thread. Quality material there. Don't get married.
TL;DR: When women cheat, it's always "something that just happened". They rely on alphas for physical validation, betas for emotional validation.
0xdada 8y ago
Cheating is a lot like in a horror movie when the girl goes into the dark scary place alone and doesn't hear the music playing before the jump scare and the gore scene.
They say, "whaaa haapened?" to deceive themselves and try to rationalize their view of themselves as good, but they knew all along.
It's like the killer saying, "you know man, I don't know what happened. It was like a normal tuesday and I was angry, hearing voices, wearing some dead hooker's underwear on my face, thinking about axe murdering someone, which was ironic because I had been keeping an axe in my trunk for like, no reason, right? So I'm hanging out in this place, like middle of nowhere, abandoned house or some shit. I don't know, maybe it was the burned out husk of the home this chick I liked in jr. high's house that she died in because this chad guy fucked her instead of me and she set it on fire, or maybe I did, but whatever man. Anyway, I don't even hear her, and this fucking chick shows out out of nowhere, right in the attic I'm sitting in masturbating to bits of old burned clothing, and I'm like WOAH FUCK! cuz I'm scared as anyone, and OUT OF FUCKING NOWHERE I hit her with the axe. I feel like shit about it, but like what can you do, so I keep going until I can get rid of it."
"You feel me bro, you know how stuff like that just happens?"
BetterBadIdeas 8y ago
Did you ever know that you're my hero?
blackknightalpha 8y ago
She died so quickly. She wasn't hurt so I didn't feel guilty.
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"Yeah I stabbed her 16 times but it was never my intention to kill her"
rogue190 8y ago
I do not kill people, that is...that is my least favorite thing to do.
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Science_isthenewcool 8y ago
Bravo oxdada, fantastically hilarious analogy, love it.
You could totally embellish that into a complete short story.
And then I weirdly fell over and had sex with her as she died, I just don't understand it. I was clearly tired and stressed from my job, and my wife and I have a dead bedroom and I just needed some human contact, and for a second there she gave me this look and it just happened!
0xdada 8y ago
epic.
[WP] axe murderer axe murders, really loves victims, but feelz.
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
Once again female love just means "want him to continue to offer security".
razormachine 8y ago
I fucked up. It's not my partner's fault.
Don't be silly woman. He is a man it is his fault :)
Datruyugo 8y ago
I've just discovered this forum a week ago and have read through a bunch of the Top of All Time posts...and I keep seeing a re-occurring topic.
The hate for video games.
I have a well paying job > 50K, work out 5 days a week and play soccer on top. I'm well versed in literature, current world events, world history, technology (I work in the IT industry), have great friends and a girlfriend.
I feel like it is seen as a time drainer/motivation killer of the sorts? Maybe I'm just an exception or have it well balanced?
Raudopilos 8y ago
IKR? I mean I spent some time teaching myself Sumerian, I'm sure that's even "more useless" than if I were to play video-games. Do things for yourself man, dw about others.
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Every year drivers are suprised by winter. Same goes for women, every time they are suprised by their behaviour.
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Hahaha, she said she was having an existential crisis that needed to be worked out.
That is one of the most funny things I have ever heard in my life. Instead of doing charity work, finding religion, choosing a different career path... She cheated on her husband. That's what needed to be worked out in her life. Wow.
GoldPisseR 8y ago
So a lot of girls cheated because the other guy had a monster dick or a bigger dick than their partners.
And guys are the shallow ones.
KartagoPill 8y ago
Criticizing others is women monopoly.
creatinekunt 8y ago
10 mins before I saw this post I received a fb message from a girl I've been banging the last 3 weeks. It read "I have a boyfriend".
I had kinda guessed already by her fb and insta pictures of him but it still blows my mind how easy it is for them to cheat. She put up zero resistance to any of my advances and has been riding my dick ever since like her life depended on it.
The message I'm sure is just a minor shit-test to gauge how I'll react and also to alleviate herself of any guilt/ responsibility. Isn't it funny how women's brains work?
Sometimes I feel like the universe is trying to tell me something.
Play on playas
Rasalom72 8y ago
Find out who he is, (probably on FB), and let him know...
creatinekunt 8y ago
And why on earth would I do that?
ScholarInRed 8y ago
You'll notice that this girl;
Counts an utterly non-physical relationship as a serious affair. They have never touched each other even once. This illustrates the different standards between male and female cheating; for women, commitment and emotional bonds outweigh sexual availability and they'll feel worst about cheating for it. For men, it's almost purely about sex and that's what they'll feel worst about.
The end result? A man won't fly across the planet for some nice pussy unless he is beta, and lacks abundance mentality, but you better believe that if her man in the UK pledged his commitment and wealth to her, husband would wonder why it's taking so damn long to return from the grocery shopping. For the rest of his life.
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MadChestHairYuKnight 8y ago
That makes no sense. Unless you're playing some barbie dress up game, how does it matter?
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DrunkenBadman 8y ago
Don't worry man, I got yer joke.
cholomite 8y ago
Alot of this post is blaming women, but let's all realize that there is a weak supplicating beta behind every woman who cheats. Instead of villifying these cheating women, I choose to focus on the men and how not to be like them. After a certain point, it's like asking a mouse to stop craving peanut butter. You don't blame the mouse, you just try to become the peanut butter.
reigorius 8y ago
Finally somebody saying something sensible.
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DRMMR76 8y ago
Not always true. The guiding rule, as with everything else with women is "Right now I feel like..."
Their default setting is "Right now I feel like being with the most Alpha man I can find". But it doesn't always have to be that. Sometime she will get in the trenches with the neckbeards in order to get something she wants, or secure better provisioning. Sometime she just feels like she wants the excitement or the feeling of doing something bad and the nearest cock will do. Whatever it is, she's doing it because right now she feels like she wants to. That's all it takes.
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billcosbyeatsbabies 8y ago
man up and evolve into that hunky jar of peanut butter we all know you can be, cholomite
cholomite 8y ago
That's my goal. I am become peanut butter, destroyer of worlds.
sir_wankalot_here 8y ago
Exactly. The comical part is when OP appears to be all high and noble. If OP got nailed for pirating movies. Is he going to say "yes I am guilty" or is he going to hamster like crazy ?
cholomite 8y ago
Hopefully he would own that shit and move on. Women operate on a different set of principles. I appreciate the post as a way to show new guys the true nature of women, I just think the blame was pointed in the wrong direction.
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Thats not quite right. You can be alpha, ripped, high status high value man, but all it takes is for a slightly more alpha dude to cross her path.
Like lets say some girl is shacked up with NFL quarterback Nick Foles. Dude is a professional athlete, has the adoration of hundreds of thousands of fans, makes hella bank, and is a fairly handsome dude (no homo).
None of that shit matters if Aaron Rodgers walks up to her at some social function and asks if he can raw dog her in the pool house.
There is a lot of truth to your statement in that women will always fuck a more alpha dude so that the more beta a dude is, the more upward opportunities she has.
However there is ALWAYS someone more alpha and with the internet and Tinder she can and will find him.
EDIT: (no homo)
S74RK 8y ago
Here's the more fucked up part. The other guy doesn't have to be more alpha objectively. Two facts make this possible:
1) Situation SMV boosts. At a particular social venue where you aren't the highest status, like an art exhibition? Andy Thunderhol can get up on your girl no problem.
2) SMV miscalculations. Let's face it, hamsters aren't the smartest creatures. A girl can be duped by fake online photos, and her feels can be too strong to realize this is a different person in real life. Worse yet, she can be stupid enough to fall for straight up liars, like those dudes in LA who pretend to be movie producers.
vengefully_yours 8y ago
That's one way, being out alpha'd by someone, but he doesn't have to be better than you at all for her to cheat. Men will very rarely fuck a fat ugly girl when they have a hot cock in their bed, why go there when we have so much better already, but that's how we operate.
Girls go on feelz, they are absolutely shit at judging value in men. They are easily fooled, even easier to manipulate, and all you need to know is how to make her hatchet wound tingle. They will destroy their lives for a completely desperate omega simply because he is new. He only has to appear to be something better, and they are easily fooled in that respect. His social awkwardness can be confused with aloofness. His drug addiction can be confused with a high value man who doesn't put her as his priority because getting that next hit means more than she does so she isn't a priority. To girls a loser can look the same as an alpha, and have zero alpha qualities, only the appearance of them is required.
Any girl will cheat with nothing more than opportunity and plausible deniability, with any male who appears to not give a shit about her. That is all it takes.
How do I know? Because I've been both the alpha who had a bitch cheat with a loser, and I've fucked wives and girlfriends of men who were taller, better looking, and had alpha qualities far surpassing my own. Of course it's extremely easy to fuck the girl of a fat beta, but any girl is available with the right circumstances to any man who gives her wizard sleeve tingles.
AWALT, and you only need to play on her insecurities to get her pants off and her legs open.
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StrokeGameHusky 8y ago
Hatchet wound? And I thought "slit" sounded bad. Neither make me want to lick it..
grewapair 8y ago
Why does the other guy have to be more alpha? An alpha is an alpha, both will make her happy, and she can do two at once with one or the other being more or less alpha. If she thinks she can get away with it, she'll try.
Fafner2 8y ago
I agree with this-- it's simply the idea that they can fuck another hot man that gets their hypergamy going-- e.g. Different flavors
JohnGalt316 8y ago
or your commitment makes you beta
that is how guys get cheated on by much lower SMV males
StrokeGameHusky 8y ago
Everyone wants something they can't have. Gras is always greener, you get where I'm going with this..
Overkillengine 8y ago
She'll cheat using whatever available man meets her current craving. If one is a jobless Alpha bodybuilder; don't be surprised if she cheats with someone less muscular and confident but with an affluence that (temporarily) sates her Resource Security craving.
PoopInMyBottom 8y ago
Exactly. Sometimes it's in a girls interest to cheat with a provider, even if he's a scrub.
Certain baboons keep harems, and in those species you will often see these weedy, beta baboons use resources to literally draw the female away from her alpha, so she can mate with him.
It's incredibly interesting to watch. They even do things like walk between two different alpha males with a different harems repeatedly to create the illusion that each alpha is looking at the other alpha's females, when they are actually guarding them from the potential intruder. Eventually, things blow up, and the beta has free reign to lure the female of his choice away.
Humans aren't that different.
tompanz 8y ago
Gender dynamics are actually very complicated. More complicated than af/bb, and far more complicated than feminists think.
PoopInMyBottom 8y ago
Exactly. Experience is King. You can talk about what makes evolutionary sense till the cows come home, but if women don't actually act like that it isn't helpful.
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There were plenty of threads, here and elsewhere, where women were cheating on top alphas. Some (all?) women are just like that, their pussy dries up after a few years no matter what you do.
reigorius 8y ago
Could you link to one or more through the archive?
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Check out "Dirty sheets", it's one of the top posts ever on this sub.
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vengefully_yours 8y ago
That's one thing I am never doing again, no bitch can ever live with me again.
awalt_cupcake 8y ago
It's fun at first. sport fucking on all the furniture, in all the rooms, and trying new shit. But it goes to hell fast.
vengefully_yours 8y ago
She can come over and do all that, then go home. Girls don't want to live in my home anyway, and that's by design.
awalt_cupcake 8y ago
That's true. But there was the casual element that came with my last LTR living with me. Casual sex that turned kinky. I'm speaking from my experience. It's not worth it when it's over and all her shit is in your house and now you hate eachother and she's most likely seeing new dick while you're stuck with her shit in your house.
vengefully_yours 8y ago
Every chick I fuck gets kinky. They get tied up, spanked, dominated, choked, and anything that makes them wet. They like me because I'm that way, hell my house has hooks in the ceiling for having fun with girls.
awalt_cupcake 8y ago
I admire your dedication to the art of rope tying
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HS-Thompson 8y ago
That's a pretty baller story there. When you get a little extra cash do you ever just totally blow it out and get two movies at the redbox?
NakedAndBehindYou 8y ago
You sound like a major tool.
jasonbecker83 8y ago
Watch out guys, we got a tough keyboard warrior here!
Cant_Tell_Me_Nothin 8y ago
Lol Jesus dude, no need to get all defensive, the guy made an observation, he's not throwing a bitch fest. But I guess you only needed a small reason to prove how much of a badass Alpha you are. I would've taken you seriously if you didn't have to over-explain how cool you are. Overcompensating?
StrokeGameHusky 8y ago
No one mentions redbox and isn't trolling.
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doomman118 8y ago
lol this subreddit is such a good laugh. You people are delusional.
LukeMcFuckStick 8y ago
Go back to Magic the gathering
cholomite 8y ago
Laugh all you want, but slip up for a few months and watch how fast your girl makes some new "friends" and starts "doing her own thing" with her coworkers. What about this don't you understand? Unless she's totally busted, hypergamy is something that is real and exists within her. If you're gonna hate, at least stay on top of your game, otherwise I'll have her number by the time my coupons print out of the register at the checkout line and she won't tell you shit about it until she sits you down one day to tell you shes "confused about your relationship". Your lack of effort only makes it easier for me.
doomman118 8y ago
Lol, none of these situations happened to me, you know why? Cause i don't pick the ones that would drop their panties to a guy who acts like this.
I don't need mental manipulation to make a relationship work.
These red pill stories all lack diversity. You wanna know why? Cause it usually features one kinda of women simple put it "the shitty ones". No woman with any dignity will cheat or fall for your mental manipulations.
Inducing dread on someone to get what you want is mental abuse, plain and simple. You cancers on society are what make me wanna smack my head into a wall.
"But Red Pill works!" Yes- It works because you manipulate. You guys are low. Be a decent human being and maybe you wont have to manipulate everyone into doing what you want.
No, hypergamy does not exist in everyone. Cause shocker: Some people do not value power.
http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2014/09/the-red-pill/
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I don't wish for guys to be woken up the hard way, but i'd love to see your face when you lose.
MadChestHairYuKnight 8y ago
Face the reality.
TRP is the truth. Maybe 1% of women out there are genuine, that's it. But the majority aren't.
I've seen the panties drop faster than Bolt can run.
doomman118 8y ago
sources on those numbers your pulling?
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capitolHillbillie 8y ago
You should school us with all your learnin' from your Dungeons and dragons sub!
doomman118 8y ago
i will, i enjoy life instead of being a dick to girls to show how macho I am! Its hilarious.
JohnGalt316 8y ago
then why are you still posting here?
go enjoy your life
teeelo 8y ago
This is how he enjoys life...
MadChestHairYuKnight 8y ago
I feel bad for such people. Can't face the reality.
teeelo 8y ago
Just guessing here, but I bet your GF/Wife would never cheat on you.
Not because she wouldn't, but because she can't and no other guys are attracted to her. (At least not the bottom feeders)
You may be the highest branch she can reach! If so, congrats!
Either way, if you're using this as a template of course you would find it ridiculous. We're talking about Hot women here who are very much aware of their options in the 21st century.
doomman118 8y ago
lol i would except this thread to start using the personal attacks. No, but nice try. Successful nurse that is very much in shape. Thing is she just has this thing called dignity.
Nice try though, you almost made me cry there.
Nobody responding to me is even arguing with me, they just call me a loser cause i have a hobby. No coherent argument is being made by any of you guys.
How you guys react to me are the reason your a dick to girls for sex: You got angry, super angry at a girl for cheating or whatever, it happens to everyone, even celebrities. Instead of coping with the fact that people are assholes, you try to rationalize that it was your behavior. It wasn't. The girl was a shitty person, time to move on. The reason you are getting girls now is because you all have one thing; Confidence. However, instead of solving insecurities you turn to mental manipulation (mental abuse) to take away friends and strip her of dignity.
Maybe I was a dick earlier, actually I was. My point is that this Red Pill theory is bullshit. Its here to give confidence, this I agree with. However it never helps you to solve insecurities caused by the one who got you good before finding TRP. Everyone is a beta when they get hit hard in a relationship. I know that from experience, no amount of confidence will soften the blow.
The confidence of TRP and solving your own problems is how you make an actual relationship, one that actually has no mental abuse.
END RANT. I hope someone learned something here.
teeelo 8y ago
I don't know why you think we would be willing to debate some blue pill troll...
doomman118 8y ago
because you have no basis for any of your arguments, so you cant even if you tried? So you use personal attacks instead to justify everything you do.
teeelo 8y ago
You are so off base in all your accusations it would be downright stupid to bother arguing with you.
Say any more stupid shit here and you will be banned.
doomman118 8y ago
what happened to the macho men here? Oh thats right i am not a girl so you run to the mods because someone is making you sad.
I am having so much fun here.
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MeltzerDriver 8y ago
Read the powertalk sidebar link. That's just female manipulative language to make her feel better about cheating. You damn well know those guys treated her better than the guys who she ended up fucking.
cholomite 8y ago
True, but "unemotional" and "unaffectionate" men aren't what these women really had problems with. That's just what they hamster it away as after the fact. Come on, I know you haven't read all the sidebar shit and still take what women say at face value. Keep reading brother.
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Not to be offensive, but it still sounds like you were, indeed, beta.
Why did you commit period?
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I don't think wanting a LTR or STR is beta, but committing to a girl you don't care about may be.
Either way, it's in the past.
[deleted] 8y ago
So some loser got laid by message a Gonewild Girl?
Godamnit that'll sustain that loser sub for another hundred years on the off chance that it happens again.
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Actually it doesn't sound like dude actually got laid, just pictures.
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one of my favourite things used to be to make posts that are unrelated. IE ask them where they got their curtains from or make over the top white knight posts.
50% of the time the bait would work and the OP would respond positively whilst the rest of the posters got salty.
StrokeGameHusky 8y ago
"So how much per pound are those beef curtains?"
PlanB_pedofile 8y ago
Game is game no matter the medium
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Dronelisk 8y ago
Super sized big bodied women?
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Dronelisk 8y ago
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Hyokaji 8y ago
I was feeling brave... I googled it and now I have a slight headache, I got teary eyed and I feel nauseous.
recon_johnny 8y ago
Roger that. Was tempted, but will suppress that urge.
bowie747 8y ago
I don't usually inbox those girls...but I might start :/
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bye bye dignity and self respect
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Hotter and less fucked up girls IRL man.
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R3v4mp3d 8y ago
Why are you sure they got laid? I re-read the story and not even once was she hinting that they ever met. The only thing they did was: share pics; face chatted. She didn't cheat physically; just (somewhat) emotionally.
Also, regarding the chick who cheated in a long distance relationship: I'm in a LDR myself and after 8 months I cheated. The strain of waiting so long for your partner can only be diminished by another partner. This doesn't excuse her or me; I just wanted to say that it kinda comes nayurally when this situation appears.
frozen_strawberry 8y ago
Sending nudes to a guy that isn't her husband is pretty much cheating though. And their face timing probably wasn't about how great the weather is either.
mugatucrazypills 8y ago
if you think you have an LDR ... you don't
you have someone who holds a free "call" option on your sexuality. and if they gave a shit they wouldn't be LDistance
R3v4mp3d 8y ago
I understand your point.
My gf is taking the steps towards moving here with me and (in theory) in about 1-2 months she should get here. She even visits from time to time.
That doesn't mean that you're wrong. She might have "downgraded" me into a BB/ FWB/ safetynet/ something and is just having fun where she is. I don't know this and I didn't bother to check up on her. Maybe I will do it once out of curiosity.
Trpidation 8y ago
I would show up unannounced if I were you. If she's up to something it could be easier to catch that way. If she's not, she'll be dripping wet when you kick down her door and fuck her brains out over the kitchen counter.
mugatucrazypills 8y ago
there are exceptions to every rule, like there are good military wives who do wait, the issue is if there was a genuine compelling reason for the temporary separation (like a Delta Force Mission that couldn't be moved) and if she is moving back towards not being LDR ASAP.
mister_barfly75 8y ago
Yeah, that was the impression I got from that too, especially since she said I'm not silly enough to believe Mr Affair would be as perfect in real life which implied there hadn't been an actual meet up in all that time. But I'd be willing to bet that if the distance between them hadn't been so large she would have jumped on that dick at the first opportunity.
R3v4mp3d 8y ago
That's a valid possibility. Yet we can only debate what the outcome might have been :). But you're probably right.
mister_barfly75 8y ago
I have a fair idea of what the outcome would have been since I've been involved in an emotional, online affair that was a similar distance (me - UK, her - Texas) and actually flew out to meet her.
teeelo 8y ago
I know right?
What the hell kind of message would make an impression enough on her to fall for him??
If word of this gets out there will be thousands more desperately trying to win over girls this way, even if it's a 1 in s million chance.
Keninishna 8y ago
Its actually a lot easier than you think. I've boned a few married women I've met online and I'm not talking met on ashleymadison or something. Milfs get bored with their beta providers and turn to the internet for tingles and fun thinking its harmless but ultimately end up becoming a victim of their own tingles. They don't factor in its possible that someone can fly ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD in a day. I usually stick within the USA though and like to visit new places so if it doesn't work out there is no loss at least I got to travel and if it does work out you get to bang them for a few days and since they know you are going to leave them you have dread game going for you and when your done you gently put them back where they were before and their husbands don't know anything about it.
Really though tingles are tingles, just be cocky and narcissistic and a little rough and playful and girl will be gushing all over their webcams for you.
teeelo 8y ago
What online sites did you use?
Is your experience the same as this guys supposed tale? (Comment reply on a gone wild post, said exactly the right thing at the right time, gets her actually interested and a dialogue is created leading to sex)
Keninishna 8y ago
Similar, one site was called gamecrush, it was pay to play girls in video games. Tons of white knights and betas and it was easy for me to stand out being dominant/cocky. Other sites were random forums for nutrition/bodybuilding and video games.
Hang10Dude 8y ago
Gamecrush? come on man, you're better than that.
Keninishna 8y ago
I am yes, the women though... lol girls actually paid me to play with them.
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What irks me the most about all of this is that there is a common thread of women not communicating with their men about their unhappiness. It's possible their men are just lazy and they ignored her warnings, but i know my girl lets things churn and churn under the surface until i have to DRAG out of her what is bothing her.
This bothers me, because i'm getting the sense that women drag around this hatred or anger or disgust towards their SO, and instead of telling the SO himself she confides in Chad.
The only thing hubby knows is that somehow he always loads the dishwasher wrong.
Don't get me wrong i've known men who literally shrugged their sholders and turned back around to face the keyboard while their girl told him to get a fuckin job. Guy's like that deserve to lose their girl.
AurelianWay 8y ago
Women don't usually communicate in a direct overt way. The guy is supposed to JUST KNOW wants wrong with her. If he can't understand why she's unhappy it's because he's a misogynistic\ ignorant / lazy asshole. Once again.....(trumpets blast) its the MAN's fault!!!
Rasalom72 8y ago
The problem is that, most of the time, he doesn't "lose" the girl... she just goes off and fucks some other dude, and comes back full of another guys load.
It wouldn't be an issue if all the women who were unhappy (and the guys too), would just say it's over and fucking leave... at least it would be honest.
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ozn 8y ago
Now that made me genuinely laugh.
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Hanz-grubert 8y ago
What's the point of even dating aside from sex. I feel like the concept of "falling in love" is such an impossible scenario. Especially with a bunch of women professing their acceptance of cheating on their significant others. Watch a guy do the same thing and a bunch of women will turn into a giant screaming children. (Oh wait they already do it's called feminism)
Fuck me.. Falling in love is hands down the most detrimental mistake one can make in this predictable game called life. I'd rather stay single and stack some cash than have some cunt think it's ok to cheat on me. This is how people end up fucking each other up.
If only people did the right thing. Oh right I forgot it's 2015. No one gives a fuck about the right thing any more.
I get frustrated reading the red pill because it sheds so much light. The truth is hard to accept and infuriating to witness. Watching a woman admit that she cheated without a care in the world is like watching a murderer shrug in the courtroom after just killing someone
Seriously fuck people. All of them
tompanz 8y ago
"Falling in love" is a chemically induced state in your brain. It's literally a mental illness. So, yes it exists; but no, it is not some kind of ethereal pure spiritual experience. Though it sure feels that way.
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I know that feel bro. That feel.
Falkrik 8y ago
ya, this is the reason i dont purposely try to get involved with girls
i cant trust anyone
i have a gf right now but fuck man
Kid_Crimson 8y ago
In your first excerpt, you need to keep in mind that both sides having emotional affairs is not unusual at all.
However, men are more likely to overlook an emotional affair because it doesn't jeopardize his sexual exclusivity with his mate. In contrast, a woman will be more likely to excuse a physical affair but be seriously threatened by an emotional attachment because the later is more likely to lead to her mate leaving and triggering a loss of provision and resources for her.
YMMV ...enjoy the decline
max_peenor 8y ago
At least women are finally giving up on the size doesn't matter bullshit. It does matter. That doesn't mean all women like horse cocks. It just means it is a factor for their consideration.
billcosbyeatsbabies 8y ago
watch what they do, not what they say. they say it doesnt matter to look like innocent girls who dont like a huge dick. inside, they crave it. get real
DoesNotMatterAnymore 8y ago
And if you have a hard time internalizing this, just look at Dillion Harper, and the shit she does. Probably not the best example, comparing a porn star to an average girl, but she is a good sample how an absolutely innocent girl looks like. Obviously this is subjective.
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meh. i'm not saying size doesn't matter, all girls want a bigger than average cock. true. that said, girls like two things more: one upping each other and sounding empowered. you're literally watching what they say, not what they do. i mentioned it in another unrelated thread, but i've had numerous girls mention to people (that got back to me) that I was hung. I'm totally average. 70% percentile maybe, not hung. But they want to show up their friends and feel fierce and strong and independent.
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When I'm with a girl she tells all her friends I've got a big dick. Once I break things off I'm suddenly nothing special (or "tiny" depending on how crazy she is).
Anderfail 8y ago
They probably legitimately thought it was larger than average though. Women are terrible at estimating penis length because their spatial awareness also sucks. So to many of them, they may actually think an average sized penis on a guy who shaves is huge.
Now obviously there are ridiculously huge guys out there, but for the most part women have no idea how large you are unless you are small.
saibot83 8y ago
I've measured mine and it's exactly on the very end of the considered average scale. Personally I'd prefer it to be a little larger but what are you gonna do? I've heard everything from "Oh! It's soooo big" to "It's so cute" to "Is it in yet?" They don't have a clue from my experience.
PoopInMyBottom 8y ago
I'm with you on this one. There's a reason penises evolved to be the length they are.
I've had most girls tell me slightly larger than average is what they like best, which squares with exactly what I would guess. The average length is likely to be pretty close to the average of what most women want, because that's what's been selected for. The guys women liked best were the ones to pass on their dick genes.
lono12 8y ago
not at all. the guys who won passed their dicks on.
PoopInMyBottom 8y ago
Both groups did.
This only becomes a factor if having an abnormal dick size helps you to win. Otherwise, there is no selection pressure. If winners have normal dick sizes, when they win they don't alter the dick size gene pool.
Born2Ball 8y ago
Over hearing girls talking amongst each other, penis size always comes up when talking about their latest hookups. I hear a lot of conversations between college girls and they are always shamelessly talking about penis size in causal conversation. It literally doesn't even surprise me at all anymore.
TheDialecticParadox 8y ago
Bearing witness to the sort of shit girls talk about in private will go a long way to unplugging most BP'ers. They are not princesses.
Overkillengine 8y ago
They should be forced to clean a female latrine; that sort of shock therapy should unplug most within 30 seconds.
Born2Ball 8y ago
Yeah it's pretty crazy, they are way worse than men when it comes to detailing their sex lives. I'm a real estate agent specializing in student housing so I deal with college girls on a daily basis. It's amazing what they will talk about in front of you once they become comfortable around you.
Example from this week, I was showing apartments and it becomes clear that this group of girls want to be close to a certain frat house in town. They don't know anyone in the frat (they're all transfers) but they obviously plan to get to know them, if you know what I mean (fuck as many dudes as possible). I ask them how they're going to do that, and one girl replies "are there any windows facing their house? I'll just get naked and forget to close the blinds." This was after about half an hour of knowing these girls, in a setting that you would assume to be professional.
TheDialecticParadox 8y ago
Because if you called them out for it you would be a slut-shaming shitlord misogynist. Oh, and you would also be required to check your privilege.
When I was having lunch with my ex, her and her friends were gossiping about one of the guys dating one of the cackling hags, and, as usual, it ended up on the topic of penis-size. One basically said that "if I were him, I would just kill myself if I had a 4-incher." Cue more cackling. After that they didn't talk like that around me because I told them their attitude disgusted me.
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And I'd be willing to bet at least one of them later made a joke that it was obviously because you had a small penis. I stay out of the penis size discussions. No good comes from that.
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And we are supposed to feel bad about loving big titties and nice asses. Hypocrites
Born2Ball 8y ago
Hell, we're supposed to feel bad about wanting a girl who isn't an enormous land whale. Because "real womyn got curves."
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And the fatties are the biggest size queens. Go figure
Born2Ball 8y ago
You need to be large enough to penetrate past the multiple layers of belly flab.
Fafner2 8y ago
Are you sure they won't mistake my cock for a sausage and grow teeth in their pussies to eat it?
americanmook 8y ago
So those extenze pills work. I'm at 6 inches and hate it :/
bebopdebs 8y ago
be happy you arent less than 6. lots of dudes are in the 5 and close to 5 region. 6 is good enough for most non whores. 7 to a bit over 7 is perfect
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There's a funny (true-ish) joke I heard, that every extra 0 in your bank account adds an extra inch to your dick.
And really, it's true. A girl likes a big dick just like they like a tall guy or a guy with a 6 pack. The thing they like more than all of that is money. They'll say it's because it means he's "successful" or whatever BS they tell themselves, but women are obsessed with the princess dream.
If they can have a guy who has the possibility of taking them away somewhere exotic, or spoiling them with expensive gifts, etc. They love that shit more than a 10 inch dick. A big dick/tall guy they can get anywhere, he could be the local bum. What's more rare is the guy who thought that she is just so special and unique that he picked HER. And she can't show off a big dick to her friends, but if you've ever seen their face after a display of wealth in front of their friends, it's like a mini-orgasm.
i know you're joking but i always think it's funny when short guys or small dick guys obsess over shit they can't change (height/dick), instead of going for that $ and doing better than all the taller guys with less $.
max_peenor 8y ago
http://i.imgur.com/o6snO1v.jpg
Just replace height with dick.
MadChestHairYuKnight 8y ago
Why do fatties feel like they rule the world?
You can't change your colour, penis length or height - but you sure as fuck can choose not to be a motherfucking whale.
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jasonbecker83 8y ago
They are removing every message that would make them feel "bad" . There's a mod comment about it on the thread.
[deleted] 8y ago
Most female "spaces" on reddit revolve around the theme of being a place for "Support" which is a code word for "Don't tell me I did anything wrong, ask questions or level any justifiable criticism", people that do get banned on the spot usually.
Chrience 8y ago
That reminds me of that one thread on twoX in which the woman actually felt guilty and blamed herself for how she treated her husband.
It got up voted to the top and hundreds of comments, but just about EVERY SINGLE comment was deleted by the mods.
I wish I could have found it for you, what happened was definitive proof of what a 'female space' is really about. No truth, no factual value, just FEELS, lies and encouragement for more FEELS and lies to further support the Feminine Imperative.
[deleted] 8y ago
That's fine, but those female spaces are ever-expanding (that's not a fat joke). It seems like there are very few places and sites I can go to that doesn't eventually become overrun with out-spoken women with male criticisms while trying to be "one of the guys" when it suits them. Shit sucks
Freiling 8y ago
Also, don't correct people. That's "mansplaining." I tried fighting it for a while, but why bother?
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"LALALALALALA, I'M NOT LISTENING, LALALALALALA"
Fafner2 8y ago
Sadly that's what the modern woman mentally does when faced with a dissenting opinion, especially one pertaining to her. The society of betas let her hamster slide, the legal system lets it slide, and thus her hamster grows.
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The sad thing is it's not even that infantile they nod and take each other seriously whilst saying "You're not being helpful" in the way that women don't actually want help or an actual solution to anything, they just want validation.
Fafner2 8y ago
This is why you watch what a woman does, not what she says. Generally speaking they don't offer solutions, only rationalizations
[deleted] 8y ago
You can't negotiate Attraction. Be the best version of yourself and keep a strong frame. If she loses interest then simply walk away. No need to feel bad. It happens to everyone including good looking and rich folks. That's why you never marry. You can't jeopardize your life savings against Attraction. That's just silly.
ramot1 8y ago
I am so glad that I am well passed the age where putting up with this crap isn't urgent. I will keep trying, cause old habits die hard, but if I fail, it doesn't matter too much to me now.
For you younger guys, I am so glad that TRP is here for you.
MadChestHairYuKnight 8y ago
I'm glad to have discovered it myself. At 22, I'm not gonna make mistakes that most men my age do.
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jasonbecker83 8y ago
Oh god, that thread is so disgusting, now I just want to pluck my eyes out :\
KartagoPill 8y ago
Life is disgusting, but is our life. Y'all wanna get dirty and you know it :)
tompanz 8y ago
I've seen worse on here, far far worse. There was this one thread on askreddit called: "male strippers, what actually happens at the bachelorette party?" That thread made me want to become a monk.
CHAD_J_THUNDERCOCK 8y ago
I can vouch. That thread was insane! Probably the most eye opening thing I've seen.
aherne18 8y ago
There is no reason to maintain a long distance relationship: be first to break for your honor at least. You would not want to become a laughing stock...
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Interesting. I just watched a movie called "The Canal" on Netflix about a man who murders his wife he caught cheating red handed. After watching the scene where he catches her fucking another man, I felt myself so full of absolute rage that I now watch that part before I hit the gym.
It amazes me how men will take women back who cheated on them, yet sometimes for a man it's take the cheating whore back of suffer involuntarily celibacy.
MadChestHairYuKnight 8y ago
I always have believed cheaters should be jailed if in a relationship, or be given the death penalty if in marriage.
Both ways, not only for women.
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PoopSmearMoustache 8y ago
Her actions were always her fault, this high and mighty owning it quickly holds no value what so ever, only the action it attempts to veil in less significance by being accounted for is what you need to focus on.
Also what is with them thinking self-restraint is alone praiseworthy, she seems to paint the picture that saying "no" to sex is hard work, that is the wrong baseline, I expect her to not get fat, not to get closer to any male friends as a baseline of the relationship and shut-down anyone making advances beyond a shadow of doubt. Anyone can claim their intentions were pure after the fact, everything outside of avoiding those situations where you tempt yourself with new relationships is unacceptable.
This can easily happen outside of long distance relationships (which you should never do).
BannedBandit 8y ago
TIL if a woman doesn't get fucked by her beta husband she will fuck someone else. Thanks OP.
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Some of the replies on there were confusing, from a Red Pill perspective. They were saying things like "he didn't treat me well"/"I didn't feel sexy around him"/"The other guy made me feel loved"/"He was abusive"
But haven't we established that if you treat a woman like they don't matter, then they'll crave you even more? Why would these women cheat on their partner with a beta that "makes them feel loved" when in reality they should actually be trying to validate themselves to their husband/boyfriend that treats them like they're nothing?
KartagoPill 8y ago
Woman writed she wanted something pure physical, no string attached.
GoldPisseR 8y ago
No, rather if you are a doormat It won't end well.
Its necessary once in a while to open up and 'betafy' the relationship, just for the sake of variety.
She wants a whirlwind of emotions.Keep switching b/w being an asshole and being an honest lover.Being aloof and distant all the time will make her seek attention somewhere else and being always there for her will repulse her
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