The key is not care and cheat more/harder.

Women are like men when it comes to wanting sex... men are slightly hornier, women pickier.

But replace the word "women" from OP's post and put "men" instead and its the same thing.

We (men) would cheat on our loved ones if a woman we find extremely attractive and sexy offers it to us, and assuming there's an opportunity to do so (time, place availability) Heck, the woman doesn't even have to be someone we find extremely attractive... she just have to get our dick hard enough. Women are slightly pickier.

Absolutely nothing will stop a woman from cheating, not even the most religious women in the most morally strict society. Even the threat of being brutally tortured and executed, and then having the big daddy alpha in the sky casting her soul to burn in the hottest fires of hell for all eternity is not enough to stop a woman from remorselessly cheating on her husband for a taste of alpha cock just once. Hypergamy is a much more powerful force controlling a woman's mind than any patriarchal religion.

Would not our polygamy force us to cheat same way?

Apparently a big movement of dudes are such pussies they don't care if their girl fucks other dudes. What the fuck is going on now?!? I will never understand this new world we live in.

This post makes me upset because you dont yet understand the true nature of statistics lol.

Women you've schnobbed treating their other men like shit only strengthens your own confirmation bias. When you get shot down by a girl with a boyfriend/husband, do you think "Wow add one checkmark to the 'not a total whore' column". No, you think "fuckin bitch, she woulda cheated if my game was tighter/I was hotter". Cant you see- every single experience you have gets run through this emotional filter and twisted to fit an existing narrative? Christ you say women are the emotional ones, based on TRP sometimes I think it's the opposite with all the illogical emotional screeching.

Love that post.

Also love the top comment....

Proverbs 30:20 - "This is the way of an adulterous woman; she eats, and wipes her mouth, and says, I have done no wickedness"

Dudes had this shit figured out 2000 years ago

It's just human nature science. Nothing to take personally. Thanks for the reminder OP, great post.

In her mind, she did nothing wrong

Women always rationalise their own behaviour to be men's fault. "I cheated because I wasn't being satisfied at home by my neglectful husband" [who works night and day to support his family.... but that's conveniently forgotten about].

These women don't hate their husbands like Hollywood tells us. They consider them "best friends".

Such is the life of a man when beta dating. Friends. Except the friendship only goes one way, and it's the same direction the money is going.

2 years and it finally doesnt upset me at all. Contradictory, a dmall smirk cones to my face when I read such topics now.

Now the more important question: Where do I meet these kind of women? Examples from your life you could share?

''1 Do not get married 2 You can't expect fidelity from a woman, it's just your turn, act accordingly. 3 if this post makes you upset then you don't yet understand the true nature of women.''

I agree especially with this part...a lot of dummies here think that if they have high smv value and alpha enough their wife will not cheat on them, because they will be scared to lose a high value guy...Man how pathetic they are...trying to convince us with their bs..

I still remember a friend of mine which is short, ugly as hell and never lifted in his life plus he had no money and yet pounded a girl which was in a relationship with a chad like looking guy...That guy was the center of attention everywhere ho goes due to his look and high smv yet somehow his girlfriend cheated on him with a guy with extremely low smv without a reason..

I don’t get how shit like this that people should’ve read in the sidebar gets so much attention.

It's the hypergamy mindset of "I can do better" or that's how I perceive it, it goes both ways but I feel like it's more prevalent with females as they seek a better 'provider'.

And this is why monogamy is for the birds :)

What I have learnt is that is better to don’t think or be worry about infidelity. If you think too much in that you are going to become crazy, jealous and everything else. Cheating is not the ultimate feeling, you could feel like crap. I have done it too. You only can control yourself and your behavior. What do you really want to accomplish? Work on that path and try to don’t hurt anyone else. It could fuck your whole life.

Perhaps I've read too much here, but your post is comforting to me.

I wish the MGTOW term could be separated into those who are incels and those who are not. I would be in that second category. I have no desire to have a cohabitating female. I take care of my own shit. I have no desire to negotiate on where to go on vacation, what to do with my time, the works. Come over, have some dinner, bang, even sleep over, I like a female in my bed.....but get the fuck out tomorrow morning, I have work to do.

The idea that there are females available who will not betray me is good to know. I don't fucking ask questions, I don't want to know and I don't care. I just don't want a confrontation with an angry boyfriend/husband.

Hold up. You say don't get married presumably to avoid getting cheated on. Well.. what if you both cheat on each other? I suppose you might call that an "open marriage." But I mean closed, in the sense of not talking about new encounters or allowing other mates back into our home or personal lives. There's still the benefit of "looking married" and having someone in particular to depend on

A lot of the married women you reference probably have husbands that also cheat right under their nose

Just fuck em' right and you won't have this problem. You can manipulate loyalty out of women.

Just read The Sex God Method. Daniel isn't kidding when he says if you fill all her sexual needs she'll have no need to get it anywhere else. If you haven't witnessed this first hand go back and read the book and try again because you're doing it wrong.

AWALT - in that they ALL HAVE The capacity to cheat. Although all you need is genitals and monogamy to have cheating be possible...so to be frank I'll never understand how any of you thought this was some ground breaking revelation. There was literally never any scripture stating women could never cheat.

Women end up cheating because these dipshit men aren't controlling the aspects of their lives that allow them to cheat.

All you have to to do is own her world. Manipulate her life so that her life involves taking care of your shit. Then fuck her the best she's ever had. It's simple but it's not easy.

Eventually she won't understand a world without you or your cock. Same process as instilling the fear of God in her. She'll be too scared to astray. It's a different ball game when you've set it up so her life depends on you. Girls know who they can cheat and who won't tolerate it.

"Well you just don't understand the nature of women".

Well actually with enough understanding and power you can control this nature. Don't worry guys I've had women tell their boyfriends goodnight on the phone while I'm behind them. I've seen it myself.

Loyalty exists but it needs to be trained. Bonus points on the phone - pay for it. Then it's really hard to argue why you shouldn't look at her fucking phone.

There are spectrums to this shit and you guys always sit on the extreme end and ruin the fun for yourselves. Every woman has the capacity to be a sex crazed cheating whore. Having the capacity doesn't necessarily make it the case.

it's just your turn, act accordingly.

I depart from this. I think cheating is wrong, and just because someone is willing to cheat with me does not make it ethically ok for me to do so. Someone else's lack of ethics does not impact my ethics.

I found out my gf, who was also my fiancé, cheated on me starting one month into our 2 year relationship. With 6 guys. I’ve talked about it here before but this seems like the perfect place to mention it again to remind people.

SIX guys. 5/6 were ugly as hell and/or losers. She made a sex tape, while blackout drunk (she claims), with a pretty obese guy with no job. She said he was nice to him when she was blacked out, even though they weren’t friends.

The day after I met her parents, she went out with friends. And met a guy and fucked him multiple times, on multiple days. She sent nudes to him through Snapchat.

Yes, I broke up with her but it was a terrible thing to go through

Gold.

"In her mind, she did nothing wrong." -endorsed by experience.

She won't act guilty. She won't feel bad. In her mind, she did nothing wrong.

So true, not one fuck will be given that day, other than the hot fuq she is giving Mister Tingles, but that darn hamster will betray them too. Let's review of extremely obvious shit I have either personally witnessed to heard about in the last couple decades.

• A dead bedroom that suddenly turned into a scene out of Caligula for no apparently reason other than the "she really does want your D" fairy descended from Heaven put a spell on her. Yeah, no, she wanted another D but wanted to practice being a slut first, so she wouldn't disappoint him.

• The magical eruption of used pregnancy tests and their packaging, often carelessly tossed on top of the trash bin, despite not participating in sex with this woman in months. (I've heard of this one so many times from so many men it makes my gut turn, but here was my favorite instance.). When asked about it, she says, "her period has been irregular lately and taking the test tricks it back on schedule." That or she's a whore that is worried the foreign semen injections might have consequences.

• The box of condoms that falls out of her purse. "Uh, we don't use condoms." "Oh, well, just in case we do."

• She goes from homebody with hobbies and comfort behaviors to spending long nights out with friends you have never met. Legal Cohabiting Female went so far as to find a sex-hookup group and claimed it was just a coffee club where they talked about literature; no, you stupid twat, I know the groups founder personally. We spit-roasted one of the group members together a year before. LCF was probably a little confused why she never had any luck in the group, which was hilarious because she wasn't just trying to cheat on me, but the guy she was fucking on the side already.

• Obsessive explaining of detail that seem completely irrelevant. I have a lot of examples of this, but here is my absolute favorite, since I think it illustrates my final point the best. I watched this cuckold (literally) drama from the outside, courtesy of LCF, who was also amazed at how far this went. She had a friend, some pasty white mick, that was married to a manlet filipino BB, though he wasn't particularly good at the wallet providing duties. She was fucking a giant black guy on the side for years. Sure as shit, she gets pregnant and there is no mistaking the father with kid. Despite half the universe knowing she's a cheating whore, including neighbors, family and friends, she just can't tell her husband. So instead she goes on a gas lighting campaign that would make 1900s London look pitch-black. So far it has worked, but I doubt there is another man out there that has put up with as much "daddy this, daddy that, daddies little boy, daddy daddy daddy!" shit as he has.

• She announces vacations to places she has never mentioned before and she wants to go alone. "Atlanta? You fucking hate the south, why the hell do you want to go there?" Answer: penis.

• She makes a medical appointments without any apparent medical reason and any explanation. I've seen this one pretty far and wide as well, but when women go on whoring rampages, they need often need some medical backup. I can list off dozens of women (including LCF) that I was fucking and/or were fucking around behind someone's back that went to obgyn not just for various birth control, but for things like antibiotics to deal with recurring UTIs caused by frequent sex and, of course, a fan favorite--valtrex. This is so they can keep their sores in check while they plan to suckle on cocks for hours on end. I had one mistress that would pop a Macrobid down the gullet after sex every single time, because if she didn't she would get a UTI from me (we were pretty dirty little piggies). Imagine my surprise and the joy in my heart when I found bottle of it in LCF's drug cabinet.

• She suddenly hides her dealings on her phone. Now, some women do this all the time anyway, so don't over read it. It's change that sends the signal.

So, really, what's the problem here? Are women super secret penis spies that live undiscovered in a shadowy fuck-whore world that is completely hidden from us? Or are men just fucking retarded?

Men are just fucking retarded. If she is cheating on you, she's already been caught; it's willful ignorance that keeps the relationship afloat. The vaginal machines and their powers of oneitus conspire with the Male Ennui Hamster that wants nothing more than to not lift a finger to keep a female in his pen. They blind men to slutty behavior even when she's screaming Please Break Up With Me while walking funny from the three-holing she took from some other guy a couple hours ago.

What I've seen is PRECISELY the opposite.
Maybe you've been with women that have been doing it for a while. I don't know.

The cheaters I met, including an ex, always told somehow, through very cliche give aways. Asked about the whereabouts, random "are you upset/mad with me?", trickle truth or "my friend..." to test the waters.
Not to account for the fact people suck at lying. The natural strategy is to add details to make it more trustworthy while in practice it makes it less likely.

I'm pretty sure women will eventually get the knack of it, or their red flag behavior will eventually be identified as their natural behavior ("naturally flirty" is a line I love and just heard. Nope, you're not naturally flirty, you're EASY AS FUCK and as you're trying to get a better guy to drive you to cheat) by their partners. But for a good while, she'll let you know somehow.

It ain't cheatin' if you're platin' as Billy the Chad hillbilly would say

I've been thinking as of late it's better for your image to cheat, on the chance she is aswell; opposed to finding out she was and being that guy socially.

It's kinda a big mindfuck at first, because women will try their utmost to convince you they're not like that, and you can absolutely expect fidelity from HER. Eyes sparkling and all, she really 100% believes it about herself. Of course the very next day she might wake up, feeeeeel different and it's all gone out of the window.

The fog lifts when you take the red pill and realize she's just saying what she needs to say in the moment to get what she wants: more commitment. Once she gets it & you're more invested, anything she said to get it is a moot point nobody remembers/cares about. Women are not accountable for any promise they make in the sexual arena. When she breaks it, there won't be the slightest reprimand facing her socially, in fact she will be told "you go gurl, he sounds abusive trying to hold you to your word like that, he deserved it".

My ex wife used to hamster that because I'd look at porn, she was justified to fuck other men. Yes that makes me a cuck. AWALT.

Worst of all she'd say "I'm going to cheat on you" when angry. I thought she was just angry ...

Lessons learned:

• Women will find any excuse to fuck other men
• Two sides of the same coin: Never tolerate disrespect / if she disrespects you then she's already primed to cheat (or is).
• In the near future she'll be fucking the best she can get. Best be you, get to work (on yourself).
• The vast majority of men out there will not "respect" your LTR or marriage. Compete or lose. I don't care if they're your sibling, best friend, employer, her long time friend from before the relationship, if they're religious etc. Any and all of them are looking for their turn. It's your turn now, it will be someone else's real soon. Invest/plan accordingly.
• when you invest in yourself, you get something you have a chance of keeping. When you invest in a woman you will lose.

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My ex wife was a chronic cheater, and I was young and dumb and kept taking her back, believing her tears and cries that she had changed. Eventually left with some guy she was banging (take a little comfort in knowing she did it to him too about 2 years later and tried running back to me). There was one time she went to "run errands" and we had sex when she got home and she felt different - like I could tell she'd already fucked that day. I brought it up and she threw this Oscar-worthy performance, running to the bathroom in tears, pulling out cranberry pills, throwing them at me and saying I wouldn't understand having a yeast infection, then crumbling to the floor in tears. I felt terrible, but I decided to keep investigating. Got hard evidence about 2 weeks later. That was the first time of 4 times I knew for a fact it happened (suspected at least 4 other times, but couldn't get the drop on her).

So my next gf I just KNEW was different, and I absolutely believe she was faithful... For about the first 3.5 years. Then, like all women, she got bored, and we were going through a rough patch (which will always make them significantly more inclined to hop on another dick - "you asked for it, asshole! You basically ran me into his arms!" Her friends and family will also encourage this sentiment as she gradually starts dragging your name through the mud so she won't look like a whore, but rather "strong, and brave!").

One night her "girlfriends" took her out to the bar for her birthday, and she was only going to be there until 10 or 11. I now realize this is how she got me to consent to letting her go out alone; she knew if she just made it look like a couple birthday beers with the girls, and she'd be home right around bedtime, I'd feel comfortable letting her go alone. I fall asleep around 10, knowing she'll be home any minute now, wake up and it's 3 am, so I call and am like where tf are you, are you okay?! She says her friends got her too drunk so she was going to stay outside and sober up. I offered to come pick her up and she refused, because "she didn't want me to be tired in the morning".... Finally gets home somewhere around 5:45/6 that morning. No affection, no apology, kept her distance. So you're telling me a 110lb blonde girl loitered outside of a closed bar for at least 4 hours in the middle of the fucking night, and no one gave you trouble, and no cop drove by and wondered what in the flying fuck was going on???? C'mon! She was smarter than my ex wife, so I was never able to get hard evidence on her, but I know that where there's smoke there's fire, even if you can't quite locate it. She ended up breaking it off about 6 months later because she wanted to be "independent for awhile"... You don't end a 4.5 year relationship where you're already talking about marriage and kids to "be single"... You do it because you decided to ride the cock carousel.

To get over her I've banged girls with boyfriends, fiances who were engaged to be married in a couple weeks, girls with young kids that were fresh out of dumping their baby's father... You name it. Each one talking shit about the man they're with. Partly, like I said - to get over her. But mainly to collect data and prove to myself I wasn't fucking imagining things - I had only been on the receiving end, so maybe I was a piece of shit like they said, and women were loyal if I didn't suck as bad as I apparently did? Surely that was the case, since that's what both LTRs insisted upon... Nevertheless, all data I collected shows that it's a cold hard fact that absolutely AWALT and they'll gladly spread their legs for some fresh cock at the drop of a hat. Shocking, I know. I'm sure all of them went back home to their man and told him how much of a piece of shit he was after I railed their pussies until they were cumming all over me. Maybe even fucked him and got off on the fact she banged 2 guys in one day. But I bet he wasn't smart enough to bring up the fact that she felt different...

Stay vigilant, gentlemen. They will ALL eventually do it to you too.

I found out 3 1/5 years plus 9 months to find out the child i loved and adored wasnt mine. My only suggestion to guys with kids is get a DNA test if your ever unsure and never ever tell her you have it.

I can honestly say that my girlfriend, whom I'm going to marry, isn't like this. Just by a woman's actions in times of stress, you can figure out if or not she's worth your time. I'll be brief.

I imported mine, from Canada. She isn't concerned about social media, to include facebook, instagram, ect. She snapchats like 4 of her friends from college and financially supported us while I wasn't working this summer. All of the chores are taken care of, except cooking which I do because I'm better than her at it. We have discussions that are thought provoking and pivotal to develop us as a couple. I would argue around 99% of women exhibit this behavior that you speak of.

In other words, if you want long term, find one who has enough emotional maturity who doesn't display red flags. This is an easy process.