Summary: Women really cannot be trusted to remain loyal and decent on their own without a man to guide them. If she's out of your sight, she's (consciously or subconsciously) looking for the next alpha male to swing to. Keep that shit in check from the beginning if you desire a LTR/marriage.
Ah, the Relationships subreddit. I bet if it were possible they'd sell the sub to Disney because of how utterly vapid, naive and idealistic the commenters on it are. Which makes sense, because it's also a feminist-infested place that constantly tries to paint the woman in a good light while treating the man like shit. Every single thread. Not even kidding.
Today's bluepill example comes from a man who let his wife go on a vacation alone... then found out she was getting nude at the beach and hanging out with her rack out. He gets two pictures from an unknown phone number, the first of his wife's boobs and the second of her ass.
She's been there almost a week now and the trip is almost over. We haven't been able to talk much because of the international phone calling fees are so high. We haven't been having any problems lately or since she left.
I got a text from a number I didn't recognize 3 hours ago. There was a smiley face, no other text and an attached picture. The picture is of my wife and her BF standing next to each other on a beach 100% nude. There are 2 other people out in the water, but nobody else is in the picture.
It doesn't seem sexual. They are standing side by side with an arm going behind each other's back. They are both holding their other arm in the air. Their mouths are open and it seems they are lauging or yelling Wooo.
I've responded to the text a few times, but I keep getting a message failure notification. I don't know WTF is going on. My wife knows I'm not uptight about nudity, but we don't have the kind of relationship where we go off and get naked with friends and family. I don't to newsstand who would be sending this either. I have good relationships with everybody involved.
Anytime that we've ever been nude in a place where other people could be around, we are always very careful to watch out for cameras. She works with kids and could lose her job over pictures like that. None of this makes and sense.
Yep, this married woman is swinging her titties for all the world to see at a beach, without her husband's knowledge or permission. Somebody's clearly taking photos here and getting sexual thrill from them and it's a public beach so there are probably a bunch of horny dudes around. Oh, and the wife hasn't bothered to even talk to her own husband via so much as email the entire week, and won't pick up her phone.
Something stinks, right? Hark! Here come the white knight commenters to the rescue, hamstering a billion reasons why this behavior is okay and why the husband is a shitlord:
Why is this so strange? Maybe she went to a nude beach. Seems like something you would do for fun with a bunch of girlfriends. As for the strange number, there are some texting apps or services you can sign up for where you can get a temporary number. I think you are worried too much. Wait until she gets reception again and let her explain. Do you think there's cheating involved? I don't see a nude pic on the beach as something to worry about unless you think there was another man involved.
Dude. She's running around naked in a public place and there are probably a bunch of guys getting their rocks off to watching her. And someone is clearly taking sexy photoshots of her. But okay, keep believing in your fairytale of innocence.
I'd chill. Seems like a "girlfriends being silly" kind of thing. Since you can't get hold of her via text, send her an email, yo. Those don't auto-fail if her phone is down. Now here's the key... don't freak out. Compliment her on how gorgeous she is in the picture. Don't do anything else remotely. When she gets back, bring it up casually, and tell her that you want to keep that glorious bounty all for yourself. See what she says. Likely she'll tell you "silly girl thing" as above, and you can sleep quiet.
"Just ask her, and if she says everything's okay that means it's okay. Women never lie! Also, be sure to give her lots of compliments and validation!" Yes, this is how feminist actually believe a relationship argument can be solved. With the guy bending over and abandoning his dignity.
Your wife and her bff were probably drunk and just living in the moment. From the contents of the picture, it doesn't sound like anything untoward is up. Just chill! You've admitted it doesn't look sexual! So why are you freaking out?
And it's so odd how much you focus on the strange number sending you the pic (obviously someone else took It...) and the fact that people on a beach don't have great cell service, like she's been kidnapped or something.
It seems to me you're a bit bummed and bored without your wife and just latched onto this as something to obsess about. If you REALLY want your wife to enjoy her vacation, then just chill for now and bring it up next time you talk. Obsessively calling and texting her is only going to make her feel guilty for something that you yourself have admitted looks to be innocent.
"You're the real villain here, shitlord! You need to be accepting of your wife's open sexuality and her desire to show her goods to the entire world! Stop oppressing her!"
The denial is unreal. And folks, this is not abnormal for bluepill society, this is the shit they actually believe. Society puts women on pedestals and default assumes women can do no wrong. It's an anti-male world out there.
At the RedPill we know a little better. If your gut instinct tells you something is wrong, FOLLOW YOUR GUT INSTINCT. Don't listen to some fat neckbeard online preaching about sexual acceptance and open-mindedness. Retain your god-damned dignity and do something when your girlfriend/wife/whatever shames herself in public. Lay down the fucking law.
Because if she gets away with things like this, the branch swinging tendency will only grow deeper and deeper until one day you wake up to find the divorce papers and a cup of coffee on the dining room table.
TL;DR: OP on relationships subreddit finds out his wife is posing nude on the beach. Commenters browbeat him and say it's his fault for not being accepting and that's she's "just having some fun". Don't get advice from bluepillers. Control your woman, otherwise you are the definition of a cuck.
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ESVF 7y ago
And this is why Redpill will never be taken seriously! Look at all the damn upvotes this post got... Alarming!!!
supremelummox 7y ago
The update on the thread explained it all and there was not much wrong with the wife's behavior.
DrMrPepper 7y ago
I have lived abroad for years.
If you are in ANY kind of civilized country, they have wifi.
Bum fuck Southeast Asia had wifi.
If they have wifi, there is no excuse not to call. Skype is free when calling another Skype number and cheap as hell if you aren't.
The guy is rationalizing his worries away. Or at least trying to.
BluntMFer 7y ago
/u/Imflippinoutwtf you so stupid
scarfox1 7y ago
I don't see shitlord comment
polu85 7y ago
How is this a big deal?? So she's naked at a beach...and? I highly highly doubt she is cheating on him while HIS best friend is there, her sister, etc.
If she's cheating, dump her. If not, then don't get upset at a woman for acting like a silly woman. They will always do dumb shit.
Do you think a guy like Brad Pitt cares that people see his wife's tits? Of course not, he knows his place and if she crosses a line it's over. If she doesn't cross a line it's not worth getting angry over.
TheAntiZealot 7y ago
Ok but you still have to referee the line or you won't know if it ever got crossed. That's why the cuck is reporting to relationshits for guidance. He doesn't know how to call the play.
Vajesticles 7y ago
I'm so happy I eventually realized how cancerous the relationshits subreddit was when I was going through my own drama.
For months I browsed and read that subreddit religiously thinking it would make me feel better when it was only making me feel worse.
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This is obviously home culture specific. If a woman from the US does this, then it means something different than a woman from a culture where public nudity is more common. I guess it goes to show my acculturation to the US that I don't see the point of going to a beach and getting naked around a bunch of strangers.
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I like that he complained about high cost international phone calls in an age of free VoIP soultions.
prodigy2throw 7y ago
The relationships sub is outrage porn. Don't waste too much time on analyzing that shit show
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Fucker is going to be Darwinism'd because his genes won't pass on. He will raise another man's child while being told by the bitch and the state that it's legally his.
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woahyoungster345654 7y ago
Well I was just like you couple of years ago, I read the sidebar and other stuff and it really seemed like bunch of angry bitter virgins, I made my fair share of jokes on the redpillers, calling them out on how they don't get laid and they're bitter and envious...etc
But once I graduated highschool and went to college I started to think that what they're saying here might have some truth, I noticed that women go after guys with status, women go out with guys who are respected more often they do with men who are weak, men with confidence and who get respect from their colleagues, Not necessarily " Alpha Maleâ„¢ " who are typically rude,loud...etc, but men who won't be bitches and act like a real man would do, you can be the nicest guy in the world and still get pussy, more so I think you would get more pussy if you're nice. Nice but not weak or a doormat.
The problem with OP's post is not the fact that she got naked, or got some creepy guys looking at her, it's the fact that she won't answer his calls/emails for a week, and the fact that he got nudes of his wife from a strange number with a smug smiley face, if that is not extremely fishy then I don't know what is. If you were that man what would you do ? the best course of action is obviously is calling your wife and asking for an explanation of what the hell is going on, but she won't return his calls, she shows him 0 respect and apparently she will get away with it, meaning she will do that again and again in the future as she knows there are no consequences for disrespecting her husband.
I'm not saying you have to be a douche jealous guido asshole in order to be a redpiller, I'm telling you you have to hold your ground , have some self worth and do not let anybody disrespect you, because women naturally seek protection, and if sees that her man can't even protect himself, how is he going to protect her?
You don't have to Neg to be a redpiller ( I personally don't even like that tactic) you don't have to give intimidate everyone and assert your dominance to be a redpiller, I'm a pretty nice guy myself and I don't expect anything in return, that's who I am, you don't have to change who you are, but you will have to change how you see the world, everything will start making sense when you see how the relationship world works.
zue3 7y ago
Hey man I'm going on a European holiday soon and I wouldn't mind taking your gf out and showing her the nude beaches. Just pack her bags and book her tickets and I'll show her a grand old time.
Don't worry, I'll send you pics of all the fun we have on the beaches. Just don't bother contacting us since that would just get in the way.
Looking forward to hearing from you.
P. S. Could you pm a few pictures of her first. I'd like to make sure she's not fat or ugly. Make sure she's nude in the pics too. Thanks.
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You think red pill theory is wrong, yet you try to insult men by calling them betas.
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__ZEAL__ 7y ago
Yeah, because we should totally trust the words of someone dumb enough to get addicted to opiates. Get outta here.
zue3 7y ago
It's always funny how these idiots try to throw around so called trp "buzzwords" like alpha, beta, shit test, etc to make it seem like they've actually browsed the sub. The context that they use the words in is always some contrived bullshit seen through their tunnel vision and anyone actually RP can see through it with ease.
Fucking sad that they think anyone even gives a shit about their crybaby nonsense.
MakeEmSayAyy 7y ago
This is bad now, but as I said in one of my previous comments, this is self correcting. Nature doesn't fuck around.
The gene to be susceptible to women's bullshit and society's brainwashing is going to correlate with not getting to reproduce very heavily.
And soon men will be resistent to women's shit.
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The problem isn't genetic. It's social conditioning causing the current conditions, hypergamy is rewarded instead of controlled nowadays which is leading to men who have successful genes of the past being considered unattractive by lower-grade women. A 5 thinks she deserves an 8 nowadays, and for her to date a man that is a 5 she considers herself 'settling' and will never be happy. Back in the day a female 5 was happy with a male 5 because the male would protect her and give her resources, nowadays women have access to resources on their own due to the abundance prior generations of men have built up and the women over-inflate what they are worth. And they are worth jack-shit the way they act these days, unable to cook, unable to clean, wanting the father to rear the children as well as work a full-time job, the average woman today barely resembles the feminine ladies of the past.
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NikoMyshkin 7y ago
this guy gets it. they condition men from birth to be slaves to women
muuh-gnu 7y ago
So men who are intelligent and strong enough to see through the bullshit will pass their genes, the weaklings who bow down will be mercilessly weeded out of the gene pool.
Out job here is to get better at the game of life, we're not here to protect the betas and the weaklings from Charles Darwin.
MakeEmSayAyy 7y ago
i guess, but at some level some people ARE more likely to be open to the redpill. it will come down to how your brain can handle brainwashing if the information is available to you?
men who cannot accept "happy lies" will be the ones passing on their genes. depressed realists will probably become more common as a result.
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I was one of these guys. Social upbringing told me X, but back of my head knew something was wrong. Mid-20's and was still a virgin (fixed this last fall quicker than expected thx TRP) yet doing what everyone said my whole life to get a girl literally got zero result. I always knew something was wrong just couldn't point it out. This is why the Matrix is used as an analogy so much. Once I stumbled upon TRP my curiosity was peaked, I took The Red Pill, and my eyes have been opened.
I actually think a fairly large number of the male population would take to TRP if exposed to it. Most guys simply never hear of it or literally hear the letters Tee-Ar-Pee and think nothing of it and continue on their business. Right now it's too dangerous to be public about TRP, so it's not our job to expose a large amount of the male populace to TRP. It's our job to improve ourselves and our own lot in life. Continue adding to the knowledgebase with cumulative experience of all members and keep building to the core theories discussed here.
TheAntiZealot 7y ago
I had to leave a 8.5 year relationship and a 3 year marriage before I finally got laid last fall. So yea... I got feels for ya, man. :P
Good on you.
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broken26 7y ago
Thought I would expect more logic here.
I'm from a European country where nudity literally means nothing. Saunas aren't considered sexual where both parties female and male friends and family all go in naked.
In the U.S. this is taboo, but in Europe its the human body. Everyone's who is a guy has a dick, everyone who is a woman has tits. Europe everyone is desensitized to it. So if this woman is at a nude beach its fucking normal. The only problem here is the husband is BP in getting angry over it when he should just go DREAD and not care; and the stalker sending nudes about the wife when the husband doesn't know the dude.
yendorion 7y ago
You cannot state that for whole Europe, the subject of nudity is actually a very delicate to taboo issue in most of southern/eastern Europe even more than the US. It's even starting to come in question in otherwise more 'liberated' parts of Europe.
Source: I'm southern European.
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yendorion 7y ago
I'm one who grew up & still preach this mantra. It's infuriating to look around & see we have actually regressed rather in such matters.
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yendorion 7y ago
Fuck you have no idea what you talking about dog. What are you on?
redpillbanana 7y ago
Fake alert. Was this shit written in 1990?
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irwin1003 7y ago
Skype exists. Email exists. They can get in touch
BluepillProfessor 7y ago
Grounds for a next but grounds for divorce? I would say not necessarily in every case.
Grounds for a massive loss of trust with serious consequences? Count on it.
Not returning calls? If my wife pulled this and I saw a nude pic posted I would leave ONE message and a few texts. I would try to contact her friends (usually a good idea to have more than 1 number). After that, I may wait a day at most. Then I would go get her- fully expecting to catch her in the act.
TLDR: Dudes wife is gobbling strange sausage.
vandaalen 7y ago
For a German it sounds pretty ridiculous to connect being nude at the beach with sexuality and frankly said your American puritanism amuses me.
It reads to me as it would read to you, when it would be about a Taliban getting pumped about his wife not getting permission to take off her burka in her holidays.
That really tops it off and gives me cringes. Not only does it show insecuirity, but it also shows illusion.
You cannot control another person. You can only control yourself. Control per sé is an illusion. There is none. There are chances and odds, nothing more.
el_beso_negro 7y ago
Thank you for providing the most slutty DTF bitches on the planet. Yep your women folk sure do help me better my notch count.
Good news is these gals will go back home and marry your cousin, best friend, neighbor.
I get to pump & dump. Cheers.
vandaalen 7y ago
No. You misunderstood. I am not from the US.
el_beso_negro 7y ago
Tomatoe, tomahto...gringas all the same to me
PaulAJK 7y ago
Yeah, that's fair enough, but the guy in the thread obviously is American, and public nudity isn't common amongst Americans like it is among central Europeans. A naked German woman on a beach doesn't mean it's it likely she's cheating, whereas in the States it's different.
ben0wn4g3 7y ago
Yeah the naked thing...who cares. But the messages is the problem here.
MakeEmSayAyy 7y ago
ok but a ton of the people responding think he's an American and read it like us, absolutely connecting nude beach and sexuality.
Sub is super cucked.
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I've been to nude saunas in Germany with my LTR before. Fair enough. Her going on her own with other blokes is totally out of the question, though. And don't forget in this story the wife has switched off her phone.
Tallsmarthandsome 7y ago
Your country just became a colony in the caliphate
DoobieEx 7y ago
In our culture nudity is sexual. She knows this. Right or wrong, it is what it is. So, with her knowing this why would she be nude in public without him being there at least?
WeedDaddy 7y ago
Germany is merely a feminized society. Men have nothing to gain from women parading around nude. But women can use it as an "innocent" way of disrespecting their father or husband.
vandaalen 7y ago
While the first words of your sentence are true, the rest is pathetic. The so called "Freikörperkultur" (roughly translates to naked body culture) is not something new and has never been about sex or showing anything off. If you'd ever been to one of those beaches or camping areas and had seen the saggy meat, you'd also know.
It's connected to the sauna culture. If you'd go into the sauna wearing anything else than a towel, you'd be friendly told to leave. Yet sauna visits do not frequently end in gang bangs.
I for example will also frequently ride my bike to a semi-legal beach at the Rhine and I solely go there to let my schlong get some sun are bath it in the river.
You should try that too. It will help you with your American puritanism.
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I have a European wife and she wouldn't think of being nude in public. I've been to European beaches, the only women going nude were single mothers, I wonder why.
Except I don't wonder. AWALT, regardless of country. Your libertine cover is about as transparent as r relationships'.
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sqerl 7y ago
While I agree, context is important. Having been on a European vacation where nudity and toplessness was the norm, it was sexless. Meaning, i saw naked women (and men), without it having any sexual connotation.
However, it becomes sexual when some dude hits on a woman (your wife/gf/SO). This is where the context changes and where behaviour changes. Now the situation goes from "being naked on the beach" to "naked in a sexual situation" and where the slippery slope begins.
Case in point, my ex went in vacation by herself. Bought the tiniest bikinis imaginable. I too received pictures of her on the beach, having fun. Was told some guy came up to her and said, "I just HAD to introduce myself..." why? Because she was nearly naked, that's why. He took the pics, she spent nearly the entire day with him, and when pressed for specifics, I was told "if you wanted to know exactly what happened, you should have been there." That's the moment she was "nexted".
Look, I get it. We should be able to trust our SO and not have jealousy and let our wonderful women do whatever they want. Sure sounds like a perfect world - to women. Men need to establish boundries and standards then uphold those standards. If they're disrespected, walk away. But don't disrespect other men that want some level of comfort knowing their woman isn't a cheating whore. Men should assume AWALT so as not to have their expectations shattered.
Agreed. The expression of human sexuality and it's acceptance is a complex dynamic. It's difficult to bridge the gap between social conditioning and our lizard brains. Wanting emotional security is the tripping point behind many of the control issues we see. Control your own emotions to see the expressions in others. Then learn to influence your environment to get the results you want.
vandaalen 7y ago
The problem started much much earlier. The moment your woman wants to go on vacation without you is the moment to overthink your relationship.
sqerl 7y ago
Absolutely. That was a tough lesson to learn. I only wish I had found TRP years ago. It's the only place I've found that discusses this shit.
StManTiS 7y ago
Maybe he just wants to be rid of her shit for a couple weeks? And then sent her. Nah probably not, OP wouldn't have the balls.
__ZEAL__ 7y ago
The only control there is, is being a great enough man that they wouldn't do stuff like this and risk losing you. That's about it.
deathbear 7y ago
This and the comment above, gives me hope, yes that lady is dumb AF, but u can control yourself to move on and make sure shit like that doesn't happen again.
Grimsterr 7y ago
To a German, though, this is simply "a picture of my wife at the beach having fun with her friends" and nothing more.
TheAntiZealot 7y ago
Is she German? Is her man German? Are they living in Germany?
muuh-gnu 7y ago
Germans are the masters of cuckoldry, and youre dying out. Your women are eagerly importing millions of muslims and niggers to replace you.
So whatever you think this "sexuality" thing is, youre doing it wrong, and youre not in a position to look down upon people who do place more restrictions on it than you.
Get your cucked country back to a replacement level birthrate, then we can talk.
vandaalen 7y ago
Said the guy who is living in a second world country.
el_beso_negro 7y ago
2nd world country with a replacement rate
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marianasentmenudes 7y ago
Lol. Have an LTR and let her be nude at nude beach then. Come back with your findings.
vandaalen 7y ago
What do you expect to happen?
marianasentmenudes 7y ago
Well shit AWALT. They're nude at a fucking beach. You think guys go to nude beaches for no reason?
vandaalen 7y ago
No. We go there to hang our schlong in the sun and dip our balls into the water.
Do you get a boner from this or this or this (All three obviously NSFW in your country)?
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Fuck it I'm an American puritan then.
If my wife is naked on a beach without me - we're getting divorced - at minimum there are HUGE FUCKING TROUBLES happening.
Period end of story.
Either she respects me or she doesn't.
I'm not seeking to control her, but I'm not going to live with and be married to someone who thinks this is OK. That's just my value.
I was a bartender on a resort island for a number of years - do you know how many German and German-Swiss women I saw come to the United States and get their brains fucked out on the beach? So so many bro. I should know I fucked my share of European tourist ladies and they weren't always single.
"Nude Culture" is totally sexual. Every nude beach I ever saw ALWAYS had a group of regulars who were into group sex and polyamory. EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. They might not be getting down right then and there in the daylight hours - but you can bet your life on the fact that social meeting place was a conduit to the orgy parties happening that you don't see out in the open.
Whenever I see the enlightened pretense put on permissive behavior - it's always bullshit. You can't call it out directly because you'll tsk-tsk'd by people such as yourself claiming it to be something completely cool and innocent - but it's never totally cool and innocent.
A woman frolicking naked on a beach in a foreign country is looking to get fucked.
HELLO? BUELLER? BUELLER? IS THIS THING ON?
vandaalen 7y ago
As I already said: It would be a reason for divorce for me as well if my wife chose to take off her burka in public.
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LOL comparing being naked to not wearing a burqa OK bro.
Enjoy your cucking.
vandaalen 7y ago
Really? 4chan-style? C'mon.
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Women are mostly all the same. Hypergamy is always going to be a thing and in a ultra-permissive situation with little or no boundaries it's going to run wild.
A wise man once told me that respect is something you give yourself. You establish with the people in your life what you will and will not tolerate and then it's up to them to abide by those boundaries.
If your wife knows that you tolerate her being naked on a beach in a foreign country without you she's probably going to wonder how much she will be able to get away with. Once she starts questioning how much respect she has for you the countdown begins to the time when some other dude's cock begins to probe her various orifices.
My point is if your wife is bouncing nude without you on some tropical beach in some other time zone there's a 99% chance she's only moment away from bouncing on some local player's dick.
My brother went to San Juan, PR recently with a bunch of high rollers on a bachelor party weekend. He saw multiple groups of women there on a "girls weekend" celebrating different things. He said they were all fooling around with dudes all over the hotel - and more than half of them were married - it's was debauchery.
Don't rationalize a nude photo as "nude culture". Women do bad shit when they get shitfaced out of your sight on vacations. That woman got fucked hard all vacation - I'd bet my house on it.
vandaalen 7y ago
You, like everybody who replied to my comment, missed my point, because you interpreted something into it, I didn't actually say. I won't deny fueling it a little bit though.
First off: I never had a wife and unless hell freezes, I also never will.
Second off: You are of course completely right with what you are saying if you apply it to OPs situation.
However that's got nothing to do with the situation here in Germany, where going to the nude beach for Germans is nothing to write home about and nobody would ever get suspicious over that. That's why I alway get a good chuckle out of it, once this topic comes up here.
If your wife knows your boundaries and is trying to push them in the way that this happened, you have fucked up a long time ago. If your wife is going on vacation without you, you should be preparing for divorce and not wait for her to send you some nude pictures from the beach.
dingman58 7y ago
You're getting down voted but I agree with you.
Really What's the big deal? She's got her tits out, whoopty-fucking-doo. If y'all are so insecure about her expressing her true self then maybe you shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. You should know how women are, yet you went and tried to put shackles on a wild beast. Wtf did you expect...
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German women get freaky on beaches too bro - probably as much or more than other women. Not buying the oh it means nothing to us stoic Germans line.
I've banged a couple of chicks from Germany - they were freaks. I could only imagine the head games a wicked German blonde would play at the nude beach with male attention.
ChrisBenRoy 7y ago
I wonder if the communication problem due to "international fees and whatnot" is just some bullshit made up by his wife. It's 2016, Verizon has a network all over the entire world, I'm almost positive they can text back and forth unless she's in some remote jungle or something.
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I actually wouldnt have a problem with my LTR getting naked with her BFF, if I was around and ended up fucking her silly later that night, knowing that her "bff" is probably jacking off to the thought of her.
What I actually think is the real problem, is that she left him sick and weak to go have fun. Then she doesnt contact him (wifi+whatsapp) and then gets busted by a 3rd party getting naked at the beach.
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bsutansalt 7y ago
Are you sure? I never saw that part spelled out.
grussvegas 7y ago
I'm used to feminists making excuses for everything women do, but honestly, I did not fucking expect THIS. This is fucking pathological. A guy gets pics of his naked wife from random, unknown to him numbers, and jesus fuck HIS WIFE DOESN'T RESPOND AT ALL TO HIS CALLS, NEITHER DO HER FRIENDS.
I've learned that most cucks like this are just hopeless, so his wife's behaviour doesn't even get me angry, I only cringe every single time I see something like that. But fucking hell, the comments on this post are reeeeeeaally disgusting.
marianasentmenudes 7y ago
Imagine. Those commentors are legitimizing it so bad that anyone could fuck their wives or LTR's and they won't do a single thing about it!
Amazing this kind of behavior is being normalized. A couple of months ago I tried fucking a coworker who's husband was a bit of a cuck. I had other coworkers telling me she liked getting freaky with the guys in produce. Too bad I didn't get inside her pants since my SMV was too low but wow. I can only imagine how easy it would be to fuck someone else's wife in the future if I learn and apply correctly
IronMeltsinmyHands 7y ago
Holy shit! The amount of bullshit bitches throw out is fucking nonsensical.
See the shit for what it is. Anything and everything you hear about bitches or anything that tells you to calm down, don't listen to it.
I mean, women on one hand want to not be called bossy, emotional, or overreacting.
On the other hand, they want to control your emotions like bossy, emotionally manipulative cunts.
Fuck. And don't get fucked.
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That thread got locked and I'm banned from the subreddit for calling one of the people an idiot for an absolutely stupid comment the person made.
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Overzealous_BlackGuy 7y ago
Maybe it's just me and fuck me for having a different opinion, but I don't think this was that serious, assuming one of her female friends took the photo.
The random number part doesn't make anysense unless , like another redditor pointed out, it was a web-text service, which in that case would make sense.
If you go to a nude beach whever everyone is nude and your with family and friends, then be nude. I woud have enough confidence in myself that it wouldn't bother me, but I also know if I'm sick and down, my wife wouldn't be on vacation that I paid for. while I'm at home couging up a lung.
I learned in TRP a long time ago, that if soemone is going to cheat, there isn't anything you can do about it. Don't be ignorant to it, but if theres some solid proof then handle it. otherwise worrying about a cheating partner only makes it worse. I'd send a thumbs up emoji to that same number and keep it pushing, or at the very fucking least say "who's this?"
It's very possible I have a loose view on faithfulness, but to me worrying about this shit never works. I just keep faith in my value and always keep plates spinning even in a relationship. If she gets caught I shift plates until I find another main piece.
drakpanther 7y ago
this is the one of the only RP answer in this whole thread. Tired of puritanical pussies painting their insecurities as red pill.
[deleted] 7y ago
Is it so puritanical to not want your wife wandering around naked in a foreign country without you?
__ZEAL__ 7y ago
One possibility is that it was one of the men that went on the trip with them. He grabbed her phone, took the picture, then decided to send it to the husband showing what little respect his wife has for him. Could be looking out for OP.
I've never been in a relationship with a woman who would okay with me seeing her best friend naked. And I've dated some pretty far out there women(not seriously dated, of course). Even when threesomes happened, anyone that they knew were off the table and it was always a woman that we picked up from a bar.
The whole post just seems sketchy to me. I tried thinking of harmless reasons for it to happen, and nothing really makes sense on the positive side of things(from what context of their relationship was shown). I'm willing to bet one of the guys was trying to warn OP. Like how some guys leave a note under the second part of the toilet seat letting the BF know that his GF is cheating on him.
ChrisBenRoy 7y ago
I think the seeing her best friend naked part is key. I remember a time in my last LTR where my g/f and her friend were getting ready to go out, and were in the bedroom trying to find clothes to wear. They were in there for a DICK YEAR and I needed something out of the room so I walked in, to which my g/f got pissed because they "might have been changing" and I replied "well, it's my house and my room, so get over it."
__ZEAL__ 7y ago
Yep, exactly. They can be pretty fierce about removing any kind of competition. If she was sending her husband pics like that, he's so whipped that she has absolutely no fear of losing him from it.
-888- 7y ago
I'm not a red-piller, but in my experience, if something seems amiss then it probably is. I just can't tell from here if something seems amiss.
HomeHeatingTips 7y ago
What do ya do though? really? Do you divorce her because she went to a nude beach without you? you do "punish" her, cry about it and show how insecure you are about your relationship? Like, other than just moving on with your life with her what do you do?
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[deleted] 7y ago
Aside from her being a grotesque post wall slut, she's apparently a shit for brains too. She's a fucking school teacher doing this shit?! She deserves for that shit to spread like wildfire so she loses her job. She has no business working around children being that negligent. Even for cucked SJW's this would have to be a bridge too far. The fact that she would put their overall income and standard of living in jeopardy by publicly flaunting her nasty, post wall gash, shows what a narcissistic loser this is. He should have the divorce papers drawn and waiting for her on the kitchen counter when she gets home with all her shit packed and situated by the door.
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I made a similar statement on the post about a single mom that cheated on live in boyfriend at a party. Why would she mess with her meal ticket? Didn't she think this through and etc. The response I got:
Human beings do stupid things all the time. She didn't rationalize her actions, she just acted.
No. Women think and act in the moment, based on fleeting emotions that override any sense of logic they might have. Whoever the other guy was, he made her feel good and wanted and valued and horny, so she went for it despite it risking the entire basis for the material existence of her and her children.
Of course there are degrees to this and there are smarter and dumber women; this broad, given her impressive life history, definitely falls into the latter category. But the principle is true across the entire range: rational arguments can do little to override powerful emotions in the moment.
FieldLine 7y ago
It boggles my mind that no one has a problem with this behavior in the thread you linked. It's not even a RP vs. BP thing, it's about having some minimum level of self respect.
It's like we live in some kind of bizzaro world.
boarbora 7y ago
people do but they get downvoted
PaperStreetVilla 7y ago
had he set a boundary, I'd agree. As it stands, he walked her to it himself.
Can't enforce a boundary that she didn't even know about. Perhaps OP should have focused more on himself, and less on being a BB, then he could have been honest with himself
ObieUno 7y ago
Because we do. We live in a time where people justify their questionable behavior by pointing fingers at everyone else.
"I'm not an asshole for parading around naked. You just lack the mental capacity or empathy to see that I'm just expressing my individuality/sexuality. There's nothing wrong with me, there's something wrong with you"
This is the type of bullshit ammunition people load in their defensive shotgun on a daily basis.
yomo86 7y ago
Game changer: he is ripped running around a nude beach, alone on a vacation, and the gf gets a pic from an unknown number with an emoji. "No honey, it is nothin' just boys being silly."
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I agree but i always take reddit comments with a grain of salt as i dont think they represent real life. Remember reddit is VERY feminist and mostly filled with nerds/whitenights while being VERY hive minded vs masculinity.
Seeing replies really make me wonder what kind of guys are behind these whitenight replies lol. Its like the dumbass responses on askrreddit " what is ur favourite physical trait in men" and the top upvited post is a guy with a belly or a big nose . But we all know the woman who wrote that is possibly fat-ugly and is hamstering why shes attracted to her fat- ugly hushand. And ugly-fat guys upvote the shitout of it while downvoted hot woman who write abs ,height etc.
Talk about this story in real life most people will be against the womans behaviour i guarantee it.
Terapia_Tapioco 7y ago
To me, that's actually what TRP is all about: gaining self-respect again after you've been taught to be ashamed of being a man and of being yourself.
The problem with Beta/NiceGuys etc. is IMHO the lack of self respect in the first place.
But nitpicking aside, I totally agree, that comments are probably worse than the actualy situation that OP is in (assuming it really happened).
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hyugafan 7y ago
We live in the same world. It just changed. Change might be a great driving force, it still has its downsides as evidenced by the above. Now we need to adapt to this new world or be left behind.
Magnum007 7y ago
It's not "like" we live in some bizzaro world. Look around you, it's now become obvious we do.
It does however make things easier for us. We just have to do the complete opposite of everyone else and we are successful in our endeavours. There's no guesswork involved.
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[deleted] 7y ago
Exactly. They are saying she is "just having fun" which she is, but there are plenty of ways to have fun outside of getting naked in public away from your husband. Also, the guy can't reach his wife even though he has tried many times.
If the genders were reversed and it was the husband doing this, that subreddit would be telling the wife to dump the husband. They suck.
vagbutters 7y ago
That's an understatement given these cucks' double-standards and whiteknighting.
Amythprison 7y ago
Did anyone try this as a social experiment, where they post the same threads but with the genders reversed? I'm thinking about just taking older stories from old threads and just changing the genders just to see how they react.
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ElectricFagSwatter 7y ago
Now this is something I need to see.
Gawernator 7y ago
Please do, and link it all here. That would be epic.
Freebird025 7y ago
Fanfuckingtastic idea. Please, do it.
reddumpling 7y ago
If you do, please x-post here for science.
[deleted] 7y ago
I've been considering that as well. I feel like I have seen in the past that reactions are noticeable different.
buddboy 7y ago
I just had that exact same thought
polakfury 7y ago
They always attack the guy lol. Seems a couple in reversed done like that as you said
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thecajunone 7y ago
Im pretty sure I've seen some troll threads like that years ago. You should bring it back. Someone please. I'm on mobile right now or I would.
BluepillProfessor 7y ago
That would be a series of posts justifying EC status on the write ups.
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[deleted] 7y ago
I would argue that the double standard in this instance IS a good thing. Don't create a false equivalency just to prove a point, where men are publicly shamed for dreading their bitch, as this will create even more of an aversion for the inadvertently unplugged dude towards swallowing TRP when he eventually finds his way here.
Women are only capable of being invested in their relationships if they are being actively devalued and made to feel 'less than' via dread. It is only when she feels that her worth is significantly less than his, that she submits and frantically works to please him. Doing anything that might deter unplugged guys (who are used to following herd mentality) from dreading their chicks is a real disservice to men in general.
TheAntiZealot 7y ago
I don't think unplugged guys should dread. I just met a lady who only dates cops and military (and she dates lots of them) and she finds them to be incredibly unsexy once she gets to know them because they just do whatever she says and bend over backwards for her. She says they aren't real men and she honestly thinks she's picking from the "real men" pool.
Icy_Flames82 7y ago
Dude please do. And give TRP links and updates
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BluepillProfessor 7y ago
Right! Get 5 reversal examples in different alts and then post it on TRP with a summary of the 5 examples with highlights and explanations. Guarantee there will be a shit ton of data showing the hypocrisy and make for a great post.
--Visionary-- 7y ago
I've always wondered why TRP, Men's Rights don't basically just do THIS repeatedly as part of their schtick.
vengefully_yours 7y ago
Got better shit to do with our time.
--Visionary-- 7y ago
Perhaps. Though posting on reddit is posting on reddit.
vengefully_yours 7y ago
Yeah, you can tell when I take a shit. I post here.
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You and everyone else. RP and BP, man and woman, Democrat and Republican, West and East, North and South, Rich and Poor.....
Everyone is on reddit while taking a shit.
vengefully_yours 7y ago
That is meta as shit.
[deleted] 7y ago
Someone needs to do the experiment where they take this story, swap around the names and superficial details and change the gender to male and see what happens
NikoMyshkin 7y ago
perhaps, this guy can go 'just have some fun' by hooking up on Tinder. it would be harmless fun; him just letting off steam - his wife should accept it right?
somehow i think not. classic example of double-standards.
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[deleted] 7y ago
These people cannot be serious. This is impossible. Oh my fucking God
BluepillProfessor 7y ago
Believe it. You should see what they are doing in the churches.
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RPthrowaway123 7y ago
I can't believe that anyone would think its okay for chicks to just walk around tits out and not even contact the man who they swore to love for the rest of their life. What a fucking sham of a society we live in.
Tipsy_Gnostalgic 7y ago
Wew lad. That poster has no idea how old, fat, or ugly the OP's wife could be, but he assumed de facto that the wife is gorgeous. Chances are that she isn't ugly, seeing as she is all too eager to get naked in public, but that comment really is revealing of the Women Are Wonderful effect. Apparently women must be complimented before any problems are brought up.
Right, because men are not allowed to be critical to or angry towards women because vagina. Nevermind that she won't answer his calls. Or that she is doing all of this behind the husband's back. Don't get angry! Just bend over and take it like a good little bitch. Absolutely disgusting. What ever happened to having a little bit of self respect, instead of letting your partner treat you like a doormat?
The icing on this shit sundae is the glaring double standard. They would be flipping their shit if a man went on a vacation, alone, and the wife suddenly received nudes. Shame
Magnum007 7y ago
Never underestimate an ugly girl's will for attention. They'll go that extra mile to get anything when they can't get it by conventional means.
babybopp 7y ago
Going to Mexico with my college association for foreign exchange made me realize how much dick swinging happens outside the country, even with girls in 'serious' relationships..
SitDownandPee 7y ago
Regardless of how we analyze the post, they are suggesting that he hold frame when the topic comes up between the two of them. We should be able to recognize and acknowledge that as a tactic for winning an argument.
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They are talking about holding frame by not freaking out, but compromising his views on this betrayal of his trust by complimenting her, instead of telling her that shit is not okay, is letting her enter his frame.
THE_CARDINAL 7y ago
Agreed, there was a post on TRP just a couple days ago on how to hold frame when your gf or plate shit tests you by saying they are going to meet their ex.
Flipping out while she's still there won't change ANYTHING. So stay calm and wait till she gets home to lay down the law about how that kind of behavior when not expressly consented to, is totally unacceptable in a relationship, especially a marriage.
Dystaxia 7y ago
I don't see what the big deal is and the response to this post is ridiculous. You all sound insecure as fuck.
The most logical explanation is that the photo was sent by the wife herself using some temporary number or something. Perhaps one of the other 2 girls the pictured women are with has a plan and took the photo.
The caption was a damn smiley face. They're having fun and figured she'd send her husband a photo. How some of you guys twist a fucking smiley face into a guy who letting you know about your cheating wife or being smug about fucking her is an embarrassing exhibition of mental gymnastics. Are your relationships all that weak that a simple photo like that and an emoticon has your dread alarms going off? That's not being cucked, you're just beta as fuck for getting your panties in a knot over trivial shit.
[deleted] 7y ago
Holy shit. That thread was so disappointing. I mean they seriously think it's fine for a wife to be naked in public without her husband around, at least.
Plus, who is the one taking the fucking photo? That's what I want to know. I just find it interesting how they are acting like it could have been the wife and it was one of those apps that creates fake numbers. It's probably one of the dudes on that trip.
Day_C_Metrollin 7y ago
Most women I know wouldn't send their husbands pics of their best friend along with them. Considering this photo had both women fully nude I doubt the wife would be totally cool sending it with no context.
Zombocom1911 7y ago
It totally depends on the husband and how permissive he is, I think that being married, he has every right to object to certain behavior that he doesn't like.
Hateblade 7y ago
Sounds like Chad is trying to be a bro and let him know his wife ain't loyal.
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[deleted] 7y ago
while it might just be her friend's phone, i still find it unbelievable that posters in relationshits think it's unreasonable for the guy to be a bit confused and paranoid about it. There's a good chance it'll turn out ok but the fact that a random number is texting you nudes of your wife is a bit alarming. At the very least you'd expect the number to say 'hey this is your wife's friend jill, check her out' , or something, ANYTHING. But there may be foul play here, seeing as how most women are always connected to their phones and it makes no sense to have someone else send nudes.
__ZEAL__ 7y ago
It was probably one of the guys. Likely the one that's been drilling her.
Edit: Or one of the men trying to open OP's eyes that his wife isn't who he thinks she is. OP is probably chock full of "women are wonderful" and blind to any red flags in his relationship.
CQC3 7y ago
Fucking hilarious. Just once I'd like to tell a mate he's getting cheated on by doing some spy level deepthroat shit. Give him a call with a voice masker on and leave him cryptic hints to decode.
oxykitten80mg 7y ago
OP probably thinks he is on top of his shit cause he has got a degree in gender studies! Hahaha
Nymdox 7y ago
Or, it's an unknown number because one of the girls bought a SIM card at the airport.
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yeah, I think that's more likely tbh. I'm just saying it's not hard to see why it'd shade someone out initially though. The idea that it's a guy sending them is pretty damn evil, and since we don't have any reason to believe the girl is that malicious, it's not exactly the most likely scneario
[deleted] 7y ago
its probably a fake story like most of the shit on that subreddit
although the comments are still hilarious
"hey babe i got a random text of you with your tits out, you look great! save some of ramon's cum inside you so i can lick it out when you get home ;) "
but let's be real. it's not like there were no signs she was this type of person before-hand. just because the beta ignored everything else and now that he's feeling jealous he's worried doesn't change anything.
EarnThis21 7y ago
Fuckin lol'd hard. But yeah essentially that's exactly what this user was telling OP to do... smh man...
woahyoungster345654 7y ago
This really rustled my jimmies, I feel like this is the type of shit you would get if you google "how 2 get girlfriend" and a WikiHow article shows up.
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Orig_analUse_rname 7y ago
This was me at one point in time.
Pantek51 7y ago
I think this was most of us. My ex gf was a suicide girl for fuck sake. Everyday I bless TRP. It stopped my torture
[deleted] 7y ago
That comment was so freaking cringeworthy. Classic example of putting the pussy on a pedestal.
babybopp 7y ago
Yes sounds fake but if it is real, I would fear for the guy. His explanation of getting sick and then better over and over might be his wife poisoning him or juicing him with some shit. Doctors don't even know what is wrong with him. Talking from the twilight zone, she just did not want him going with her. He says he 'forced her' to go without him. He does not realize how hard he was played to the point he thinks he was in control of the situation.
Source: every episode of Deadly Women.
InterNetting 7y ago
Could be true, what could she poison him with that doctors would not be able to identify?
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babybopp 7y ago
Barium acetate is probably the hardest drug to detect and it mimics a heart condition
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yomo86 7y ago
The good willed asshole gave his former competitor a chance to not be a cuck. Cuck to be asks the most feminized sub how to handle this warning. Cucked over 9000.
ChemistryKath 7y ago
Seriously, Occam's razor? You're assuming it was a guy, you're assuming they were fucking.
Sementeries 7y ago
Always assume the worst. And even then, the wife has her tits out in public.
politisch_inkorrekt 7y ago
In my experience of the "friendship" between women, I thought it was one of her friends, just to fuck up their relationship.
woahyoungster345654 7y ago
That was my first thoughts, we really can't tell because we don't know all the details, but it's extremely fishy either way, but the fact that she is ignoring her sick husband all week is not comforting at all.
wisty 7y ago
AWALT does not mean all women are shit. AWALT means that men (and a lot of women) will put up with a ton of bullshit before actually saying "Wait, this woman is a total trainwreck (or at least, grossly overvalued)".
Plenty of women have a conscience (just like they often have brains, even if they don't use them).
One of her friends could have thought that her husband actually deserved to know about what was going on. Yeah, it's possible there was a bit of jealously as well, but I'd say it's actually a friend trying not to raise a red flag on the trainwreck.
Or it was a massive shittest by the wife.
Corndog_Enthusiast 7y ago
Not only that, but she totally gave the dude her husband's #. They both know what game they're playing.
__ZEAL__ 7y ago
Or, the guy took the picture with her phone, looked in her texts and sent it to OP as a "dude. your wife is shit, open your eyes". OP is probably completely blind to any red flags that his wife has, still subscribing to "women are wonderful".
I bet his wife has no idea that the guy even sent the picture at all, if that's actually the case. Especially if she was drunk and not paying attention.
life036 7y ago
OP said it came from a number he didn't recognize.
DennisReynoldsAMA 7y ago
Dude took it with his phone probably knew ops' number then.
SkorchZang 7y ago
Hilarious! And free bonus, one you might miss at first. When checking out the relationshits sub, always refer what is said to the poster screen name in a kind of zen way... You will be able to spot the females and categorize them solely by their names, since they're all the same with no imagination.
You have the three major categories of relationshits woman, each with their own unique cute name (which is always the same):
somethingpizza, somethingcake, somethingbacon, anything with food tucked on the end = always a fat chick
anything with kitty or meow = the proverbial feminist cat lady, present or future.
ToSeeAndToHear 7y ago
I know girls with the handles " monster", "kitten ," and "____ kitty" and you're spot on.
redartist 7y ago
Also, you can bet the farm that "brat", "rebel", etc. has at least some of the following:
1)Piercing-you-know-where
2)Hair color of a drug addict's vomit.
3)Tattoos all over the place.
bornredd 7y ago
Ya'll can piss all over alt-looking sluts all you like. Some of us do like it. If I'm barking up that tree, I'm not looking for an LTR, I'm looking for a good time.
e4tshit 7y ago
It's as if they have no idea what we find attractive. They see Angelina Jolie in "gone in 60 secs" or coyote ugly, then it's a trip to hot topic to try and emulate the "used up whore" look. Jesus, a whole generation of jenny's from forest gump. Anyone else notice how every 3rd profile on OKC or POF talks about their degree and how educated they are, as if that's ever gotten a guy hard.
I'm starting to realize they have no idea so instead they just display their version of what they think we want. Also, can someone please explain to me why it is that Harley Quinn has become the unofficial slut mascot? What's the fascination? I keep hearing how anger is a phase but I gotta be honest guys, I'm seething with contempt the more I read. Right when I think I can't be anymore disgusted with people I read something even worse.
cashmoney_x 7y ago
Getting disgusted with nature is a waste of energy. It's just nature, like a wolf eating a sheep.
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Askada 7y ago
100% chance the dude who was making the photos sent it to him.
Reasons? Bragging, bantering, eye opening or just a mix of those.
If for some reason he hadn't fucked OP's wife before the photo, he definitely would have that evening.
Also, phone in perma airplane mode when her husband is sick/in hospital. Fucking laughable.
drakpanther 7y ago
People just don't casually send evidence of affairs. That shits costs money and it can be fucking messy. What you are saying makes zero sense. Is it more likely that his wife sent it to him for a little thrill because she feels bad hes not there? or that another dude somehow got the other guys phone number, and went out of his way to send this nude? it doesn't make any fucking sense. this paranoid, insecure bullshit is BLUE PILL. its EUROPE for fucks sake. there are nude beachs everywhere. its not a sexualized thing there. there only thing suspect here is that she is not contacting him. you better believe if my bitch is on vacation without me she is checking in everynight and morning.
audscias 7y ago
It's funny how you think Europe is a constant fuck-fest or that nudity is never sexual and we walk the streets bare assed. I'm from Spain, you can go nude on any beach you feel without any problems. Have done it multiple times (alone or not). Yet OP's story would have made me next the bitch. That's it.
ChrisBenRoy 7y ago
Ignoring the nude beach type of shit in the story, the last sentence in that comment is important. He couldn't go on the vacation because he was too sick, and she is unreachable? This is a husband and wife and the wife can't be reached even if the husband has to be hospitalized? So keep that in mind then throw in the fact that instead of taking effort to be able to be in contact w/ her sick husband in case he needs anything, it's revealed that she's obviously having a great time on a nude beach w/ friends.
Focus on the important part.
TRPtruth 7y ago
It would be really helpful if when these types of posts come up that we have a "natural blood alpha" give the proper response or advice on how to handle that particular example, maybe even a flair "correct alpha response" if the response is deemed the best by the community.
I'm still on my journey and when these posts come up I oftentimes scratch my head and wonder what the proper response to this stupid behavior is . . . Unless you are a natural its good to get concrete examples of situations and proper response. And I don't see much of a purpose to these posts other than to make my blood boil and constantly remind us that monkey's gonna branch swing.
TheAntiZealot 7y ago
Read a book on dog training. Re-read this thread and the originating thread in the other subreddit. You will see the light.
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Somebody keep an eye on this, I can't wait for an update when his wife gets back. I want to hear what hamstering she comes up with, when we all know her and her BFF were getting railed by chads all week.
jbuttons2 7y ago
This is why you don't get married, so you can drop a bitch the moment she starts acting out of line and you don't need to go through the bureaucracy of divorce.
WhiteKnightFgt 7y ago
What a cuck. That post is just sad.
uxeazy 7y ago
How would one control their woman?
TheAntiZealot 7y ago
By controlling oneself. Same as children or dogs.
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polu85 7y ago
Especially with HIS best friend there, guys are acting like fuckin teenage girls in this sub
__ZEAL__ 7y ago
Because it was probably sent by one of the men that went with her and her friend.
Ntghgthdgdcrtdtrk 7y ago
Yeah it looks like an American response to nude beaches. They are much more prevalent in europe and peoples in the nude community aren't very keen on peoples doing it for sexual gratification.
light_fourbetting 7y ago
She didn't want to go without him too. I always read these from a redpill perspective, but this story doesn't seem super bad.
This seems like something that might be more accepted in Europe and there's a bunch of us Yanks over here seeing it differently. No, I wouldn't be okay with my lady doing this shit, but I wouldn't put my money on her banging someone else just because of these pictures.
[deleted] 7y ago
Nope, European here, have gone to nudey places with my wife. If I got that message in those circumstances we are having issues, also my wife is not sending me nudes of her friends.
RedSugarPill 7y ago
So, you'll lose half your money in divorce, and the other half gambling in a double down. You sound like a good little provider who knows his place in the world.
Askada 7y ago
She didn't send him shit. Her phone is in airplane mode for the whole time. Hope it will make little more sense to you now.
LegallyColorBlind 7y ago
So she gave her husband's number to some random foreign dude she was banging and then he sent a picture of her to her husband?
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Because they are not from her?
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[deleted] 7y ago
If she can upload a photo to a message, she is sober enough to use a phone and compose a message.
It's equivalent to sending just a dick pic on the beach with strangers by unknown number. What is my partner/girlfriend etc...going to assume?
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Who are they from if they're not from her? How would the person who sent them have OP's number and why would that person send those pictures in the first place? If it is someone else, it's been given with OP's wife's permission in all likelihood. Maybe it's bad judgement from the guy's wife to have done it, probably, but grounds for divorce? Are you guys retarded?
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The person taking the photo...
So she requested it to be taken? Why? If you read the full context, the guy couldn't go because he was unwell. Is this supposed to make him feel any better by missing out on an awesome beach vacation with his wife, funny way to go about it, don't you think?
OP even added that a second picture of wife's butt being photographed and sent with another blank message and all attempts at communication are not being answered or deliberately diverted due to keeping the cell on airplane mode.
OP goes on to explain their reluctance and hesitation at getting topless/intimate in public because of job insecurity -
So, again, why is she posing and agreeing to be photographed topless if it jeopardizes her employment?
Bad judgement? What possible reason has she got to photograph topless for a complete stranger?
Of course, she could fish out any number of excuses when she returns and answers his concerns, but the trust in that marriage is GONE. And it ain't coming back.
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She has poor judgement I guess, or maybe she just isn't such a prude. Either way, someone gave the person sending the message OP's number. So was it a stranger? Then how did he get the number and if OP's wife was cheating on him why the fuck would she give the guy OP's number??? Yeah it's not a good way to make OP feel better but women who are cheating on their husbands tend to hide it, not to give it away. She's in Europe where there are many nudist beaches and people don't care so much about nudity. The phone thing is weird but I don't think it's really a sign that she's cheating, and it's certainly not grounds for a fucking divorce lmao.
You guys are so insecure it's unbelievable.
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...excuses, excuses, excuses.
Wife without husband:
Wife with husband:
Notice the difference?
[deleted] 7y ago
That doesn't mean she's cheating.
You're ignoring the fact that she would have sent or agreed to send a photo of herself naked to her husband. No one does that when they're cheating.
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Her behaviour has shown her to be a liar, so why has she agreed to be photographed naked by strangers?
Like I've said, the trust in that marriage is GONE.
[deleted] 7y ago
Holy shit, you are paranoid beyond belief. Sometimes people just do silly things, especially when they're on holiday, and often it's not a big deal at all.
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Paranoids don't have evidence to back up their claims, it's all assertions. Lay out the facts and the paranoid sees the reality.
The reality here is that her behaviour shows she is a liar.
Yeah, but I don't go around getting strangers to photograph blank worded dick pics to my girlfriend/partner/whatever without explanation and deliberately cut off contact with them for the lulz.
EvrythingISayIsRight 7y ago
IMO after she gets back just ask her "did anything happen on the trip?" Of course shes going to leave that part out, so you gotta look her in the eye and say "I'm giving you one chance to tell me the truth. Did anything happen that I should know about?" And if she denies it, show her the picture and ask her why she lied to you.
If she'd lie about or omit getting naked on a beach (pretty big fucking detail), she'd lie about anything. If you can't trust your bitch, then your relationship means nothing.
Oh well though, OP is already married for years and most likely he paid for the entirety of that trip. GG, don't get married. You lose your biggest weapon: walking away.
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His wife, wife, goes on vacation to a foreign country without him. That right their is enough to tell me that this marriage was a horrible mistake. Hopefully they don't have kids who will suffer because dude married an adulterous whore
Worst_Patch1 7y ago
he should have had an orgy with lots of hot women while she was away.
oxykitten80mg 7y ago
In this instance your user name totally checks out.!....{shaking head}..poor married bastards.
lost6146 7y ago
Stories like this amaze me. Before TRP, I would have agreed with the cucks because of the social programming. She's just having fun. Women are moral and blameless. Right. Ever since taking the red pill, the curtain has been pulled back and I can clearly see the truth. Everywhere. Feminism and BP programming, while illogical, destructive, and toxic, are brilliant psychological tactics. Socially program men to suppress masculinity, worship women, and accuse all men of of being immoral sexual deviants. Meanwhile back in reality, the little wife is sucking off Chad while topless on a beach with her girlfrands'.
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Jaereth 7y ago
Also dont forget to tack on "emotional abuse"
RenegadeBox 7y ago
Shes just having fun without you because she doesnt have fun with you.
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redpillliger 7y ago
That's a nice strawman you've got there. You should probably go troll somewhere else
Reyneo 7y ago
It's not that she's having s bit of fun, it's the fact that there are signs everywhere in this story that show she is most probably being unfaithful, unless you are too blind to see that because you don't want to accept what is happening (talking from the guy's prospective)
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I agree with 95% of the stuff on TRP, but people getting upset over this is just weird. The commenters are basically telling the guy that he should be more possessive and controlling.
It's a nude beach. Yeah, there's a thrilling component to it, but it's not like she's sending him pictures of her with some guy's cock in her mouth. She's clearly not downplaying this, nor hiding it. If she went to a nude beach and didn't tell him, forcing him to find out on his own later, maybe that would be a rationale for being a jealous pussy. Maybe. But she's not only telling him about it explicitly, she's showing that she's not embarrassed. Hell, she included a photo of her nude friend. She's practically begging the husband to get excited.
The husband is so freaking insecure, he's worried that the wife's texts are being routed through an international number. She's probably grateful to be away from his beta ass for a while. Not so she can get alpha fucked (which would be hard to do anyway when she's surrounded by common friends), but just because her husband sounds like such a tightass.
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That the guy is weak is obvious. A married man going on reddit for relationship advice. That is weakness.
But he also says their relationship is not one where being slutty in public is normal. He needs to act on this in some shape or manner.
__ZEAL__ 7y ago
You're assuming that she sent the photo. There's no proof of that. It's literally just as likely as one of the men on the trip with them, warning OP about what his wife is doing. We don't know. You seem to have the "women are wonderful" dialogue lodged in your mind still.
I wouldn't want my wife doing stuff like that. If I had any kind of idea that it was going on, I'd be ashamed of myself for being dumb enough to choose such a woman, and then leave. I'm just not interested in sharing in that way. Sexuality is the sole reason why someone becomes exclusive, I prefer to keep it for myself.
__ZEAL__ 7y ago
Definitions of cheating are different from person to person. Maybe you're cool with sharing your gf with other men, but that's not behaviour that anyone with self respect would put up with.
Go back to jacking off to porn and playing video games, you utter noodle of a man. You should honestly be ashamed of yourself.
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__ZEAL__ 7y ago
No, you can't own someone. But what you can do, is LTR them and rent them for the time you're with them, as they are renting you. They're yours for the time, just as you're theirs for the time. If that deal gets broken, so does the relationship.
Anyway, good luck... You'll need it.
12_f_taiwan 7y ago
By stripping nude she openly signals she's up for mating. Guy is pissed because it undermine his parental certainty (cuckold).
DetectiveDing-Daaahh 7y ago
It blows my mind how far cucked this poor shmuck is, but something tells me there were many times before where she "met an ex for drinks, NOTHING happened, baaabe!" or that she hangs out with her guy friends (former fuckbuddies) without him and he's none the wiser because "Ugh, that was in the past! He's like my brotherr nowww!!"
PatriceWasRight 7y ago
The thing is: r:relationships is full of redditgirlz and tumblerellas thinking they know anything about relationships... Any real guy would never have time like that to analyse all those stories and give some honest real advice. De most stupid part of this? TRP SEEING IT AS REAL. get the fuck out of that sub...
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MakeEmSayAyy 7y ago
The women KNOW to give him bullshit and that he's a beta just by reading this.
An RP man would KNOW what to do. He'd KNOW that when she gets back her bags are packed and divorce is already underway with the pictures saved as evidence.
Honestly if you're posting on that sub they know you're a beta loser.
Complexifier 7y ago
Nothing says alpha like flipping your shit over a little nudity. Are you a teenager or just stupid?
Dystaxia 7y ago
Right? The only way to secure your LTR is to divorce over a picture she sent you of her and her best friend nude. What the fuck...
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Obvguy 7y ago
When the Penis loses the power to get erect and copulate, Women loses interest on Men. So, no love or respect if your Penis is dysfunctional, which means naturally you are old. No Love that is above sexual interest and the tendency to cheat - Is this true? May be for the 50% or above Women. They're opportunistic.
hhamama66 7y ago
Triple penetration guaranteed.
Godtiermasturbator 7y ago
That's the first thing I thought of. Both chicks were probably airtight on that trip.
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MakeEmSayAyy 7y ago
Holy fucking shit, I used to think that sub was bad before.
It's getting more cuck'd as time goes on and they ban anyone who ever posted a rational response to female whoreness.
APotter12 7y ago
Just ride it out. Only seven months until Donald takes over...
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Uh, sorry, but what does Trump have to do with this?
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BigRedRobyn 7y ago
How fucking pathetic and insecure are you dudes?
MakeEmSayAyy 7y ago
Come on guys it's insecure not to let your wife fuck random guys you should love it. who cares if you're raising someone else's kid guys it's not a big deal just accept her for who she is come on really so pathetic LOL
BigRedRobyn 7y ago
Yes because being comfortable with your body and being naked means you must be fucking other people. LOL
MakeEmSayAyy 7y ago
Guys seriously it's just ur wife sending u nude pics with another guy as u lay sick at home and didnt come on the trip it's perfectly acceptable!!
this is the fucking red pill. NOBODY here is falling for your shit.
marianasentmenudes 7y ago
Says the dude that keeps on hating on the Donald and browses tumblr
Dude, how much of a fucking pussy are you in real life? Stick to cucking out with Bernie
BigRedRobyn 7y ago
And you are a typical Trumpcuck.
Hope you enjoy watching him fuck America like you never could.
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__ZEAL__ 7y ago
Yeah, not wanting a low quality woman with terrible behaviour isn't insecurity. It's having standards. Sorry that you are below those standards I guess.
BigRedRobyn 7y ago
Standards like how any woman with half a brain won't go near a MRA? ;)
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BigRedRobyn 7y ago
"TheRedPill"...so just a Matrix fan then? rolls eyes
__ZEAL__ 7y ago
Shit... I didn't realize that you're actually retarded. My bad, I'd have been a little more helpful.
BigRedRobyn 7y ago
So TheRedPill isn't a MRA thing then. Good to know. :P
__ZEAL__ 7y ago
Nope, you'll see us get mad about shit in the world related to that stuff... But you won't see us trying to change it. Just figuring out ways to deal with it/get around it.
That's the difference. We figure out ways to live life when bullshit comes our way. MRA's just complain about it.
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I doubt she did stuff like this when they were just girlfriend and boyfriend. Hey, Imma get ass naked in front of everybody because reasons. Let your guy friends see my pussy and my tits because female empowerment. And Imma need you to be okay with that, cool? Its not like I don't completely have you by the balls or anything anyway.
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If I received that picture, the locks on the doors would be changed with divorce petition documents emailed to her inbox.
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juliusstreicher 7y ago
Darlin', you're the prettiest whore on the beach!
I don't give a fuck how many texting apps there are, I am curious how the mystery benefactor got husband's number.
So, what should hubby do? He should print the pic out, and frame it and put it in the living/bedroom. Ask wife if she sent it to see if he would like a threesome. Divorce whore, and fuck wife's bf.
Momo_dollar 7y ago
He should save the number and randomly call it in a few weeks from his wife's phone or any number other than his own .
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why_not_alt 7y ago
There are three women on the trip and two in the picture.
The women had some drinks and went to a nude beach while the three guys went golfing or drank by the pool. OPs sister-in-law took the picture and texted it to him. She's using one of those cheap international SIMs, so the number is different.
WTF is wrong with you paranoid losers.
why_not_alt 7y ago
I'd just like to point out that OP posted an update and I was exactly right.
Stop being so insecure people. It's the opposite of what RP is about.
Complexifier 7y ago
So, so much. This sub is full of sad, paranoid, man-children.
drakpanther 7y ago
Agreed. WTF happened here. Did all the real RP men move on and now we are left with a bunch of stupid insecure teenagers who recently found this sub? I thought TRP was about confidence, personal growth and outcome independence. Not be controlling and paranoid.
CriminalMacabre 7y ago
First error is to share it in reddit. It's a goddamn private affair.
stolen_loom 7y ago
That fucking relationship is over. Only a moron would trust her after that.
Icanus 7y ago
Since me and my LTR are naturists I must look at this different...
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targus_4d3d3d3 7y ago
Honestly, to me that would be grounds for divorce asap.
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Obio1 7y ago
I love the part about not being able to talk much because "international fees are so high".
Uh... What year is this? Skype, Messenger, FaceTime, LINE and a zillion other apps let you video chat for free. (Which is better than a phone call anyway).
This chick made a ridiculous excuse for not wanting to talk and this cuck bought it without questioning it.
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Bitches will find a way. She will lie to every and anyone - friends, family, and coworkers - for a man that she wants bad enough. Believe me. Women operate based off emotion. We at TRP know this..
If she doesn't, it's because she doesn't want to, not because of whatever number of inane bullshit excuses she throws at you.
Bonus points if she comes up with extra excuses whenever you brush aside one of her other excuses.
Him: "I'll go with you guys."
Her: "Nah, the promotional price is only for two and Julie already asked and I told her yes."
Him: "It's fine, I don't mind paying extra."
Her: "Well, there are only two beds in the room."
Him: "No worries. You know I sleep on floors like a baby from my military days."
Her: "Yeah... but Julie isn't going to want you there in the room with us."
Him: "Well I suppose I can get the room next door to y'all"
Her: "It's totally booked up.. I think."
Him: "AirBNB has a great deals. I'll look into them"
Her: "Fine! But I already made plans to hang out with Julie!"
The truth finally trickles out. It's definitely not the whole truth..
Bottom line: She doesn't want your ass there. If she did, she would move heaven and earth for it.
Bonus: If she is moving heaven and earth to make this trip happen and exclude you from it, it's probably for a guy.
APotter12 7y ago
He's probably a cuck who thought Brexit came into effect immediately.
ScottishIslander 7y ago
I think your post went a little too far.
If she wanted to get DP'd by other guys while on this trip she could do it without his knowledge.
The picture proves nothing one way or another. Doesn't prove she's a cheating slut. Doesn't prove she's a faithful wife.
Seems like her angle was she's doing something nice for her husband who wasn't able to come.
If the husband disapproves of her behavior then he should make that known when she returns. Simple as that.
If she's pregnant in the next few weeks get a paternity test.
More pressing is the lack of phone communication. Seems like you would plan for that (there's always a way in today's world) and expect a couple calls during the week.
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PantsonFire1234 7y ago
Being sexual is vastly different for women. Guys have to be active to be sexual. That's why we promote lifting and increasing testosterone. It's why you will find that men cheat less often despite their libido. This is also traced back to the sexual fantasy's each sex has.
Women fantasize about being taken in ludicrous ways and exciting spots. This is female sexual psychology showing you the truth. If you're horny and want to fuck being a guy- you don't just whip out your cock at a nude beach and wait. But that is exactly what a woman does.
That's why you should watch her actions and not her words. Girls will always tell you their innocent and well behaved loyal bitches. But look again, does she post sexually enticing pictures on social media? How visible are her ass and tits on a casual work day? Does she wear lipstick often? Does she appear to flaunt herself when your not around?
This girl went to Tahiti beach, got all hot and bothered due to the sun and can't think off nothing else but foreign cock(s) slamming into her. So she took out her tits, exposed her poon and found the attention of some Amigos.
Women take no agency when cheating. Which is why you should spread the seed having zero guilt.
___Jamie___ 7y ago
Unrelated: please post a reddit link as well. Some are on mobile here...
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Orig_analUse_rname 7y ago
I'd wager shes bi or that her and her friend were trying to impress some guy (or a group of guys) by acting bi.
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Ou-tis 7y ago
A woman (almost) care about something only for the consequences.The same situation it's happened to my female neighbor,she went in vacation with family and went topless on the beach.Unfortunatly for her,a friend of her boyfriend was in the same place. She lied to him,women often lie without a secon thought.They just care the consequences.
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ohh Jesus Christ. Tighten the leash on your woman.
Reyneo 7y ago
I don't want to live in a world, which the behaviour of that woman, is acceptable.
" chill out man, she just got a bit nude, what's so bad about that "
Let's all start sharing wives and chill out a bit, ffs, ridiculous
The guy should man up and take manners into his own hands, wake up
Edit: phone autocorrect, matter*
doveenigma13 7y ago
Hey to be fair about it all, I don't mind sharing this type of dudes wife.
Sementeries 7y ago
I'd tell that dude to have his wife's tits out when his boys are around then.
SkorchZang 7y ago
I recommend you never use that feminist "I don't want to live in a world.." expression going forward.
The world and TRP doesn't give a shit, you don't want to live, bye Felicia.
Felicia is solipsistic, vapid and dumb - so she thinks the world has a duty to change for her. You're a man and don't have the excuse.
Another variation that they they'll use all the time is: "we don't need people who think like that on our planet!". The fucking commie-commisar levels of pure arrogance are mind-blowing.
excaliboor 7y ago
Finally I witness somebody call out this modern type of language abuse.
bye felicia!
Reyneo 7y ago
I guess you got a valid point
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I don't know man, how can you hold something like manners?
Reyneo 7y ago
Didn't notice that, thank you
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J_AsapGem 7y ago
that's.. pretty fucked up beyond being beta, you know what they say women can only behave how we let them, that's why i don't really blame women for the fall in society men gave them the power to do whatever the hell they want.
melb22 7y ago
Chances are that even if she is not cheating she is psychologically withdrawing from the marriage. Absolutely correct that he should trust his gut instinct.
johnyann 7y ago
Sounds like she's met Dexter St. Jocque.
mnemos_1 7y ago
Thought of this almost immediately while reading.
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OP should change the locks on the house before she gets back.
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__ZEAL__ 7y ago
I think it was one of the men that went on the trip with them warning the OP. It doesn't make sense that she would be okay with OP seeing her best friend naked. I've never had a woman that was even interested(let alone being in a relationship with her) be okay with something like that. Obviously my experience in life isn't the truth of everything in the world, but from my perspective it doesn't make sense whatsoever.
My money is on one of the men taking the picture, finding OP in a text app, and sending it to him as a warning. Or possibly to fuck with OP. We just don't know enough about the people involved to really give a solid answer to anything.