I can speak from experience that what they're saying is true.

https://archive.today/HeJtf

Personally I would never marry any woman who had a bachelorette party that was in a bar or club, let alone if a stripper was involved. It just demonstrates poor judgement of all involved, and if her friends will do that when you're about to get married, just imagine all the other problems they'll cause by being an influence on her as your relationship/marriage goes forward.

edit: latest and greatest: https://archive.today/wsnky