Hah, I just watched that too. While I cringed for the guy dating that one chick, I honestly thought he had a pretty good head on his shoulders (minus the staying with her part). A lot of the advice he dished out was spot on. That chick is lucky as fuck he did not split.

I also thought the dude living in Miami finding all these girls was a champ. I want that job.

This film was a Sundance Film Festival entry as well. Just FYI.

Completely agree with OP. These women have a complete victim complex, as do many women in the sex industry. They make the decision to be an escort / do porn / strip or whatever, and then somehow, this is the fault of one or more men. It is just ludicrous.

That sounds weird and awful. My main source of porn is the gifs in the anal subreddit. I'm doing my part to destroy the porn industry, for sure. Because seriously, a porn gif is like maybe 15 seconds of hot, which is all you really need to complete a 1-on-1 with yourself. All that "film-making" the industry does is overkill beyond overkill when you compare it to a 15 second anal gif.

My other source of porn is women's beach volleyball on YouTube. Now that's quality film making. Lots of wedgies, one team wins, the other team loses - and I still barely know the rules of the game.

I found it interesting at around 11min when that girl was talking about "being free", and "doing shit", and just hanging out in penthouses, and riding in nice cars. If you think about it she could just as easily have been describing what it's like for a young girl to be messing around with a high status man instead of porn.

The best part is the "boyfriend" of the one girl. For those who haven't/won't watch it, a sad sap beta buys a promise ring for his porn star girlfriend.

In their shoes, growing up an attractive girl, now pretend it's not a self defeated victim complex but a sharp as hell getting shit done mind with purpose. In their spot, I'd do the exact same thing.

I'd get the redonkulous amounts of money that comes to an even average stripper, much less what I'd make because serious bills are on the line. Porn even more so. Rich married men with potential for blackmail/baby money. Pulling a Megan Fox open relationship on a bluest of blue pills.

You feel the women were portrayed as victims or less savory. I posit some are the smartest, most intellectually capable folks on the planet I might like, because I'd do the exact same thing if I were smart and hot.

I read this review of the 'documentary'. I thought it summed it up pretty well. Shared it on r/movies... didn't think to share it here. http://www.literaryramblings.com/hot-girls-wanted-documentary-or-click-baiting

get out of my head.. its on my damn tv right now and its making me want to an hero

I watched "Hot Girls Wanted" after reading this post. Although the documentary does aim to victimize a group of women who have voluntarily chosen this CC-esque lifestyle for themselves (and are being well compensated for it with some making $200 an hour), I believe it also provides a good defantasization of the porn industry's idea of sex that so many of us have bought up to believe.

When I was young and new to sex, I busted on my lab partners face, hair and chest because after watching a ton of porn with no sex ed classes to back reference, I thought that was what normal sex was. It goes without saying that she wasn't too happy about cleaning the cum stains out of her navy polo during the next free period.

One particularly good scene in the documentary was when the Latino pornstar casually walked through Wal-Mart to buy clothes for her scene. There was no background music or commentary. No make-up or lights. And without all of the glitter and glam and lighting, she was so... lackluster.

This film should help new RPers struggling to abandon the false images of sex the digital age of porn provides to us, so long you view it through RP-tinted glasses. It brings light to the real actors and motivations behind modern day porn. All in all, it's worth a watch.

It's amazing what women will rationalize doing to get people to pay attention to them.

It is the stereotypical "faggot and whore" relationship.

The absolute worsts part of this, the most cringe-worthy scenes, were these:

When one girl explains to her mother that she is not on birth control, and to avoid getting pregnant the guys 'do it on her and never in her'. The shock on the mother's face, the awkwardness, just... captured so well.

The boy who is desperately grinding gears in his brain as he comes to terms with the fact that, when you take the camera away, he's promised to a whore. "Yeah, I can see where you're coming from," she responds before they kiss and say they love each other. I wonder if he could taste the other men on her lips.

Having dated a few strippers when I lived in Vegas let me assure you that it is mostly pathologic narcissism that motivates someone to have a LTR with a stripper, hooker, or porn slut.

While not monogamous in any sense of the word, I was fairly serious with one for four years.

It involved threesomes with other girls frequently, heavy drug use, often open infidelity, and a lot of conflict.

I wouldn't recommend it. Parts of it were fun, just wasn't for me.

While doing P4P I've only met one woman who was enough of a realist to admit that what she's doing is easy and the money is attractive. Out of thousands of women, both in and out of this fornicating for money business, she is the only one who admitted.

To make a comparison, I know another woman who works in a high-end mall where I live at a place selling the most expensive things: Montblanc pens, high-end cologne, watches in the thousands of dollars range, gets paid virtually unlimited money to eat anywhere in that said mall (a meal there can easily get to $100/person), earns a nice salary yet when I made a subtle attempt at confronting her (she posted a "complaint" on Facebook while she checked in at a not-so-cheap French restaurant) that why is she complaining when food is free (while I work in freelancing, doing a lot of manual labour in the blistering Middle East sun), she hits me with "you have no idea".

That is the moment when I realised 99.8% of women are divorced from reality, or simply do not realise that a lot of other people have to put up with significantly worse stuff.

Does porn have a psychological effect on women? Even as a man,I think it would wreck me emotionally.sex is more intimate for a woman.does it not male them feel like shit knowing they were ploughed by so many men for money? Id feel used

Nice. I love these documentaries for the pure cringe-factor and to get a good laugh at these poor soulless sluts.. And there's beta bf rationalisations? Brilliant. Gonna enjoy this tonight.

So much cringe watching the dude profess his love for her yet she is sucking some dudes dick on camera... He seems so miserable with her but yet they get engaged and pretend that everything will be ok...At the end , when they were all pretending that being 'happy' just got to me..

Also, the scene were they were back home at a frat party and he looks so uncomfortable when his frat buddies asking her about her job and wanting to find her scene..

Women: "OMG CHOOSING WHICH HARD BAG TO BUY WITH THE 5 GRAND I COULD FROM MY LATEST PORN SHOOT IS SOOOOOOOO HARD. MEN DONT KNOW HOW EASY THEY HAVE IT. I SPENT, LIKE, AN HOUR DOING MY HAIR THIS MORNING"

This hits home.

Just 2 weeks ago, I went out with a girl who I got the number off of doing day game downtown. Probably one of the most.. ok, yeah, the most attractive girl I've been with so far. Lifting, new mindsets, thanks TRP for getting me there.

She has a Kik account, so I googled her account name. Minecraft, blah blah, some other normal sites, Pintrest. On look, a 'cam' site. Well shit. Poked around more, found multiple lingerie/panty pics, even one nude. Decided to do the date anyways, real bitch, but melted eventually. Has a sport bike, AK47, works in an OBGYN place, clerical. Great date, tons of banter and shit tests, first kiss on a bridge, spontaneously took her around town at night after drinks, then back to her place. Didn't go 'there' due to her clear internet past.

A day later, she's sending provocative 'bra pics' with a beer in hand. Shit went downhill after that. One, from not giving her what she wanted that night (knew that would be the case), but two because I decided to call her out on the cam site and pictures. She said she did it for the money, $4k a month. Said it was hard work, setting up everything, being ready, 'performing' for six hours straight. Claims she doesn't do it anymore, but logs into her cam site account every day. Also really got in my face for bringing it up. Says none of her other boyfriends even knew about it.

We're still bitching back and forth here and there. I know she's still remotely interested, but as much as I'm down for the exploration aspect, I can't bring myself to date or go out... or even plate a girl like her. We talked about it... aka, more like her yelling about it. Says it shouldn't matter and she's done with it (lie) or only does it when she needs the money (so, always?). Also justifies it.

Side note, her personality is really fucked up. Really combative - much more than just typical bitchiness. Also, requires 'wake up' texts and constant attention, which I haven't and won't give her.

Being a women in porn ruins your life. They have a career of about 2 years. After that, the woman is unemployable. They usually end up on a woe is me tour pushing a book and then wind up in escorting or drugs.

The general gist of understanding women:

• Like to be victims as it means they don't have to take responsibility.

• Without responsibility there is no blame, and without blame there is little or no punishment, making reprehensible/undesirable behaviour optional/attractive.

• In this perverse sense, having people believe you're a victim without actually being one grants incredible freedom (which is a form of power.) You can get away with things others would be reprimanded for.

• Being a victim gets you attention, which makes you feel important. Great if you are a narcissist (most women are.) Even negative attention is better than no attention for a narcissist.

• Victims are often advocates and activists, being a victim gives you legitimacy in politics/changing how a country works through democratic process. Just look at radical contemporary feminism.

Now what you have to understand about all this is that it's all part of female nature, most of them don't go out of their way to calculate this. It's just what they are. Women are nature's Machiavellians, most have very little awareness. The "it's not my fault", the advocacy, the appeal for sympathy.. it's all part of female nature, female games. Think logically for a second. "Why would they evolve to act in this way?" well because natural selection must have selected for women who could be deceitful in tribal times. Women who took blame got killed/were left to starve etc.

This is all female instinct, it's part of the game they play. The women who don't do this (most aren't self-aware enough to accurately make that judgement for themselves) have this instinct subdued, they probably had a strong father/brother household and/or live rurally/culturally away from the debauchery of urban civilization. As we all know, in the west male dominated households with females cohabiting is becoming increasingly rare.

The powers that be want feminised men and masculinised women. The thing you need to know about a masculinised woman is that the balls she has grow out of the soil of female nature. Just because she becomes aggressive and controlling, doesn't mean she starts taking on male concepts like honour and responsibility. Masculine women are so in a quintessentially female (but not feminine) way.

It may take some nuance of mind to understand what I'm getting at there, so re-read if necessary.

I was browsing pornfree the other day and there was a thread with people saying "don't you feel bad because by watching porn you're encouraging the industry that treats women like trash? Most of them don't even enjoy it and they get exploited. Besides, you're conditioning yourself to objectify them and..."

I closed the tab at that point. There are right reasons to quit porn and wrong. These are the wrong ones.

So they complain about making money by doing the one thing most people enjoy doing for free?

Zero sympathy.

Now if she had to get up at 4 am and head into a coal mine to work a 12 hour shift to put food on her familiy's table with little chance of ever leaving I could see that being a hard life.

Getting thousands of dollars to be filmed while having sex is a privilege most men will never ever be offered.