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The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
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The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
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Gvozden1789 5y ago
All relevant women I know, from mother, grandmother, lovergirls, and (some) female friends agree with red pill truths.
RPAcolyte 5y ago
What happened to this post?
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Doctor-Struggles 5y ago
Why how and when has the redpill become softpill or purplepill? I feel redpill has become soft to women. I cannot discuss some issues any longer without wanring or ban. I have to go to the blackpill side. Why is that?
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Doctor-Struggles 5y ago
Your 6th alinea.
You do understand with a woman being perfectly happy how she is means she is also happy acting upon her hypergamy instinct. Being a sexually lucid whore actually.
I agree feminists are creeps.
Redpill started as a bitter pill. Suggesting it is a pil for self-improvement is a bit of a cope. Redpill understands it has to deal with the pittfalls of female nature forever and does so. You will never be compmetely free from being and acting a bit bitter towards women.
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Doctor-Struggles 5y ago
I believe the incels never get any empathy for how bad they feel. So it is much harder for them to move foward and past grief they are the lesser choice.
Try to deny the empathy to somene who lost someone. See how that person acts. He/she will repeat over and over the fact a loved one died. And if you keep denying any su oathy. They will keep repeating and become resentful. Tbis is exactly what the gaslighthing normies do to incels. It's like they love to keep incels in the state their in. Instead of really helping.
You become man through achievement of little successes that builds your confidence. Without it you won't fly. Tell them to just man up won't work.
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Doctor-Struggles 5y ago
Sympathy first. Then after their feelings of resentment gets obsolved and think it's alright. They could feel ready to gym.
If you try the shit the IT pulls on braincels, and do that to truefemcels" which is a joke compared to male inceldom. You get banned for gaslighting the fragile female egos. Who bitch and cat all the time anyway. If you ask me they are the ones who should man up. they have plenty of choices.
lifestuff69 5y ago
Great post, but the wage gap is demonstrably false when you control for a variety of other variables (occupation, married vs single (which could mean previously married) vs never married, time taken off to have and raise children, etc.
femalebodyinspect007 5y ago
At this point i have no clue what is going on here
Wolfoflulzstreet 5y ago
This write-up is suspiciously light in the loafers for my taste and if you’re going to corner my opinion I’m leaning towards MGTOW which is firmly in the old school RP camp of NGAF.
If the Red Pill is about “improving relationships” I’ll show myself out. RP used to stand out as an Alpha roadmap and not some bullshit about improving relationships. Improve yourself, be a king at your profession, get laid.
Improve relationships? This post may be the exact moment RP jumped the shark.
ScamcoSpy 5y ago
Are you one of those "enjoy the decline" cucks?
Wolfoflulzstreet 5y ago
Unlike yourself I’m not supporting some emotional rock for women. The original RP was about strengthening the male experience specifically in simply getting laid more. To live a Red Pill life was to improve yourself. Period.
Anyone “enjoying the decline” is someone settling for this blue pill infiltration calling for improving relationships. I’ve already left the group so you can peddle your BP agenda elsewhere.
ScamcoSpy 5y ago
Lol end your life. I asked you one question. Leave if you're gonna leave.
Wolfoflulzstreet 5y ago
It’s not my problem if you haven’t the aptitude to understand what I said or what is being done to RP. You’re calling me cucked? Hilarious. Best of luck to you.
ScamcoSpy 5y ago
Oh no, someone suggested that maybe we should stop treating chicks like disposable jizzrags if we want them to act less bitter! This sub is officially cucked!
Be a man of conviction. Do what you said you were gonna do and leave the sub.
Wolfoflulzstreet 5y ago
I did. You’re the one continuing this conversation. Thank you for the quote.
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88Will88 5y ago
If it is the moment that TRP jumped the shark - good! Any movement which does not evolve, dies. If you don’t like it, then fuck off from our sub.
Wolfoflulzstreet 5y ago
Duly noted and respectfully tell you to fuck off as well.
I’m out.
88Will88 5y ago
Good riddance to bad rubbish, don’t forget to hit “unsubscribe” and don’t let the door hit you on the ass on your way out.
Wolfoflulzstreet 5y ago
Already done you blue-pilled cucked bitch. Have fun being the rock for which her emotions can break upon!
88Will88 5y ago
I will also be the rock hard cock inside of them - vamonos
Flux_7 5y ago
The wage gap is a myth.
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Flux_7 5y ago
What?
OP talks about equality of opportunity vs equality of outcome.
This is fine, I agree.
Then goes on to whine about an apparent wage gap between white women and white men.
Further along stating minorities get paid less then both white women and men.
I don’t give a fuck who said this or put these ideas in OP’s head, it’s flat out wrong.
There may be an earnings gap, but that is far different from a wage gap.
Unless you believe society is being intentionally discriminatory... ????♂️
(cough patriarchy cough)
Anoters 5y ago
I think the point he was making was that the white women who argue for the wage gap ignore that the statistic they are supporting also shows they are better off than certain groups of men and worse than Asian women.
I don’t think he actually believes the wage gap.
sourmonkeytroll 5y ago
White knights of TRP unite.
ContreversialViews22 5y ago
what the fuck has happened to this subreddit, a go a few days and we're getting bluepilled BS like this which was probably posted by some beta or a female troll talking about how redpillers have their back. This subreddit has fallen to the bluepilled cucks and i ain't staying to watch the shitshow unfold
Redpilledaccordingly 5y ago
MODS need to stop being lazy, really. It happens every few months where cucks seep through our cracks.
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You are indeed some very supreme gentlemen.
How you know this is a feminist typing.
Onidramon 5y ago
What the FUCK is going in here
Who paid you for this
88Will88 5y ago
The mods paid me, it helps them to root out incels and ban them
Onidramon 5y ago
So it's a deep infiltration and feminist shaming language mission, then. Should've known something limp-wristed like that would be the tradcons' chosen method of destruction for this place. Well you can go run and tell massa that it doesn't matter how many plantations they start up. The real travels with the real.
Sayonara, /u/88Shill88.
GucciGabz 5y ago
I've left procrastinating on the redpill reddit for a few months now I've came back to read new stuff and I see this type of blue-pill cucked bullshit posts, this is fucking sad for me and for everyone else who knew how good this subreddit used to be.
FalconWrite 5y ago
I treated myself to the misfortune of scanning this thread, seeing the critical replies to the main post and OP's replies to them, did some additional homework, and it pains me to have the writing on the wall for this sub finally confirmed.
u/88Will88, you are significantly more annoying than a garden variety white knight. You are a white knight who erroneously calls himself redpilled and uses it as some kind of weird cyber-PUA tool. You seek validation from anonymous women online with zero self awareness, directly qualify yourself to them while throwing other TRP subscribers under the bus on female-targeted subs, and even try qualifying yourself to men here with cringeworthy ihavesex-tier comments as if it makes your 4th-wave feminism talking points more logically valid and less contradictory to the sidebar.
If that weren't good enough, you use the exact same shaming language that feminists do when challenged and cry out to the mods with appeals to resolve your conflicts for you when you have no counterpoint. We are all seeing this. It's not hidden. It's public. You disrespect your own tag with your tomfoolery and the fact that you even have it diminishes this sub's credibility by a tragically dire degree. You can gorge yourself on bluepill tradcon upvotes here until the cows come home, but we'll be talking the last uncucked slice of this subreddit away with us. Enjoy disintegration.
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newName543456 5y ago
Wrong.
They talk about gap in average earning throughout population, not controlling for various issues, like jobs performed, work experience, working hours, etc. When you control for those, gap "magically" shrinks. But it's inconvenient to assumption there must be some sort "institutionalized sexism" that makes them earn less.
Also, red pill would prevent rapes - strong (physically and mentally) guys don't consider that as an option, as they can get laid anyways. Worry about incels instead.
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Red pill is so confusing, it seems like two types of people exist on this board, Wannabe PUA'S and manipulators and normal people.
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nofapZero 5y ago
I was watching a recent interview with Jordan Peterson and he said something very much along these lines. He said he wants to help men find a mission and become better men and women should be thankful because their partner then isn't some loser in life.
room_303 5y ago
Because Jordan Peterson is the judge and jury of what a loser is. I think not.
Peterson wants to help men, buy his programs for just $399
Branhalir 5y ago
All his lectures and all his talks are on youtube, for free, without ads. The things he sells are his Personality test and Authoring suite, which are completely optional and costs about $35 for both. You make him sound like a scam artist.
blindface 5y ago
Peterson got famous after he released all his content completely for free, and he never started charging for it. He doesn't even have ads on his videos. The only thing he's come out with since he became famous is a $15 self help/philosophy book.
And yeah, he is the judge and jury of what a loser is motherfucker. He's helped more young losers get their shit together than this subreddit. That's why almost a million people donate to his Patreon.
rp_newdawn 5y ago
I mean... he is a practicing clinical psychologist... who is better at identifying people who need to face their problems to improve their life?
kurdishpower01 5y ago
But Jordan Peterson is a 'women-hater' as well. ..
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AlexanderTheBread 5y ago
Come on man, he even put it in quotations. It's sarcasm.
tallwheel 5y ago
Relax, he put "women-hater' in scare quotes.
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Bear-With-Bit 5y ago
When you're beta, bitter and sexless, all you can see is Men vs Women.
But when you're alpha, happy and sex-ful, it's really just Me vs Me, or rather Me for Me.
Work on yourself, then the world --including yourself-- will see you as the prize.
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Bear-With-Bit 5y ago
When you're in good, muscular shape, you can wear a dirty tee shirt with holes and still get positive attention.
You refuse to believe there's something better. I hope you save yourself eventually. There's nothing in the dead-end you're living in right now.
TheFireStarter555 5y ago
Being attention whore is feminine trait.
Bear-With-Bit 5y ago
You know, women have told me that.
whiskyjeezus 5y ago
This post is for beginners. No one whos been on here for more than a few weeks needs or wants to read this
Ipride362 5y ago
All I hear is Cypher here: “Why oh why didn’t I take the Blue Pill?”
The Red Pill isn’t about saving women or relationships. It’s about exposing feminism for its hypocrisy and reinstating traditional, 10 millennia old society.
This is a very well written Whiteknight post.
88Will88 5y ago
I am no whiteknight, I am a red pill man. I fuck women (a lot of them) and I have a lot of women in my life. They look up to me and respect me. When you are a strong man you have no need to fear women, and no need to whiteknight.
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heheRue 5y ago
You completely lost me, when you started talking about the pay gap.
Slaide 5y ago
Only blue pill pussies and retarded feminists believe in the pay gap.
Flintblood 5y ago
This reads like a manifesto. All I will say is I go my own way on my own terms.
88Will88 5y ago
It is the early stages of a movement which will have a profound, positive and lasting effect on western culture. We are not at manifesto stage yet, but we will get there.
uniqueusernamex112 5y ago
hmm i read the whole post..left a foul taste
TelemachusRising 5y ago
First rule of Red Pill is not talking about Red Pill, but there are some really good talking points here that warrant paraphrasing when yer boys wanna “spew the blue.”
untetheredbachelor 5y ago
Wow. Frankly, I don't have liberal women's backs. They voted for hating men, why the fuck would I have their backs? Conservative women? Sure, but liberal women? Go fuck yourself. Feminists? Go fuck yourselves, I'm not saving them! Seriously. If you think you can save feminists you're as dumb as they are, frankly.
Trumeau 5y ago
Trp is about self improvement and creating the life you want to live. It has empowered me to have a very strong and fulfilling relationship, I do my best to lead and provide support for my partner because it makes us both happy.
Without TRP I would still be fat, miserable, and lead an unfulfilling life.
Librehombre 5y ago
So TRP is about love because it allowed you to build a nest.
Trumeau 5y ago
I'd say so. I found this sub pretty depressed, and there's a lot of anger here, but there's also a Lot of self help and advice on how to be a man: That's the gold.
LiveAFTSOV 5y ago
I'm glad we're addressing this : The Red Pill is about improving relationships.
I hate it when ignorant fools try to tell me I "hate" women - bitch I love'em, can't get enough of them! All I wanna do is have fun with them.
Men and Women both prosper from Red Pill in their relationships.
Love and peace <3
Andgelyo 5y ago
???? The red pill does not hate women at all. It is about going back to our roots about becoming masculine men, rather than the role reversal we often see today. Masculinity and femininity need each other.
Jaereth 5y ago
That's putting it mildly. I've heard that this is a place that teaches men to rape women.
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
Standard shaming tactic because you've not shown them as much privilege as weaker men do
TheReformist94 5y ago
They don't deserve the effort men put in,purely because of their smug entitlement
88Will88 5y ago
Indeed, we are here to bring the love back
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Rian_Stone 5y ago
I've recently started meeting and engaging with the 2nd wave MGTOW crew.
I'm starting to see, all the TRP hate is essentially hate for the "Turd Flinging Monkey" types.
Typical bloopie type women/soyguys, they think we all look alike. such racists
LiveAFTSOV 5y ago
I figured the muscles from lifting would be enough to differentiate. Time to get the pill tatted on our shoulders
ohyeawellyousuck 5y ago
Well, and this may be an ignorant question or view as I'm not any kind of endorsed contributor, but how does the constant awalt, women are sluts, don't marry, relationships only work if they are plates, etc. vibe fit into red pill being positive to a relationship.
I have my own opinions about this and how AWALT is affected by confirmation bias in this community, but I'd be interested in hearing a differing view about it.
I should also note that I understand the high risk, low reward nature of marriage for a man and have little interest in bringing the courts and lawyers into any relationship I have. I do, however, believe long term, happy relationships can exist with the red pill. That seems to be a very rare opinion on this sub. While I understand anger phase, it would seem many people adopt the opinion, regardless of where they are in their red pill journey, that no women should be worth your commitment as they will all cheat regardless of how much red pill you bring into the relationship.
AlexanderTheBread 5y ago
> but how does the constant awalt, women are sluts, don't marry, relationships only work if they are plates, etc. vibe fit into red pill being positive to a relationship.
Solar radiation can and will kill you. But it's also what gives life to this whole entire planet, including you.
So, what I'm saying is that you gotta understand the underlying mechanics of how men and women work on fundamental levels and THEN build relationships on top of that shaky foundation. Those relationships have much better potential to be positive than those build on fantasy.
Rian_Stone 5y ago
Guns are dangerous, assume all guns are loaded.
"Hey bud, lets go to the range and fire off a few hundred rounds! Best time of our lives"
LiveAFTSOV 5y ago
When you accept your dog might shit all over the floor, you still may get angry, but you under stand it's their nature.
Can the frog get mad at the scorpion who stings him? The frog should have known better it's the nature of the scorpion.
I also agree long term relationship can work. I love long term FWBs. The woman has to bring value.
I don't get angry at women for doing what they do. I laugh about it now. Look at my post "plate claimed she got raped"
ex_addict_bro 5y ago
Fuck, mate, you need to become one. Look at the interesting discussion your question spawned. Are you grateful for the answers? Rework them into a post, crediting people where appropriate and if it's good, I'm gonna request a mod point for you. Deal?
ohyeawellyousuck 5y ago
Yeah I could do that. Let me get through all the responses, I'll work something up, and we'll see if I can make it good haha. Thanks man!
HumanSockPuppet 5y ago
Because TRP isn't about having "positive" relationships (whatever that means) or making women feel good, or turning yourself into Super Pimp, or any of that shit. /u/LiveAFTSOV is wrong.
TRP isn't about ANYTHING.
TRP is a toolbox that you use to achieve your goals. Your goal is the "what is this about".
And no two men will have the same goal, nor the same route to getting there.
So if your goal is to train a woman to please you, you use the tools within TRP that are suitable to that goal and ignore the rest.
There is no underlying philosophy to TRP other than "apply the scientific method to methodically figure out what works" and "don't let people trick you into thinking that their goals are yours".
ReallyCongestedNose 5y ago
Excuse me, but that is semantical. Also, it could be argued that red pill does improve relationships. (Especially because in order to be red pill, you must have / be seeking relations, other wise youre a MGTOW or Incel.)
So, because of that, I wouldn't say he's quite exactly "wrong."
Whether it's plates or LTR's or even marriage, the dynamic of the relationship is improved, or the relationship is abandoned for a better one. I don't believe this is deniable.
Perhaps, he may have said "TRP gives you you the tools to improve your relationships," but once again, I don't think he is exactly wrong.
drty_pr 5y ago
Understand two things:
1) Redpill is a toolbox. Use what you like and discard what you don't in an attempt to bring you happiness and self actualization.
2) Redpill is infested with Incels and men who blame women for their own problems. Being completely oblivious to the fact almost all of their problems are of their own doing. Don't let the women haters spoil the sub for you.
HannibalBacara 5y ago
I think this is a great point. Some people treat TRP like a religion where everything said on here needs to be followed to a T.
There's a lot I like about TRP.
The insistence of getting off your ass and taking action, not only in terms of personal growth (appearance, finances, etc.) but in terms of women as well.
The way it explains male and female sexual behavior and how it is rooted in evolution.
That being said there's certain aspects of TRP theory that I don't ascribe to:
For instance dark triad and heavy dread game is just simply something I don't do. I perfectly understand how effective it can be it's just not my cup of tea. Not judging anyone who does it, just not for me.
For me personally, I've had my fill of spinning plates and one night stands. I feel more personally fulfilled when I'm in a LTR with a woman I care about. I don't rely on her for happiness though. That being said I don't go out looking for women to LTR. I am a big proponent of the vetting process that is recommended on here.
And then there's some things about TRP I don't like:
While hating women certainly isn't a tenant of TRP, you can tell a fair amount of the commenters on this sub hate women. Not the majority, not the endorsed contributors, but there's a lot of very angry men on this subreddit.
RedsideoftheMoon 5y ago
Yeah as with any school of thought worth its salt, if you ignore the extremes and go straight for the meat, you'll find those sweet, juicy jewels of knowledge. Eventually from that batch the ones who suck it up, take responsibility for changing their lives, and put in the work will evolve past that stage but naturally there will be a constant influx of newbies coming in at that beginning stage as well as people who never get past it. You just do you booboo
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lapeparoja 5y ago
Kinda, you just cannot discard something because you dont like it. Do it at your peril.
Rian_Stone 5y ago
If they didn't need the guidance, they wouldn't be here.
I'd start to worry if there was no male deficiency in here
drty_pr 5y ago
100%. I just wish people were quicker over here to call people faggots as we do on the other sub
88Will88 5y ago
Totally agree, this is where MRP can really teach TRP how to act like a fucking man. If you call someone a simp or a faggot here they cry and you get little factional wars. We always know that this sub is mainly populated by basement dwellers because of the way they cry so quickly.
Rian_Stone 5y ago
Can't trust kids with the power, they get too edgy and overuse it. ????
drty_pr 5y ago
Kinda like when I let my boys go free range with their sling shots. Suddenly they turn into gangsters and nothing is safe.
Persaeus 5y ago
you're not having fun if no one gets hurt
drty_pr 5y ago
I make em wear safety glasses. I remember when the band snapped and almost took my eye out as a child. Other than that, they'll live.
Persaeus 5y ago
a safe-ish way to play war is to make bullets by filling the corner of sandwich bags with flower and then then tying/cutting them off.
you can also see when you hit your opponent as the little baggy often explodes
Rian_Stone 5y ago
Such an 80s hobby
ColdIceZero 5y ago
There are a lot of moving parts to your comment, which pretty much cover the spectrum of TRP theory.
Marriage
First, I'm a lawyer; and I view marriage through a legal lens. It's important to distinguish matrimony (the [spiritual] union of two people as a committed couple) and marriage (the enforceable contract governed by the state which transfers legal title to property from one person to another).
In common parlance, marriage = matrimony. In order to demonstrate your love for your partner, you're supposed to have a ceremony that expresses your intent to be bonded with this person forever (or at least, that's what is socially expected). And while you and your significant other go through this matrimonial ceremony, it's also customary to pledge your property and financial assets to each other and promise to financially support the income-weaker between you two, until they die or remarry. Doesn't that sound romantic?
The advice against marriage is business advice. You wouldn't just jump into a business partnership with any yahoo who might embezzle from you and irresponsibly crash your business, but people haphazardly choose to pledge their financial security to their significant other without a second thought. They only sober up when things don't play out happily ever after, and now they're on the hook to comply with a court order to split assets and pay spousal maintenance.
So the TRP advice against marriage isn't synonymous with advice against matrimony; TRP advice against marriage is like a lawyer, CPA, financial advisor, and insurance actuary giving you financial investment advice about how you should be careful about who has access to your valuables.
TRP, in general
Second, at its core, TRP seeks to answer one question: what stimulus do women really respond to? Our culture teaches us that people, both men and women, *should behave in a certain way and that relationships *should be a certain way. This gives all of us certain expectations for how people should behave and react to us.
But social and cultural values don't always reflect nature. Masturbation may be a sin according to Judeo-Christian ethics and we're all expected to refrain from touching ourselves sexually; but as sexual creatures, boys and girls will always experiment with masturbation, even if they don't talk about it in public.
So what other things might we be expected to do publicly that we naturally do differently without discussing it? What things do people really respond to, especially when it comes to sex and physical attraction? Furthermore, what does it really mean to be in a relationship?
These are the questions TRP seeks to understand the answers to, free from the cultural and social framing we grew up with.
The results seem to be that people are not as pious as one might socially expect. Turns out, women like sex just as much as men (if not more than men). Turns out, fidelity is a wonderful virtue; but the median person doesn't behave virtuously.
So there's a clash between our socially developed expectations and the reality of how people act and the kind of behavior they respond to.
Anger Phase
Many men go through the anger phase as a result of the contrast between their expectations that women should be a certain way and how they really are. These men in the anger phase are hostile toward women because they blame women for their difference from the guy's expectations.
But these men are just angry fools. Eventually, the wise ones of them will grow past their own foolishness and stop being angry at women and learn to accept women for who they are and how they react to things. We can only know truth when we listen without opinion.
TRP Theory
Ultimately, the view is that the median person honestly doesn't want a long term relationship. Well, more specifically, the median person's actions are moreso driven by short term interests rather than long term goals.
While men and women pay lip service to the notion of being in a long term committed relationship, their actions indicate the contrary. Despite the fact that they may appreciate the emotional stability and financial support of a long term relationship, the problem is that those traits are not sexually exciting.
Sex is about excitement. Muscled men are exciting. Passion is exciting. Things that are new are exciting. Things that are old are neither passionate nor exciting.
So it's difficult to maintain a long term, boring, unexciting relationship when we are biologically wired to respond positively to new, passionate, exciting things, especially when sex is in the mix.
TRP on Attraction
You cannot negotiate attraction. Sexual attraction is not the result of a pragmatic chain of logical conclusions. Instead, sexual attraction is a hormonal, chemical response, often almost uncontrollable. At the end of the day, we are all just animals; so we shouldn't be surprised when people behave like animals.
Because sex and sexual attraction is exciting and exciting things have a tendency to drive our short term decision making, people are more likely to follow their hormones rather than their rational, pragmatic logic when it comes to sexual opportunities.
TRP on Women
So it isn't that TRP hates women or thinks women are second class (well, not as a main focus of the subject, at least). It's that TRP is about the reality of what people want, as determined by their actions, not as determined by their words. And it certainly appears that the median man and woman will act on their sexual attraction to other people, even when they are in a "committed" relationship. They will lie about it, they will twist certain truths, they will dodge responsibility, and they will eventually get bored and unfulfilled by the stagnant old relationship and pursue the new and exciting relationship.
This doesn't mean long term relationships are impossible, just statistically improbable because all women, all people, are still human and are still driven by their biological urges. AWALT.
Again, TRP isn't about hating women. TRP is about figuring out what stimulus women really respond to, and how we as men can realistically increase our success with women, mostly in a sexual context, but also to a lesser degree in long term relationships.
TRP on Plate Spinning
Plate spinning is just a practical approach to the transient sexual game between men and women. It's saying, "hey, I didn't make the rules to this game; I just understand how it's played. Chances are good that *she* [whoever] isn't the kind of girl you want to take home to meet your parents, but you still want to get your dick wet. As the 'relationship' is going to crash eventually, you might as well enjoy the ride while you can. She isn't yours; it's just your turn."
Conclusion
Ultimately, all of this is positive toward relationships between men and women because it's a study of discovering exactly what women want. By giving them exactly what they want, they are the most happy and we receive what we want. Then, by consistently providing the appropriate stimuli, we are potentially better at coaxing a relationship into persisting for lengthier period of time.
The important thing to realize is that a long term relationship is not like a train that can sit idlely on a track and be fine; a relationship is like an airplane that needs constant input in order to stay aloft. TRP recognizes this and also recognizes that sometimes, despite your best efforts, relationships crash. It's just important to learn from your mistakes, figure out how to improve yourself, don't get too hung up on past failures (or hung up on exs), and then don't be afraid to get back in the saddle and do it all again with someone else.
Back to Marriage
On a final note, except for taxes, nearly every legal property right can be covered by some form of contract or estate plan. Marriage is merely an automatic bundle of rights, but you can piecemeal those same rights outside of marriage. Marriage literally is designed at law to provide the bulk of its value after your death. In life, it's almost entirely a liability, a Doom of Damocles. Don't get married.
kaane 5y ago
This comment is much better than the original post
SlyGradient 5y ago
Good comment, +1 point awarded.
SharpestMarbel 5y ago
"In the end, TRP isn't about hating women. TRP is about figuring out what women really want, what stimulus they really respond to, and how we as men can realistically increase our success with women, mostly in a sexual context, but also to a lesser degree in long term relationships"
This is a tool of RP I use all the time, and the SO is happy.
boxxybebe 5y ago
What an incredible write up
LiveAFTSOV 5y ago
damn nigga you got the legendary 4th point
I didnt even know EC points went that high.
Great comment though.
Edit: TRP Legal Expert flair. Looks pretty. Congrats!
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alisemihc 5y ago
Sorry you just destroyed yourself there.
rebbit_reddit 5y ago
Nah. He means understanding what they respond to sexually and being aware of hypergamy
NormalAndy 5y ago
A great post.
Wrt the 'excitement' point, is it the same taboo with men and a love for excitement and drama as it is for women and enjoying sex? I expect to behave in line with Stoicism 1) in order to get the long term reward at the expense of short term satisfaction, 2) to discover that the satisfaction comes from being able to tame and control my basic urges rather than giving in to them.
From that perspective, I see marriage as a civil contract, as well as something borne from love, being no bad thing. The danger is the only the blue pill/ Disney princess ideal. A contract sets boundaries and rules for how partners should behave towards one another- this is a good thing. If and when a marriage is done, the contract can be disolved.
Accepting that relationships are transient means getting rid of the attachment of failure towards divorce, removing the 'till death us do' part of the contract and finding healthier ways for children to flourish under such circumstances.
Stable families are good for children- far better than the current State/ single parent alternatives- even here in Sweden where it is far better than any country I have ever seen. If families are going out of fashion, what is a better solution to keep evolving the species? I remain suspicious of State ambitions and would love to see a better alternative laid out which works well within the ideals of independent, free living.
jm51 5y ago
Walking Marriages have their pros and cons.
Not so good for the economic growth of a society but seems good for keeping a family unit intact even if times are hard.
At the poorer end of society, we already have similar. eg. guys with a few baby mommas that give more time and resources to his sisters children than his own.
NormalAndy 5y ago
Thanks! I’ll have a chat with a few of my Chinese clients about this one tomorrow- very interesting.
Sumshot 5y ago
So, if we remove "till death us do" then why are consequences after the divorce? Why should the financially stronger part have to pay for the weaker one after divorce? In most countries he has to do so for the rest of his life, Sweden is no exception. And if you remove that, what difference remains compared to not marrying anyways (regarding the civil contract)?
Easy. Just stop helping single mothers/fathers financially and reduce social help in general to the bare minimum. That solves this issue automatically. Just look into countries where it is like that. Much stronger family bonds, much more sane and responsible behaviour of men and especially women.
NormalAndy 5y ago
Dunno- not helping single mothers stops divorce and keeps people in bad marriages.
Btw, I’m not flag waving for Sweden (lucky goal that)- I find the experience here ‘interesting’ to the point of scary in its banality.
Sumshot 5y ago
I think it can be argued that a bad marriage is often better than a divorce from the perspective of the children. But keeping people in bad marriages is not as bad as it sounds (or as you make it sound).
First, people will start to invest more to prevent bad marriages from the beginning. Just look how family in eastern countries care for their children to marry a good partner.
Second, people will work harder to make sure the marriage doesn't fail. That includes both parts.
Last, look at kids nowadays. Video games and everything else has become so much more easy in general for them. I'm not arguing that this is bad, but it has a drawback. Sometimes you need to live through the hard times to understand that it is often worth the trouble and will reward you in the end. Fast and easy rewards is what happens today both in video games and in marriages - but in marriages more for women than for men.
So all in all I think while you made a point that should be considered, I think the drawbacks by far outweight the benefits of the current regulation.
ApexmanRP 5y ago
"same taboo with men and a love for excitement and drama"
Stoicism isn't just about maintaining control of your emotions, its about accepting the world as it is. There is room for delight, excitement and fun and a deep connection within that.
Women dont want robots.
NormalAndy 5y ago
Stoicism is about keeping yourself in check. Excitement and fun are shallow pursuits and often at odds with the deeper joy which comes from giving up childishness and becoming a man.
Call me a boring robot if you will- I can easily live with that- even appreciate it!
ApexmanRP 5y ago
Hey more power to you in terms of how you want to live your life. but.. you might want to check your understanding of stoicism..
Stoics viewed pleasure as neither good nor bad in and of itself, as long as it doesn't control you.
NormalAndy 5y ago
Lol- no worries. I think we are splitting hairs. I had spent a lifetime raging and raving but have undoubtedly found peace in self restraint and self control.
I can happily dismiss a robot comment because I understand how far away from the truth it really is- but sticking to my mission ain’t no bad thing.
But you are right, pleasure and pain are just happenings and there to be fully experienced with no regrets.
ApexmanRP 5y ago
"I had spent a lifetime raging and raving but have undoubtedly found peace in self restraint and self control."
Agreed, of course, self restraint and control are very important, as is sticking to your mission.
I like to balance that off with some fun and antics.. and driving fast occasionally!
NormalAndy 5y ago
Sure thing. It’s comforting to know that the rave isn’t going anywhere (although if you weren’t there in the eighties/nineties then you missed it tbh :-)
But its even more comforting for me to know my self discipline and focus are there.
Truly though, the raves did point the way for me but the real challenge is to achieve those higher states without the drugs.
It’s the zen ‘finger pointing to the moon’ (don’t concentrate on the finger); it’s the process of being able to turn off the computer when you have completed your research. It’s being able to understand the messages life sends to you and use them accordingly.
gbdoragnic 5y ago
> Well, and this may be an ignorant question or view as I'm not any kind of endorsed contributor, but how does the constant awalt, women are sluts, don't marry, relationships only work if they are plates, etc.
It's our real feelings, we aren't trying to manipulate women if we don't respect you, we won't, you aren't relationship material .
> that no women should be worth your commitment as they will all cheat regardless of how much red pill you bring into the relationship.
Show me where red pill says that, Show me right now, -thank you
CMajorThe3rd 5y ago
Very good points and also good to see you are seeking.
Relationships and redpill are fine, if anything it can simplify things so well that your objective in the relationship of self betterment will nurture one of the healthiest bonds you can form with a women given their inherent unconscious movements towards hypergammy.
The narrative of spinning plates is great for people who were not already emotionally invested into an LTR before being unplugged.
If you are unplugged,single and you choose to pursue exclusive relationships then I'm not convinced you fully realized your best self because you have had to take comfort in the feminized emperarive that sex should mean commitment, just be aware that is what you are trying to rationalize.
So, yes LTRs are fine, focus on you and enjoy shower sex with ya oneitis gf till she or you gets over the whole ordeal.
ApexmanRP 5y ago
"AWALT is affected by confirmation bias in this community"
I get your question but with this statement, you miss the point. The point is that all women ARE CAPABLE of the actions and behaviours we talk about.
And TRP focuses on these because like beta behaviours, most men have a block for accepting anything different.
untetheredbachelor 5y ago
Unfortunately, when I tell people that I am single they assume that I hate women to some degree or am some kind of selfish bastard. No, I just can't find a woman who won't drop the fucking feminist act who hates all men and claims that everything is sexism, racism, etc. If I did, I would want to date her. However, what are the chances that such a woman would want to date me? Chances are there'd be many guys lining up already at such a woman, or she's already taken. This is why I'm single. Not because I "hate" women, but because I cannot find one suitable enough for my lifestyle. I'm sure no liberal woman would want to date a conservative, straight white male coming from a regular upbringing. Nor would I want to. Because that just screams of a potential #MeToo. I would date if I found a nice conservative woman. Hell, I'd even date a church girl before I would date a liberal woman.
NevrEndr 5y ago
Get the fuck out of San Fran / Portland and go Southeast.
untetheredbachelor 5y ago
I'm not in San Francisco or Portland, but that is generally what most logical minded people should do.
ddiogenesofsinope 5y ago
Injections of Peterson in there. Lovely to read
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I disagree. Women are better off growing up and acting like adults. When they by and large refuse to do so, they are better off with a “daddy” (red pill) figure to manage their various immaturities.
DeusVultRightNow 5y ago
Women are nurturing, supportive and caring? What century are you living in mate?
Rian_Stone 5y ago
Men are strong and stoic. He's using potential/aspirational language, not descriptive
NormalAndy 5y ago
Don't improve the relationship, just improve yourself.
Bumpsidedriver 5y ago
The relationship is her job
Some_Random_Guy_1138 5y ago
Crosspost to twoXchromosomes
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bb-voyeur 5y ago
So much truth about women in this. I’ll add that feminists make the women described above feel way worse about themselves than any dude.
room_303 5y ago
Fuck all this, women will end up using your kindness and obliterate you. mgtow baby.
abudun79 5y ago
Good thing, atually, that we have all these movements like MGTOW.
In my days, people just said "Damn, I can't take this any longer" and bought themselfes a nice rope, because they were ashmed, not proud.
RedForEducation 5y ago
good luck, take care
CharacterBorder 5y ago
"Umm thank you sweetie" replied all women and got back to chatting with their lovers who just happen to be men who don't give a flying fuck about them, their happiness and their rights (and I'm not implying that there's something wrong with that).
OP isn't quite right, although he raises a some good points. Not gonna lie to strangers on the Internet, I'm still struggling with women. But I think I've been around them (or rather people in general) long enough to know that while the OP's message is more or less alright, his sentiment is delusional.
Women don't care about you having their back because you're not special and replaceable.
Women haven't been done wrong by feminism because they enjoy short-term pleasures.
Women don't care about your love because love is exciting when it's given away, not received.
Most of us was "having women's backs" at some point and the luckiest ended up in Manosphere while the rest are slowly drinking themselves to death being stuck in a soul-devouring situations without even realizing it.
You can replace "women" with "people" and these statements will still hold true. That's life, everybody is looking out for what they perceive as their own best interests and deep down don't care about others. With that in mind, OP's attempt to proclaim his "care" and "love" for women (who will stab him at the back the moment it suits them, like most of men) is a bit silly and frankly borders feel-good white-knighting in a world where homo homini lupus est. Women aren't your enemies but they aren't your friends either and they don't want to be.
There's a great comment by ColdIceZero addressing that point with way more detail and insight.
brother_dreadly 5y ago
Agreed, sir.
Saying things such as "I've got your back, women!" is the same sort of rhetoric/language utilized by male feminists ... who are merely begging for a "cookie." Being a smarter "dog," but still begging for the same "cookie" does not appeal to me. It's not a 100% equivalency, of course, this I understand -- however, it's unsettling to think that TRP might turn into Tradcon v2.0.
Additionally, why attempt to set a narrative for a community of men who are more or less here to share in learning the nature of women, and the male-female dynamic?
Why make yourself a better utility/appliance for a broken system?
ComradeDurdenTRP 5y ago
This part is crucial and could've easily been the main point of a well-written, thought-provoking post submitted by IllimitableMan, Rollo Tomassi, or any other TRP vanguard back around 2013-2014.
TheRedPill is not a single individual; if it were, though, it would suffer from a severe case of manic depression. There are ample pointless anger phase posts about how all women are cold, manipulative whores that only serve to ameliorate the OP's frustrations and don't offer any useful advise. But then the pendulum swings the other way and you get more tradcon submissions like this one. "Hey, ladies! Disregard the soyboys and forget all this feminist claptrap. We TRP men are here to treat you like you want to be truly treated!"
Needless to say, a more objective, logical stance between the two is required. "This is how most men are. This is how most women are. In fact, here's how the world truly works vs. what you've been led to believe..."
Women are not strong and independent individualists who have the potential to radically change the world like feminism would have us believe. But they're also not (entirely) helpless and (definitely not) innocent little damsels who need the guidance and stewardship of a dominant alpha male to be happy.
They would certainly benefit from it, sure. But it doesn't mean they'd fully grasp or appreciate all the work the man is doing to provide them with a better quality of life
Accept female nature for what it is. But don't ever become a white-knight, even if you consider yourself to be a more masculine 'alpha' version of him
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Greenmarbles 5y ago
What a load of faggotry.
A bunch of pandering idiots and groupthink to ward off anyone who disagrees.
Pretending you are positive or alpha shouldnt include bringing down other men. But thats all i see here.
Once again the blind are leading the blind and then later wonder why theres so little substance around here.
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TheRedPike 5y ago
Describe in detail how you see that and how I would make that same conclusion. Make sure you properly cite.
We don't wave our dicks at each other. We make arguments. Make one or you are on the next train.
Tick tock.
Greenmarbles 5y ago
Turns out i was wrong. I thought the most upvoted comment was calling people who hate women ignorant fools. Turns out he was talking about himself.
I will say this also. I dont give a fuck if you do ban me. Your authority is fake, so fuck off pissant
LiveAFTSOV 5y ago
I was, and still am.
Nah, I was talking about people like you, or others who say "The Red Pill is about misogyny, rape, and hating women!!"
Those are ignorant fools. So no, I wasn't talking about myself. I was talking about you.
We love woman.
TheRedPike 5y ago
All authority is fake. It's a malleable agreement that suits the moment. On the other hand, power is real.
LiveAFTSOV 5y ago
Damn, you rekt him with knowledge.
He doesn't give a fuck because he knows he loves and is addicted to this sub.
if you ban him, he will return with an alt account, like many of these complaining sperges do.
Pluglord 5y ago
As they are. Most dudes who hate women (incels etc) don't hate women because of their actions, they hate women because they aren't fucking any. Those guys aren't to be grouped in with TRP suscribers.
Another user made a comment here that should give you an exact explanation of why all you see here is "bringing down other men"....... Here: "When you're beta, bitter and sexless, all you can see is Men vs Women."
And even if this post was to shoot down incels or mgtwos or whoever, men aren't women. We don't uplift each other by massaging each others' pussies. Pointing out that a guy is a faggot for whining and not taking control over his life situation is the ideal way to help him.
There's little substance around here because this sub is becoming filled with guys like you who think TRP is a mancave where we jack each other off and discuss our frustrations. This is a quality post.
Greenmarbles 5y ago
Most men who hate women can speak for themselves, i dont pretend to care why, and i dont believe you since your a nobody and sound like a moron trying to justify his lazy meathead behavior.
You can go regurgitate the same bullshit everyone around here says that calling people pussies or faggots is helping, its your life.
You really found your audience here. Ever wonder why every thread in order to talk about women in here has some shitty sales pitch title. Because its all fake. Getting laid, no your getting gamed by guys who need to stroke their own egos.
I only stick around to listen to the older guys who turned it around and thats it. But i will continue to call out you fake fucks when i can.
Pluglord 5y ago
Yeah, because you're obviously not here to try to drill some vagina. You're to scared to even talk to women.
Tarkakabhai 5y ago
No amount of muscles will save you from divorce rape.
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Luckyluke23 5y ago
what I don't understand is, what is with the race to be a man. why are all women now short haired with tattoos man? what happened to femininity?
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Haruglory2 5y ago
I think OP may be colorblind, as he described a blue pill simp
nattlife 5y ago
There is a difference between red pill and "black" pill.
The red pill is about confronting the basic truths head on, and learn to deal with it through physical/mental training, practice, attitude adjustment and learning to frame.
The black pill is all about being completely abject about the uncomfortable truths and going off the deep end about it (like incels do)
The reason why I am saying this to you is because if you insinuate OP as "blue pill simp" because he was being optimistic in the face of uncomfortable truths, then you are towing the line off the deep end here.
If you want to mope and be all nihilistic about these truths, then you should stop posting in this subreddit and head over to incel community where they would be more than happy to suck the life soul out of you and make you one of them.
sandal_on 5y ago
Op, your post is an excellent post opening up the path to cuckolding and the poisioning in the western society.
Just stop. You're openly demonstrating weakness. Do you want society's best? Mind you I saud society's not women. If so, then stop pandering and conveying anything positive to other people. That's huge weakness and opens the door to end up being cucked, humiliated and destroyed.
As long as the redpill remains coldly logical and reality based, it will survive and move on under all difficulty. That's not an issue and the issue is that not accepting that society for the most part will be awful because most humans simply chooses to be illogical.
Screw what women and everyone thinks. Think for yourself, why do you even pander to people who doesn't even use simple logic? Are you seriously trying to get their "ok" or even their support from people knowingly using illogical?
Just think of that for a second. And then you will realize how stupid this is.
We don't need anyone. As long as as the redpill remains logical and reality based, things will be fine. But as soon as anyone tries to spread a good picture of the redpill to people who knowingly use illogical, then you open up the gates for simps and women to infiltrate and destroy this community, or worse, divide the redpill.
Pastelitomaracucho 5y ago
Well for all the good things you say, there's also of angry frustrated dudes that hate women because they can't understand them, let alone fuck them.
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blindface 5y ago
What is this trash? Haven't we done enough to dismantle the wage gap myth? You really ought to listen to Thomas Sowell.
The only gap is that between older generations and younger ones, which makes sense. Most people end up being in the top 20% at some point in their lives, if they can hold down a job and a family.
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Or now that Dr. Sowell is retired, his colleague Dr. Walter Wiliams.
gbdoragnic 5y ago
one thing I'm realizing as I become more connected is the red pill doesn't exists because of men, it exists because of women, We are filling a need that they have, otherwise we wouldn't exist, part of becoming connected means you have value and a purpose for this energy to exists, it would die out if there wasn't a need.
Women want us to win, but they need us to love ourselves first, value ourselves, and become strong because they don't want us to break on them
Feminism is dangerous because it traps a women in her ego, if you understand people you will realize feminism helps abusers because it makes it not their fault, it not her fault she went back to the same dude 5 times who broke her nose, it is the man fault, he is controlling, he is playing tricks with your mind, no bitch you want to play those same tricks he just beat you at your own game, you played yourself, the same with nice guys, they play themselves with ego.
lookoutitscaleb 5y ago
My best friend is part of a whole family of firefighters. They told me a story about a woman who didn't have to pass the physical part of the test to become a firefighter. The station needed more women to hit a quota. The woman wasn't strong enough to pass the physical part. She didn't meet the necessary qualifications to fill the job she was applying for and was given a pass due to her gender.
Fastforward to a fire. In the fire she tried to carry someone out. She wasn't strong enough and killed herself and the person trapped. There is a reason those tests are there. It isn't to disqualify someone, it is to ensure safety and that the people qualified for the job have the position.
88Will88 5y ago
If this story is true can you find a link. There must be a newspaper article or mention in the media about it.
lookoutitscaleb 5y ago
We live in a pretty small town. I'll ask them to see.
There's also a lady who is a firefighter and when all the firefighters hang out the guys joke "hope I we don't get stuck with her". It's all fun and games, but they're serious and she knows too and will joke along. It's not pier pressure joking either it's her being "yeah I sure did get one over on them. Why do you think I always do "x" and not "y", etc"
tilnewstuff 5y ago
Many good points, but no woman will be convinced when you say things like:
American women think of feminism is a religion; a holy creed. When you say stuff like that it's about convincing as an atheist going to a Christian and saying "Pfft, we all know God doesn't exist, stop believing that stupid stuff".
You have to be more nuanced and more subtle if you want to argue that point.
88Will88 5y ago
If I posted this in a sub populated by females my language would be slightly different but the message would remain the same. This was written for men
ApexmanRP 5y ago
Great post! I would say, if you did publish it elsewhere, don't change the language. You are a man, you use the language you use, its how men write. Own it.
AriesAsF 5y ago
Fantastic twist on the constant negativity and toxicity that seems to breed in this forum. The few gem posts like this are why I come here, and why I stay. Redpill is about rational observation and improvement. End of story.
get-tilted 5y ago
I think the real issue is, as many in this thread have pointed out, TRP is too similar to some of the shit going on in the Incel subs, to the point where it looks the same.
Incels and TRPers have very similar views on hypergamy and the works, but they separate at a very big point: how you’re supposed to deal with it.
TRP sees it as something to take advantage of. It essentially says if you maximize your SMV, take care of yourself both physically and mentally, and maintain a strong frame, you WILL become an alpha male. TRP is about making men better to maximize their value to both the people around them and theirselves.
Incels take a very hopeless approach. They think “well, if I wasn’t born in the top 10%, I’ll never be there. So, what’s the point in working hard?” They tend to give up, and live a very sad, nihilistic life.
I see it as very similar to the difference between a positive and negative outlook on nihilism. People who are positive and nihilistic, in a sense, will think “hey, if nothing means anything, then I might as well minimize the struggles of myself and enjoy my life,” while the more cynical of the bunch will think “if nothing means anything, then why keep living?”
It’s only something that someone who has a deep interest and understanding of TRP will understand, and it’s a god damn shame it’s that way. TRP is truly for the betterment of the modern day man and, by that token, the modern day woman.
We, as a society, need more strong men who can lead. We also need masculinity in it’s purest form if we want to succeed as a race. The fact is, children who don’t have a father growing up are bound to be beyond fucked up. In some ways, TRP can replace that “need” for a father. It teaches men what a man SHOULD be. It teaches men what success really looks like. It teaches men everything a father would teach and more.
In the end, it’s a god damn shame that TRP is vindicated as it is. But I’m also very glad the masculine nature of men prevails over those barriers to becoming a Red Pilled, successful man.
ghostintheweedgarden 5y ago
Did you mean the word vindicated?
derektwerd 5y ago
I think he meant vilified.
Vilify - speak or write about in an abusively disparaging manner.
ghostintheweedgarden 5y ago
I know. I was kinda just being a jerk because I was drunk.
get-tilted 5y ago
Yeah I should have used that
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MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
This is because women do 25 percent less work. The pay gap myth has long since been proven to be due to women not being in the workplace and choosing lower paid careers when they are.
Women in their 20's earn more money than men in their 20's when compared doing comparable jobs. Noone talks about this.
Women are less productive than men (google the productivity gap for more info). Noone talks about this.
Well, except we've thrown out commitment, white knighting, protecting women from their own choices, ignoring their pasts and raising the union of them with other men.
88Will88 5y ago
The fact that the gender pay gap is a myth has been known since Esther Vilar and Warren Farrell told everyone in the 70s. It has been screamed from the rooftop and people like Milo, Jordan Peterson and Gavin McInnes mention it in every interview on every major media outlet. Still it persists, still people believe it. So I chose to attack the myth on another front. That way even if feminists, SJWs and manginas talk about their unicorn, we can point out that their precious unicorn is a racist cunt.
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
Yeah, Obama reiterated it as 77%.
Victimhood -> special treatment. Even if it's false. But only for women.
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
Indeed, we do
She's a cop! She's a chick! She roundhouse kicks!
That works right up until she runs into the overhand right of the Patriarchy.
When I set expectations for new girls, i.e. that they are going to be soft and feminine, and dress like girls for me, and cut out the bullshit, it's like watching them blossom right in front of me.
Two reasons:
A. Asian men are invisible to white women. "NOWAG" happens so often that we have a name for it: NOWAG. And no I don't care about anyone's cousin Fong who totally slays white bitches. Good for him, he made himself exceptional.
B. Women fall for the Apex Fallacy Every.Gawddam.Time. "But the CEO makes a bajillion times what a cashier makes! No fair!" Well, yes because he's the CEO. And what do we know about CEOs? They tend to be tall white guys, except when they are women whose careers have been guided by white guys who then write books full of shit advice or when they are total frauds. Never trust a woman with a sclera show. It's a thing.
Feminism is a trade union for fugly women. Srsly. And it has some dangerous side-effects. That shit is why you don't send your attractive 18 year old daughter to Berkeley to get the mind virus.
dthlist 5y ago
You think this is because asian men are skinny asocial nerds or because of genetic hardcoding?
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
I think both of those are factors - Asian men are going to be shorter on the whole and women select for height without mercy, plus their rep in the west is hard-working and law-abiding and, well, that doesn't exactly get women wet.
Rian_Stone 5y ago
I think that was partially a hobbling, malnutrition and other environmental factors.
The Gen Z has a ton of taller Asian dudes, lot of the same soybrain problems, granted, it may be self selecting for those who come to Canada could afford to avoid all the shitty parenting
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
Yeah, but on average they're not going to be taller than white or black western guys. Plus, when guys say, "Why do {ethnicity goes here} guys not do well with women?" what they really mean is "Why can't {ethnic} guys get hot white girls?"
The answer to that is, outside of "for realz" Alphas, hot chicks get to pick, and Cousin Fong is going to have some extra hurdles to get over, because that's how shit it.
Rian_Stone 5y ago
ah yeah, the 'how do i get hot blondes' guys
they don't even want the girls, they want the status symbol. Nothing says bhupinder made it like a blond on his arm
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goonga_galoonga 5y ago
Not sure I like the "he walks away from all argument" line. True for sure if the argument is bs, but I mean there are plenty of times when reasonable people have disagreements. Seems like a frame-less response to walk away from "all arguments". Just need to keep a level head is all, assuming the disagreement has merit in the first place.
max_peenor 5y ago
Arguing is mostly pointless. Unless there is a judge, jury or court of public opinion, it universally changes nothing. People have to experience what it is you experienced for them to see things your way. Talking it at them don't work. If you want people to believe you, or better yet follow you, you have to SHOW them so they want to do it.
You know how you do this with women? Become attractive....
TheIcePill 5y ago
How to be successful with women
Step 1: Be attractive
Step 2: Don't be unattractive
88Will88 5y ago
Women are not reasonable, they are emotional. Trying to calm a woman down with reason has the same effect as attempting to bathe a cat. If she is trying to start an argument one or both of two things are happening. First, she is under the effect of one of her emotional tides, secondly she is trying to get you to raise your voice so she can drag the whole discussion down to an emotional level where she will completely own you. DON’T ARGUE WITH WOMEN
goonga_galoonga 5y ago
Come on, man. I think at least 90% of the time you're exactly right. But to completely dismiss another person's argument before you've even heard its premise laid out seems like an immature and emotional response - one you'd associate with an emotional female, really. This implies you're completely unwilling to accept that you might actually not be in the right, and that's just delusional.
Hear her argument, then walk away if it's typical bullshit. But only for this reason.
88Will88 5y ago
You are trying to drag this down to an emotional level and you are not listening. I did not say to ignore someone who is talking reasonably, I said not to argue, there is a massive difference.
jm51 5y ago
The word argument can have different meanings. Best not to use it without context imo.
Emotional shouting matches can be labeled as drama. Respectful discussions of opposing points of view are disagreements.
stylesm11 5y ago
Great post, i think this sub just gets a bad rep from heartbroken dudes that can't let go of the reason why they found this place
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DeontologicalSanders 5y ago
Misogyny.
Lol. Such a thoroughly-weaponized and yet nonsensical term.
Seriously, what the fuck men actually hate women? Sure some men might be frustrated, yes even angry at women? But hate? Seething, desire-to-destroy-and-humiliate hatred? It's laughable bullshit.
We literally depend upon women for the continuation of the species. The capacity to express any malice or violence toward women has been so thoroughly bred out of men over the ages that we gang up and beat the shit out of a man who hits a woman, even if we've never met her before. Men who are here aren't looking for an outlet for hatred or malice; men don't seek emotional "outlets". We seek solutions. We seek a fix for unrequited desire. A need for acceptance, and yes, validation from women. It's very possible to be frustrated and even resentful of women because of that unfulfilled desire. But hateful? No.
One cannot truly hate something while desiring it simultaneously.
The only real misogyny comes secondhand, from the collective voices of the chubby, blue-haired masses, whose response to rejection from the men they desire is never to look inward and improve, but to bleat long and loud, "Men are evil. Reject everything they have built for you, for it will only keep you down. Pretend you have a penis, and this will solve all of your problems."
88Will88 5y ago
Could not agree more. You should turn this into a post
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betabran 5y ago
This is true but I don't think they are convinced, perhaps due to angry incels' outrage on this sub.
88Will88 5y ago
Senior members can only point the way and hope that betas and incels see the light. If Elliot Rodger had been red pilled he would have been cuddling people instead of shooting them.
FeralRed 5y ago
They can only see the finger.
“Its like a finger pointing away to the moon. Don't concentrate on the finger or you will miss all that heavenly glory.”
Bruce Lee
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Gidanocitiahisyt 5y ago
I thought this post was a golden standard for what TRP should actually be about; improving the lives of both men and women. Unfortunately, many people that come to TRP will never see that side of it, because their first impression of this community will be of us comparing women to literal shit.
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abudun79 5y ago
TL;DR Men are just what a woman need. To bad they don't just get it, because they're women.
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Luckylancer96 5y ago
This would only trigger them.
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Metalgear222 5y ago
That has sadly spilled over and infected once attractive and feminine girls, spoiling them like a plague. and so the SMP gets smaller and their egos gets larger. But this is good for the true RP man, for he can be the breath of fresh air these girls so desperately crave to restore them to their true selves, and bring happiness to both parties.
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syf3r 5y ago
Because he has his ego tied closely to this post. So any criticism is a threat to his self.
Thunderfin 5y ago
And TRP teaches you that criticism should be taken graciously, because we can always improve ourselves.
So ironic.
88Will88 5y ago
It’s OK, I am not going to downvote you, I am going to ask the mods to permanently ban you.
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Thunderfin 5y ago
Bc he has a different opinion?
Doesn't seem like something a Redpill man would do... ????
88Will88 5y ago
No because he is a rude moron who is breaking our rules. Respect the tag is a red pill rule
Thunderfin 5y ago
Ah got ya. Didn't know that was a rule.
MGTOWMODSSUCK 5y ago
“Respect the tag”
Sounds like the same shit cops say whenever their authority and/or actions are called into question.
“Whilst he has her love, loyalty and support he is happy to do that. It comes very naturally to us.“
Isn’t one of the primary red pill truths that women CANT love men the way we expect to be loved? What semantic meaning of love are you using here op?
“Red pill men understand that women have been tricked and lied to. We know that less attractive, very angry women have invented a horrible movement to try and turn women into men”
I have actually known a lot of sexually attractive women who support extreme feminist ideas.
I agree with most everything you said about feminism being about affluence and not equality and even about equality of outcome being a bad goal. But where did all this “red pill is about love” shit come from? To me, the red pill injects you with rationality. Not love
TheIcePill 5y ago
Cop: *Shoots black guy* (No racism Intended it happened)
Cop: "Respect the tag", Lmao the irony.
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patrixxxx 5y ago
New subscriber. I just wanted to say that this is one of the best things I’ve read on Reddit. Ever.
Let’s stop falling for the Elites psyops and cultural engineering. Because what do they want? More for themselves and less for you and even less OF you!
What was women's lib? A campaign with the objective to get women into the workforce and thus increase the wage slavery. I love women and I love that they are good at things I’m less good at. Like taking care of a home and children. I’m also proud of my capabilities as a man.
And now that they have successfully increased wage slavery, they are going for our natural desire to make families. Less OF you! I do not mind homosexuality. I think anyone should be free to do whatever they like as long as it’s not hurting anyone. What I DO mind however is to make it a hip and normal thing. Tolerance? YES. Turning gay into something more normal than heterosexuality and encouraging mutilating sex change operations? NO.
Divide and conquer, that’s the game. As long as we have differences between sex, race, politics, ideology, poor/rich, we will never stop fighting amongst each other and look UP. Up at those who control our monetary system, media and institutions with the objective to gradually remove all private ownership and independence. They want us helpless and in slavery and have worked for centuries to accomplish that. But you know what. Knowledge is not only power. It is also freedom. To see your mental prison is to escape it.
Peace and may reason prevail.
Winterwolf98 5y ago
This is a solid post, in my view this is what redpill is all about.
AWALT is more of a precaution than a rule in my experience, it's more like all women are PRONE to be like that. It's like all lions in the wild might try to kill you, then you teach newbies that All lions are like that. That doesn't mean they can't be made friends with. Red pill is like the manual for women. Yes AWALT, but you can change that with the right tool box. That's TRP.
Forcetobereckonedwit 5y ago
Women are like weapons; they're all interesting and fun to have but if you drop your guard, and trip and fall on one, you're gonna get hurt.
meowgoesdog 5y ago
At first glance they are scared of redpilling men because the true gain from having a red pilled male is only achievable through sacrifice on their part
To have a man with strong frame and actual meaningful and beneficial purpose in life that he puts above everything else means that you will NOT have the leverage you dream of, you will not be able to get away with being childish or stupid in ur act because that man will not give in to ur bullshit or give any second chances
It is why they like to paint us like misogynist, because the truth is they must lose something to gain in those sort of relationships, it is like getting some sort of superpower but only at the cost of having to grow up and be responsible (rip uncle ben), not everyone is ready/mature enough for something like that
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whatsthisgarg 5y ago
all true, and always good to see a positive post on here
and also: HEY JACKASSES: do a command-F alpha on this page. You won't find the word alpha in the post.
There are no alphas. There are alpha qualities and traits.
Rian_Stone 5y ago
insight so nice, just had to say it twice
whatsthisgarg 5y ago
Alpha and beta aren't nouns, they are adjectives. This is a Sisyphian battle on here. Are you going to make the next post saying this or who is?
DayGameChirality 5y ago
Unless it is a man who is feminine, or a woman that is masculine?..
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
A man who is "feminine" would be "effeminate". So no "Feminine" is not an adjective that should be applied to a man.
DayGameChirality 5y ago
That's a derogatory term though. Cannot there be balance? I highly doubt world would turn its wheels if every man was 100% masculine and every woman 100% feminine. That'd be boring and predictable as fuck.
What is a woman then that is masculine?
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
I dunno...I think I'm in the high-90s myself....
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RedForEducation 5y ago
slow your role,
88Will88 5y ago
I have never been with an attractive, heterosexual woman who did not like to be dominated. I am getting plenty of support from women on this post. It is really only sad little basement dwellers, blue pillers and incels who get upset at my posts. It is great for the mods because we get to ban the little cucks.
CoraliePeach 5y ago
That's probably because submissive women are naturally attracted to you lol. Why would a woman with any other preference even bother to give you a second glance? Subs can usually tell when a man is dominant, and Doms can usually tell even easier when a woman is submissive. So the dominant women avoid you and seek out submissive men for their partners. That doesnt mean they don't exist. I'm sure they're pretty uncommon though, compared to submissive women, and yes, a lot of them are lesbians or bisexual.
FeralRed 5y ago
Submissive men have no business being here on TRP,
and TRP men have absolutely no use for so-called dominant women.
So, while you are right, you're on the wrong sub.
CoraliePeach 5y ago
Fair enough, as long as you acknowledge they exist. I'm not on the wrong sub, because I'm a submissive woman.
didudidule 5y ago
I would like to see reaction to this topic on subreddits that are against TRP
88Will88 5y ago
The bloops are bound to pick this up and post shit like “TRP thinks they are feminists” “TeRP says he loves women while participating in a hate sub” “Redpillers attempt to understand feminism” “Nazis claim to understand love” blah blah, outrage, outrage, shame on us. The usual garbage from a failing hate sub.
SILENTSAM69 5y ago
I do often laugh at the stuff here obviously written by an angry young guy. I've always seen this as a place to remind me of how to keep my marriage healthy. TRP advice may be about getting laid for some, but it is about having the power to make my life fulfilling for me.
Life means different things to different people. I can't help but see being the patriarch of a household as the ultimate goal since not reproducing means wasting ones life.
Some might tell me I am wrong. The same idiots often complain about immigration. You know how to replace a population that doesn't breed?
max_peenor 5y ago
With robots.
The Pill 3.0: some day the human race will change and there is nothing you can do to stop that.
TheIcePill 5y ago
One day robots will replace u too.
Aldebaran333 5y ago
Frame Game Radio is an excellent deeply red pilled channel run by a lawyer who teaches how to hold frame.
Fritz_Frauenraub 5y ago
If feminists understood how domestic violence is a result of beta rage their minds would be blown.
max_peenor 5y ago
Then they would have to admit the enter relationships with suboptimal genetic material for the sake of resource extraction and that would make them feel gross.
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Ginfame 5y ago
"It is a terrible shame that it had to be men who figured this out for you, but don’t be sad, the men of the red pill have your back."
HAHAHAHAHAHA, NO. Figured this shit out myself many years ago. Re-confirmed after they just openly responded to a leftist agenda.
Other than that, cute post. ❤
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NormalAndy 5y ago
It IS interesting how send so much food aid to overpopulated third world countries but never any contraceptives for population control.
Ginfame 5y ago
Been doing so on twitter. Maybe I will, i'm new in this sub and I am not a regular in reddit due timing.
Nowadays it just seems wrong to be a woman who shaves, wears dresses, loves makeup and waits for her man to come home to kiss him like crazy. The average feminist would cringe at my last statement, they're here to ridiculize heterosexual relationships and destroy the concept of family as we know it.
Hope this shit keeps getting debunked and more people open their eyes.
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Bengalsturntup2855 5y ago
He's a mighty mighty good man!!! Whooo
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omega_dawg93 5y ago
nice write-up.
i recently told a good friend that femininity is VERY attractive and that men really love it... like women love masculinity.
this broad flipped out and went on this hate speech about how & why being feminine (in today's world) is bad.
some are lost... you can't reason with them.
max_peenor 5y ago
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/22qnmk/newbies_read_this_the_definitive_guide_to_shit/
rty96chr 5y ago
Beautifully written.
A dirty little secret of mine tho, is as follows: most women eventually radicalize, and an extermination campaign ensues. They are successful at beginning the extermination of the entire male gender, but it doesn't go on for very long before they come to the catastrophic realization that they're devil incarnated. They immediately retract everything they ever said or wanted to do, but it's already too late: millions upon millions of us, some even kids, have already been slaughtered in the name of the feminist agenda. Us, men, spend the next century rebuilding humanity from this hatred-ridden world, as we have always done. But women aren't capable of getting over the events, and in the same fashion of the german white guilt, women of all generations have "female guilt" growing inside of them uninterrupted to unparalleled degrees of self hatred and loathing. This renders them psychologically and spiritually incapable of doing virtually anything beyond existing. This ends up benefiting humanity, as finally there is no half-of-the-population trying to boycott and destroy what the other half does: finally one hand is not trying to stab the other hand.
And I'm not even making this up, some women live by these principles ("Scum Manifesto", literal hate speech, is part of many universities' syllabus).
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Thunderfin 5y ago
Unfortunately the sub will always have a bad rep, despite many of these bullet points holding the truth.
max_peenor 5y ago
Good
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saltyafrican 5y ago
Can you share the stats on “Asian” men and women earning more? Asia is a continent so can you also explain which nationalities you are referring to specifically?
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saltyafrican 5y ago
Unlike you I don't believe everything I read and can form my own opinions
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Nergaal 5y ago
Where is the undeleted version?
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BlackCraneStoic 5y ago
Your sources for the info on wage earning would be appreciated, OP. Please don't say it's Wikipedia.
88Will88 5y ago
Just google “gender pay gap by race”. There are many articles and charts. I read several of them and extrapolated the figures.