Summary: Don't bother trying to explain concepts like The Wall and "personal responsibility" to women, especially postwall women. They don't get it. And worse yet, they get defensive and angry.
We bring you this breaking news story live from AskMen, otherwise known as a hub for women to come and get validation from thirsty guys. Today is no exception. A woman posted about how to land herself a nice beta provider after almost three decades of riding the cock carousel. Here are her stats:
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36 years old
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divorced
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single mother
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is proud and open about having tons of sex with random alphas from Tinder and bars. Calls herself an "ethical slut" and wears it like a badge of honor
- has an "alpha personality" herself (ie. is a bitch)
Even for the beta-blast that is AskMen, this was too much to handle. People started telling her to lower her standards and that she probably was not going to get a high value male, what with all of her handicaps. Of course, our feminist heroine can't accept that and lashes out at the commenters, telling them that they're probably just stupid teenagers who don't know nothing. Here are some highlights:
But my standards for casual sex are 100% physical while my standards for dating are much more well rounded.
Translation: To make my pussy wet, you need to be a tall White alpha male with 6-pack abs. But if we're going to be in a relationship, you need to have a 6-figure salary and the ability to change my baby's diapers.
If anything, I think being attractive is working against me. When I was in my 20s looking for a husband, I was a hot commodity within my small sphere. It was easy to find someone to date and then marry. As an openly kinky divorcee, it is easy to find men who want to fuck. But I believe there is a skill set that other women have that allows them to determine when a man has LTR intentions and when he is just saying all of of the right things to get in my pants - that is a skill set I do not have. I just realized as I wrote this that I was hoping something in this thread would help me start to develop those skills.
Translation: I'm so used to receiving tons of attention from males and having everything handed to me on a gold platter simply because of my vagina. I just don't know how to deal with the world now that I don't have this get-out-of-jail-free card anymore! Help!
And when someone dared mention that her humongous partner count was a turnoff...
I disagree about the obscene amount of partners. I know you are going to respond within moments with something or other that loosely equates to slut shaming. But for all the young ladies out there who embrace their sexuality or have kids - you aren't shit out of luck. Just make sure you date people who provide substantial answers to forum questions instead of spouting puritanical ideals.
Here comes the hamster. This is so rich. This woman is a complete romantic failure. Divorced, can't keep a man for more than a week. And yet she finds it in her to lash out at men providing realistic advice - telling them to go to hell and telling other women to follow her example. Because girl powah!
And she further tries to justify why all 100 men in that thread are wrong when they tell her she's undatable:
Yes i do. I think my education and career add to my quality. I think my volunteer and humanitarian work add to my quality. I think the fact that I'm well read and cultured as well as well traveled add to my quality. I also cook, sing and i am extremely athletic.
Behold solipsism. She values a man who's well-read and cultured and humanitarian and educated and blah blah blah... so therefore the opposite must also be true! Sorry, honey. The main turnon for men is whether you're feminine and whether you're thin. That's it. Nobody gives a shit about how many countries you've traveled to.
TL;DR: This is what happens when you try to explain reality to a postwall woman who's sinking fast. She will remain in denial all the way to her last breath, hoping that feminism will rescue her and provide her with a docile beta male who doesn't care about her past.
I_is_the_best 8y ago
You know we no longer have problems with white on black racism when you see a black mob lynching a guy in a confederate flag Tshirt like it's just another day at the office. It's just the opposite
You know there's no rape culture or sexism when women openly say such things. It's just the opposite.
luciansolaris 8y ago
Correction: ... whether you're feminine, young, and thin.
moodyprism 8y ago
I always find it interesting how people cope with the idea that their value as person is largely dependent on their utility to others, or in the case of intergender relations their SMV. When she is told that her value has fallen and alpha men aren't going to be interested in her there was a female cohort quick to rush in and tell her that "humans aren't stocks". As if that changes anything.
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I laughed.
exit_sandman 8y ago
That's female doublethink for you. "Humans aren't stocks" when it's about them being a bad investment due to their lacking utility for others. When it comes to them feeling attracted to men (and the fact that wealthy, handsome and ripped men do far better than guys who are none of the three), it's always because these guys have such a great personality.
jmg83 8y ago
So a man's job doesn't matter to a woman, then?
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
You job doesn't matter so long as it's good enough...
andre2003s 8y ago
interesting point: the job does not directly matter but only indirectl by how much money the job allows to spend on her - aka utility value. A frugal guy with high paying job is bad. A non-working heir buying expensive gifts is good. A guy with low paying job is normally low potential because even if he wanted he can't buy expensive useless shit. Unless he is a med student - then catching him before the doctor salary is a good strategy since he can be divorced any time if it doesn't work out with no negative consequences for the woman. If in doubt she can date another hipot claiming the future doctor wasn't attentive enough to her emotional needs.
jmg83 8y ago
It's the ability to buy expensive shit as well as the prestige, I think.
Life_Can_Be_Simple 8y ago
Expensive shit she'll probably never use.
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Squeezymypenisy 8y ago
Most redpill response to her comments was theordores 9 or something. He defined what men look for in a wifetype vs a sluttype.
NADER_THE_GATOR 8y ago
And to add to this if you like to read books, definitely pick that book up its fucking hilarious. I loved it and read it in two days
exit_sandman 8y ago
Funny, I noticed that detail of the post as well.
My take on it is that the "ethical slut" does rarely if ever exist. Yeah, it sounds pretty lofty, as if the sluttiness is what makes that person ethical; which is pretty much never the case. Sure, you can be an ethical person and slutty (for example work at an animal shelter while being a swinger in your spare time, or being a philantropist playboy), but rarely are the two connected - when it comes to having sex, sluts are as callous, judgmental and demanding about the guys they're sleeping with as every other girl. Being "ethical" is equated with "not cheating when sleeping around", which is pretty much the minimal standard for that.
I don't know, maybe I aim too high, but for me "being ethical" also implies a certain willingness to sacrifice without ulterior motive (so no, being a very generous and giving lover as long as you're together with Chad doesn't count).
newls 8y ago
It's popular because it goes along with the popular feminist trope/tripe platitude that women can have multiple opposite and largely mutually exclusive things. You can be a slut and a good catch! You can be a man and a woman! You can be black and white! You can be left and right!
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1) Regardless of gender I don't believe alphas ever have to communicate that they are in fact alpha.
2) An alpha wouldn't have made that post.
1) Validating herself to complete strangers.
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her post and comments really come off as pathetically desperate and psychotic
I AM BEAUTIFUL AND CHARMING, DON'T YOU UNDERSTAND?
TheMountainWhoDews 8y ago
This is right on the money.
allfunkedout 8y ago
proof that she's only a fraction of the woman she's claiming to be.
aguy01 8y ago
Women can attempt to emulate alpha males, and perhaps be alpha in relation to other females, but they are incapable of being 'alpha'.
648262 8y ago
Can you please define what you mean when you say alpha? Because your use of the word in your context is highly confusing.
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I love the whole predivorce I was a Christian loving wife BS. How are you going to hop from cock riding slut to Christian to cock riding slut. Man this woman has issues. Hope she likes cats.
cover20 8y ago
Did she say how many months she was a good Christian wife? Did she cheat? Betcha.
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I didn't read anything about how long other than during her marriage. And I can almost bet she cheated.
CyberninjaZen 8y ago
Almost everything is deleted in the original thread.
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exit_sandman 8y ago
It's frustrating when you consider that this "game" is actually how some women were able to get partners over the years.
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gregd28 8y ago
I have a question: Did this happen? If you want to write fiction, there's other subs for that.
Charrington84 8y ago
Bitch get off reddit and make me a sandwich.
Absinthe99 8y ago
Yeah because I mean look at this guy all braggin' and exaggeratin' about meeting A (one) middle-aged chick on Tinder who is DTF -- that is just such an implausible story ... and no chick would ever say something like "we should date" in her post-coital (and probably half in the bag) after-glow stage, much less would she make a sammich.
I mean that's really "out there" stuff... pure fantasy, what with it taking place on her interstellar starship and her using that firebreathing pet dragon to toast the bread for the sammich ... oh wait, he forgot to mention that part.
vengefully_yours 8y ago
I had a 36yro single mom say we should "surprise everyone and get married" right after she rode my cock and squirted on me.
She could tell by the look that she was dreaming. Bitch is fucking crazy, at least she isn't destructive crazy, just paranoid and her anxiety goes off the charts. Great at fucking though.
sensitiveduck 8y ago
I ask for a sandwich or a backrub every chance I get after sex.
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SgtBrutalisk 8y ago
The truth is out there. Trustno1
mojo_juju 8y ago
And that, gentlemen, is how it's done.
SCROTAL-SACK 8y ago
naw, too much time wasted.
~fin.
vengefully_yours 8y ago
Why pay her? She got a load to carry home already. Protien is good for them.
luciansolaris 8y ago
Let's not forget the testosterone, oxytocin, and vasopressin too in the seminal fluid!
Da-Aaron 8y ago
Because if you give them money, they might leave quicker.
vengefully_yours 8y ago
They leave quick enough when I tell them to gtfo.
cannibaloxfords 8y ago
Yes, I've done this exact thing many a times. Its legit
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Now I have an irrational desire to know what kind of sandwich Adolf would make.
Absinthe99 8y ago
Probably a very Jew-sy one.
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Dis_mah_mobile_one 8y ago
He made a sandwich out of the entire German nation after both the Soviets and America got involved.
KnG_Kong 8y ago
I would of gone with a diet Jew sandwich (99% less fat)
letsgoblues 8y ago
Not much meat, but there are 6 billion of them.
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TheMountainWhoDews 8y ago
This is a terrible joke but I like your username.
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It's an old YTMND name.
And yes it was absolutely horrible.
It should have been Diet Mountain Dew, considering all the weight-loss.
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What kind of sandwich was it?
TheThingsIThink 8y ago
Asking the hard questions. Please deliver!
Newbosterone 8y ago
Prolly Subway. They hide the wrapper, then act like they made it themselves.
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Idk why but this made me crack up hahahaha
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WarriorInRed 8y ago
INB4 Mustard and Peanut butter sandwich.
Dis_mah_mobile_one 8y ago
PB with honey and bananas bro
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Dis_mah_mobile_one 8y ago
That's my carb-y weekend snack. I probably have one every week
BFMCBeaner 8y ago
Do it! That shit is delicious!
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5t3fan0 8y ago
i wish i could make one for you myself, because this "well that depends on how good of a sandwich you are about to make me" and I slapped her on the ass was splendid
quelques_heures 8y ago
Sure there are. Except they're over 50, with a pot belly and child-support payments. But she doesn't want to hear that right now.
Shankar_ 8y ago
It's almost as if that was a troll post. It's too hard to believe.
VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago
Big time. Same with her education. No man ever said, "Baby, that women's studies degree looks soooooooo sexy on you!"
RedBigMan 8y ago
I got a good laugh out of that one... this should be framed and put on a wall somewhere.
OneRedYear 8y ago
If men thought like women, Oprah would be the hottest woman on earth. 3 billion dollars net worth sooooooooo sexy!
exit_sandman 8y ago
Google Gina Rinehart. So hot stuff, I tell you!
VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago
Women can make themselves believe fucking anything.
The Dove "Real Beauty" campaign*? It should be called the Dove Real Fattie campaign. It's about selling soap to fat chicks by telling them that they have 'real beauty'. WRONG-O.
The problem that these women have is, in the World of Men, what MEN want fucking matters. So Delusional Fattie Girl is only going to get pumped and dumped by a desperate/drunk guy who, when hosed about it by his buddies is going to say "Had Sex, Don't Care". They are NOT going to have Chads and Biffs falling all over them b/c they're so 'Beautiful'.
Uncle Vasya
*Warning: do not google this for at least 45 minutes after a meal.
ChairBorneMGTOW 8y ago
It's a smart market to appeal to for Dove, honestly. Fatties have significantly more surface area and get sweaty when they climb a single flight of stairs; ergo they use up a bar of soap faster than a normal human.
teeelo 8y ago
Good lord. Fat acceptance as a marketing ploy?
No...it can't be true.....I won't believe it!
VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago
I'm not arguing the marketing strategy, just the delusion on the part of the shoggoths.
exit_sandman 8y ago
Unless you insist that a womans hould have a BMI lower than 20, the curvier women the Dove campaign showed were indeed appealing (in my book at least). However (a) the vast majority of women don't wear their weight that well and (b) these women are skinny compared to the women who consider themselves BBW.
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ztsmart 8y ago
Personally I prefer intellectual and well-educated women. Having a stupid or LSV woman around you can negatively impact your SV as a man. Also, dumb girls are boring
VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago
But first they have to pass the boner test. Education, etc., in and of itself, does not raise a woman's SMV. Show me fat chick with a masters from Harvard, and I'm still not going to want to bang her.
ztsmart 8y ago
A fat chick from Havard is a lot better than a fat chick from the trailer park who works at Wendy's.
I'm willing to choose a girl who has superior non physical qualities (within reason and no fatties). Some girls can be hot but absolutely sexually repulsive once you get to know them
648262 8y ago
The fatties with or without education are both irrelevant - none of them are better or worse and in practice they do not exist.
Though it is nice to not have to explain everything to these girls.
ztsmart 8y ago
Where are you from that fatties do not exist and how much are houses there?
cover20 8y ago
Greenwich CT and good NYC suburbs generally, and good parts of NYC itself. I don't know where that guy is referring to, but there are few fatties here.
How much are houses here? About 4 times what an equivalent house would cost many places. But surprisingly, large lots are a good deal (under a million) in the northern suburbs i.e the Hudson valley.
648262 8y ago
Alphaland, and it costs a hundred benches.
hirjd 8y ago
He means they are irrelevant. They are not sexy. You might as well argue that motorcycles are faster than bicycles. You'd be right, but I can't get a boner for either one so in this discussion they do not exist. If a woman is fat she is not attractive. Period.
ztsmart 8y ago
I'm glad my wingman disagrees ;-)
hirjd 8y ago
He chases educated, cultured women? At the bar? With you?
ztsmart 8y ago
No, he will jump on the fat friend like a dachshund going after a tennis ball.
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JeanValjean197o 8y ago
The thread was deleted for being "brigaded".
Let's look a the pros and cons of a relationship with this woman.
There are about 25 good reproductive years with a woman. The first few are spent as a minor. At 30 she has maybe 10 years left with each year becoming increasingly difficult to conceive. So, if any many wanting children would rightly exclude her.
She has children from a previous relationship. These are huge time and resource sinks that will siphon off resources from any step-daddy even if they are getting support from the baby daddy. This means fewer resources for any children produced from that union. Any man wanting kids of his own would again rightly be reluctant to be with this woman.
If reproductive capacity is an asset then a woman at 30 is a rapidly depreciating asset. If he were in his 40's a man might consider her acceptable since his own smv is declining (albeit much slower, but theoretically could rise if he becomes much more financially successful).
She's fucked a lot of dudes and doesn't know how to make a LTR happen or if it does how to make it last. This is a huge red flag for a man. While the partner count can be daunting, as a man in his 40's with a significant partner count himself, I am not put off by this. Frankly, it's nice to be with a woman who knows what she's doing and how to take care of her man. Experience is worth something. However, can a woman who is a self-admitted slut settle down with one man any more than an obese fast food lover settle down with home made healthy meals?
I don't think her situation is hopeless. Well, it is as long as she maintains this notion that her smv is as high as it ever was and men should just change to suit her.
She does have to change her standards. Go for older men. Be willing to pay her way. Offer to have more kids if he wants, but often older men don't want more kids. She'll have the partner she wants. He'll have one significantly younger than he is and therefore pretty enough in comparison.
Oh, and her kids must be well behaved and exceptional. Bratty little fucks who mope around and cop attitudes are a non-starter for me.
cover20 8y ago
How would the baby daddy continue to pay CS after she marries you? I think the court would allow him to terminate the CS wouldn't they, unless you are indigent. The court would not allow you to protect your assets from kids you are adopting. And how can you marry her without adopting her kids?
I don't know this for sure and I could be wrong, but I just don't see any way you avoid taking on a full share of supporting those kids.
Extremely unlikely with a single mom, especially with this single mom. Genetically they didn't inherit those traits, and their childhood has been destructive.
LastRevision 8y ago
The reality is that it's her against her; which is the struggle for most women.
It sounds like she is retained her beauty, as much as a 36-year-old can, and if so the reality of the situation is that for most thirsty beta-males, her partner count won't matter; when she says that she can't differentiate between a man becoming interested in her long-term or a man just trying to fuck her, it's because she can't bear to deviate from the high(er) sexual market value men who would never date her, and give Betamax Barry a chance who would probably cut off a pinky to have a relationship with her.
The real damage of the carousel is how entitled she feels to the high sexual market value men who only want her for sex, thereby making Average Alan seem like a retarded pedophile.
jewishclaw 8y ago
You'd be surprised (I am) at some of the absolute dogs that say, in public, with a straight face, "I'm very attractive."
Absinthe99 8y ago
For now... gravity and mileage are going to start busting through all of that within the next 5 years, guaranteed. She's got two choices really, either accept that and learn to age gracefully, or else she's going to go full bore with things like botox, & etc in a vain attempt to try "keep" looking young.
Plus, her kids (she has multiple, she used the plural so it's at least 2, possibly 3+) are going to be hitting prime "teenage" years very soon -- seems she married and had them in early-mid 20's -- so I'd bet the oldest either just became a teenager, or is on the cusp of it. Regardless, during the next decade she's going to have a household full of "angsty/bitchy" teens...
That's going to take a toll on her looks, on her wallet, on her dating possibilities.
And it's pretty much going to guarantee that no SANE man will want to be anywhere near (young kids, preteen, can be cute and "endearing" and help to tray some gullible type -- angsty, angry, bitchy teens ... are a different story entirely).
IwillDieForMetal 8y ago
Maybe she will be one of those "cool moms" who let the kids drink, smoke, etc at her house. Meanwhile she will fuck the alpha teenagers (or attempt to)
Envar 8y ago
Just described my mom to a T.
wont_tell_i_refuse 8y ago
An attractive 20-something guy might try to fuck the angsty, bitchy teen (in the heights of her "bad boy" phase) and get locked in by the mom pulling the Stifler's Mom routine and convincing him she's the best lover he's ever likely to have.
That may be unrealistic, but it sounds like her best shot.
Absinthe99 8y ago
I doubt that. No twenty-something (at least none of the ones that are going to be dating any of her children) is going to be marriage fodder in the materialistic sense that she is looking for.
Besides that's who she is already hooking up with via Tinder (quite probably she reels them in because she has a couple of pictures of herself from a few years back and has slightly "discounted" her age -- and even that isn't going to work much longer -- I think subconsciously she realized that).
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Women only have how they feel and how they think they feel, hypergamy doesn't shut off so once she gets with one chad it is all her body thinks it deserves. Meanwhile the chad just wanted sex and now she can't bring herself to date any lower because thats just how a woman's body works. Dating around is terrible forewomen because it only takes one horny chad to complete screw her dating value for life
RPSigmaStigma 8y ago
Holy shit, this is so true. I've never put it together like that, but as soon as I read it something clicked in my head. I feel like I just took the red pill all over again.
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Its something that was posted a week or two ago. It was a post about why women hate betas that try and pick them up. Chads make women feel special so they reciprocate, betas make women feel bad about themselves so women treat them poorly. If I find the post i will update you.
furiKuriTRP 8y ago
Wait can you elaborate? Why do betas make women feel bad about themselves? Because they're "good guys" but she knows she's a "bad girl" (hence downplaying the n count)?
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Its basic hypergamy, if a guy walks up to a girl showing a ton of beta traits she will be insulted if she has a bunch of Chad's inflating her ego. The idea that undesirable men think they have a chance with her makes her feel bad about herself and she then projects it outward towards the beta. Women have how they feel and how they think they feel, and if the beta doesn't control how she feels she will more often then not come to dislike him because of the social value she would gain by attaching herself to him. It doesn't matter if the beta shows her a good time if she is thinking about how weak he is the whole time.
NiftyDolphin 8y ago
They feel that the caliber of man who hits on them reveals their value.
So if a woman has a lot of 5s hitting on her, they're broadcasting to her (and more importantly to her social group) that they think that the best she can get is a 5.
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I see cats and game shows in her future.
Absinthe99 8y ago
Or some dude named Julio who bitch slaps her, but who was willing to hitch up with her because... green card.
Leavism 8y ago
Her future was so dumb I pronounced Julio with a hard jay sound
Absinthe99 8y ago
ROTFLMAO, they "cleansed" the entire thread. Completely -- literally wiped out every single comment.
How hilarious is it to read that she's 36 years old, with kids no less (meaning "mommy" is soon going to be giving dating advice, etc her little collection of Janey and/or Johnny crotchspawn) -- and claims to have an "alpha personality", etc etc... yet she also claims: "i don't really have any idea what it looks like to date for love or be in a real relationship."
Oh, and she's "I am nearing the point where I'd like to have a more substantial relationship -- nearing... but not quite there yet (not sure she doesn't want ust a couple of more rounds on the old CC before she'll be willing to "settle down" ... with some "lucky" guy... HA!.)
Also got a kick out of one of her comments ITT: "I've seen that while I've been out dating. But my standards for casual sex are 100% physical while my standards for dating are much more well rounded." And by "well rounded" meaning she wants some beta-simp WASP with a mansion, multiple vacation homes, some solid business assets or investments (preferably a CEO type, some high-tech incel neckbeard nerd would be ideal), a thick wallet filled with cash and lots of credit cards, etc. -- whereas when it comes to "fuck & suck time" she prefers Juan the pool boy, or Chad the biker-druggie (you know, the "beautiful people", LOL).
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And yet she thinks that -- somehow -- she ought to still be viewed as "PRIME" marriage material; and that all she needs to do is change the "window dressing" and slightly modify her "attitude", etc.
As if.
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Absinthe99 8y ago
That's exactly what it means. The comments were supposed to be 100% "affirmations" about how she's still a "special snowflake", how she must be a "great mom" and that as a "smart and independent womyn" she will doubtless soon find some man who is worthy to be chosen as her "lucky" and "privileged" spousal partner, and to become a part of HER life, and the lives of her blessed children, and... blah blah, yada yada, etc.
Instead everyone apparently gave her straight answers, told her about "the wall" and that she was essentially a used up slut-hoe with very poor chances of finding anyone willing to want to get anywhere near her and her proverbial festering crotchspawn collection.
exit_sandman 8y ago
This means it was too hostile. And linking that thread in here probably wasn't that great of an idea either.
NiftyDolphin 8y ago
It means the thread skewed towards the RedPill and the mods feared brigading.
Dr_Shakalu22 8y ago
"Almost three decades of riding the cock carousel"? She's 36.
FearLeadsToAnger 8y ago
It's hilarious that nobodys getting this. If she'd been going for 3 decades she'd have started at 6 years old, and i'm not really sure how to end this senten-
Absinthe99 8y ago
I suppose it depends on what you mean by "decades". It's 2015, so the decade of the 90's, the decade of the 00's, and now the decade of the 2010's.
I don't know if that's what OP meant, but it's plausible to think of someone being sexually active across three "decades" in those terms.
SilverWolfeBlade 8y ago
Out of personal experience, I remember in high school - the attractive girls started early losing their virginities and ducking around. This was 14-16.
So if she started at this age, which is highly likely- then at most it would of been two decades.
ferengiprophet 8y ago
There were girls in middle school who were sleeping around and this was way back around 2003
skoobled 8y ago
Damn these young sluts, hot for dem Mallards!
(Autocorrect, I know, but I couldn't resist the gag)
SilverWolfeBlade 8y ago
A Donald/daffy fetishism I would say
tomysotomayorfuxboys 8y ago
They don't have to be attractive to lose their virginity. There are sexually active ugly teen girls too.
aguy01 8y ago
"There are lots of fat ugly sluts. There are no fat ugly studs."
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The ugly ones are actually more promiscuous. The attractive ones are more picky, because they are already overloaded on attention.
tomysotomayorfuxboys 8y ago
The ugly ones have to put out to get attention and the attractive ones don't.
The stereotype type is the popular guys in HS date the attractive girls and use the fat ugly ones for easy sex.
Glenbert 8y ago
I've heard of women swallowing or spitting, but never ducking.
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PillersOfTheEarth 8y ago
It's quackery, pure and simple.
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thefisherman1961 8y ago
Why would I want to LTR an older slut when I can have a younger less experienced girl with higher self-worth who is more likely to bond with me, less likely to cheat, less likely to leave, and less likely to have STD's? There's nothing puritanical about preferring women with low partner counts for LTR's; raging against "slut-shaming" is just feminist propaganda that ironically shames men for their inherent biological sexual preferences.
FLFTW16 8y ago
They tell her to stop chasing short term sex and definitely no more Tinder and she responds:
It's like telling a child they don't get to eat any more cookies. Ever. LOL!!! Her pussy must be absolutely deformed. I feel sorry for any man that falls between her cross hairs. She will probably resort to some drastic deception, join a church for a month and pursue a 40-year old virgin blue pill who is led straight off a cliff by his pastor.
Yes, it is the men with the difficulty, not with the woman (YOU) who lacks value compared to other women.
Oi! It's not even worth it to try to get inside her mind. She is about as aware as a retarded chimp.
jewishclaw 8y ago
I'm as anti-slut as the next rp'er, but I have never understood this whole, "if a girl is a slut her pussy is loose" thing. If a girl dates one guy for 8 years and they have a healthy sex life, her pussy will have had way more abuse than any slut. I dated a girl for 6 years and with a few exceptions (flu, out of town), we fucked at least once a day. Even the sluttiest girls I know only average 2-3 times a week. Think about it, that would put her number in the 1000's of guys by the time she was 28.
luciansolaris 8y ago
More like her crotch hairs...
NiftyDolphin 8y ago
What immediately came to mind was the mentality of someone who's been driven to give up drinking or smoking by someone else.
As soon as they're mad at that person, they'll use it as an excuse to fall off of the wagon.
As far as monogamous relationships go, she's broken. She should just give up on that and concentrate on being a good mother.
But she's not going to do that, because she wants a sugar-daddy. So she's going to reel in some Beta and destroy that poor guy's life.
JackGoldsteinWrites 8y ago
"__[OP]Female 3 points 10 hours ago Thank you. No more tinder - check. That's gonna be hard."
LOLOLOL
Absinthe99 8y ago
Actually at age 36 and with multiple (at least 2, and I'm betting 3+ kids) -- she's probably not looking to have any more diapers changed.
Instead what she wants is a 6-figure salary, and plenty of savings/assets to be able to fund her (soon to be teenage, then COLLEGE age) several kids university tuition + room & board bills ... or probably even to just pay the food & clothing & other crap, which starts getting multiple times more expensive as they get bigger (not to mention the likely jail bail/bond costs, lawyers to defend their idiot asses & keep them out of Juvie & the out of prison, etc.) Because she needs to be able to use HER income for HER things (I mean there's a lot of expenses coming up: botox treatments aren't cheap you know! Not to mention the array of boob-lift, butt lift, face lift & tummy tuck procedures that she's gonna need within the next decade. And then of course there's the need for the maid to take care of the house & kids while she's in recovery.)
hirjd 8y ago
Single mom's don't give a fuck about their kids. All his money is for her.
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TheSKSpecial 8y ago
The "Art Of Whore" post really should be sidebar material.
quelques_heures 8y ago
This just gets me thinking that women, in general, are so accustomed to being the "winners" in the mating game, that when they hit the wall they literally cannot believe it.
Even from a young age their expectation is getting lots of attention for the fact that they have a pussy. There's such a disparity in that regard between women and men.
A man has to be on top of his game, fit, hygienic, clean cut, just to get a chance at some pussy. Meanwhile, even a fugly girl just has to show-up to get laid.
Seriously, she doesn't shave her pussy, take a shower, or even wear clean clothes and she'll still find someone willing to fuck her.
Just imagine having that ability: you can do less than the bare minimum to attract a mate, and there's still people lining up to fuck you? And that's your life from when you're 12 until you hit your mid 30's.
And then one day it comes to an end and they literally cannot believe it. "What? You're saying I'm not hot shit any more just because I'm 35?! So sexist!"
sir_wankalot_here 8y ago
Let's say you had two women, both 35 and both about the same looks. Woman A has 3 kids which she expects you to support and a mile worth of cock driven through her. Woman B has no kids and did not have a mile of cock driven through her.
Which would you choose ?
BallisticTherapy 8y ago
A mile? More like 500 miles (of Mr. Right)!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CQkWUTDrWas
exit_sandman 8y ago
Trick question! They're still both 35.
Okay, that was the obligatory asshole response, but seriously: I intend to have children. Not now, but at some point. I certainly won't start dating a 35 year old if I have options because dating a 35 year old means that I can most likely forget having children.
sir_wankalot_here 8y ago
Well it depends on your age. I am a wee bit older then 35, and younger women are more immature. Also I already have kids.
Woman A obviously has poor impulse control, and is a disaster waiting to happen. While Woman B has better impulse control, probably is better off financially, has a career etc.
exit_sandman 8y ago
Okay, I can accept that. But the thing is, even if you lack an abundance of options: if you don't have children yet there is literally no reason to wive up a woman who already has some and is beyond her fertile years. If you don't want children, you certainly don't want to take care of some other guy's brats. If you do want children, you probably want your own which means that even if you are willing to date a single mom, she should at least be willing to have a few of yours as well.
sir_wankalot_here 8y ago
Even if the woman is 25, I would not wife her up. There is no way I am paying for someone else's bastards. Basically it is self imposed cuckolding.
Dating sites are the best to do prefiltering. So you start talking to some chick on chat, if she has kids and one of the first things she asks is "what is your job ?". She is sizing you up for a beta provider.
A few times I told her straight out, I am not interested in supporting your kids. But while you are looking for someone to support your kids why don't we have some fun. The funny part is in some cases they will agree.
Probably if you played it further, after she finds her BB you could still continue fucking her.
GreatWalker 8y ago
I'm genuinely suprised at the amount of redpill answers from what is usually a BP cesspool. Maybe because her example is so extreme?
exit_sandman 8y ago
I have to take up a cudgel for the guys at askmen here - there are plenty romantics among them, but they aren't idiots - the whole Sandberg Principle really doesn't sit well with them, especially since most of them are more likely to be the nice guy who finishes last. Waiting for your one and only is okay for them, waiting for your one and only after she has fucked around (and bred) however is not (so yeah, it is because that example is so extreme - kinda like the relationships-sub, where extreme examples of shitty or damaged women are also met with disdain).
Sure, you'll find your occasional sex-positive guy among them who gets laid a lot and therefore says that women sleeping around is totes okay, but most guys are not comfortable with it. They're just using more politically correct lingo when explaining their rejection of these women (so not "sloots are damaged" but "if she slept around a lot, it shows that we have different views on sex and relationships").
London-Bananas 8y ago
I think we are generally seeing, at least from the male perspective, a return to conservatism and a deviation from the feminist standard.
With the rise of the internet and especially places like reddit or 4chan, a lot of people now at least vaguely understand AF/BB and ridiculous partner counts. Millions of young guys learned about the friendzone and about "nice guys", and were usually on the wrong side of it. Even a beta hates to be cucked, but it's much harder to accept it when the evidence is all around you.
4chan has a userbase consisting almost solely of young white men, and even though they started out progressively in their early years, they have become more and more conservative, slut shaming and pleading to bring back a sane marriage system. That's an entire generation at least half unplugged
makethemsayayy 8y ago
They can only supress the truth for so long. At some point a guy is gonna say: wait she fucked 200 guys, and turned my type down in that time, and now I'm supposed to be okay with it and support her and possible let her take MY money when she's "ready to settle" for me?
Planner_Hammish 8y ago
I always get heavily downvoted on askmen whenever I give dating advice, even if I don't use rp terminology.
exit_sandman 8y ago
Then you're doing something wrong - RPish comments are accepted as long as they aren't recognizable as such. These are a few comments of mine in the askmen-sub.
[deleted] 8y ago
No, in the past year I have noticed more and more redpill awareness in the mainstream. The Internet is the most powerful and fastest ways to share information. Nowadays people can compare and contrast ideas all over the world and come to a conclusions at unprecedented speeds. And the truth might be bitter but once you swallow the pill it becomes addicting. Look at any video with intergender controversy on YouTube and the comments are filled with redpill defense against feminized thinking. Our next big challenge is not feminist thinking, but women and white knights who act like they support redpill but are actually still pushing the feminine imperative. One of the more experienced posters should a dress this topic.
[deleted] 8y ago
Well YouTube is a different world to Reddit. People actually have a backbone on that site.....good luck finding much of that on reddit
ZioFascist 8y ago
the paradigm shift is indeed changing. factor that in that many young men are being marginalized ..and the matrix becomes undone. boom!
Spiral-knight 8y ago
Do it yourself, stimulate discussion, debate and see what you can learn in the process. Sure you could just ask but why not take a stab yourself?
[deleted] 8y ago
I think I will. There are some new ideas that must be discussed or we risk the redpill going stale or over run with sjw thinking.
Spiral-knight 8y ago
Another user once said that it would be profoundly bad for TRP to become an echo chamber. So I look forward to reading it
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[deleted] 8y ago
Yeah I'll try to post it by next friday. It will involve new ideas on white knights and prostitution.
RedBigMan 8y ago
Really what red pill dudes should do is use white knights own preconceptions against them. Attack their thought process using feminist thinking.
Like they probably think prostitution is wrong. Well if a woman has control over her own body shouldn't she have the option to sell it without the state getting involved? When you make laws that basically harass the purchasers and leave the seller alone... It would be like if drug use and possession were illegal but selling drugs was totally fine.
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CharlieIndiaShitlord 8y ago
I'll be interested to read your thoughts on that, I hope for some good examples in there.
While retreading ground is possible (inevitable once you're here long enough), I strongly have doubts as to SJW's inserting their thinking into TRP. The old guard here give zero ground to people who try to manipulate/contaminate TRP toward their own non-TRP goals.
Social Justice & Feminism is anti-thesis to TRP.
PillersOfTheEarth 8y ago
I think it is because Red Pill awareness is spreading further and further. And not just online.
newls 8y ago
Earlier today on the radio a sports journalist said, albeit with some caution and hesitation, that the Dr. Caneiro furore going on at the moment has been grossly over-sensationalised by the media because she's a woman.
I was very surprised to hear that on public radio, I mean he basically hit the nail on the head. If Dr. Caneiro was a bloke the media storm would never have happened. This was the BBC too, a bastion of socialist bias.
mightysultan 8y ago
Absolutely. Guardiola got less heat for bitch slapping his players in front of the cameras.
PaulAJK 8y ago
The BBC doesn't have a socialist bias, rather it's ulta social-liberal. They're not economically left at all, but upper middle class ecomically centre right metroplitan liberals.
newls 8y ago
Yep I think you're right actually, I oversimplified the politics. But there is definitely a bias there.
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"True" conservatism has been seeping through the cracks made by the sjw's for the past year or so now. Look at Trump for instance, he is Red Pill to a tee and they can't touch him, you have the women hamstering over why people still support him but obviously they are completely wrong. I think the republican/conservative party of america tried to solve the liberal crisis of the 70's by jump starting american values but mobilizing the religious vote, starting the war on drugs, and amping up anti homophobic sentiment but those have all been proven to be failures. We still are seeing the backlash of those 3 decisions and once we can get the conservative party away from big business we might actually start seeing a functional country again.
exit_sandman 8y ago
I wouldn't rate that phenomenon too highly, because outside of a pro Trump-echo chamber things surely look different. The guy may be great in the eyes of a limited segment of registered Republican voters and be able to concentrate their support (while the support of the moderate Republicans get dispersed over several other candidates), which makes him appear more popular than he actually is - but I am willing to bet dollars to donuts that should he win the primaries and be pitted against anyone other than a plate of wet noodles, he'll lose the elections.
Xiamon 8y ago
I disagree.
Non of the people I know who like him are republicans, but would vote for him if he won.
In fact he's probably the only republican candidate that we would eagerly vote for.
chadeusmaximus 8y ago
This actually makes sense to me. Trump has been saying alot of shit on the news, and people are saying that he's gonna lose the presidency just because he offended some people.
Much like the Rock, Trump doesn't give a shit what you think. The man has an opinion, he says it, and doesn't feel the need to apologize. Next topic.
Did I... just become a Trump supporter?
alf_alf_a 8y ago
Here is the genius of Trump's approach. If you are normally a safe, quiet, inoffensive candidate (like say, a Mitt Romney) and then say one mildly-offensive thing, or something that gets taken out of context (like Mitt Romney's "I don't care about the very poor..."), then the media keeps hammering you with that one quote and you have to apologize.
But. What if you say HUNDREDS of things that are DELIBERATELY offensive? (And yes, Trump has made literally hundreds of outlandish statements, look at his Twitter.) It is impossible for the media to pin him down on that "one quote" like they could with Romney. Show them a single tree, and they chop it down. Show them a forest, and they don't know where to start.
The other genius of Trump's approach is that he is constantly creating "fake controversy," which not only serves to draw attention to himself, but also distracts from the real issue. Consider the GOP debate on Fox. Megan Kelly begins the debate by targeting Trump, and basically saying, "You're a misogynist, what do you have to say for yourself?" And Trump gets to respond by saying, "That's a dumb question and you're a dumb person for asking it." And everyone goes, "Yeah, that is a dumb question! Boo, Megan Kelly!" Because the only thing that regular people hate more than politicians, is the media.
Now, consider if Donald Trump wasn't constantly saying outlandish statements and created this trump among the media that "Donald Trump is a huge misogynist!" The first question of the debate might have been a real issue, like "Mr. Trump, you've declared bankruptcy four times. Why should we trust our nation's economy to someone with that kind of history?" Or tried to corner him on some real issue. But by constantly drawing the cloud of FAKE CONTROVERSY around himself, Trump avoids ever getting questioned on real issues
exit_sandman 8y ago
It's still highly questionable whether he'll win the presidency, which is what ultimately counts.
The1WhoCsAll 8y ago
In the comics, Lex Luthor wins. I wanna see if they'll stick to canon
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I still support Bernie Sanders but if you go and watch Trumps responses at the debate with Red Pill in mind it is very hard to not see the values he could bring to this society.
niczar 8y ago
Value? The "values" held by politicians are rather pointless.
Almost all politicians are NPDs or full-on psychopaths. The system is broken, always has been, but it's getting worse as no reset of wealth distribution has happened recently. Problem is, the last reset was WWII, and WWIII is going to have us all killed should it happen.
Bernie Sanders looks like someone who is not a narcissist, and those people are quite rare at that level in politics. Ron Paul on the other side is another one. They're never going to win the presidency anyway.
The political system needs to be changed. Direct democracy. Check out Google Vote, it's an interesting implementation: you pick anyone as your representative, can change at any time, or even decide to vote directly when you want.
An intermediate solution is selection by lot instead of elections. The problem with representative democracy is elections, which select people not for their ability to perform the job, but for their ability to be elected.
[deleted] 8y ago
I was more or less implying he will be a good vein for red pill ideology to be introduced to our society. I don't think he is some wonderful man with all the right ideas but I do think that he is showing that if you hold your ground, respect your ideas, and don't say sorry people will respect you and like you reguardless. The tv pundits can only hamster for so long about why his ship hasn't sunk yet and in the end they are going to have to face the music and see that people like men who act like that, leaders who aren't pretty boys but will actually get in peoples faces and not back down.
I agree the political system has to be changed and I want to see a lot more states rights. The direct democracy system is also one that is very interesting, I've read about a few different voting systems that far our class our current electoral college. I would like to see a more pragmatic election process but that isn't going to happen in todays age of misled consumer cucksters, we need a man who will show men how to be men and if Donald can do that while making this election interesting I have no qualms.
ColonelMitchell 8y ago
Ah the good 'ol bernie sanders reddit circlejerk
niczar 8y ago
And Ron Paul. The Bernie and Ron Paul circlejerk.
Bocaj6487 8y ago
How can you be red pill, and support a socialist? Socialism is just a kissing cousin to feminism
Nebulose11 8y ago
Socialism and feminism are not kissing cousins.
Your police, firefighters, military, ect are socialist constructions. lf taxes pay for it for the greater society then it is socialism. Capitalism and socialism need to be balanced out or society will be fucked.
We need government controlling the economy with laws against things like child labor, paying your workers for their actual hours and overtime, to prevent monopolies, and to ensure contracts are complied with.
We need the government to get the fuck out of the economy with subsidies and bailouts. If a corporation or group of them fails hard enough, let them. There should be no GM, Ford, Chase, or Goldman Sachs as they were and are now. Those should be tiny after having to sell off almost everything to cover their debt. The small businesses will pick up the slack left by the broken corporations. This is where the market will adjust as necessary.
648262 8y ago
Norwegian here - was raised a socialist, it's s hard coded into the culture and it has provided us with a safe and decent society.
There are similarities between feminism and socialism when you look at the chants of equality, but they are not one and the same.
It works here, but the open borders creates some cracks in the foundation.
exit_sandman 8y ago
Which is also the reason why the US could never afford a European-style welfare state. In a cohesive, pretty much homogenous society acceptance for welfare measures is comparably easy to generate; and people not intending to contribute but leeching of the wealth of society are tolerated.
However, add a few immigrants to the mix who not only have the same mentality, but those who think like that are significantly overrepresented in a particular community, and who collectively have no investment in the host society and its values (possibly even the opposite), and suddenly the acceptance of the welfare state takes a nosedive.
F-W-Mueller 8y ago
Which is currently happening in Germany. Just this morning in the Gym I heard that one of the (well ... foreign) guys gets his apartment in one of Germany's most expensive city paid by welfare and makes his money on the side working 'black' (paying no taxes). You can imagine what I was thinking about our welfare state at this moment.
The sad thing is that those guys have our socialist (like the social democrats) on their side. 100 years ago a the SPD would have eaten those freeloaders alive but today it's all feminism and 'equality'.
648262 8y ago
Yes, I was not suggesting to establish a euro-style welfare scheme in the US - just more focused on how feminism and socialism isn't the same.
Temuzjin 8y ago
The question is not "do you want a socialist in the white house?"
The question is "do you want a genuine, non-crazy socialist or a corrupt psychopath in the white house?"
Da-Aaron 8y ago
It doesn't really matter who wins the election. The president isn't nearly as important as people think he is. He can't do a damn thing about anything unless Congress passes or has passed a law telling him he can. When it comes down to it, our day-to-day lives aren't meaningfully different from when Bill Clinton or George Bush were president. And they won't be any different if Hillary, Trump or you or I win the election.
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Da-Aaron 8y ago
Ok. The Supreme Court grants cert to what, 75 cases every year. Maybe 1 or 2 if it's a good term will be landmark decisions like Obergefell. The rest of the time it's arguments nobody but the parties really cares about, or original jurisdiction cases between two states and water rights to a river. You're missing the bigger point in that the President, just like the Supreme Court and Congress are co-equal branches of the government. No one is anymore important or powerful than the others. The president can not rule by fiat. He can't always get what he wants. You can't name one thing in your life that is remarkably different because the President himself did something unilaterally, without either of the other 2 branches.
exit_sandman 8y ago
That's because in a somewhat functional democracy, the head of government/state can't just change the life of the majority immediately with the brush of a pen - but what they can do is heating the water in the pot until the frog dies. The policy enacted by them certainly can - or do you want to tell me that Bush's policy didn't significantly contribute to the shrinking of the middle class in the US?
Da-Aaron 8y ago
Let me start off with a disclaimer; I'm Libertarian, and haven't voted for or supported a Republican or Democratic presidential candidate from my first election in 2000. I don't trust either party, and I wholeheartedly believe that APALT. (All Politicians Are Like That). That being said, you're going to have to be more specific. Which Bush Policy shrank the middle class? I'm not saying we didn't have an economic meltdown during the last year of his 8 year term. I'm just not sure which policy of his administration shrank the middle class. I'm no macroeconomics expert and don't pretend to be, so I would honestly like to hear about your take on the Great Recession.
Bocaj6487 8y ago
If you let Marx in, Lenin will follow
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I support red pill but I try to avoid being a hive mind. More and more I see things about socialism I do not approve of but who else out there is even worth considering. I don't think socialism is the way to go but when properly managed and invested public works can work.
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Seeing things wrong with socialism doesn't mean I don't like some of the things Bernie thinks he can offer. There are 3 other houses of government that can balance things out and I think he is the best option, voting for the lesser of 2 evils would be voting Hilary.
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Lt_Muffintoes 8y ago
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=D0Yp1jUtcX8
[deleted] 8y ago
This is Stephan we are talking about, I like him but many people on here think he is a bit over the top. I will give it a watch though.
Lt_Muffintoes 8y ago
Many people on here are red pill pretenders ;)
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GreatWalker 8y ago
Seriously, a lot of his videos would do well with an abstract in the description.
[deleted] 8y ago
I think you are responding to the wrong person I haven't watched it yet lol.
evilkenevil 8y ago
"36 years old
divorced
single mother"
Stop right there. Strike one, strike two, strike three. Yikes I'm out. What a nightmare.
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strike three YEEEEEEE'RRRRRRE OUT fuck off and walk
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fantasmas05 8y ago
hehehe... this is nothing...
check out these red flags on my ex (which i ignored)
41
single mother
never married
3 kids to 2 different guys
unemployed
After 1.5 years of my life with her, I swallowed the red pill.
evilkenevil 8y ago
Well done. You saved yourself an unmeasurable amount of anguish.
fantasmas05 8y ago
I have been contemplating submitting a post on here detailing all the shit, the red flags, the shit tests, the manipulation and narcissistic behaviour I've tolerated over this 1.5 years so you guys can scorn me and I can become a proper red piller
evilkenevil 8y ago
When you're ready you won't be able to stop yourself from posting.
spacelord777 8y ago
I like how she keeps asking what she could do with a guy other than fuck him. She is truly so shallow she can think of no other human interaction than fucking.
cover20 8y ago
As a single mom, all any guys were willing to do with her was pump and dump. Hence that's all she has ever seen and she wonders if there is more to life.
Amazing, but I guess it's true.
Also, if she does meet a beta who is nice to her, she is probably so repelled she just forgets he ever existed. So it's as if that date didn't ever happen.
human_bean_ 8y ago
What else is she going to do? Tell other women to out compete her instead?
ferengiprophet 8y ago
But once a good girl's gone bad, she's gone forever --Jay Z
cxj 8y ago
This comment should be at the top. That quote was the most relevant one - it shows that even if you do find the coveted virgin bride, she can still fly off the tracks into the carousel at any time really. Moral of the story: dont fucking marry.
Cyralea 8y ago
Black America is at least a decade more advanced into the state of societal declined. Rappers spit some serious RP truths.
The1WhoCsAll 8y ago
The American black family has been falling apart since the 1960s. White family divorces really took off in the 1980s. Today, 75% of Black babies are born to unmarried parents. In 20 years the same will likely be true of America as a whole
evileddy 8y ago
lol
The ego on this one has been ruined by a foot ball stadium of Chads.
JeanValjean197o 8y ago
Too attractive or the old stand by, "Men are just intimidated by a strong independent woman."
Well, if you are so strong and independent why do you need a man in the first place? Maybe they aren't intimidated but strong and independent themselves and therefore you natural repel each other like two positive ends of magnets.
ItIsMyPrivilege 8y ago
The ego that upgrading chads in the AF department creates in a women's mind is unreal. They keep trying to fuck better and better chads only to one day realize they are a hard 6.3 lol and all they can get is Louis CK without standup, fame, and a personality hahah
DarkisKnight 8y ago
Her hamster has gone pro.
B_uckets 8y ago
She was soooooo close to figuring it out, but then the hamster jumped to Ludicrous Speed.
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but being 36 with kids is what's working against you. Whatever beauty you may have left will soon fade, and then you'll just be another entitled slut with a hyper-inflated sense of self-worth and tons of baggage.
London-Bananas 8y ago
Including the football team
Soarinc 8y ago
I know it might be silly but one of my favorite things about reddit and TRP is the term "Chad" and it's many appearances when reading threads here!
ReclusiveHermit 8y ago
We got "Chad" from 4chan. 4chan is basically the original red pill.
luciansolaris 8y ago
... and now we're graced with 8chan.
https://www.8ch.net/
http://oxwugzccvk3dk6tj.onion/
[deleted] 8y ago
It's like answering that canned interview question, "What is your biggest weakness?" with a canned response that tries to twist the weakness into a strength. "I'm just too attractive, gosh darn-it!"
But there is actually a kind of truth in her response. Her attractiveness brings all the Chads to the yard. But she has no logic to be able to sift through them to find an appropriate partner. Her decisions are made emotionally. Couple that with the fact that fucking as many guys as she wants is the sign of an empowered woman (cough) and you have a woman who has absolutely no idea how to find someone to settle down with.
Of course, she doesn't even notice the betas. All she sees are Chads. And naturally, Chads don't want to marry her. So, she's confused: "I'm fucking all these guys, which obviously means I'm a great woman and attractive, but none of them want to marry me! What's wrong?" She has no idea that her behavior is antithetical for a good LTR. It's like she's choking herself and asking why it's getting harder to breathe.
The solution, of course, would have been to have limited her sex to one good match right from the onset, rather than unleashing her vagina into the world and leaving a slimy trail of Chads in her wake.
RedBigMan 8y ago
Well it might help if she took the dick out of her throat...
ItIsMyPrivilege 8y ago
Women are naturally more insecure than men. She is post wall, addicted to validation that she literally needs because she lives off of her emotions. She's kind of fucked in that regard (I know AWALT)
BlackHeart89 8y ago
I hate this fucking question.
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woofitout 8y ago
Physical attraction = emotional stimulus.
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If I could only learn one thing from TRP:
Judge what she does, not what she says.
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BlackHeart89 8y ago
Nah man. I see it every now and then. Really tight bodies and dress well. I see them in work out clothes shopping. Its not common. But I see it.
Even so, Chads will fuck below them.
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failureToSend 8y ago
That's exactly what I was thinking as well - there are few females that manage to maintain a high-level of attractiveness into their 30s while having children, and those are usually genetic freaks (e.g, super models who usually also have professionally done makeup and physical trainers/dietitians). But society has misled this person to believe that she's just as attractive as she was at 19 because she's a woman and a mother resulting in her massive ego and entitlement.
AnotherLostCause 8y ago
You you tell a post wall woman the truth about her appearance you are "shaming" her.
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Pornography_saves_li 8y ago
A 'stadium of Chads', i like that. Kind of like 'a murder of crows'.
Newdist2 8y ago
"train" is the word you're looking for.
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account_rp 8y ago
Could anyone who is actually named Chad tell us what you think of the term "Chad Thundercock" and how it's used?
teeelo 8y ago
I've known one Chad. He was a fat fuck, but very Alpha.
There's also 'Thad' from 'Blue Mountain State' who is the extreme parody alpha/closet homosexual 'Chad'.
Fuckin hilarious if you've seen it.
AEther_Flux 8y ago
The only Chad I knew got so incredibly shitfaced at a house party of mine that he pissed all over my couch while some Uggo was still sleeping on it. I woke up to screaming/crying like the world had ripped apart.
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SleepNowMyThrowaway 8y ago
How would you being named Chad be relevant? How many women will even know what "Chad Thundercock" refers to?
Absinthe99 8y ago
Depends, are you "hung"? Because the ladies tend to prefer "Hanging Chads".
Ba dum bum.
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well fuck
spacelord777 8y ago
Wow. She really did start young.
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There's a reason why it's an age old adage in all cultures all over the planet that women should hold out on the sex until a man commits to them. Remember the old days where parents (specifically mothers and grandmothers) would shame their daughters for being promiscuous?
That's because no "real man" is going to put a ring on that. Chad has damaged her psyche, she has become more prone to disease, and there's higher potential for cheating, lack of ability to pair bond, among other undesirable characteristics for LTRs, marriage, and building a family with a strong feminine role for daughters to follow.
There's a reason why shit like this has been "repressing women" for so long. Just like there's a reason why we upheld ideas like "don't steal, don't be a glutton, don't fuck your friend's wife, and treat other people how you'd like to be treated".
r1chten 8y ago
not surprised the hamster cant find chad's that she can lock down through tinder
oh 'men' are the issue, not her high n count and men refusing to being cuckolded.
exit_sandman 8y ago
It's interesting how quick they are to lock you down, though.
I met (and hooked up) with a single mom on a hookup site and the next day after we had sex she immediately wanted to know where we are going (read: wanted to make sure we're on a relationship trajectory). As I said that I hadn't made up my mind yet, she bailed on the spot.
I mean, I can respect her decision, but the fact that she thought I just waited for to date her without knowing her really that well was kinda glorious.
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She thought that giving out sex would make your decision automatic.
chadeusmaximus 8y ago
Can confirm. 39 year old Male, with no children. Won't even look at a single mother. Automatic disqualification in my book.
OneRedYear 8y ago
Over 30 male with a child. Still not interested in dating a single mother. Would bang if fit tho.
exit_sandman 8y ago
The universal "would I date a single mom"-check:
The "would she date me"-check:
The "is she a good partner and mother"-check:
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Easih 8y ago
same here and about to turn 30.
Timmy2kx 8y ago
This. I'm not stepping in and playing daddy. Fuck. That. Shit.
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Cyralea 8y ago
You'd be surprised how thirsty men can be. A man travelling through a desert will happily drink water from a used construction boot.
Makes me sick to my stomach thinking about it.
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Some dude I went to high school with brags about taking over "daddy role" for his slut girlfriend's children all over FB because the dad dipped out. He's only 27.
He has no idea that people are probably laughing at him, think he's a sucker, and wonder why the fuck he would commit to that responsibility. What a moron.
Life_Can_Be_Simple 8y ago
lol I know a guy who's only 22 and he already taking care of two brats that aren't his. Now he has a kid with her. fucked for life.
exit_sandman 8y ago
I know an interesting case of an overall pretty alpha guy who married a single mom - but he was 18 when they got together and she's 7 or 8 years his senior, so I guess her relationship experience and mastery of the venusian arts coupled with his lack of maturity was probably what won him over.
garlicextract 8y ago
Is it bad to be experiencing with some schaudenfraude with the ignorance of this one?
brokenshelf 8y ago
I saw that thread and bailed after "36 with kids". Noooo thank you.
DodgedAFew 8y ago
Holy shit, I did not notice the s!
Absinthe99 8y ago
And since it wasn't clarified as two kids (or "both of my kids") that probably means at least 3, possibly 4 or more.
Seriously, in my experience a single mom with A child (one and only one kid) will always clarify it as "my kid" (singular); and if she has two, she will make that explicitly clear, either by literally stating the number "two kids" or using the word "both" as in "both of my kids".
Because she knows to say "kids" (plural) without that explicit clarification implies more than two, and she doesn't want to flat out lie and say "kid" or "two/both" when in fact there are 3+... at the same time she knows that to say "my THREE kids" or "my FOUR kids" is even more of an instant deal-breaker (even scares off ONS hookups --because that chick is dangerously fertile, she's already got a frigging litter).
exit_sandman 8y ago
I would say "this smells like a troll post", but on the other hand women who really are that oblivious exist. Regarding the OP of that thread, I'm on the fence. Has a bit of comment history, but not very much (oh, and she aged from 30 to 36 within a year, so there's that).
sardinemanR 8y ago
It always amuses me that modern women just completely cannot fathom that men would have standards and are entitled to their own choices and preferences. They are just convinced their pussy pass is a lifetime privilege that entitles them to awful behavior at all times and men must fulfill their every demand.
Now the 36 year old failures at this level aren't quite that common. Most women figure out by their late-20s that high SMV men especially can not be locked down. Those are the average women. The smarter and more attractive women tend to lock a man down by their mid-20s.
Even the Ancient Greek women complained nobody wanted a woman over 30 haha.
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
It's a combination of "men and women are equal and the same" combined with absolute privilege. Women are always right, men are only right when they agree with women.
Hence woman says "men should marry an old whale", all the other hamsters agree, and women end up believing it. Men disagreeing are wrong. It's consensus by feelz. What feelz good is right, what's right is what feelz good.
Facts? Facts my fucking ass.
fatalbinoninja 8y ago
I just finished a post from the red pill room about how the FSM works and it just blew my mind. I've been applying it to so many of my past encounters and I can see how it's worked now. Mostly to my determent though.
BlackHeart89 8y ago
Pretty much like religion. But anyway...
RedPillDad 8y ago
She thinks she's holding aces just because she's fuckable. Never bothered to develop Girl Game beyond her peanut butter legs. And now she has those Golddigger Eyes and complains she's stuck in the fuck-zone.
Some Beta Bob will fall for her Wholesome Pretender routine, and give her the soft landing she doesn't deserve. But she'll fuck that up chasing Chads again.
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ztsmart 8y ago
The PussyPass comes with an expiration date
BallisticTherapy 8y ago
http://i.imgur.com/jf5owSH.jpg
aguy01 8y ago
Society is lying to women as much as it's lying to men. Men get told 'be yourself, don't be mean, nobody likes a jerk. Always put the woman first!' which is wrong, and women are told 'you should have a career in your 20's and party and not worry about a husband until your 30's!' Both end up being incompetent partners and unhappy.
JackGoldsteinWrites 8y ago
Be yourself is GREAT advice... believe it or not, most of us are suppressing our innate jerk! That's the problem.
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Do you have a reference for that? I'm genuinely curious.
From what I know of history, ancient Greek women married in their late teens if they were low class and early 20s if they were upper class. That goes along with what you're saying, but I'd like to read more if you have a link.
StotheGG 8y ago
Greek marriage customers were very particular to the city. Certainly, a later marriage was a custom in Sparta. In Athens, on the other hand, a woman of a good family would absolutely have been married by her mid-teens.
sardinemanR 8y ago
I think you can find a reference in Lysistrata, the play. And there's a bunch of other whining in Sparta about the wars related to that. I remember reading some texts in analysis back in college, but it's been a long time since I was in college.
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Fair enough. Lysistrata is a funny play, especially in a Red Pill context. Unfortunately, the joke is lost a bit in modern times where that manipulation is currently acceptable.
garlicextract 8y ago
Well in Ancient Greece the average lifespan was several decades shorter than today.
So a woman over 30 then would be like a woman over 50 today.
hexavibrongal 8y ago
The low "average life expectancy" numbers in the past are largely due to infant mortality and childhood diseases. The average adult lifespan was not that different than today.
Danedina 8y ago
I would give this woman a chance. Women in their 30s and 40s, even moms, can still be quite hot. They've got skills, they can dress and cook, they're used to taking care of children (which means they think nothing of bringing me another beer).
What she doesn't understand is that there are so many of her versus so few of me (mid 40s but in great shape, still have my hair, smart, funny, know what it's like to raise kids, and willing to actually go down the street arm in arm) that she'd better be an all-star inside and out.
I match with women like her all the time online. On Saturday I met a 37 year-old for a walk. First time we'd met; we'd exchanged a few texts and spoke on the phone. She was beautiful, sweet, nice voice, perfect skin, runs 5k a day, cooks (trained baker), tight ass, dancer's legs. We were in the sack after two hours and banged like rabbits all night. And I've got five more in my queue like her.
In other words, on paper I'm the guy this woman would have a chance with (at least in theory. Fuck if I'm getting married again). But why would I shack up with some entitled, confrontational bitch who is constantly sneaking a peak at her Tinder chats?
There is a market for this woman. I could imagine a case where there's a guy in his 40s whose wife fucked off, or died, or had to be committed and he's looking for help to raise his kids, but the last thing that guy needs in his life is another selfish brat.
grendalor 8y ago
She's really the perfect whore, by her own account. Lots of guys like a whore who can hold a conversation, and this one comes free of charge. Unfortunately if she is actually looking for a quality man, she's in trouble -- quality men in her age range have much better options than a mouthy divorced whore of a single mother. Her "best bet" if she wants a meal ticket remarriage is to snag a beta who doesn't know any better and get good at hiding her whorishness.
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SexistFlyingPig 8y ago
This is hilarious. "I really want to find someone to settle down with" "Oh, no more Tinder. That's going to be hard."
This hamster has three olympic gold medals.
TruthNotFeelings 8y ago
Of course it'll be hard. Her only source of validation without tinder is her self compliments.
Philhelm 8y ago
If I ever write a post in which I state that I have changed another woman's, baby's diaper, please kill me.
But she admits that it's obscene...lol
What does that even fucking mean? Sure, someone who was born and raised in Podunk, Kentucky and never left his town of 1,000 certainly isn't well traveled. However, what do women really gain (aside from strange cock) from going on international trips? As someone who is fond of history, and even has a degree in history, I know that women (sadly) hate history, culture, etc.
Her: "Oh, I so love Vienna!"
Me: Did you know that the Romans had a fort in Vienna? That the Habsburgs (who?) had their seat of power in there at one time? That Vienna was twice besieged by the Ottoman Turks (who?)? In fact, a statue was made of a mercenary captain who defended Vienna during the earlier siege. Etc., etc., etc.
Her: Vagina turns into a desert wasteland. I'm soooo well read, well cultured, and well traveled.
Me: I've never been to Vienna.
garlicextract 8y ago
Holy shit, the fucking truth of this one; just reverse it to see how powerful it is
riding_stoned 8y ago
A tall Black alpha male with 6-pack abs.
FTFY.
wont_tell_i_refuse 8y ago
Saw this on a slut-shaming sub. I'm 25 and it's already pretty satisfying to watch my generation of slutcunts get their comeuppance. People literally posting "Where are the good men?" and ThoughtCatalog articles about "Why partner count doesn't matter".
YLAOMdood77 8y ago
Haha this is funny. Women are in control of sex in their 20s.... but men control comittment after that! I'm glad men get a little POWER in the end.
London-Bananas 8y ago
Men are in power of commitment in their 20's as well
YLAOMdood77 8y ago
But generally women today don't want to get married until their 30s (they want to spend their 20s on the cock carousel).
So guys in their 20s controlling commitment have less power then guys in their 30s.
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
power over post wall bitter women isn't worth much....
and it's only the alpha guys who have this power. betas still don't get much from what I've seen.
throwaway1643 8y ago
If there is one single thing that men should take away from this subreddit, it's "don't be a beta bucks". That is literally life-saving advice.
Absinthe99 8y ago
FTFY.
Because that's the actual reason that the "power" over them isn't worth much. That's like sitting in the driver's seat of a wrecked Indy 500 car at a boneyard -- you can pretend that it's still a race car -- but you can't actually use it as one.
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YLAOMdood77 8y ago
I'm worried that female brains are ADAPTING and creating a gynocracy. Other-wise excellent post!
skoobled 8y ago
This is a troll post, surely
Squeezymypenisy 8y ago
And then she goes on to insult the guys there when she doesn't ge the answers she wants.
AllMyOwnStunts 8y ago
The commentary on this was exquisite, man.
A for effort
ZioFascist 8y ago
she does not give 2 fucks about how smart and cultured a man is. chad is a chad, whether he is an MD or a state licensed electrician
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RP_Vergil 8y ago
Doesn't have the skill to see through the man who'll just "stay the night"? That's some lack of agency there which she openly pins as a badge, hell more like tattooed on her face.
Who'll marry a woman that has no issue opening her legs for anyone?
IronMeltsinmyHands 8y ago
Education, career shit, volunteerism, all that shit is for you. We're men, not the people who judge your college applications. If I even have to ask myself whether you're in or out, the answer is out. Uncertainty is not to be tolerated.
All I want is a woman with soft, firm skin, tatas to make the world go round, and cooking skills from heaven. Naturally, she'll help me, I'll help her. That's what marriage is.
But we can't dream forever. There are no women like that. At least not in this part of the world.
SCROTAL-SACK 8y ago
This used up slut is just constantly ego stroking herself to a bunch of faceless strangers online. I don't know what's more pathetic.. that, or the delusion that she thinks she's worthy of ANY kind of long term commitment from man. Too attractive are you darling? No, you're so fucking far off its not even funny. It's just sad.
DRMMR76 8y ago
I find it pretty humorous that she mentioned in her initial post that she thinks not having sex as early will be a good move for her. She's pretty much openly stating that she is entirely willing to immediately have sex with guys she finds attractive but feels totally justified turning off the tap and making some future guy that she will claim she wants to spend the rest of her life with wait for sex, and probably boring vanilla starfish sex once or twice a month that that. The sad thing is it is probably pretty likely that she will find some poor beta will either be openly okay with this, or blissfully unaware that he has to work his ass off to earn something she gave way entirely for free to dozens of guys before him.
And that is one of the key factors in why women with high sexual partner counts are inherently bad. Nature didn't give women a "do not use if seal is broken" hymen for no reason. Why don't guys have such a thing? It's almost as if there is an actual reason behind women being virgins is valued more than men being virgins. If you really stop to think about it, the hymen is actually a pretty odd thing for women to have. I know many of you are not religious, but I am and I personally think that it was placed there specifically to show which women are worth marrying and which are not. But even from a purely evolutionary standpoint, a man who has sex with a virgin can be far more certain of her fidelity then with a non-virgin.
Women seem to truly not understand, or they do but they hamster it away to feel better, that there is something inherently wrong with giving away their most valued possession, their sexuality, for free to numerous men, and then making the man they end up marrying (the man who allegedly is so much more important than those other men, so much more important that they picked him to marry and not the other men) have to jump through hoops to get at that same possession. It's like if you were my best male friend since childhood and you knew that I was rich and that I routinely loaned out hundreds or even thousands of dollars to other male acquaintances or people I had just met. And yet when you asked me to borrow 50 bucks to fill up your car with a tank of gas, I told you no, but that I might consider doing it if you came over and cleaned my garage. You would feel absolutely betrayed. Not because you think that you are owed the money, but because that I'm tipping my hand in showing that I really don't value your friendship. A real friend would be willing to do that for someone else especially if they were best friends since childhood. If I'm willing to give so much money to people I barely know, it's entirely reasonable for you as my best friend to expect me to at least be on the same level with you if not more so. By showing you that I hold you in such lower esteem than everyone else I'm showing you that my friendship with you is really a sham. Any man who is reasonably alpha enough for her to actually want to marry, is going to know this. A man who is alpha enough for her to be actually attracted to and want to marry is by definition probably going to be alpha enough to realize that he's getting a raw deal. Her only real hope is to suck it up, find some clueless beta schlub was just happy to have someone, anyone, who lets him see a bare breast in person once or twice a month. And that's the Catch-22 of being a slut. Any man whose alpha enough to have options, is going to have better options than some used up whore.
That's where the hymen comes into play. Virginity is something that you never ever get back once given away no matter how hard you wish you could. A woman cannot simply act like a whore for 10 years of her life, and then all of a sudden pretend like she's some chaste prize. Your past never goes away. And giving women the hymen, but not men something similar, is either nature or God's way of giving us a physical method of determining which women are not worth an LTR. And frankly that's how I treat all relationships. Of course I'm never ever getting married no matter what, but even in the context of a non-marriage long-term relationship, I expect a woman's best. If she did anal with a previous guy, she's doing it with me. If she gave blowjobs every day to other guys, she better be giving them to me. Because doing something with a previous man, but not being willing to do with you is absolutely clear evidence that she found that previous man more attractive than you. And if that's the case, her choosing to be with you at all mean she's making the conscious decision to settle with you. And the only reasonable conclusion a man can draw from that, is that she sees you as her BB. Women are always willing to give their sexual best to an alpha male. If a woman is not giving you her sexual best, it's because she doesn't think you're an alpha. And there's only one other thing you can be if you're not her alpha.
cover20 8y ago
There is now hymen replacement surgery. Since hymens are not at all consistent and very few men have seen anything like a statistical sample of them, almost anything would be enough to be believable i.e. this could allow an experienced girl to pretend to be a virgin.
But when it's on a 36 year old, you're gonna wonder real hard. And for those who have fucked a virgin, you might get the idea that this seems a little fake, for example basically if the sex is not awkward enough.
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If I ever do get married its going to be with a 16 year old virgin afghan girl who hasn't heard of the internet and hasn't been let "free". Give women freedom and they go batshit crazy, I'm not advocating religion but after finding trp so many " crazy" things about Islam make sense to me. We will then move to Saudi Arabia where it would be illegal to say the least for her to cheat and tough to divorce. She won't know about riding the cc and then crying as she hits the wall or any other fucked up concepts. Don't take this seriously,
RPmatrix 8y ago
Phew! You had me worried there for a moment bro!
Newdist2 8y ago
Christianity used to teach the same shit. Hell, every traditional religion and society did. You can't have civilization with widespread female promiscuity.
callmeChopSaw 8y ago
I never thought of that in my life. Mind blown
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Search for "Sex and Culture" by JD Unwin. He did a pretty large study on civilizations throughout history and found one thing in common with all of those who were once great and ultimately collapsed: unrestrained female sexuality.
RPmatrix 8y ago
You mean 'widespread female reproduction
promiscuity is another thing altogether and doesn't guarantee children
fortifiedoranges 8y ago
It would be "without reproduction" he's getting at the idea that society crumbles when women are promiscuous.
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grewapair 8y ago
So she's got 2-3 more years before she completely loses her looks and wants a guy to commit to a) keep her when she's a hag, and b) raise another man's kids.
Not gonna happen. She's the woman every man is trying to avoid. Sure, we'll have sex with her until she's finally finished, but no, we're not going to commit to someone like her.
CowardlyPetrov 8y ago
3 decades? what, she started fucking at 6? it was more like 15-20 years. don't let your mad make you bad, m8.
favours_of_the_moon 8y ago
LOL, and if she was still 20, maybe she could get that but...
Now she is left to bully all the posters of r/askmen into telling her what she wants to hear, because somehow she believes that will make men want to date/BB her.
Having an education and career do add to her "value," IMO. We always talk shit about a bitch who has "nothing else" to offer but the vajayjay. And as she ages, even that becomes less attractive. But at least this is a bitch who has a little bit of "something else" to offer. So I do give her credit for that.
Overkillengine 8y ago
It's just that the "something else" she has isn't enough for a relationship, and it doesn't help with boner tests.
It's like getting mad after trading your cash in for arcade tokens and finding out you can't buy food at the grocery store with them.
Sure, the tokens have a value, just not one usable in certain contexts.
DodgedAFew 8y ago
I bet it will be, wink-wink.
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SexistFlyingPig 8y ago
Talking about partner count brings up a really good point that someone in a different thread mentioned: If you've had sex twice a day for 10 years, but it's only been with a couple of guys, that suits me just fine. But if you've had sex twice with a different guy every day for the past 10 years, that's going to be a very big problem.
Here's the thing: I'm no 'catch' physically. I'm working on it, but I recognize where I am right now. There's no fucking way I'm going to settle down with a hottie with a 3 digit partner count. If I'm not good looking and can have these standards, when what standards do you think someone good looking is going to have? (btw, it's great that you're independently wealthy, but is that money somehow magically going to become mine?)
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Seriously disregarding high risk of her vagina being diseased
(1.2 million Americans have HIV/AIDS; 1 in 8 are unaware they have it; 50,000 new diagnoses per year. 1 in 6 people have genital herpes.)
If a woman has a high partner count, it demonstrates her lack of ability to be monogamous. This covers everything under the sun from being faithful to her man to working through arguments and fights in a productive manner. They're also detrimental to children because if by chance they become pregnant, a child is more likely to have some issues socially, mentally, and with behavior growing up in a single parent household.
jewishclaw 8y ago
I've said this before and had to prove it every time, but the chances of a white, non-iv drug using, woman who doesn't have sex with men who have sex with men having hiv is essentially zero. Hiv is not easy to spread via anal sex, quite difficult to spread via vaginal sex, and almost impossible to spread via fellatio, and essentially impossible to spread via cunnilingus. I'm pretty pro-gay, but the truth is the whole "anyone can have aids" campaign is strictly true, but bullshit and the whole point was to dissociate aids with gay men and drug users so the public would support research. It worked, but there is no threat of catching hiv if you aren't using sharing needles or getting fucked in the ass. There are much more serious threats, like peanut allergies or bee stings.
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Huh, I never looked into the statistics of it that far.. Just the anonymous numbers posted by the CDC. Thanks for clearing that up.
jewishclaw 8y ago
ironically, i only researched it to prove someone wrong for saying what i now know to be correct lol
Da-Aaron 8y ago
Her poor kid(s). This should be grounds for Child Protective Services to take them away before it's too late and she imparts her special kind of logic on them.
bam2_89 8y ago
I sort of disagree with this. Being feminine and fit are the main factors, but there are girls who are just so boring or stupid that a less attractive person with some education or life experience is going to be more attractive. That being said, it won't make up for flat-out unattractiveness.
DarkisKnight 8y ago
I just heard this the other day "If you think, gosh why is everyone such an asshole?" You're the asshole.
Situational translation: "Gosh why don't any of the attractive men want to marry me?" You're not the catch you think you are.
TheSKSpecial 8y ago
"If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole." - Raylan Givens, Justified
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Luckyluke23 8y ago
She reminds me of the dude from pirates of the caribbean. Where his ship is gett blown up and he says it was just good business...
Most of the post wallers i know act like this.
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systemshock869 8y ago
Lol I would hope it would be much closer to two. You guys love to make this shit sound as bad as possible. Apparently she's been a slut since her single digits..
SickSadWorId 8y ago
Shhhhh you're disrupting the RP echo-chamber circlejerk
iambecomedownvote 8y ago
Yeah I think a lot of dudes just got banned from posting to AskBetas.
dicklord_airplane 8y ago
nah, you have to try way harder than that to get banned there. the mods really don't care that much.
Lipophobicity 8y ago
I probably had the harshest response in that thread and it seems like I am not banned
TheMountainWhoDews 8y ago
Stalked your comment history, did not disappoint.
DRMMR76 8y ago
That is probably the first time in her life she's ever been asked that. And the problem is, it's a question she should have been asking herself when she was 15, getting prepared to enter the dating and marriage arena. Just like how women were brought up in generations past, by their mothers and grandmothers no less. Some of the biggest critics of young women and girls were older women and girls "How do you think you're ever going to find a husband doing _____?". It was drummed into women by their older female role models. They knew that their ability to attract a high value man was directly connected to what value they brought to the relationship. So women were taught how to cook, clean, be obedient, loving, and faithful wives from a young age. We don't have that any more. Moms don't teach their daughters how to grow into a woman worth marrying and thus women never ask themselves "why would a man want me?". They take it as a forgone conclusion that being a women naturally means they get everything they want, because they've been socially enabled to do that from their teens on, or earlier. Women start feeling the effects of the pussy pass from the first time they throw dirt at a boy on the playground and nothing happens, and yet when the boy throws dirt back, he gets a time out. From there it's a fun roller coaster of free drinks, cutting in lines, never having to carry anything heavy, etc. When it comes time to marry, they just think "I'm a woman, where's my husband that should have been waiting for me to be ready to marry him all this time?"
exit_sandman 8y ago
It's funny how oblivious women are to this. Here's what I wrote at askmen in a post that argued how ridiculously easy it is for women having sex.
Yesterday I had a conversation with an FWB about that. A friend of hers (mid to late 30s, okay-ish face, but overweight and short-haired) recently got out of a relationship but can't get away from the guy, but also doesn't get many great offers otherwise that help her get distance. I insinuated that she might do better if she lost weight and let her hair grow, but then my FWB insisted that she was happy with short hair, and that being "forced" to change your look won't do one much good if it doesn't come from the inside - and that you don't have to be that pretty to date anyway, since there were loads of couples out there where both were equally non-awesome (not her words, but that's what she was getting to). I answered that this might very well be true, but that doesn't change the fact that even average people aim higher than they can realistically get, and that being good-looking is always a perk in that regard - just liking the way you look isn't enough if others don't share that sentiment, and you can't expect people to love you for "who you are" if you don't register as a potential serious partner in the first place. Besides, I asked why it was so strange that men who were handsome enough to be able to afford to have standards wouldn't go for the inconspicious nice girl, but went for an equally likable but more attractive woman instead - though it was no surprise that they were happy with having just sex with the former.
She conceded that yes, women have it easier getting offers for just sex, but for her friend this didn't do her much good since she had done the casual online dating stuff during her 20s to no avail (she had her first actual - and actually mediocre - boyfriend at 29 after having constantly failed doing that, and that guy was also one she according to my fwb would never have considered dating had she met him online and not in real life). Sure, she got to sleep with extremely handsome guys who hit on her, but for her (my FWB, not her friend) this would never have been an option since she didn't want to have to constantly doubt how she rates on his priority list. I turned this around and said that her friend apparently didn't have these doubts but thought that she could get guys (who were considerably out of her league) to commit to her just by putting out - and that when trying that she didn't want to compromise her standards either.
(quote ended) Now mind you, this friend is not only not hot stuff, but also from the stories I've heard about her not the sharpest tool in the drawer and not terribly interesting on top of that.
For example, not only did she believe she had a magic vagina and equated the willingness to fuck her with the willingness to date her, but she's also not terribly social: after she broke up with her first serious boyfriend (the one she met at a bar) 3 years later, she dated another guy she met in the swinger community (btw: also a guy who was average as well). However, that guy was indeed passionate about swinging and didn't want to be locked down for good, while she wanted to be his "one and only" (it's interesting how a woman can reconcile their desire for exclusive commitment and having a partner devoted to her with her vagina basically being FFA as long as she's not in a relationship). Now for the last year they've basically been downgraded to an FWB-style relationship that isn't good for her emotional wellbeing, yet she is incapable of getting out of it because she's too attached to him (sunk cost fallacy ftw!). Which is also due to the fact that the guy and my FWB are practically her social support network because she lost contact with most other friends.
To sum it up:
This is also a woman who was never asked "what do you bring to the table for a relationship?" She's high demand and probably high maintenance but low value, and I doubt anyone ever really told her that.
EuronPacificus 8y ago
Replace "woman", with "attractive woman".
Cyralea 8y ago
It's rather funny, a lot of conservative, traditionalist cultures have this as a cornerstone of their culture. The women in those environments knew exactly what was up.
Western society is all about the individual, with 20-year olds thinking they have life figured out. Their elders are "out of touch". At least, until they get older and realize the truth of what people were saying.
johnchapel 8y ago
"OP: Gotcha. No more Tinder - check. That's gonna be hard"
That statement alone tells me anything I would ever want to know about this vile woman before immediately ignoring her forever.
aa223 8y ago
So why the fuck did she ask in the first place if she can't be open to criticism and advice? I mean was she trying to gain that last piece of validation from men online who could listen to her woes as a 36 year old woman? I mean if she wants validation, she is better off asking other women rather than men or even men who are really beta.
TheSKSpecial 8y ago
She didn't want criticism and advice, she wanted validation. She wanted the men there to kiss her ass and tell her she's just fine the way she is and that all the men who aren't committing to her are the bad guys.
99% of the time a woman asking for advice really just wants somebody to suck up to her and tell her everyone else is wrong.
EDIT: and apparently the mods there wanted the same thing
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tomysotomayorfuxboys 8y ago
It could happen. Plenty of dumb ass white knights out there. But as people get older, the number of women looking to settle down (often with baggage from past relationships) increases, and the number of available and willing men decreases.
rebuildingMyself 8y ago
Even the beta white knight mentality only goes so far. It's one thing to save a hot, clean, childless ex-stripper who's trying to "change". Stupid, but the male hamster can work with it.
It's another to sweep up huge messes like multiple kids from multiple Chads and pay off her school loans and be rewarded with starfish sex for it (at least until the marriage contract is signed).
trpSenator 8y ago
So basically she's saying that the REAL reason she can't find LTR's is because she just isn't good enough at spotting the difference between guys who just want to fuck her, and guys who want to date...
The Hamster is real.
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That's because there is just one kind...guys that want to fuck her.
trpSenator 8y ago
If men are just using her for her pussy, maybe all her value is in her pussy. Seems like she's unwilling to admit that SHE'S the problem.
blackhornatnight 8y ago
This post is going to rustle a few jimmies. A woman who doesn't believe what people tell her, who seems comfortable in the decisions she has made, and will not compromise for the future. This woman is a nightmare for this sub which is full of insecure men who think they have women all figured out.