Well, I just kind of try to do my own thing, I go to work every day, workout every day and that because I'm only 24 I won't even hit my prime for 10 years, why dedicate the best years of my life to someone? I explained that I have friends with benefits when they started criticizing me for being at a bar alone, (I just stopped for a couple drinks on my way home after work) They started preaching at me how I am on the wrong path. I mega-triggered them when I said, "what's the right path? Getting married so in 15 years my wife and her friend can go out on girls night and hit on men half their age?" (which is what they were doing) they left within minutes. I just thought this was a funny experience that you guys would appreciate.
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1991Kira 8y ago
Hope you finished your drink and passed them the ice to help soothe that massive burn.
GrandpaLeiho 8y ago
"my future wife hasn't been born yet"
oldrunnerguy 8y ago
I wish I had the presence of mind to come up with such a spot-on reply. Great post.
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stro85 8y ago
Wow! This post is fire! Way to tell those hags off! I literally laughed at the part where you called then out on hitting on guys half their age!
TuckerP 8y ago
Thanks for the laugh. I'm glad you set them straight haha
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The__Tren__Train 8y ago
I wonder where things would have gone if you had played along..
who knows, you might have gotten a couple post-wall fwb's (:
HydRO-7 8y ago
Great comeback OP. Have an upvote.
ToTheSummit 8y ago
DAmnnn dude should have not open TRP in a saturday morning....
BluepillProfessor 8y ago
No threesome? A damn shame.
lumberjackinla 8y ago
Pump and Dump man. Dont explain anything to them. Women have an understanding level of a 5 year old.
Blue_Nightmare 8y ago
seems like you could've deflected and gotten in their pants or at least had some fun rather than driving them away.
bipbophil 8y ago
Lol when ever I tell women like this I'm single they imedeitly ask if I'm gay
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
Nice work... here's some pro tips for your inadvertent trolling:
haha this was gold :)
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I would've paid to see their facial reaction.
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I agree. Statements are more powerful than questions, but hard to pull off without being confrontational.
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
Being afraid of being confrontational is a beta attitude. Asking questions sounds submissive, due to the tonality and that you need the question answered.
Sounding confrontational is dominant and rapport-breaking, the opposite of approval seeking.
setsar 8y ago
I halfway agree. The op was asking a rhetorical question. He was playing mind chess when he already knew the game was mated. When you ask these types of questions, you don't sound submissive. You actually treat the other party like a child.
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I'm not saying being confrontational is wrong at all times. Sometimes a war is a just war. But walking that line is a balancing act. Both extremes, absolute supplication and absolute non-compromise, make lonely losers.
NO_LAH_WHERE_GOT 8y ago
Ya'll are reading a little too much into it. It's possible for a statement to sound like a question or for a question to sound like a statement, depending on how you handle the inflections and the body language. The latter matters more than the former.
RPmatrix 8y ago
tone of voice is everything is such situations i.e. framing your disagreements as ideas e.g "you know, I;ve noticed the new accounting system does x,y and z which might/could cause problems with the less experienced staff"'
Instead of something like "the new accounting system is useless for most of the staff ... etc"
I've had teachers who could tell me 'black is white' in such a way that's so convincing, I give it serious thought!
There's another great way and that's to speak your concerns in such a way, the person you're telling thinks it's their idea! --- win win! You get what you want without coming across as confrontational.
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It's like with the medusa robots in The Matrix, when they noticed that Neo got free and tried to put him back in "his place" on the plantation.
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dandar4600 8y ago
Lol, your wit is off the charts. Well played sir.
cuntbh 8y ago
One of the 48 laws of power:
You're probably doing the right thing by not dating, but if you say "I don't have one at the moment", you're not lying, and not making yourself a target. By saying that you're doing your own thing, you make yourself a target to them, so they criticise you for not dating.
Sure, it doesn't matter what they think of you, but it's nice to go to a bar and not have to put up with dramatic bitches.
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They were confrontational from the start. They deserved it.
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Stythe 8y ago
If I could go back 10 years and learn all this then I'd do it in a heartbeat. I would have rather spent 5 years focused for the payoff then party and make no progress. I'm still lucky that I learned it when I did, but no one is going to take that away. I don't care if idiots like those or my own family. No one worthwhile tells you how to be.
Also good job mocking them. That'll grind their gears for a bit, hahaha.
jamesc1071 8y ago
I think you have misread the situation.
The women came over because they wanted some company or some drinks.
They attempted to mess with you a little bit.
Instead of treating them with amused mastery, you justified yourself.
They left because you were boring.
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Scottysmoosh 8y ago
You probably don't need anyone telling you this, but I think the path you are on is a far more mature path (especially considering your age). Most men in their early to mid 20s would lie, cheat and break hearts to get into someones pants. Not saying that you don't, but from this story it sounds like you've got a solid head on your shoulders and know what you want. I wish I could send this post to my 24 year old self. I would have saved myself, and others, a lot of head/heart ache.
MakeEmSayAyy 8y ago
You gave them so much cognitive dissonance lmao.
She's like Sarah let's go, I don't like this realization.
The__Tren__Train 8y ago
did these women have wedding bands on?
that would be hilarious
Oftowerbroleaning 8y ago
Lol no but one mentioned she was married. Which the fact that she had no wedding band makes it even better. The other one was presumably divorced. She had that tired divorced look about her. Also, making my whole premise even better.
yumyumgivemesome 8y ago
Your final comment was absolutely perfect. If both were married, you hit the nail on the head. If anything "less" than married from their perspective (i.e., divorced or never married), then your comment hits even harder.
squidracer 8y ago
I've seen this trend, even with my ex.
One goes through a divorce and talks one of her non single friends into spending time with her..
In the end, they both end up single.. Should've seen the look on my ex's face when I told her it was time for her to move out, priceless
rockinhard130 8y ago
Yessss!!! Three is always some bitch trying to talk another into leaving their husband. It's sick.
squidracer 8y ago
Oh well, joke was on her. After I kicked her out her friend took a job 500 miles away.. Leaving her alone
thewrightstuff88 8y ago
the same is true for marriage. Women have a herd mentality, if a group of women have SOs, once one gets proposed to/married, they all start falling in line and put pressure on their SOs or at least desire to because if they don't, they FEEL excluded from the circle. If one gets a BF, theres a good chance the others will as well.
squidracer 8y ago
That's one reason why I think women in the church seem to fair slightly better in marriage.. Herd mentality and divorce shaming.
In our quest to disprove god, I think we forgot the real reason for religion.. To convince women to stay with their husbands
scamper_22 8y ago
Shame is a big one for women because they are creatures of reputation.
It also allows them to 'obey' without thinking they are submitting to their husband. They are submitting to 'god'. Also the reputation in general makes everyone more on the lookout for bad behavior.
The community does keep them in check.
Now you don't want to get too philosophical here. But I mean if a girl is shielded from being 'bad' by her family/community being too restrictive, is she just as bad as a slut who was free to roam? That's an unanswerable question to a large extent. In general, if a girl is shielded from being 'bad', that's as good as it is going to get. The same way as a guy I have no idea what I'd be like if I was starving in a warzone. I might do crazy things like kill random people and steal their food. But I live in a first world country and that's not a condition I'm exposed to and it really can't be answered.
If a girl is shielded from being bad in the religious sense, and then you screw it up, a big part of that lands on you. Her parents were able to keep her 'good' and you couldn't.
Now you also have to consider the other side of religion. You cannot say religion is to convince women to stay with their husbands. Religion is a tool... used by everyone to get their way. There's a reason why women still cling to religion. They get something out of it.
They can and do shame men into providing for them. They like the family and community it provides as well. There's a reason in pretty much every modern community, there are more females in the religious institutions than men and they all clamour for 'where are all the good men'. When half of them have embraced feminism in some way. They'd laugh at the idea of obeying their husband.
Basically, they embrace all the beneficial parts of feminism combined with all the beneficial parts of religion and basically they are worst of all women.
Screenp2 8y ago
Not just to keep women with husbands, but to give men a purpose to go do something and support that women.
RedBigMan 8y ago
Women in the church arent any better they just hide it better. Even the Catholic church is bowing to pressure from the feminine imperative and softening their stance on Divorce.
KyfhoMyoba 8y ago
Actually, they are about 1/4 to 1/3 better, in terms of divorce.
squidracer 8y ago
Because they don't have a choice. People are leaving the church because they want to live like animals. As many women want to divorce, they have to bow or lose the entire congregation.
The feminist hive mind is stronger
darkrood 8y ago
Or people just start to realize tithing does not end up in God's pocket.
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nolanite 8y ago
This was fucking hilarious. They thought you were a blue pill zombie, and you'd listen to their inane, illogical drivel. It must been very satisfying to watch those old cunts angrily leave because they had their shit taken apart by someone half their age, in seconds.
S-Blaze 8y ago
''right path'' lol, well said.
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combatmechanic 8y ago
In my 20's and 30's I worked on my career, now it's paying me back.
RPmatrix 8y ago
Bro, you don't know that, you're hoping that will be the case.
when people say this I think --'tomorrow' never comes'
While there's nothing wrong with planning for the future, never assume you will achieve your 'hopes and plans'; "make hay when the sun shines" as nobody knows what tomorrow will hold.
In my case I was doing things at 24 that many guys will never do! Shit I didn't even think I'd live to 40yo, let alone the 50years I have! IMO those of you who assume things will be 'better' later are making a Big mistake!
I think the people who have The "it will never happen to me" mentality and have never suffered from life's abilty to fuck up ALL your plans, are quite naive. IME people will fail more than they succeed -- how did Yoda put it, something like "Im a master becoz I've failed at more things than you have even tried"
I've noticed a trend with the younger people who have had comfortable lives to assume things will continue that way, until the day they don't.
When that day comes and the shit hits, if they don't have a realistic POV and have developed their 'inner strength' to cope with the unexpected problems coming their way, they will crumble.
There is ONLY "now" ... to assume you will be around and/or the years (shit days) to come will be the same as the one's that have passed is IMO a mistake; "expectations are the basis for disappointment' so the only thing you can reasonably 'expect' is the unexpected.
And this applies even more in 2016 than it ever has, for the world is changing at a rapid pace and the things many take for granted now are not guaranteed to stay the same. Life Is Change, and those who don't change with it will find this out the hard way.
How many of you are involved with things that didn't even exist 15yrs ago? Of the top of my head I can think of several things, from 'social media' and hooking up online, to 3-D printing and driverless cars. Not to mention, wars, climate changes, swathes of refugees and a widening gap between the rich and the poor, unemployment due to technology creating jobsolescence, etc etc.
And many of those things are 'good' things, But, how will you consider an AI that makes all the knowledge you worked hard for in college obsolete ergo useless? What use is there in having a degree in something that's no longer viable? Many of you have them, you just don't know it yet!
i.e. many of you guys are doing jobs you assume you can keep as long as you do 'good work'. This is naive thinking. Time and time again game changing events have occurred and very few people gave them any mind, only to find out the hard way their 'expectations' were unfounded.
Anyone who thinks AI's and autonomous machinery isn't going to make significant changes to the way we currently live and work, is naive. If you think the world we live in is going to be the 'same' in 10yrs, think again!
AI's and new technology aside, People don't expect to have a car crash, but they happen all the time. People don't plan on getting sick with cancer/heart disease, but they do, all the time! You'd be surprised at the amount of very fit athletes who die from things like heart attacks/strokes or other serious illness'
Do you think the guy who was fucking that chicken behind a rock even considered the possibility the rock would crush him? (and someone would take a photo that would embarrass his family for years to come?!)
Not to mention the myriad of health issues which will fuck up your day quick smart. Nobody "plans" on getting cancer or breaking their leg and the consequences of the same. Or closer to home. some crazy bitch making false rape allegations at you! If you think that's not going to fuck up most of your "plans", think again.
How often do we hear of some girl lying to get her way? I'd bet good money the guys who're posting in "relationship advice" or "deadbedrooms" never thought they would be!
There's no shortage of guys here with stories of unexpected events causing them major problems. How many guys who get 'divorce raped' see it coming? And even IF they do/did, that doesn't mean they will escape the repercussions. No.
I have known a lot (>20) people who's "plans" literally disappeared after an event which took seconds to happen; accidents, disease, job losses, there are many things which can/will either delay or completely destroy one's plans. Including a guy who was crushed by a boulder while searching for 'thunder eggs' -- I shit you not!
And the craziest part of that was some people had warned him about exactly that happening But he told them they were stupid to think it would happen to him, "I'm really experienced and careful so that will never happen to me" -- yet it did.
I'm not trying to diss your post OP, I'm just trying to get you guys to open your minds to the possibility that things won't go according to your plans. IME the more people in your life who have the ability to affect yours, i.e. teachers, bosses, close friends, lovers, clients etc, the less 'control' you have over what will happen.
TL:DR: Live for today, for tommorow never comes and the only time you can DO something, is Now' -- do not assume and especially do not assume you know what will be in the future, you don't and to think so is only setting yourself up to fail/suffer the consequences of such arrogance.
Source: Me. I can look back on my life and see that I had NO idea that many of the things which have happened, would. Even in the past 5yrs I have been surprised several times with things that 5yrs ago had you told me were going to happen to me, I would have said 'you're crazy'
ddiogenesofsinope 8y ago
Life throws curveball all the time. If OP stays on track and keeps lifting, getting paid, doing his thing and never gives up when life gets tough, he will be in his prime.
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PrinceofSpades 8y ago
Beware of Destination Addiction motivational poster goes here.
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Theophagist 8y ago
One old guy to another, you preach too much.
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doritoesNcoffee 8y ago
This is worthy of a new thread. People need to realize how dynamic lives are. Everything changes quick, and those who do not adapt, crumble. This is why it's important to always have money saved up for a rainy day. It's better to live in a rented apartment while having a 100k cash in the bank, rather than paid 100k out of your 200k loan on your dream house.
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I will never forget that day when I was supposed to travel to my first day of my dream job that I was trying to land so long and worked so hard for it. I should start working as a personal coach in a very exotic location during summer.. U know what everyone dreams about.
I applied two years ago, and they told me you need to learn German language. So I went and learned German in next two years. That's how much I wanted it.
Two hours prior to flight, bags packed, saying goodbye to family.. KIDNEY STONE. I've spent three weeks in hospital, and four weeks at home afterwards and undergone two operations. I wasn't far from loosing my kidney.
That's when I learned NOTHING in this life is granted and we shell live every moment of it.
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1-user-acct 8y ago
the post was actually pretty awesome IMO. it's a nice reminder. awesome to hear from some dudes who have been around a bit longer than I have. I'm guilty of procrastination.
how about you though?
Nidhogguryo 8y ago
Long-winded perhaps, but devoid of useful information it certainly was not. Many people need their perspective reset in this regard.
Oftowerbroleaning 8y ago
Look at my 3rd top post all time if you don't think I know what you're talking about bro. I already know. I'm still doing okay given the circumstances and things literally can only get better from here providing I lift and don't experience some tragic accident.
RedSugarPill 8y ago
Holy shit, I vividly remember reading that post. Glad to see you're doing alright out there, brother (or, at least I hope things are going well for you).
The current post is fucking hilarious--definitely my style of black knighting. Thanks for sharing..
RPmatrix 8y ago
I had a look, Wow! bro! Howz that turning out now?
Have you been able to mitigate any of the crap that's come of it? Is it still causing problems?
the fact you've written this OP suggests you're moving on ok, i wish you all the best mate.
Oftowerbroleaning 8y ago
None of its been mitigated. In fact its gotten worse, but I'm living as well as I can with it.
RPmatrix 8y ago
man, that's one fucked up story ... I wish I could do more than just wish you ALL the best
at least you're free, hey if you're up to it an update would be interesting
TF I've never had anything like that happen to me, I've only had a chick say she lost her virginity to me, I never even kissed her let alone fucked her!
Oftowerbroleaning 8y ago
I might do that in the coming days. It's definitely worthy of an update. Thanks for the idea broski.
RPmatrix 8y ago
I'll look forward to it mate
rockinhard130 8y ago
Sure shit can happen. But you can't sit around worrying about everything that could go wrong.
RPmatrix 8y ago
maybe you do, IDK. But as you mentioned it, I was simply taking the opportunity to speak to the other guys who read this post.
it doesn't have to be tragic. i.e. You could come down with the worst case of flu you've ever had on the day of your new job, which stops you from going there for a few weeks. Sure, some employers might be fine with that, but in my industry, you'd be immediately replaced ... with "no hard feelings" of course!
The reason I made this post was I regularly see guys here assuming "it gets better" and that they'll hit some magical 'prime' in their 30's
IMO that's a naive position to take, as I explained in some detail. You know the saying about "counting your chickens before they hatched"
malariasucks 8y ago
ya I agree. I've had things going fine, saving thousands per month when suddenly my job ends in a single day and no job to replace it and it ook months to find something that paid half...
that's just the tip and I'm only in my early 30s. life has already thrown me so many curveballs. The people I thought were making bad decisions have ended up in a better situation than me
things change so quick
RPmatrix 8y ago
at least this is the stuff, which if it doesn't kill you tends to make you stronger in many ways. Strength of spirit mainly, which is transferable to other areas once you learn how.
There's a saying; "be careful what you pray for coz you just might get it"
IME things we think will be our greatest achievents are sometimes our biggest mistakes and failures, whereas the things we thought were our 'biggest failures' we thought would amount to nothing have become the #1 successes in our lives!
The ultimate of these 'wtf happened' moments for me, is when I achieve my desired result and find myself thinking "now what?" It can be the most empty feeling when you finish a great job with major obstacles you found wayys to mitigate or deal with, and that's finished ... :(
"now what's?" are challenging bitches both metaphorically speaking (business/school) and literally (bitches/plates!) as they are often filled with sadness,kinda like ending an LTR that was once The best you'd ever had! even when you know it's 'for the best', it still hurts.
A 'now what' caused Alexander the Great to have a breakdown!
malariasucks 8y ago
thanks all around man, that post was the most realistic post I've seen online in a while and made me feel a lot better.
Some things in my life have gone way better than expected, then of course some disappointments as well, expounded by the frustration of moving back to the US to start again (and it not going smoothly AT ALL!)
RPmatrix 8y ago
thanks for letting me know bro, I appreciate the feedback as it helps me know what you guys would like to hear about ... and as the two things you can give away and never lose, are 'what you know' and 'how you feel', I had nothing to lose by sharing it
I almost didn't post it as it was long and was written off the top of my head, and I thought it might sound too preachy but IMHO it's the truth, so I thought fuck it, IF it helps one guy it's worth it, so thanks to all of you who've let me know it was appreciated.
I've lived an extraordinary life, great highs and bottomless lows, Which have happened a few times but I still refuse to 'give in'! I refuse to give up until i'm thoroughy beaten! And even then, I see my defeat as a learning experience that might help me deal with similar shit if it ever occurs again. And a few of what i thought were 'failures' became crazy successes for reasons I'd never have guessed or even imagined!
That's why I truly believe, "The only failure is the failure to Try"
And in a way, it was lucky for me that I 'accidentally' was a DT with a basic RP mindset. But being DT is a solitary existence amongst other 'normal guys' ... but it worked great for girls, although i didn't consciously knew what i was doing, I just liked riding motor bikes and selling large quantities of weed (and the odd other things) while running a clothing business, which gave me a massive income that I spent like water -- the down side was I had many "fair weather friends" who were really only 'acquaintences' who bailed when the fun(ds) ran out. The gold diggers were rare and I avoided them like the Plague! I don't regret that period of my life but I wouldn't recommend it to others.
When I read The Game 10yrs ago I thought "how the fuck does this guy know >50% of my PU techniques? I was like 'wtf?' lol -- 'techniques' which sadly I'd never been able to 'explain' to other guys, until the Game and later TRP's gave me the terminology to do so, which has helped change that a lot!
if there's anything else you think i might help if i share my pov, please let me know, I'd be happy to try and i'll see what i can do.
cheers bro
malariasucks 8y ago
you still have your brand? was it a dude-bro brand? you sound like a californian motocross guy haha
RPmatrix 8y ago
my brand was called RAD (RandomAccessDesign) that specialized in uniques abstract screen printed fabrics and clothes made from the same,
no I no longer have it
CopyAndPaste2015 8y ago
Next time you thank them for their advice and then ask them if their daughters are hot.
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Any woman trying to lecture someone on the right path when they're married and at a bar with their friend talking to young men is an idiot.
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5t3fan0 8y ago
awesome, cant be written any better than this!
FrodoMaiBaggins 8y ago
Holy shit that must have felt good, would give you gold but i don't wanna give money to Reddit.
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Lol solid truth right here.
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Exactly, a committed relationship between two people has nothing to do with anyone but the people in the relationship.
To introduce laws to purposefully impair one side of the relationship is completely ridiculous.
Marriage has become a liability to men rather than an asset and this has become tangible in the reduction of the birth rate in countries where these broken laws are in effect.
Something needs to change.
IllimitableMan 8y ago
Your aunt is a fucking idiot, bitch got served. She walked out because she knew there was no coming back from that. Well done.
Timmytanks40 8y ago
It was his girls aunt but the point stands.
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IllimitableMan 8y ago
Must've read that wrong. It's good this butt fuck retarded person you had to deal with doesn't share your blood.
That's a lot of xbox games and protein shake brah! I joke, but seriously, yes, the pussy ain't worth the dime. You could get a lot of hookers for 20k. I'm convinced hookers are cheaper than wives (and obviously, they fuck you more)
darkrood 8y ago
20 grand in Rings and ceremonies?!! That's such a steal.
My friend tells me casually that he emptied his saving for Wedding on a boat. That didn't even count the ring yet.
It was a nice boat though.
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why'd you let her walk out?
vengefully_yours 8y ago
You're a twist the knife type?
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Gives me pleasure to see stupid people suffer
vengefully_yours 8y ago
As do I. The Germans have a word for it.
Schadenfreude.
It's different than sadism, because it's suffering on their part due to their own actions, rather than it being inflicted upon them. I like sadism too. Oh yes, very much so.
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man its okay to think this shit and talk about it on reddit, but please dont fucking drop red pill in real life conversations dude; it's straight up autistic.
darkrood 8y ago
Uh no...In this case, the gf's aunt is the autistic one.
You just don't butt into people's business at public gathering. For a woman who's at least twice married, I expect better social awareness.
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Used to mean "true but social faux pax" but now its "anything that triggers me" shaming tactic
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What is your deal? Explain your comment.
adunk9 8y ago
What part about what he said was autistic? I know plenty of people who publicly don't believe in organized marriage.
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The part at the end where he insulted his aunt for no reason; questioning your personal choices does not validate insulting someone on that personal of a level. I feel like anyone without autism would understand that; and they would definitely understand that saying anything red pill related does not compute to women or bluepill dudes. The whole thing is about a dude proud of fending off his aunt questioning his life choices so its already betabitch to begin with.
redpillliger 8y ago
No reason? Shit, you must let people walk all over you if you don't see a reason there.
p3n1x 8y ago
Her Aunt, not his. (Careful slinging "autism" around when your own reading and comprehension are low)
He was being emasculated in a crowd of people for no reason other than the Aunt feeling entitled and justified in doing so. He put his foot down.
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I was super stoned at the time.
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Number1ricky 8y ago
You're on the wrong path. YET THEY ARE AT THE SAME FUCKING BAR TRYING TO HIT ON YOU
squidracer 8y ago
Women get pretty upset when men say they are not interested.. I think they are starting to realize that the successful men don't want them
RPRedhead 8y ago
Astounding. This strikes me as a great example of solipsism. They cannot even begin to understand what hypocrites they are.
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FourNominalCents 8y ago
Normally I'd call nuking a hamster overkill, but well done.
DforDeadpool 8y ago
That's some good ol' MGTOW blackknighting.
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This was a good laugh lol thank you
bbm72 8y ago
Good report.
Btw, why waste any years?
_whatcanbe 8y ago
Absolutely destroyed. Well done man
donniessparklemotion 8y ago
Women hate it when they are sellers in a buyers market.
It is always about who has the power. Them or men.
They were trying to shame you by painting you as a loser sitting in a bar alone.
Shaming and guilt are tactics almost all women employ because these are the tactics they use on each other.
When a man does not give a shit about whether people see him as a loser or not, he cannot be manipulated.
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Nicely done. And it's so true, why waste these years? Your twenties should be a time where you are gaining the knowledge, skills, and experience necessary to build your empire.
Of course, there's room for enjoyment along the way, but you should do so knowing that pointless fun things (namely, women) do not have a solid return on investment.
larrythetomato 8y ago
I really like this caveat. To explain why I'm taking a phrase out of Rich Dad Poor Dad.
Rich people buy luxuries with the returns from their investments.
Middle class people buy luxuries with their savings.
Poor people buy luxuries with debt.
Same goes with women. You want to get women as the returns of your investments (in yourself). Beta bux buy women with their savings. Omegas get nothing and have nothing to give.
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IllPanYourMeltIn 8y ago
Good. Now get off reddit, lift some weights, learn some skills and be a man.
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darkrood 8y ago
A lot more men are in "polyamory" relationship.
His girl just decides not to give him that relationship update.
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TopKekSkye 8y ago
your username certainly checks out! great book!
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DanG3 8y ago
They left when they realized you would not be buying them drinks.
Duke_LFG 8y ago
Lol this is the best response
HeinousFu_kery 8y ago
The perfect-hindsight comeback:
"What's the right path? Getting married so in 15 years my wife and her friend can go out on girls night and hit on men half their age and be too cheap with their husbands' money (and so desperate for a faint whiff of validation) to even buy their own drinks?"
DanG3 8y ago
They want to see if they "still have it" - seeking validation.
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GC0W30 8y ago
I thought that until the first time I went Dutch on first date drinks, took a chick to my apartment, blew in her mouth and then had her offer to pay for my dinner....
I have wasted thousands on women who didn't put out... Never again.
RedPill_FightClub 8y ago
I feel ya there! I was the same way before TRP. Now, I will not pay. We split the bill, or have separate tabs altogether.
netgrey 8y ago
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/
Be a skittles man.
PrinceofSpades 8y ago
Had a chick recently buy her own burrito, and pay for her own Uber to my place and back. Whole ordeal cost her ~70$. Didn't spend a dime, got blown and fucked three times. Laughs.
GC0W30 8y ago
I know of one broad who used her husband's money for a $250/night fancy downtown hotel.... and her boyfriend's breakfast the next morning at the hotel restaurant.
I wasn't the husband, but nonetheless I think that may have put me off of marriage somewhat.
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F_Dingo 8y ago
This is gold, you basically outed them on what they were doing.
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Bitches are amusing:
1) When a rapper calls women "bitches", it doesn't offend them because "they aren't talking about me" (has nothing to do with me).
2) But when a man doesn't want to date for LTR or has decided to not marry (other women), it's offensive to them even though it has nothing to do with them.
robertpaulsontitties 8y ago
Rappers are presumed to be from speaking from a position of strength, rap culture is primarily concerned with cultivating a strong image. I think that plays a part as well, that if you are speaking from a position of strength you can say as you please. As a young man I thought rap was dumb but it is actually brilliant.
IllimitableMan 8y ago
Because it's not being said specifically to them, but being said via media and so it's not personal/directed at them and they can realise this.
Because it's being said TO HER even though it's not referring TO HER, her herd mentality empathy combined with her solipsism kicks in and she gets offended as if it's being suggested "she's not good enough for a relationship"
Tell a woman "I don't believe in marriage" and she hears "I'm not worthy of marriage, because if I was, you'd believe in marriage" - it's always about them.
These are the insecure petty creatures we're dealing with.
exit_sandman 8y ago
Yup. They hate the idea that someone else - even if it's just someone they never meet, heck, even if it's someone they would never date in a million years themselves - for some reason excludes them from commitment (whether it's because he's generally against it, or whether it's for some specific reason that affects her, like, say, n-count or whatever). Because if someone does that there's always the risk that others do it as well, and among these others those guys they actually want. So they rather shame the guys who feel like that to hell and back in order to frighten men away from that sort of behavior.
renzy77 8y ago
Thanks to female solipsism, women take everything personally.
icecow 8y ago
To be fair if the tables were turned the male would vibe that the comment was covertly directed at him, as is common when one doesn't want to be direct to avoid insult (Ironicially, covert comments feel very direct and insulting).
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Nice, but remember this: if you smash a woman's pride, she will not respond the way a man does. A man might ruminate on it and turn it over, searching for truth and perhaps a way to better himself. Sure, he might try to pay you back, but usually in a tit-for-tat kind of way. Men like justice.
A woman will take a shit on your soul. You can get away with what you just did here because you may never see these bints again, but to any woman you see on a regular basis and have to interact with, never nuke the hamster. Women (and BP men) have the hamster for a reason. If they could deal with themselves honestly, they wouldn't need it.
edit: this is easy if you understand why this is. In the SMP, the only currency a woman has is herself. That's usually enough because vaginas are valuable. But she has to give bits of herself away during every transaction. A man has way more diversity: himself, his wealth, status, intelligence, usefulness. All these he can trade on. Exposure is far worse for women because it devalues the only thing they can trade with.
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Good for you man! That probably left them speechless because of the truth that statement holds.
Philhelm 8y ago
That's the road I'll be taking. In fact, I'm in the process of moving my stuff out while my wife is at work. Cruel, cruel freedom!
FrameWalker 8y ago
When you agree and amplify instead of explain its more fun
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"Agree and amplify" is one of those things that sound better in theory than they come out in practice. It's completely unnatural. Why use it?
n_dois 8y ago
Some of my friends use A&A very naturally, for almost everything. It fits them pretty well, but you have to be the playful kind of guy most of the time, otherwise will sound ironical.
myschadenfreude 8y ago
slow clap Also very true. They think what that are doing is harmless. If you are in a relationship and do that it's disrespect; I do not accept disrespect.
TheEnglishman28 8y ago
Damn son, they got fuckin rekt, m8.
kappy_the_kike 8y ago
I would of tried to do a car date with one of them. OR both.
Oftowerbroleaning 8y ago
I was actually mildly annoyed that they were even talking to me tbh.
TheEnglishman28 8y ago
I understand why. Key word = old.
Oftowerbroleaning 8y ago
Lol I wasn't feeling it. I've been hung over at work from st pattys and just finished a shift. I just wanted to drink and go home
kappy_the_kike 8y ago
It's pretty degrading to make a girl suck your cock in the back seat or the front. heheheh
foldpak111 8y ago
After working my brutal, dangerous job followed by a 60 min swim/30 min sauna/20 min ice bath, if some used up whores gave me shit about the slightest anything at my local bar I'd just have the bartender throw them out. I am a high-quality individual. I don't have time for any of that.
TerryYockey 8y ago
Bahaha sure ya would, champ. This is akin to being 5 years old, running to mommy and telling her that your sister is making fun of you. Also, it's really hard to reconcile that statement with:
If you really were, you wouldn't be so thin skinned - you wouldn't give two shits about them, much less tattle on them to the bartender.
foldpak111 8y ago
If they kept pestering me after I asked them politely to leave me alone, yes, I would have my friend kick them out. No place for harassment of any kind.
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Dude I would never tell someone to be a cuck, but you can still have a girlfriend and fuck hot girls without being a cuck. Don't miss out on that, its a great part of life.
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A quality girlfriend will improve the quality of your life. If you only attract dirtbag girls then thats a different story.
0kool74 8y ago
Objection! Assumes facts not in evidence!!!
squidracer 8y ago
You need a gf because it's nice to have someone to cook, clean, and help with bills..
Oh wait. Well, at least my ex put out every night
hectortamerofwhores 8y ago
Great, so not only did she not contribute around the house, she eventually made sex boring too? (haha, joking, but seriously, I don't care how hot they are the same face every night gets old.)
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I've had gf's that cook clean and help with the bills. Are you saying the women who cook clean and help with the bills do not exist?
squidracer 8y ago
It's rare.. I've usually gotten only one of the three
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saml01 8y ago
Sounds like a couple of friends enjoying a girls night decided to have some fun with the loner at the bar and instead found a righteous asshole that assumes too much.
You can choose to live your life any way you like but there's no reason to don't be a dick about it.
Oftowerbroleaning 8y ago
https://youtu.be/UYOy1tuVv3w
Theophagist 8y ago
Just innocently having a laugh at the expense of a stranger. What's wrong with that?
saml01 8y ago
According to his story, no one was laughing at him and he didn't even give them a chance to voice their side. He just judged them as hypocrites without knowing what they had to say.
0kool74 8y ago
you really are a stupid dumb fuck aren't you!
chocobaby 8y ago
Bam! Hit them right in the feelz...lol. Good for u. Women are trained from birth that their vagina, and related female-ness, is their only value. If you're not buyin'... They're up shit creek.
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niczar 8y ago
I don't disagree, but what do you get out of this exchange? You've made made them feel bad (not that I care about them), and ... what?
Oftowerbroleaning 8y ago
I didn't expect anything from the exchange. I didn't even want the exchange. I didn't approach them. They approached me. I just wanted to drink a couple beers and go home, that's what I expected walking in and that's what I got.
SatanAscending 8y ago
Basically, you wanted them to go to hell. Mision Success I guess?
favours_of_the_moon 8y ago
Should've gone for the menage.
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Yankee_Fever 8y ago
Maybe if you hadn't been so stupid you could have fucked both of them behind the dumpster. I know people generally like to announce to the world that they are different, but the smartest person in the room is the one that plays stupid and quiet
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Most people are dumb shit. The smartest person in the room JUST HAPPENS to play stupid and quiet and isn't staying low-key to hide how stupid he really is. That's the difference.
HeadChefNYC 8y ago
"What's the right path? Getting married so in 15 years my wife and her friend can go out on girls night and hit on men half their age?" LOL Fuckin burned. Personally I stopped hitting up the bars shit was depressing to me.
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Is it wrong that I've fucked scandalous women that threw pussy at me like that in the past?
Probably on some level, but fuck it.
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gonorealover 8y ago
You raped the women's rights outta those 2 whores lol . Fuck them .
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Entropy-7 8y ago
If you can find a quality woman, a value-added woman, then it makes perfect sense to lock her down and build your life with her.
How old are these sluts?
When I was your age I had a unicorn put everything on the table and I did not bite. I can't be bothered with regrets but she went on to lock down a BB and now 20 years later she has two daughters and a great life in New England. (Plus, she basically looks the same as 20 years ago.)
Your path is your path, but don't limit your options because you feel footloose and fancy-free.
Oftowerbroleaning 8y ago
Unicorns don't exist. AWALT.
StoicCrane 8y ago
Your "unicorn" probably became an Alpha widow and sought a BB to sette down with. Chances are the CC was too much for her to deal with. Sound like you dodged a bullet and don't even know.
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swan1114 8y ago
Why be bitter about it though? You missed a perfect opportunity to work on your flirting skills. You don't have to follow through.