This one is ancient history.

Just the fact he lives in a house by himself says he is doing well.

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read it before but thankx for re-upload.. solid mentality.!

"Three weeks ago, after seeing a girl I knew from high school buy her 3rd property with her husband, it felt like my relationship with Will was juvenile and had no future."

the jelllies

"He could have easily kept our relationship alive by being forthcoming. Someone please help me make sense of this situation."

Sure, I'll help: You dumped him, you retard.

One major clue that the gf is a status-obsessed creep (and that this guy dodged a bullet) is that she compares herself to her idiot friends on Facebook. What an ass -- she didn't even pretend to love the guy but stated that her big realization came after reading about a married friend purchasing a "third property." I love the protest that she gave him "ten months" (wow, must be love!) while of course judging him the entire time. Good for him that he was smart enough to test her motivations.

Also "accolades" equals having babies and buying properties and having some giant wedding?! This gf is the reason prenups exist. I am sure this guy is more than happy that she is out of his life.

Haven't grinned so hard in a long time. Good stuff

When I finished talking, he said "fine by me" and asked me to leave.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEFjRrR3CQ4

He could've said something, ANYTHING during our break up when I was explaining my doubts about our relationship.

Ever think he was simply content to let it die? He's not resisting because you nexted yourself with your bullshit.

This hits home for me very much. Recently, I had a 3 year spout with an LTR where this was a situation. Basically, I got injured and wasn't cleared to work despite having two jobs waiting for my return. It put me in a tough spot financially for a moment.I had a large sum of money from a prior investment and out of fear of using it for living expenses- I put about 50 K away in an annuity so I can't touch it. I never really led on to what or how much I had but this chick would constantly try to shit on me for it to her family, coworkers and friends- seriously over-inflating the issues despite me positioning myself with a home, owning all 3 cars of mine(67 SS Camaro, 01' VW VR6 GTI and a BMW) and being pretty financially knowledgable as far as budget and making appropriate financial sacrifices that set me up big picture wise.

I was in a bad cash flow situation but that was seemingly temporary and she was a complete cunt about it- basically treating me like a complete piece of shit despite me being a go-getter. Funny thing is, within this past year- I'm about to Blow up(Promising salary with opportunity to move up). A situation I had always insisted would happen but it was a matter of a specific financial plan maturating at the right moment. She never believed in me.

It was probably the weirdest, most difficult three years of my entire life. It was like an episode of the Twilight zone with how fucking strange the whole event was.

But.

Now I'm laughing my ass off to the bank!

Hamster gon' Hamster, AWALT.

I don't blame her, the dude fucked up, she left him due to his lack of ambition, When dating a girl I always look to see if she has a career and is well rounded. If she isnt I will also leave the table. I fail to see how this is "sticking it up to a golddigger" this is merely a post regarding some guy who came off as a loser and got left for it. Newsflash, no one likes a loser, man or woman.

I've had women knowing that I'm not short for money date me on that exact premise. Simply only because I have money.

I thought I could plate them but half of plating stems from mystery. When they know that I'm a good bet, everything else goes out the window.

I still had my fun though. They tried the whole making me wait for sex thing and only certain amounts. Most of that I battled down pretty quickly and when I dumped them I told them it was because I knew they only wanted me for my bank account. The distraught cries on the phone from one of them was laughable. She even asked me something like, "Well... how much do you have then" like she wanted to know what she lost out on... it was pathetic.

On that same scale though I do kinda see that if he saw her in his future, sure keep the oil baron stuff secret, but if she had obviously made a point of mentioning career aspirations and future support, depending on how she would phrase it, it's not an unreasonable thing to bring up if she was considering him for the long haul and vice versa. It strikes me that maybe he was a little TOOO hard and not enough comfort displayed.

But besides that, totally fake story. I mean, she found out days after about his oil baron status. I would rather suppose that she most likely would have heard about a rather large thing like that weeks into a relationship even if not from him rather than after...

Sweet story. The male equivalent of a slut lying about her dick count and getting away with it.

TLDR: Most of you are hypocrites. Read before down voting

So one of the best things about TRP is that it attempts to empathize with women. In this case I can't exactly blame her for passing on a guy who gives the appearances of having no career prospects/money...

It's a women's biological imperative to find a man who has good genes/is alpha and is also able to provide for her and her children.

I feel like half of the responses on here amount to "what a gold digging whore, she should have been satisfied with just him being a good man"...that's the same exact type of argument SJWs use against men who don't want a fatty. Guys want a girl who is physically attractive, not just one who's "beautiful on the inside"

Also, the guy clearly isn't alpha. If he was alpha and gave her the 'Gina tingles she probably wouldn't have dumped his ass. In the end the guy was likely a beta bucks minus the Bucks part. If a guy is neither alpha nor a beta who can provide what incentive is there to stick with the guy? However, I will give him credit for exiting in a very alpha manor

The best part of the story is original thread and amount of comments deleted by moderation.

OK, you guys need to get a hold on yourselves. Just because this girl wants to get married, have kids, and a normal, middle class life does not make her a fucking gold digger. A gold digger would never have given this guy the time of day.

Also, if this story is even true (kinda sounds like bullshit, either the whole thing or him having money), he sounds like a couple of guys I've known who were pathologically cheap. They could have a billion dollars and never spend a dime. Believe me, they're not fun to be around, let alone be tied to for life. It's just a form of anxiety and extreme scarcity mentality. You know, the same scarcity mentality people on here tell you to avoid.

What happens when they're in relationships is that they guilt you for spending money, even when it's reasonable and you were the one that made it.

And the fact that he just kicked her to the curb without a word and never called her means that he either got super anxious about the whole thing, or he plated her, which is fine if the girl knows she's a plate.

Honestly, he sounds like a bum. Just because he inherited money from an ancestor who wasn't a bum doesn't change that.

There are different kinds of people. Some people, men and women, like to live the "Facebook achiever" lifestyle. Some people like to live a more casual lifestyle. Will and this lady are at different places on this spectrum, so it's good that they broke up. I'm sure she will find a guy who wants to post pictures of house, car, vacations, kids, etc. to rub his ex-girlfriends' noses in it; plenty of them exist, too.

There is a lot of hate coming towards her which is fairly unjustified. Let's think about it the other way. You are a career man and there is a girl you are thinking about LTR'ing. Then you realize that she's broke, lazy, unambitious, etc. Would you LTR her? You shouldn't, yet when this girl sees a basically worthless man and leaves and you all yell hypergamy.

That's not to say that there aren't obvious red pill principles here, but I'm convinced that the majority of the people in the comments are still in the anger phase ready to find any excuse to be angered by women.

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Here, hamster, I'll make sense of the situation: You broke up with him because of money, when maybe you should of asked him about all this stuff before hitting the killswitch. You basically told him you care about wealth and income rather than who he is as a person. He heard that and slammed the door without a second thought, probably called someone later that night and got his dick sucked, and now is over your shallow ass.

I fucking LOL'd multiple times reading this. If this is true, that dude is a goddamned RP icon.

Her issue was that he seemed unwilling to improve his ability to provide.

Not that he did not tell her, her actual issue was that he seemed unwilling to work so that he could live better.

Not sure this story passes the sniff test. I can't imagine telling someone's good friend, at the gym no less, that you dumped them because they were a pauper. Can you link to the original story?

Will sure knows how to live. Great post.

y'know, the only thing a woman seems to hate more than settling for a beta is realizing she missed out on something huge like this Oil Tycoon

I dated him for 10 months when I thought he was penniless, proof I'm not a fucking gold-digger.

And after she broke up with him and found out he's loaded she wants him to take her back. That's gold-digger like behavior there.

The way she words this shit is just... evil. If you didn't know better you'd think she's the victim.

Deceptive ass bitches.

This seems like it is written from the perspective of Will:

I went to hug him on my way out, instead he just guided me out the door and slammed it shut behind him.

Odd way to write about it if it happened to you.

lol stupid girl thinks she wants to live poor is she isn't actually poor, lol that was great

If a man with disposable income meets a woman he likes, doesn't he want to treat her? He said he "saw me in his future", why didn't he care enough to share these things with me?

That is they key to the whole thing. Girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money.

I can never get my head around these fools that think "oh, you have disposable income...so you should just dispose of it on me."

Like it never dawns on the economically illiterate people that the good times don't always just keep rolling. That even people with "disposable" income have a finite amount of it; and that some people would rather invest or hoard the money away for a rainy day than spend it on baubles and frivolities.

Only 7? Will's got DECADES of trim ahead of him

I think everyone is missing the fucking nail in the coffin here.

• "I dated him for 10 months when I thought he was penniless, proof I'm not a fucking gold-digger. "
• "he was a great guy, I loved him and his personality, but I felt he lacked career/life ambition and we wanted different things for the future."
• "I can't just indefinitely date someone with the future being so uncertain."

She has exposed herself irrevocably. See... she says she isn't a gold digger. She stayed with the guy and then hypergamy reared it's ugly head. Basically it wasn't important until you saw what your friends had. So the 10 month argument is completely irrelevant.

She blames breaking up with him on "ambition" but this is bullshit. How do we know it's bullshit? It takes ZERO ambition to get an inheritance! His ambition didn't change in between the time you broke up and wanted him back. But knowledge of his inheritance did, hence the following comments:

• I am a 26 year old woman who needs to be pragmatic, I can't just indefinitely date someone with the future being so uncertain what is uncertain about the future? the fact that your man isn't well off?
• If a man with disposable income meets a woman he likes, doesn't he want to treat her? The answer doesn't matter. The heart of the matter, is that you broke up with him because of money. He may very well have treated you (not that he has to nor should it matter). Furthermore... do you want to reverse that? If a woman with disposable income meets a man she likes... doesn't she want to treat him? The answer to that question is a resounding NO

Another case of don't listen to what a woman says. Watch how she acts and read between the lines. AWALT, bitches are out for your resources.

tl;dr you broke up with him because of money, and you wanted him back because of money. Pretty open and shut case. Ambition doesn't equal "I got an inheritance"

Good for Will!

This sub is always filled with horror stories it is such a nice change to see a guy win for once.

I was also amazed at all the money - grubbing whores who filed in to support her.

AWALT

I loved him and his personality, but I felt he lacked career/life ambition

Okay, I'll be devil's advocate for a moment to stir up some discussion: She's saying he lacked ambition. Maybe she doesn't realize that ambition is a part of someone's personality, but someone who doesn't want anything out of life doesn't sound very interesting. Does he want to be a rock star at least, with all of that guitaring he's doing? I mean, a guy that has nothing but his own drive sounds a lot more interesting than Will here.

"If a man with disposable income meets a woman he likes, doesn't he want to treat her?" Sounds like treating someone to her includes cash and gifts. Also, how about if you like him so much that YOU treat him once in awhile?

You guys making excuses for this woman are cracking me up! NOT ONCE does this woman say what qualities she brings to the table in her relationship with will. NOT ONCE!!!

THIS is the problem!!!

Scan through there and notice how many times she uses the word "I"!

It's easy to say that Will was not ambitious enough but perhaps this woman was never worth his effort to "perform" and he knew that from the beginning and was plating her all along.

What if this post was an ad for a corolla?

Lmao, this dude lived like a poor hippie, had no apparent ambition, and frankly sounded boring. Nobody likes a scrooge. Besides, we have NO IDEA how much this guy was making. His friend says, "makes more than my yearLy salary." Was he making 25k a quarter? Who knows, his buddy could be working at McDonalds. Besides, these oil r leases are for how low long? A year, 25 years? Who knows. We don't have enough info to have an accurate picture of his finances to make an informed decision. Fuck what the chic thinks, I can't respect a man without ambition ESPECIALLY with the means to do something about it. Live like a hippie and potato soup every night play your guitar and wether your rich or not, I still think your lame. IT HAD BETTER BEEN HOMEMADE.

She ALWAYS would've had a roof over her head. She ALWAYS would've had food in her belly. She obviously IS a gold digger and had been weeded out. Now she'll find a man who will give her the luxuries she craves. By doing so, she will live a life of debt and uncertain futures of housing, food, and health.

Will is my new life hero. What a man.

Good for him, fuck that bitch

She doesn't seem like a terrible girl. I mean, I'm honest about needing a girl who isn't a hambeast, a girl who takes care of herself, goes to the gym, etc... I honestly don't mind if a girl is honest about wanting a guy who has some ambition (read: money).

I've been in the community for a while, and I have always thought it strange that there are a lot of guys in it who get pissed at girls like this... but then complain about the whores who sleep around. Pick one. Girls who stick with one guy HAVE to care about their future, I mean, think about it. She obviously likes the guy, went out with him for longer than I've been with most girls at one time... the guy gave her no reason to think he'll be able to care for her in the long run. Girls think about that shit, just like I look at a girl's mother to see what she'll look like down the line when I'm considering any type of long term relationship. Girls are hard wired to want a guy who isn't an ambitious-less loser the same way guys are hard-wired to want a girl who looks young and hot. I don't see a thing wrong with this girl.

If you were with a girl who was great, except she was a bit too fat, and didn't seem to care about it, you'd get pissed. You might break up with her. And then, if you did... and you found out she was working out after you broke up... you'd be like "why didn't you just tell me that".

I honestly don't see a lot wrong with expecting someone to continually work towards a goal to better oneself. Fact is if she knew he had the money and he still didnt spend it on her she would never have been happy anyways.

This is a good read and the fact that the guy can be frugal even with so much money seems to be a good quality just to stray away gold diggers.

But in the article, Im curious if the girl knew about his inheritance then shell grab him in the neck and tie him down (marry him).

Someone please help me make sense of this situation.

Well, it has become increasingly harder to fuck Chad during the past few months. You saw your younger competition getting them instead of you and even if you boil down with rage, you realized that soon you won't be able to use your great personnality vagina to get money and favors from men anymore.

You are looking for money. Not for someone you love. Proof is: you said you love him but you left anyway? So, you don't want someone you love. You want someone who has money.

Do men wants to "treat" (what an awful word) women they like? No. Men wants to be with the women (not woman) they like and spend time with them. We are the romantic. We don't need to spend big bucks on someone to feel love. Camping by a river, spending time together looking at the stars and doing funny shit like scaring her in the dark. In Will's case, playing his guitar and being with you without doing anything special or crazy beause being with you is enough. Men wants simple things but I doubt you can recognize the compliment it really is. Why in the world should a man who l ike you give you some of his money? Isn't it supposed to be about love? Aren't you supposed not to be a gold digger? Then why is it that all you ask for is money?

He wants you, you want his money. You don't care about him, and that's disrespectful. No wonder he doesn't want to talk to you anymore.

Jesus Christ, if a girl were to invite me for home-made potato soup and a torrented movie - That would be LTR material right fucking there.