So I had feelings for this girl for the past week, even though we've known each other for a 6 months ish, and we would hang out one-on-one often. I'm pretty sure she liked me at a certain point, even made me take a personality test that shows what kind of boyfriend I would be, but then maybe lost the feelings and started resenting me for not making a move on her, but this is just a guess. Anyways, a couple nights ago I decided to ask her out on an actual date instead of a hang out by literally saying, "I like you, we should go on a date". She said she didn't see me like that, and I got friendzoned.
But ever since that night, she got a lot more distant, much less bubbly and more cold, texts me less, doesnt try to add to the conversation once there's silence, doesn't ask much questions anymore. What could be the reason for this, we even agreed that things are cool and things would return back to normal, but I dont know what's going on. Someone help me out on wtf is going on, and tell me the mistakes I made as well, I'd appreciate it.
dongking 1y ago
Nice troll attempt. I chuckled.
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1y ago
What, she held a gun to your head?
Own your decisions. Own your shit.
Strike while the iron is hot. You hesitated too much, so she thinks you're a pussy.
You had many dates already. It doesn't have to be dinner and a movie, and you should have tried something when she gave you IOIs.
Once you try to break free of the FriendZone, women feel deceived. You hid your intentions, and then when she got comfortable being friends with you, you surprised her by springing your attraction on her.
Make your intentions known from the get-go to avoid getting FriendZoned, and strike while the iron is hot.
To borrow an analogy I saw from someone else recently, you let the iron melt, and when you struck, it fell away.
A woman said one thing and did another. In other news, the sky is blue.
Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
It's a virtue test, bro. If you can patiently stay in the friendzone for at least a year, it'll prove you're virtuous, stoic and alpha. She'll then proceed to suck your dick. How impressive is your neckbeard?
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1y ago
Christ, dude, LMAO
I don't think OP will get the joke.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Pretty sure you were friend-zoned the whole time.
blancx1234 1y ago
What makes you say that
whytehorse2021 1y ago
You didn't fuck. She got all the attention and validation she wanted with no sex.