She didn't wear underwear so she could look better to other guys?

Talk about disrespectful.

Personally I only date women with class.

Your gf is hot when she has more male friends than you do.

Dude. She cheated on you. They fucked somewhere and she left/forgot her underwear.

EVEN IF SHE DIDN'T, (which I'm almost sure she did), would you want to keep dating a girl who would go without underwear, in a skirt, to dance with random strangers?

best scenario, she has low self esteem and wants validation from the other guys at the bar.

worst scenario, she's a cheater..

take your pick...

Visible panty lines + Girls dress for other girls = Stop overreacting

You made a mistake by even asking, you've been dating the girl for long enough to have had her go out to a bar while you were in town correct? Is commando the S.O.P. for her when she goes out with the girls?

Regardless if she did or didn't though, 99% sure chances are if she did remove them / have other motives for going out (if she went to the bar at all) she would feed you a bold face lie if she felt the outcome would affect her negatively.

On a side note tho, I do know some bars that have girls remove their underwear and hang them on the ceiling, while not cheating on their boyfriends after removing their clothes. However, the majority who do that are out looking for some, and well they usually get it.

You already know the answer....

Does she own a g-string?

If so, they eliminate pantylines.

Therefore...

You should really know if she normally wears underwear with skirts. If she doesn't maybe give her a pass since you can't prove anything. If she usually wears underwear there's only one question to ask and that is Why haven't you dumped her yet?

Marilyn Monroe

Sorry bro this relationship is dead....you can never view her in a positive light now

However, start fuckin around and experimenting with her to see what you can learn..just for kicks, maybe a month or two, before you get rid of her

run some dread game, implement to RP tactics, and report back...hit gym extra hard, spend more time with your friends etc...basically emotionally detach yourself from this woman if you have not already

Surely I would have to be a total idiot to believe her right?

Why even make this topic when you already answered your own question?

What does she usually wear for underwear? Does she own thongs? The girls I've dated that didn't wear underwear 99% of the time still wore them when they put on a skirt/dress.

Here are the two most important questions? Have you seen her not wear underwear before?

Have you seen her in that skirt before? Was it with underwear?

The only way this is remotely acceptable is if you've seen her do it before.

Congratulate her, she's now strictly your non-exclusive fuckbuddy, and tell her you can meet every other Saturday at the bar with no underwear.

Dump her.

She woulda worn a thong if anything; from now on she should be nothing to you but a fuck when you feel like it

It doesn't matter. If what she says is true, frankly, she isn't LTR material.

LOLWUT

Girlfriend came home from the bar without underwear

What do you guys think?

She got fucked.

OP has a high chance of being a fag troll but I'm cracking up at the people ''requiring more infor/evidence" to draw the most obvious conclusion in the world.

Even bigger lulz at the silly ignoramuses that think women go out to social gatherings, albeit in a relationship already or otherwise, without the intention of subconsciously (and in lots of cases consciously) to attract alpha male dick.

You think she went out dolled up just for her friends? You Think she left her panties at home just to look good for her friends?

Fuck no. She's definitely slutty and no good for a long term relationship. Demote her to plate immediately OP, if real.

Drop her, wtf are you doing asking us for advice?

I think you're hoping for some magical solution from us so that you can put her in her place again, you should consider the possibility that you have oneitis for her, clinging to her in an unhealthy way.

I'm going to go against the popular opinion here and recommend you breath on it a bit before getting too emotional and losing frame.

She shouldn't be leaving her underwear at home simply because she wants to look better in her skirt. However, at the same time, that's just women, they are vain and like to look good -- even to guys she has no plans on fucking.

Many girls go out every night w/o underwear for the very reason she mentions. But at the same time it doesn't mean she's completely off the hook, and being a little suspicious is warranted. I can tell you right now that my ex NEVER wore underwear. She just hated them, and I didn't mind. I also understood when she was going out when I wasn't around she likely wasn't going to be wearing them. It doesn't mean she had bad intentions, it just means she didn't want them.

I think you just need to determine the type of girl she is and see if this is normal or not. Is this the first time you've ever caught w/o underwear in a skirt? Okay, be a little more suspicious. Does she frequently go out to bars with you w/o underwear? Okay, be a little less suspicious.

I know around here guys often, myself included, like to say AWALT and NEVER trust her. But most of that is coming from setting frame. There are obviously going to be exceptions to the general rules. And when it comes to someone you're seriously dating, I'm not going to recommend, like many around here, to just next her and kick her to the curb without looking into the context.

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Cheating. NEXT!

Whatever is the real truth, what you are being told is a lie to quiet some kind of dissonance in her mind over some behavior she has to justify to live with herself.

I do not know anything about the situation, but just offering a lady's perspective.

My Grandmother often advised me to go without underwear, even as a child, particularly when wearing pantyhose. For her generation, showing underwear just wasn't okay, so you didn't do it. Of course, there are a number of alternatives, but I have employed a number of techniques to avoid showing a panty line or a bra strap (even foregoing the undergarment in question). As long as the skirt is of an appropriate length, and nobody is any the wiser, I think it is much classier to not wear an undergarment than to have it show.

I'm not comfortable dating girls like that

Way to many people without experience trying to give advice here.

Panty lines are actually a think for girls, we don't think about it as guys but girls are always obsessing over shit like that. Need more background info on the relationship, like how long have you been dating and has she thrown up any red flags before? Does she talk trash about you around friends or does she religiously defend you if someone's trash talking when your not around? Does she do small things to make you happy and earn your attention or does she bitch and moan about shit you don't do?

It's very important to know the situation of the relationship when dealing with something this vague.

Fashion is a status among women--it happens between men too, but on a much more open level. While men compete through watches and inner cuff embroidery, women compete through panty lines and the length of their wingtipped eyeliner.

It is possible she was just being conscientious of it. It is possible she cheated. It is possible you're a whiny bitch. It is possible you're some kind of slut Ouija board who can see right through her mind games.

The question you should be asking is: who gives a fuck?

You're not in a relationship to catch her cheating on you. If you are, I feel sorry for you.

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Instead of asking the Internet in what misogynistic way you could vent your frustration, you could just stop being a pussy and ask her directly about it. Don't accept any bullshit answer. Tell her you disapprove of her going out without underwear when you're not with her. She can wear a thong if she wants to avoid lines, it's not like tiny women's underwear is a new concept.

If she isn't willing to make a reasonable compromise like that (and wearing underwear in public is, regardless of what philosophy you adhere to, quite reasonable).

She has a point, however. If she's going to bang someone in a bathroom then pulling underwear out from under her skirt isn't going to be the dealbreaker for either party involved.

She gave them away as a souvenir to the dude that smashed her...

Eject eject! Disconnect emotionally ASAP.

I don't know what the hell you hope to accomplish by posting here. You already know what we're all going to unanimously say. Even your own instinct are telling you its bullshit and to tell her to fuck off. So. Do. That.

They call it VPL: Visible Panty Lines.

It's a real thing in their crazy world.

Maybe it's just an excuse, who knows. But one thing is for sure, when girls go to clubs, they dress to impress men, even if they don't plan to do anything with them.

I'd keep an eye on her, but don't boot her just yet. At the very least, think of it as an experiment.

My last girlfriend never wore underwear. She hated the lines it made on her jeans. She rarely wore skirts/dresses, but when she did, I loved it.

She's not wearing underwear because they threw it out after getting it covered in his cum. She's cheating.

Two possible explanations: She got so drunk she crapped her panties and had to ditch them....or...shes a slut and was out looking for strange cock at the bar. Decide for yourself which is more likely.

PS: Don't wife up with sluts; the fact she is not wearing panties to the bar is an indication that...hint...shes a slut.

Panty lines can actually be really embarrassing for a woman. Because then all the guys can see her underwear through her skirt. So it seems to make sense that she wouldn't wear underwear.

I wouldn't automatically jump to conclusions too fast...but I would definitely be on guard.

I dunno, it's a confusing situation. I guess if you can't trust her, then don't date her?