Thank god I was not the beta I'm talking about in this post. I might be a little bit of a beta, but at least I'm working on myself, unlike him.
Background and story: we're both juniors. I know him very well. He dated this HB8 ninth grader. All his instagram posts were of him and her, and he changed every profile picture of him on social media to a picture of him and his girl. His status was also about love. He never left her on seen, never put her in his frame, never withdrew attention, and never spent a single moment without her. He would cancel with us to hang out with her, and skip class to catch up with his bitch. His school day consisted of him sitting for class and then hanging out with her for the rest of the day. When she texted him "I miss you" (even though they just saw each others a few minutes ago), he would text her "I miss you way more". Typical fucking beta. Guess what fucking happened? She branch swinged him when Chad, who doesn't give her any attention and whom she barely knows (LITERALLY she only knew him for a few days), showed up in the picture. Chad, who only knew her for a couple of fucking days, is now banging her while this beta, who invested more than 400 hours on her, is posting sad quotes on whatsapp and social media. The lesson here is that this girl is a ninth grader. She only dated one man, who is my friend. She doesn't know anything about SMV or the outside world and her N-count is 0. She basically doesn't have abundance mentality or bitch ideology, but she still left him. Her instinct was more powerful than love. She desired a man who would treat her like trash, a prize to be worked for, not a beta Romeo who would take a bullet for her. Woman don't like that. If I, a junior in high school, realized this now, then you, some guy who is much older than I am, should, too, before you find yourself crying in agony about this bitch who left you for Chad.
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StellarMemez 5y ago
Don't trick yourself. Even she has abundance mentality. The criteria are thus:
1) has pulse
2) at least HB5
3) has instagram
From high school and increasing 100x in college, girls will have countess of men lined up if they just download an app and swipe right for 5 minutes. This is what you're up against. And even if they don't have options, all it takes is one Chad.
krunchtimer 5y ago
OP, does this guy fit the usual definition of "Chad" by being someone who won the genetic lottery for muscle and size?
Question for the pros here: High School can be a cruel place where some guys testosterone kicks in sooner/greater than other guys. Is that what's likely happening here?
es20490446e 5y ago
If she's like that, why devoting energy to her?
Gr0o0vy 5y ago
Her N-count is going to hike exponentially from here.
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Rule number one: Be Chad. Rule number two: Don’t not be Chad. Rule number three: Thou shalt include paragraph breaks in thy formatting.
Aside from that, good share. One thing to point out is that Romeo was supposed to be essentially a pretty-boy, rich, mafioso heir who was the leader of a violent gang. Romeo only gets to be Romeo because he was Chad first. Your friend = sad not Chad.
Truedemocracy4 5y ago
Even if you’re Chad there can be a bigger Chad to steal yo girl
Ramp_Up_Then_Dump 5y ago
Even if you are worst chad, you will be The Chad when you are the only chad in the room. Ant it is often. - a redpiller
Truedemocracy4 5y ago
Just saying alpha/beta is absolutely relative. Yes you can have traits that make you an alpha in most situations. But you can take a meek beta dweeb and put him in a room full of women and incels and he will become more attractive as a result, might even gain the interest of said women.
That being said in the inverse an otherwise solid guy surrounded by high tier men will look like shit in comparison and be treated as such
DeeplyDisturbed1 5y ago
One of the most important tenets of TRP, in my view, is exactly OP's point. Women are not evil or bad by nature. They just just simply like that by nature.
It is not unlike when Lions eat a baby gazelle; as hard as it is to watch, and however much we wish it didn't have to be that way - we all know deep down that this is just nature playing out and that Lions would die if they did not eat.
Once you come through the anger phase, you realize that women are just exercising their basic nature. Most could not help it even if they tried. And that frees us to open up to that nature - to work with it in harmony to the benefit of both parties.
To be sure, society loses, communities lose, and children too often lose to this behavior. But there is nothing we can do about this. It has always been this way, and always will.
It all boils down to another simple axiom - do you want to be a beta provider or something else? You get to choose. Choose wisely.
noots123123 5y ago
The thing is, it can easily be controlled as it happened in 99% of human history and happens almost all non-Westernized societies even today. All of Middle East, South Asia (India, Pakistan, Bangladesh), and Africa, for instance.
Because of these historical reasons, you can call it "patriarchy," female sexuality didn't evolve to keep up with our mental evolution. That's why female sexual choices are mostly incompatible with modern world and sensibilities, cause suffering to children (in case of branch-swinging divorce), men, and women alike, and are degrading to women themselves.
It's only been 100 years or so in the West that pre-Homo sapien instincts of human females have been unleashed.
Choose wisely.
how_to_alpha_male 5y ago
so women need to be protected and saved from their own sexuality?
their own choices?
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Auvergnat 5y ago
I got my first kiss age 12, at summer camp. Fate had helped my inexperienced ass by organising logistics for me and putting my oneitis at the time in my group and spreading the rumour that I fancied her. I was on cloud nine... for about 24 hours. The next day she had left the group to join the one with Chad junior in it. Chad junior was much more tall and mature than everyone else, at least 13 or 14 years old and getting the onset of puberty, and he could whistle with his fingers! I went looking for her in the camp and found her and four other girls bathing in the river with him. The scene is still so clear in my mind.. him cracking his knuckles, the girls giggling in awe...
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I also remember that memory coming back to mind while reading the Rational Male, and the light was switched on. The first in a very long list of memories that validate TRP for me. But this one also hints that hypergamy kicks in at the very onset of puberty. At the time you get your first hard-on and the first feeling of love for a girl, she gets her first whiff of tingles for that one guy she knows that's better than all the other guys and whom all the other girls like.
Truedemocracy4 5y ago
Haha shit happened to me recently. Am no beta and never did that comfort stuff, but woman I invested a decent amount into left immediately for a guy she didn’t know but made more $$$
AWALT. If you think you have a filter for the “right type” of woman you’re wrong. They are all wired the same way and you are disposable
Estrogenoxygen 5y ago
This of course is all in her DNA, exactly how we possess all the Alpha (even your Beta bro) but haven't quite learned/been challenged throughout life to express it.
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Imperator_Red 5y ago
Is Saturday morning a normal time for weird posts by 14 year olds? I've seen a couple today and I can only assume that the kids just finished their Saturday morning cartoons and are logging onto Reddit.
MentORPHEUS Endorsed Contributor 5y ago
How different my life before ~30 would have turned out if I found TRP in high school. I'm glad young men today have this resource. I came of age in the early '80s but can still remember being an enthusiastic but cringey beginner at things I pursued in HS.