It's been about 5 months since I first discovered TRP. During that time I have learned a lot of theory but have been in monk mode so I haven't applied it till now. I started lifting around 6 months before I found TRP and have continued, transforming my body and mind from that of a weakling beta pussy to a man. The digestion of the pill was a gradual process - I went through anger phase just like almost everyone else. "How could the world really be like this?". "But my oneitis is different!".
Before I found TRP, I had severe, crippling oneitis for a girl that went to a different university as me. I was convinced that I could make a long distance thing work, that she was special and magical and had butterflies orbiting her vagina. Because of this I was also extremely beta - I supplicated to women all the time and buckled to dominant men in group conversation. Then I found this place and started reading the sidebar, determined to make changes with my life. And changes, I am proud to say, have indeed been made.
When I found TRP I was a kissless virgin. Over a few months of reading and internalizing the sidebar I had built a little bit of basic game and gamed a girl for a bit. I ended up kissing her but not more than that because:
1: I was still too much of a little bitch to escalate further.
2: I fucked up by becoming too invested in impressing her.
The second point of course led to her losing attraction and friendzoning me. Of course, TRP teaches to not associate with women you aren't fucking and I promptly ghosted her.
Over the next few months I have really worked on my mindset, more importantly the cultivation of a proper DGAF attitude and the concept of frame. It took me a while to understand what frame is, but I think I've finally internalized it. To me, frame is the projection of your inner self onto your outer world. Your inner self should not change, and thus your outer world should remain rock solid and grounded firmly in reality and rationality.
Moving on to the actual field report:
A few weeks ago I moved into my new university residence and happened to meet this girl through one of my friends. We hung out once or twice as a group and I decided to make a move. I told her I was going to X club on friday and that it would be nice to see her there. She hesitantly agreed to come out with me so we met with my friends and headed to a bar for pre-drinks. Once there I focused on her initially but she was acting a bit distant so I withdrew my attention and decided to focus on having a good time instead. I went with some friends to get shots and when I came back she moved from where she was sitting to next to me. At this point I knew it was on so I engaged my game and started with some light kino, passing any shit tests with a cocky amused amplify. After some teasing I suggested we head to the club. She obliged. At this point I remembered a post on TRP that said you should get a girl to show compliance by leading her places. So I took her hand and led her to the bar to get myself a drink and then to the dancefloor. We danced together and I put my hand on her butt (which was a bold move my pathetic beta self would never have done). She looked at me and asked me if I touched her butt so I looked her in the eyes and said "Yes, deal with it". She started laughing and saying that I have "big dick energy".
At this point I had had enough of fucking around on the dancefloor so I led her to a quieter corner. She said something teasing and I stuck my tongue out at her. She told me that sticking out your tongue is asking for kisses in a mocking tone so I looked her dead in the eye and said "maybe I am", then kissed her. She then threw a giga shit test and asked if I was a fuck boy who would break her heart. I can't exactly remember what I replied to this but it was a good deflection and she laughed.
It was all escalation from there and I invited her to come over (which she did) and we fucked. That was 3 weeks ago and she's now my first plate who treats me very well.
I've learned a lot from the last 3 weeks. I know I'm not a supremely alpha gigachad yet but I've internalized an important TRP principle- I AM ENOUGH. That is all. Now I will continue lifting, eating well and working hard to push myself higher in the SMP. I don't do any of this for women though - I do it for myself. TRP has taught me to love myself and that is a very valuable lesson. Thanks to all of you who contribute amazing posts to this sub and help people like me change their lives for the better.
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abdo286 5y ago
Dude I really am impressed by your gym improvement ~25lbs in one damn year is awesome
Would you mind sharing w me what you been doing?
jonotol 5y ago
Most influential primer on frame for me was Woujo
srmasohe 5y ago
Good shit my dude. I smiled the whole time I read this.
AriesAsF 5y ago
"Now I will continue lifting, eating well and working hard to push myself higher in the SMP. I don't do any of this for women though - I do it for myself. TRP has taught me to love myself and that is a very valuable lesson. "
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This is what TRP is all about. At its root, it is not toxic, not misogynistic, its simply about self- empowerment, despite the incredible toxicity and misogyny you will run into on these boards. Congratulations on sidestepping all the bullshit.
cursedflame 5y ago
Good read indeed you are on your way to become a better you, one day at a time brethren!
ShimaRoosman 5y ago
Good job brother. Encouraging story for people on here at all different stages in their red pill journey
himanshudash 5y ago
What did you say to her when she threw that fuckboy shit test?
Mellow__Martian 5y ago
Fucking solid read. I love happy endings.
Love this. You're a legend mate.
AceMav21 5y ago
I'm shredded 5'8 148 9.5% bf what do I do other than lift? Should I just bulk to 170 cut to 8% then go get bitches would that make it effortless or nah still gotta learn game?
-Stormcrow- 5y ago
Thanks bro. This place has taught me an invaluable lesson because I never loved or respected myself before. I was in such a beta hole that I put women before me - now I work on myself and women are just an addition to my journey through life.
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frooschnate 5y ago
This is just lying to yourselves and putting your own hamster to work.
Nothing wrong with striving to like and respect yourself the most, but stop the ego stroking.
adam_varg 5y ago
Please, just because it would be lie if You said it, doesnt mean its for other.
I have not started lifting for chicks, were able to get them being skinny bro, and definetely not keep doing it for them.
Everybody, your mom included treats you way way better If you look like fitness magazín cover.
What it does for your confidence, drive and life overal is price less.
frooschnate 5y ago
You’re talking as if I don’t already know this.
OfficerWade 5y ago
We are all guilty of this as well. The circle jerk in this community is like any other.
frooschnate 5y ago
M8 it’s gotten pretty bad lately. All I see nowadays when I take a look around is ego stroking and complacency with people praising each other on baby steps.
I’m not the image of perfection for this sub but I remember it having higher standards. I don’t come here to bitch and complain either, always say less than necessary and keep the stoic mindset. However, when you have a slip up or come here to read something and freshen up the memory, you run into this constantly.
Nicolas0631 5y ago
I can understand that, but it is the role of the parents to help the baby grow and praises are an important part of this.
_Icarus_Reborn_ 5y ago
Probably one of the best and most succinct definitions of frame I've come across so far.
Also goes to show that if you work on yourself, for yourself and become the man you want to be internally (mind set, thought process, idgaf attitude, abundance mentality) it'll all eventually become external and people will notice.
Good overall field report too pal.
We will watch your career with great interest.
superman127 5y ago
Dude that was a great write up but I'm more impressed by those action figure abs, keep up the solid progress.
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0ToTheLeft 5y ago
Really impresed by your progress on the gym, all that in 1 year is fucking good. Great job dude
OfficerWade 5y ago
And his mindset is really back on track. He’s thinking instead of just mindlessly indulging in things like video games and porn. Indeed his gains at the gym are products of this as well.
-Stormcrow- 5y ago
Thanks dude it took monumental work. I actually want to get my T levels tested in case my T is below normal, in which case I qualify for TRTs...
HornedBul 5y ago
honestly with the 1 year difference you showed I seriously doubt you're low on T
not putting your work and effort in question, but I don't think you could have achieved that in one year with T on the low end
CryptoViceroy 5y ago
Your T is not below normal, that's brilliant progress in a year for a natty.
Your T levels are probably higher than a TRT dose anyway
Two_kids_in_a_coat 5y ago
For that kind of incredible increase in size in less then a year you def have a good T level, you just never utilized it before.
Good field report. And mad props for the ghost, that usually takes a few burns before that lesson sticks.
aDrunkenWhaler 5y ago
Even if it's low, don't start TRT, you're too young. Fix your diet, eat more fats, fix your sleep, fix vit D levels, less porn, fuck more girls etc. Fix in naturally.
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0ToTheLeft 5y ago
i'm hairy as fuck, i had full chest hair since age 15, I would kill to have a clean chest & back (withouth having to swimn in a pool of wax every 2 weeks lol). With the years i learned how to take care out it to make sure it's not detrimental to my looks, similar to how we all normaly do with beard, but still....i would kill for a clean chest haha
redpillcad 5y ago
Just cut with scissors from time to time. No need to be clean shaven/waxed
randomTATRP 5y ago
I recently bought a trimmer, works damn fine too.
redpillcad 5y ago
Sure...its not a binary decision to be clean shaven like a 8 yr old Asian boy or a Gorilla.
Just cut or trim to be groomed and allow the world to see your physique
CosingularHomology 5y ago
This was such a fucking good read, well done man.
I am really curious about how you deflected the "Are you a fuckboy?" shit test. That must've been a baller.
drakehfh 5y ago
Not OP but some replies:
"No, I am a virgin"
"I am too shy to be a fuckboi"
"Are you a fuck girl"
all with a smirk
blacwidonsfw 5y ago
The I am to shy one is money
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On one of my more carnally-aggressive dating profiles, I use the summary “Just a fuckboi looking for his fuckgrl.” Filters me straight to easy clinches.
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-Stormcrow- 5y ago
This comment has refreshed my memory actually! I deflected it by asking if she was a fuckgirl to which she feigned shock. She then asked me if I was a virgin to which I looked her dead in the eye, winked, and said of course in an amused tone. That's when I knew I had it in the bag because I remembered reading that if a girl asks you such questions it means sex is on her mind. From there it was just creating plausible deniability and getting her over to my place...
redpilledfox 5y ago
How does one create plausible deniability with a girl?
kiwifx 5y ago
Chad: "Come back to my place, I want to show you my amazing vinyl collection."
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NEXT DAY:
Slut: "I don't know how it happened Karen, I swear - we went back to his place, I just really wanted to see the vinyl collection he was telling me about. Next thing I know, cum is dripping out of my ears and nose!
CosingularHomology 5y ago
Damn, you've digested the red pill insanely well. Good job, I am happy for you!
Do you have some recommended readings/material (other than side-bar) to give?
morningdew420 5y ago
Yes even I wanna know how you side stepped that
Collector797 5y ago
Sometimes I’ve gone with “absolutely” then just kiss them again or something. It can play well.
frooschnate 5y ago
None of y’all read the sidebar?
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redpilledfox 5y ago
You can see it through mobile too.
BPasFuck 5y ago
Log into TRP with a real computer. Look at the right side of the screen with all of the handy-dandy links and shit. That's the sidebar. Conga-rats.
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TheMistakesWeMake 5y ago
Amazing job, man. Your progress is inspiring.
A word of caution on viewing our past selves... be careful not to hold a toxic view of the blue pilled you. I’ve made some great progress myself but occasionally fuck up because I’ve struggled not to loathe/hate who I once was. Like I’m always running from something I fear (which is being that guy again).
Be sure to accept who you once were knowing that you did that best with what you had at the time. I appreciate this may sounds trivial, but it is critical to eventually achieving abundance and outcome independence. You may be way ahead of me anyway, and I hope you are.
Keep smashing it!
CraxoRB26 5y ago
I'm glad you achieved this. I wish I had the time and motivation to man-up.
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zeFLYLIZARD 5y ago
Great post. I love reading stuff like this. Not too detailed, straight to the point. Not cocky, just confident. Keep up the good work, Chad-in-training.
L0neWolfAlpha 5y ago
I'm high asf but damn that was a good read. Nice fucking job bro
Maxim_6996 5y ago
Nice progress man. You have improved a lot but be sure not to catch oneitis for this girl. Having just one plate is almost like having an ltr.
-Stormcrow- 5y ago
Yes I'm careful - after the last oneitis that was really bad I've sort of damaged my ability to easily pair bond which i think is a good thing...
Delirious_Solipsista 5y ago
Same here. Maybe I did not find the right situation yet, but pair bonding was impossible with any of the girls I had after my last LTR (more than 3 years ago, made me find TRP, start lifting, etc... yep, that one LTR many of you know about).
Kildorragh 5y ago
What did your workouts look like? I’ve lost 20kg but still a fat fuck with at least another 20 left to lose, would be nice to know what worked for you when I do get there though
-Stormcrow- 5y ago
I do a push pull legs routine. Coolcicada's PPL is probably a good place to start then add stuff to suit your needs. Keep losing bro that's fuckin impressive. Watch your diet and train hard and you'll be legendary in no time.
Self_Descr_Huguenot 5y ago
Just commenting to mark this because I’m pretty much in the same boat as the OP you’re replying to. Like everyone else here said, good progress, you look great man.
OfficerWade 5y ago
Push pull legs routine is what I’m doing too. Mixed with usually my traps on my pull days but that’s just my preference. On a regular day I was doing legs on a single day and it was just not enough
NumerousImprovements 5y ago
Do you do 2 rotations of PPL a week, or just one?
clausternn 5y ago
You need to do 6 days, yes. Or be like me and do 4 days, push and pull, and throw some squats and leg presses on the push day.
There are many routines that only have you in the gym 3 days a week, but PPL is definitely not one of them, that would be a terrible idea.
For those 3 days a week routine, you generally want to be doing the same exercises and targetting the same muscles each workout session.
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SalporinRP 5y ago
Way to go on the gym process dude. As someone who was really skinny as well people don't believe me when I saw I put on a solid 25 lbs of pretty lean muscle in my first 12-14 months of lifting.
Now just keep hitting the gym and start to work on other aspects of your life as well.
TheCookShow 5y ago
Yooo you are leveling up my brother ! Nice physique, I would advise you to train neck and traps as well (maybe you do), it will upgrade your physique for sure !
-Stormcrow- 5y ago
Yeah I actually need to train my traps more - I used to do shrugs but I stopped...
FkRightOff 5y ago
Sick read. I've lurked here for some time, but my 1st comment is for you.
Well done. Carry on.
Imperator_Red 5y ago
In case anyone is wondering, yes, the young girls are actually using this phrase these days.
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vreshbaby 5y ago
BOOYA! Love your transformation!
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flapjacksrbetter 5y ago
How’d u get rid of approach anxiety? I can’t bring myself to cold approach girls. I can talk to ugly girls heck one even offered to give me her number but i cant talk to the pretty ones ????
abdo286 5y ago
Get some experience with ugly ones and apply dat to your interactions with pretty ones????
clavabot 5y ago
No homo, but u went for bottom twink to daddy af.
Did you take any gear btw?
-Stormcrow- 5y ago
No, I am completely natty. Only supps I used were whey and creatine.
Heremhd 5y ago
Good work and good luck you glorious bastard
cupshadow 5y ago
Best of luck on your journey.
c4toyourdoornobeef 5y ago
what routine did you damn, that’s a great transformation
-Stormcrow- 5y ago
I used a custom PPL, I think I posted it in my history...
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AlfredKinsey 5y ago
Grays on getting your dick wet, dude! Find a worthy mission, and stick to it. Banging is easy, but becoming a great man is more difificult.
z2a1-9 5y ago
Congrats bub good field report happy slaying!
Satellite_Wish 5y ago
Probably one of the best posts I’ve seen on here. That’s awesome man. Love above all else & it starts with you ✌️
FASHIONANDRAP 5y ago
God bless and godspeed.
TRP is a BLESSING.
Pragmaticpandas 5y ago
Awesome progress! The path never ends bro keep on climbing and improving yourself. Find your mission and follow it. Cheers
mydogisblack9 5y ago
you really nailed it man keep it up