There is this page on Facebook called "confessions". It has 800,000 people following it and the premise is - multiple anonymous confessions are submitted each day and the most interesting ones (based on approval and disapproval ratings) are posted on Facebook. People then usually proceed to discuss the post in the comments.
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So there was an interesting one today:
Why do men cheat, and when they are caught, why do they not admit it?
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The comments were just pure gold and, as you can probably guess, majority of them were from women. Let's go over a few of the most liked ones:
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Woman 1 (most liked comment): Because they are soft. Alpha males are rare these days. Nowadays they are all weak, feminized little pussies.
Well there we have it. I guess there's no need to discuss what an "alpha male" is anymore - it is a strong, masculine guy who does not cheat. She took it upon herself to redefine the term "alpha male" in a way that is most beneficial to, you guessed it, women. Screw evolutionary biology, if you act upon your most basic, primal instincts - you're a weak, feminized little pussy.
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Woman 2: People cheat because they do not respect their partner.
Another one who figured it all out. The arrogance and presumptuousness in these statements is just a special combination of sad and infuriating. By uttering these words to herself, she relieves herself of the responsibility to better herself as a person and a partner. If she is cheated on, it can in no way be her fault - it is obviously the lack of respect from the partner.
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Woman 3: Cheating is pathetic. I ended a 3-year relationship as soon as I noticed that I am attracted by another guy. If I had cheated, I would not be able to look myself in the mirror.
At least this one is honest about her hypergamous nature.
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Woman 4: To everyone saying that not only men cheat, oh just shut the fuck up. It is a known fact that you can't keep your dicks in your pants. If a woman cheats, it is always because the guy is negligent and doesn't give a fuck.
If a guy cheats - it's the guy's fault. If a woman cheats - it's the guy's fault. I'm so disappointed and disgusted, it's like I am reverting back to the anger phase. Solipsism of these proportions, the vulgarity and toxicity of the ego exhibited in this comment, I think it furthers my understanding of the upside down clown world GayLubeOil talked about. This age needs "villains", it deserves no "heroes".
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Man 1: Not all men cheat, stop generalizing us.
Good on you, knight, good on you. Thy comment shalt be noticed by many maidens and thou shalt be granted pussy.
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TL;DR: Red pill truths are everywhere, one only needs to open his eyes. Be thankful for the people who created this community, they woke you up from a nightmare dressed as a daydream.
maverick9759 5y ago
Haha it's everywhere once you open your eyes .. I'll never forget the first time I got red pilled by Rollo Tomassi
" Why do my eyes hurt ? " " Coz you've never used them before. "
NathanHollister 5y ago
Men cheat because their woman either got fat or stopped putting out.
Aesthetik_1 5y ago
I’d almost bet money that these comments are examples of American women ???? they take entitlement irrationality and solipsism to a new level
bakamoney 5y ago
You aren't a pussy because you acted on "primal instincts".
You are a pussy because you couldn't keep your word.
Gaboyski_ 5y ago
And all of a sudden horror movies pale into comparison with a gynocentric world
Imperator_Red 5y ago
2 is pure solopsism. Women cheat because they don't respect their man. Men cheat because they're horny. They saw a piece of cake and they wanted to eat it. It has nothing to do with the other perfectly good piece of cake at home in their fridge.
greenlittleman 5y ago
Exactly. If we give a woman perfect male partner then she wouldn't even want anyone less than him. If we give a man perfect female partner then he still would want to have other women in his life, even if they are inferior to his partner.
Unrealenting 5y ago
Which is why we mate for life and don’t hit our peak until our mid 40’s.
8265927592 5y ago
The couple isn’t a good match
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NathanHollister 5y ago
The woman stopped putting out
fixed
kemchik 5y ago
What if the man stop paying the bill or go vidya 24/7?
HumanSockPuppet 5y ago
Get the fuck out of here with this Blue Pill destiny shit.
good_guy_submitter 5y ago
To be fair, that is true 100% of the time. No couple is a good match.
If a long term relationship doesn't work out, either you aren't man enough to maintain it, or she was damaged - and as such you invested time in a worthless woman.
HumanSockPuppet 5y ago
The ONLY question is whether or not a woman is trainable. If she is, she can be made into a good match. If she isn't, then she isn't relationship material.
That's all there is to it.
good_guy_submitter 5y ago
That assumes you are on your A game and not acting like a beta chump.
shinywhitedarkness 5y ago
It's sad. You almost don't want to believe it; "cheating is always a man's fault". No sense for responsibility but a damn sense for victim mentality.
civilizedfrog 5y ago
"Deflated balls don't bounce" - My Dad
good_guy_submitter 5y ago
"If you want to keep a man, make sure his belly is full and his balls are empty"
LightSkinKen 5y ago
I don’t cheat , I just roll out and block your # . Straight up. Some y’all would be in a less drama filled life just by blocking a bitch #
richi0003 5y ago
I don't disagree with woman number 1 tho. Its a weak move to offer your commitment as a man and then break it.
Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
No. Remember what Shakespeare wrote, "All is fair in love and war"? Well, for many guys pussy is hard to acquire and is infrequent. Sometimes it can be beneficial to secure pussy back home while playing the field to see what else can be had.
falconiawillfall 5y ago
Yep, don't enter into a monogamous agreement if you do not have the integrity to honor it. I mean the fact that you're hiding your cheating means you're in your girlfriend's frame, so be a man and break up with her if you want other pussy.
Coroshi 5y ago
Woman #1 is a perfect example of the modern age operating within the female imperative. The fact that she uses "not cheating" as a criterion for an "alpha male", without even understanding the origin of the term, only goes to show that virtuousness is assigned primarily to that which benefits the female. When that is not the case, I am not a real man. I agree that today's men are feminized and weak, but it is certainly not due to men withholding commitment.
richi0003 5y ago
Right, i agree with you that she is using it to her benefit, but that still doesn't change the fact that she is right in her statement.
WaspOnAWall 5y ago
My own opinion is that you should honor your word but not give it too easily. Not to please a woman, but for your own self-image and sense of integrity.
But if you do happen to have a moment of weakness and cheat, keep it secret to prevent undue drama and don't beat yourself over it.
As for the hamstering in answer 4, it's kid-level arguing : beneath notice.
SeasonedRP 5y ago
If Woman 4 were a tradcon, the same comment would have been made.
jonpe87 5y ago
Because you don't bring much to the table and new pussy is good.
GlobalAsshat 5y ago
Females cheat because they are biologically wired to want the alpha male. Males cheat because they want to fuck beautiful women mostly... and the ones that cheat are mostly the bad boys in high desire by women of course. All of mother nature is a struggle for dominance. It's all written right here... basic red pill 101.
How to hold Frame: https://www.woujo.com/blog/2018/4/26/how-to-hold-frame
You start to act beta around your women she'll let herself go and get bitchy or just plain leave. That's mother nature for ya.
ozaku7 5y ago
Well, not really. They just get overwhelmed by the alpha male, get so fucking horny that they just think with their womb instead of their heads. It's as simple as that. Feels always override logic, and women have a ton of more feels than men. It goes both ways, given that she would feel really bad about cheating, that might be enough to prevent her from doing it. So literally, her cheating shows how much she cares about you.
redpill77 5y ago
I already had that bookmarked but such a good resource is worth a re read.
caneyfan 5y ago
My favorite is woman 3’s rationalization. I lol’ed at the technicality line she conjured up. “I don’t cheat, I give notice when I find something better”. She’s treating commitment like it’s giving a notice at a job for a better job opportunity....which is a perfect illustration of, “Women love opportunistically”
jack_napier69 5y ago
well it is still better than cheating
ruboius99 5y ago
she's probably lying and does both cheating and this hopping.
ozaku7 5y ago
Wouldn't you trade in your GF if you found a cooler and hotter one? Life's too short to stick with someone mediocre.
Nevertheless, there are women out there who don't just give their men up. Those tend to be the kind of men who actually have something to offer which isn't so easily found in other men.
So next time you get dumped, rethink whether it's you who made himself be replacable.
caneyfan 5y ago
Dude you took a huge leap from my comment to what you responded with. If I wanted to trade in a GF for a “hotter and cooler” girl I wouldn’t (and don’t) bother with with an LTR. I’d just enjoy the field and have fun (which is what I actually do). If I were to commit, it would be for something more than just “hotter and cooler” therefore I wouldn’t be easily swayed by looks. Not sure why you made those assumptions off what I said.
The rest of your comments where also huge leaps in subject matter, which I’m not going to bother addressing. Take care.
greenlittleman 5y ago
You can't be "bumped" if you haven't committed to a wrong woman.
Aptote 5y ago
who cares what women say that they think?
cheating is not red pill
tikitheman 5y ago
Cheating is not alpha, red pill doesn't care and is without morals.
360_no_scope_upvote 5y ago
Cheating may not be your version of Alpha but TRP is amoral.
Y'all still sound plugged in
tikitheman 5y ago
If your truly alpha you wouldn't be cheating. You wouldn't be sneaking around. If you were in some kind of a relationship you would openly sleep with other people.
Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
LOLwut?
That makes no sense.
If we define an 'alpha' as a man with options, and he is in a commited relationship, it would NOT make sense to not cheat, especially knowing that the woman treats him opportunistically.
tikitheman 5y ago
He wouldnt cheat becsuse he would have the frame to openly sleep with other woman and the committed person would be ok with it.
Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
Or he could just be adaptable to the situation at hand - some women simply won't sleep with a guy unless they think they are in a relationship. So you let a woman believe she is in one and then proceed to fuck other women. Simple.
tikitheman 5y ago
Yeah but thats not very alpha. Thats entering her frame.
Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
how specifically is that entering her frame? it is in your frame because you do what you want anyway.
tikitheman 5y ago
Yeah but if you need to lie and sneak around then your entering her frame. Imo
Aptote 5y ago
i get that
i am referring the rp man that gave his commitment
andreas-mgtow 5y ago
Men only truly cheat when their covenant to commitment, fatherhood, providing and protecting is breached.
Women's contribution to the relationship exclusive access to steady sex and assured paternity. They cheat when they breach that contract.
strikethrough123 5y ago
Everything about men and women can be generalized into one sentence: Men think, women feel.
Women do not want to feel bad, men want everything to make sense. In terms of cheating, women do not want to feel bad about cheating so they blame whatever is most convenient.
Proto_Sigma 5y ago
Because spreading our seed as far and wide as possible is the best evolutionary strategy and sometimes our sense of honor and social conditioning fail when presented with the opportunity to do so, especially if we're generally dissatisfied with our partner.
ozaku7 5y ago
Spreading seed is nothing but thirst and hunger. It's a recurring urge to survive. In the very first stages of life, it was the horniest creatures who procreated the most, which ended up with a species that has evolved into wanting to fuck all the time and thus create more of itself.
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Men saying that they are made to spread their seeds is just some lame excuse, because women are just as much made to be blasted to the brim with sperm and make sure that a seed hits an egg and create more life.
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Women are considered to be even hornier, but because of the overwhelming offer of the male sex, they don't really feel the need to express it. Much like being at a buffet makes you feel less hungry (abundance) than in a dessert of a country that runs on food stamps (scarcity).
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Honestly, any man with a dead sex life can entitle himself to just sleep around outside of his marriage. Atleast it will fix the issue of sex.
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Honestly, with one of my exes the sexlife simply died, so I fucked someone else on the side. She was livid when she found out but didn't know what to do with herself because she has seen this coming because "we haven't been as active lately".
Proto_Sigma 5y ago
Explaining is not excusing. Though moralizing is against the rules so I can't push for it, I would say that cheating is morally wrong, if for no other reason than a man's word is valuable and if you have freely given it you shouldn't break it. But it shouldn't be mysterious why people do it.
greenlittleman 5y ago
Men cheat.. when they can't make a woman accept the fact what they want and would fuck others. From male perspective perfect relationships are ones where you could sleep with other women freely, but your favourite woman stays faithful.
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