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luxury_banana 10y ago
Pretty common knowledge and a big part of why you don't commit under current laws. There's no deterrent and YOU will be punished for her misconduct.
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HalfysReddit 10y ago
We don't want your sort of shit around here.
Hipponomics 10y ago
I am very curious what said person said.
HalfysReddit 10y ago
Couldn't tell ya exactly, something beyond the teaching of the TRP and clearly legitimately misogynistic though.
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wow, I wonder what this is referring to...
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Personally, I don't understand cheating.
How can you look your partner in the eye after doing that without feeling like a giant scumbag liar?
rulezero 10y ago
It depends how you think about your own behavior. There are many psychological theories about the development of the self, morality, and and how one self-reflects. I argued in another post that because society is lenient to women and feeds their entitlement (which is just the egocentrism of a child that they have never grown out of), many women are stuck at an earlier stage.
The theories are all very similar and show a progression from a child's egocentric perspective to wise individual that can thrive as an individual and part of a group.
Using Kohlberg's stages as a theory, the statement means that 68% of women are still in the preconventional stage (1-2 is preconventional), which is usually found in children, since it seems that the women are only concerned about satisfying themselves without getting caught.
Using Loevinger's stages of ego development, it seems that the 68% of women here are stuck at stage 3: Self-Protective.
Is it just me, but it seems that the whole gist of the red pill movement is learning to deal with those women who, in terms of their psychosocial and ego development, are retarded, yet they inhabit the bodies and have the legal powers of adult?
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weird. I think my relationship radar would show a blip or two and my spidey senses would take action to leave.
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Lack of honor, lack of empathy, lack of a good moral upbringing.
Also the hamst.
Personally i couldn't do it based on my personal principles, and when i actually date i stay away from high quantities of alcohol.
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t21spectre 10y ago
Pretty good standard to go by, unless your looking for a ONS then women and alcohol are great.
anal_cyst 10y ago
http://www.statisticbrain.com/infidelity-statistics/
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I am definitely in the 26% myself!
anal_cyst 10y ago
same here.
johnsmith66 10y ago
Hamsters will justify cheating by thinking that their partner isn't giving them enough attention and thinking that their partner is pushing them into another man's arms.
DaddyMonster 10y ago
And they also hamsterize it to that they're doing their partner a favor by not telling, and by how haaaappy they are when they get what they neeeeed.
rulezero 10y ago
So women who think like that have internalized the notion of blame, but only apply it to others? Sounds like hamsters are women stuck in the Self-Protective stage.
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Your answer triggers all the circuit breakers in my head.
johnsmith66 10y ago
LOL. That's because you make decisions using logic instead of your emotions. When people make decisions using their emotions and feelings, a lot of illogical behavior can be justified.
rulezero 10y ago
No, the women you speak of have a logic to them. It's just that the basic assumptions behind their reasoning are so different that it looks like emotion and feeling, but it's not.
Also, keep in mind that all of a woman's "emotional" or "feelings" behavior, like their crying, etc... are used because it gets them what they want. Very rational, if you ask me.
searedscallops 10y ago
Uh, that's kind of the point.
In relationships, at least.
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This is one area for me where there is no emotional connection to cheating, only logical reaction.
VeryWideDoucheNozzle 10y ago
My friend ... My friend ...
Honour is just not a feminine trait; as a man this is very difficult idea to comprehend initially, but in time, everything makes sense.
stopdoingthatitsanno 10y ago
Read the study man. 74% of men would do it.
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I'll take your word for it.
veggie_girl 10y ago
Because Hamster.
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Hypergamy doesn't care.
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I wish I was hot enough that girls wanted to trade up to me.
This is one thing I'm sure I'll never know.
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enticingasthatmaybe 10y ago
Yeah, I've "dated" alpha widows / carousel riders in their late twenties before really swallowing TRP and I can tell you it's like trying to catch a fucking bolt of lightning.
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Being hot enough to trade up for is one thing I'll still take just for the sweet irony of women wanting me when they never used to.
yankeetiger 10y ago
You can improve your SMV, you know....
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Yes, call it fake confidence.
yankeetiger 10y ago
No.....call it working out, dressing better, getting interesting hobbies, and being more social
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Check ,check, check, and check. Now what.
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Having all those things does not equal having social confidence around women.
anal_cyst 10y ago
the benjamin franklin effect. after they cheat they rationalize that he had it coming.
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That would be a bad relationship and not worth staying in.
DesiAntiFeminist 10y ago
And that covers approximately 100% of all relationshits.
Yes, eventually they all become relationshits. That's the world we live in, son.
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If the red pill is based on the real world, then I know some people who are still crazy in love and have been married for twenty years as the people who I'd prefer to emulate.
DesiAntiFeminist 10y ago
Those are the best case scenario examples and worth emulating if you can.
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Glad to see the red pill is inclusive of the percentage that are very happily married.
enticingasthatmaybe 10y ago
Those are the Tiger Woods, Lebron James, Albert Einstein type exceptions. Try to emulate if you wish, but be prepared to fail miserably.
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Tiger wasn't honest with his spouse. I won't emulate Tiger.
enticingasthatmaybe 10y ago
I was referring to him in the sense that he is a master of his trade
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Thanks for the out of context observation.
enticingasthatmaybe 10y ago
No, I am comparing outliers, exceptions to the general rule.
searedscallops 10y ago
And 74% of men admitted the same. WTF is the point of this complaint?
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i'm liking this subreddit less and less each day. i do like what it stands for, but everyone is just a whinging little bitch. /r/seduction is better, it's more honest and actually helps you. /r/redpill is just...negative.
OffenceTaken 10y ago
Yep. People will break all sorts of law if they KNOW they can get away with it. I dont understand the point either.
lazlounderhill 10y ago
Women are not monogamous by default. You can blame whoever you want for trying to impose monogamy on them - it won't change the fact that most will continue to claim the exact opposite in polite company.
enticingasthatmaybe 10y ago
They really are more prone to monogamy, but they are serial monogamists. They switch who they are currently "in love with" like a light - hypergamy.
lazlounderhill 10y ago
that sounds quite right.
anal_cyst 10y ago
and if you look up the "That's Life" poll. of the 5,000 women they asked, half admitted they would commit paternity fraud, and 42% said they'd lie about taking birth control to get pregnant.
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Fuck...
HalfysReddit 10y ago
tl;dr People, in general, are selfish fucks.
finalfantasybrownies 10y ago
Actually, if you take into account that both of these studies were done on women, so really, according to these sources, women are the selfish ones. Edit: /s
Hipponomics 10y ago
In the name of Logic!
This makes about as much sense as looking at hundred blue pencils and saying "Since these pencils are all blue, all pencils must be blue."
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finalfantasybrownies 10y ago
Edited for ya.
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From the original source, 74% of men would do the same thing.
The thing we should be thinking about here is not that men are blameless, but that women aren't innocent.
[deleted] 10y ago
Thank you! That's the point; women aren't as loyal as we've been lead to believe.
searedscallops 10y ago
Who told you women are loyal? Whaaaat?
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Women.
robot_army_mutiny 10y ago
Yeah, but so would most men.
soapjackal 10y ago
TBF isn't the stat similar for males? I'd just apply this to any relationship as far as trust goes.
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Actually the stat is 74% for males, according to the source linked.
What was that about hamsters and honor, hmm?
I am absolutely dying here. This is fucking hilarious.
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HogStrider 10y ago
Honor is admitting to your wrongdoings.
With that in mind...
How many of those women do you think lied on that test compared to men??
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Heuristics 10y ago
Why are you doing the solipsism thing?
Pipre 10y ago
'Cause he's 12.
redpillschool Admin 10y ago
It's worth pointing out that the study also shows 74% of men would do this too.
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KingShitLord 10y ago
And the other 42% just wouldn't right now.
30303030303030 10y ago
edit it please, hurts eyes
[deleted] 10y ago
My thoughts exactly.
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I agree 110%
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Lulz.
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[deleted] 10y ago
So is "NAWALT" a joke around here or what? I almost feel as if it is tongue in cheek.
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It's usually used when a man defends his relationship that is littered with enormous red flags by saying "but she's different" (aka NAWALT). It's obviously a generalization, but the idea is that as all women have the potential to cheat and take advantage of men, you should be suspicious when red flags start popping up rather than dismissive.
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Ragna_The_Blood_Edge 10y ago
Too many niggaz, And not enough Hoes.