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guccigoggle

Posted 5y ago in Red Pill Theory - Permalink - Locked - 129 Views

I love RedPill vernacular for its quick and straightforward messages. I thought I might share one that rings true, that is WWT(Women Waste Time). Whenever females feel that they cannot get a hold of your resources, they are for certain to attack your time. I feel this happens most when a man is spinning plates, or dealing with a harem. Females want to test you as a gene provider, so they are going to put you through obstacles and situations, that are FAKE for reassurance of alpha qualities. The only way a man can have a harem is if he posseses the most viable traits in the eyes of his bitches, thus making them compete for his attention. The moment a women challenges you and not other women...its over. She won't respect you and she'll just keep testing you until you "prove to her" your fitness.

I think men get stuck in this loop and take on several things from fake hobbies, responsibilities, style changes, and even friendships to somehow showcase his biological fitness to the women around him. Here's a hint...GTFO. Free yourself from nonsense responsibilities, problems, or validation and FOCUS ON Building character, frame, and anything that YOU want.

I love the grit and dirt mentality, it is what keeps countries like America pushing to the top even if we struggle as a nation. Don't waste time trying to live up to shit tests and biological fitness contests constructed by women to destroy Beta Males. Don't follow trends. Just. Be. Yourself.

Free yourself, of responsibility that is not essential to your livelihood(IMO this is: Health, Wealth, Excellence). If you feel you are following a trend or trying to impress women, get rid of that time constraint and obligation immediately.

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Women only want 3 things from the men who are attracted to them:

Dick (if they're Alpha Fux)
Resources (if they're Beta Bux)
Validation (if they're anyone else)

If you're not approaching a woman and being Alpha (not showing Alpha, there's a difference) they won't want your dick. If you're not loaded they won't want your resources. So the only thing you're giving them is validation.

DON'T GIVE WOMEN VALIDATION UNLESS THEY'VE EARNED IT

If you want to be Alpha to a woman, approach her and be Alpha. Benching your bodyweight, wearing a nice suit, being friends with high-value people, etc. should be to your benefit, never to impress women.

DO IT FOR YOU.

EDIT: For the people saying benching your bodyweight isn't a good goal, it is just an example. LIFT.

conflagratorX 5y ago

'Benching your bodyweight should be to your benefit'. I think this is hamstering. Bench is one of the most useless exercise in terms of utility. Even military press is more useful as sometimes you need to move weight over your head. Also for martial arts it is not very useful as 80% of punch strength comes from your legs and core and only 20% from upper body strength. Not to mention that punching is explosive move and most exercises in the gym (except olympic weight lifting that is trained by very few people) are performed slowly.

So don't lie to yourself and admit that your are benching for good looks. And good looks are mostly for attracting women.

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315skwot 5y ago

A good bench using uses your legs as much. Pro power lifters have torn their quads on bench in the past.

untonyto 5y ago

good looks are better than bad looks.

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Zech4riah 5y ago

I guess feather weight division contestant speaking here.

mytrillosophy 5y ago

Benching your body weight is considered a feat now?

315skwot 5y ago

Hey lol be nice. I was deadlifting close to triple my bodyweight before hitting BW bench. Long arms kinda fuck you in that regard.

BlackCraneStoic 5y ago

Dumbbell pressess. No excuse. Barbells are ineffectivw for chest activation for people with long arms but dumbell presses correspond better with long armed people's range of motion with less risk for injury.

Takes a while to get used to balancing 90lbs+ in each individual hand getting into bench position and rolling off from a flat to a seated position but the effecrs are worth the effort.

nadolny7 5y ago

I’ve never saw someone bench their own body weight, totally serious. I’m at 196 lbs and the most I did was 187 for 4 reps and that’s counting with the bar weight. I would say it’s quite a feat really

BlackCraneStoic 5y ago

You need a better gym. I'm 5'9 176lbs and bench 225lbs without warming up. Every functional man should be able to bench at least 2 plates as a 1rpm. If not then they're wasting their effort and need to learn more about form and nutrition.

Hideouslyric 5y ago

Then your one rep max should be well over 200lbs, so you can in fact, bench your body weight.

mytrillosophy 5y ago

Does everyone around you have a ridiculous amount of body fat? Lol

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Compared to the 80% of guys who don't even go to the gym it is

guccigoggle 5y ago

I've done that before, but I don't weigh over 160 so I guess its not such a biggie though lol. But it is the fact that men oblige women in ways that do not make You the Man seem sexually attractive to her. Girls want a guy that can pick them up and fuck them, not a Scott pilgrim wannabe. Its weird and primitive, but they like rugged, brash men, with a sprinkle of intelligence. But leadership/decision making is the most important intellectual habit for sexual conquest IMO.

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Girls want a guy that can pick them up and fuck them, not a Scott pilgrim wannabe.

Fuck you, I love that movie :)

I agree with everything though. Girls go for Chris Evans over Michael Cera any day of the week.

billie-the-girl 5y ago

I dont want any of that. all I want from someone I like is kindness and respect. What does one have to do for validation anyways? do you just treat them like they're worthless and dont deserve any respect until they "earn" it? do you tell/imply their problems dont matter?

I do agree that a male should only better himself for himself

CanuckinFL 5y ago

I say 'no' a lot, and I make women qualify themselves to me. I do not explain myself to them, as I am now, with you.

It's a harsh line but honestly, and kindly, it's behave or fuck off time now. Anything else gets you what you deserve, and even this line in the sand i have to use often.

I believe you're trying for what our mothers insisted as "common courtesy". None of us in here is striving for common anymore.

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If you're going to the gym to impress girls, you're giving them validation that they're better than you if you didn't work out. So go to the gym to be a better man instead.

If you're dressing nice and driving Lambo's to the club to impress girls, you're giving them validation that they'd be better than you if you were poor. So spend money on what makes you happy, and dress how you want to dress instead.

Doing things to impress girls gives them validation, because it communicates that you need to be valuable to get them, which isn't true.

Girls get crazy amounts of validation from orbiters/guys in general all the time. She doesn't need her ego inflated more. Treat a girl what she's actually worth, not what she thinks she's worth, because there's a big difference between the two.

Give her as much respect as any other human being, but nothing more because she's got tits and a nice ass. And until she lets you fuck those tits and that nice ass, she isn't more valuable than the homeless person outside the club you picked her up at.

I don't believe that anyone is worthless, but I believe that very few people are worth doing what a lot of guys would do to get a girl.

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I'll look at her if I'm going to approach her. Otherwise I couldn't care less.

awalt_cupcake 5y ago

This is something I've be dolling around in my head over a recent experience. I want your perspective on this:

Met a girl many months ago. Got her out for drinks. Eventually we bang. Heavy heavy LMR even during sex.

After that saw her only a few more times after before she mentioned she had a boyfriend. She never met up with me after that.

Fast forward a few months. She's texted and called but never committed to meeting with me (very annoying to waste my time like that but I don't call her out). Finally she says she wants to meet me.

We meet I try to get physical and she's not having it. She says we should meet again. I'm calling it quits and say "maybe". I'm leaving. She calls me rude and she gets up to leave too. That night I get an email telling me how she wants to be my sex kitten.

I have doubts.

I tell her when and where to meet a few days later. She simply says she can't. So she's out for good, in my playbook. I ghost her **again**. She's gone, right?

Wrong. Few days later she sends me videos of songs and texts me about what she's up to, "just checking in" and if I listened to her songs. I tell her no I haven't... At this point I'm very annoyed. She doesn't want to meet. She thinks she's teasing me but I've made every effort to ghost her at this point besides straight up blocking her. My patience is wearing thin.

So I decide to act a little beta and send a sappy song back to her. It's been a week AND NO TEXTS! Thank god. is this what it's like to have a stalker? Your post made me think on it. She was just wanting to waste my time? I've never had a girl go this far to annoy me. Ever. I didn't even make efforts to reach out to her!

What do you think?

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awalt_cupcake 5y ago

I've stopped reading the first few sentences. I've made it clear I did not contact her for 5-6 months and she would call me a few times during.

This last time (around the time I posted this), she asked to meet me. She has been inconsistent, a waste of time, about meeting alone. So I set her up to meet me and then didn't show. She's sent texts since then and they have been met with silence.

you jerkoffs really need to pay attention to the kinds of members on here who give you detailed responses that are concise with the conversation; not to be confused with a wall of hamster text. You're hurting the community by being so self-righteous that you know what's better than the other person's thoughtfully expressed concerns.

ex_addict_bro 5y ago

She's on the pill and you're wasting your time.

Why are you thinking and posting about her? Well, I'm certain that she fits a demographics that you don't (yet) have abundance of. What do I mean by that? Well, if she's a fit 20-yo redhead, you just need to meet more girls like that.

Or maybe, maybe, just maybe you're the chaser type. You aren't interested in sex, you're interested in chasing. She made you chase. That's what you craved, that's what you got.

If you get annoyed, you need to look inside, brother.

awalt_cupcake 5y ago

In the post if you read, you'd see I knew she was wasting my time so I ghosted her. Her behavior after was abnormal. Talking about texting/calling me over a month of time. I'd reject her, tell her I have to go, etc. No contact. Then blocked her for a while too.

> Why are you thinking and posting about her?

Get off with your psycho-analyzing. It's called question numb nuts. I'm asking for perspective.

Redpillandrew 5y ago

I think men get stuck in this loop and take on several things from fake hobbies, responsibilities, style changes, and even friendships to somehow showcase his biological fitness to the women around him.

I relate so much to that. I'm starting to doubt I hit the gym, I joined a naked drawing class or I keep playing with my band just for myself. Always showcasing to them, to make sure I appear the interesting guy I think I am. That's bad

RaidenDark 5y ago

People find me interesting not because of the things I do, but because of the way I talk about them.

I'm a carpenter even though I went to school for computer stuff. Turns out, I'd just rather make things than fix and manage things. I have a knowledge collection hobby because I like knowing things, so I can talk about anything from religion and theoretical physics to politics and critical analysis of film. I don't go to the gym, but I have a very active outdoor job and I eat healthy because I love cooking. I'm a musician, but when I don't have a compelling reason to practice anything I won't.

My roommate is a tech guy(does exactly what I went to school for), hits the gym all the time, benches three times what I can, rides motocross casually, watches a lot of TV and plays a lot of WOW.

When we talk to strangers, he goes right into explaining why he's cool. "I did this at the gym last night" or "I did this challenging thing at work" or "I pulled this amount of DPS in a WOW raid before we came here". He doesn't talk about what he likes about these things. He talks about how good he is at them.

Me on the other hand, people ask me why I'm cool. They're genuinely interested in knowing about me and the things I do because they can tell I love those those things. Not because they make me cool - they don't. My passion for them makes me cool. I could have a fucking birdwatching hobby and it would still make me cool if I loved doing it.

Get out of whatever bullshit mechanical checklist mentality you've got, quit doing things you don't love doing, go find what you really like, then do the fuck out of those things. Stop giving a shit about looking interesting. I don't give a flying fuck if you see any of my hobbies as awesome or stupid. I enjoy the shit out of them and no one can take that from me.