As some of you know I have been missing for the last 6 months. Well I had some down time tonight so I spend some time answering questions over at askTRP, and Holy fuck. What has happened to this sub in the last 6 months I been gone?
Besides the usual guys who ask questions without reading the fucking sidebar. I am seeing a flood of guys who not only don’t read the sidebar. But are not reading it and now giving advice. Or JUST reading it without doing an ounce of it, and giving advice. I mean I can only imagine what these guys are like In real life if they are acting the way they post on here. I honestly can just picture these weirdos running around in real life doing this shit saying “I am chad. Do you even alpha bro?. I do the red pill stupid betas. Next!”
Now I know half of these fucking guys aren’t going to read the sidebar. But the lack of intellect I have seen is enough to piss me off. So if they won’t read the sidebar maybe the lazy fucks will at the very least read this post and get something out of it. (Highly unlikely. I know). But I have to at least try to get to one of these autistics in hopes to save the males of this new generation. So here goes nothing.
I’ll start by saying when we tell you read the sidebar. We mean read the whole fucking sidebar. Not some of it. Not a “decent amount.” Not just the post that sound interesting or are short. We mean read the whole fucking thing.
AWALT
When we say AWALT. We are saying that all women are women. We are saying they all have primal instincts that make them women. Meaning they can not help being attracted to what they are attracted to. Thinking how they think (hamstering). Just like you can’t control what makes your dick tingle. They can’t control what makes them wet or gives them feelz. There are reasons why this is true. I will not give those reasons because that is in the sidebar. You can do the fucking work and read why.
With that being said, this doesn’t mean they are all robots who can’t think for themselves or all act the exact same. This doesn’t mean they ALL WILL cheat. They can, but it doesn’t mean they will. This also means they all won’t hop on the next better guys dick the second you fail a shit test. THEY CAN. but it doesn’t mean they will. This doesn’t mean that just because one does some fucked up shit. They all will. THEY CAN. But it doesn’t mean they all will.
It’s like the loaded gun analogy. We treat all guns like they are loaded. That doesn’t mean they are loaded. It means that you should proceed with caution and treat them all like they are. Same goes with women. They all CAN cheat. But it doesn’t mean they will. Some just won’t. Others will, given any chance they get. Others will under certain circumstances. It’s better to be aware that they can cheat. Than to be naive.
All bears love to eat and kill shit that moves to survive. Some people tame bears and they never kill or hurt their owner their whole lives. but they still can, so you would be stupid to think it can’t happen. All women can cheat, Some won’t no matter what. Most of The men over at married red pill have loyal wives. If they didn’t, they wouldn’t have wives at all. There are some women who are loyal and some that aren’t. Just because you have been with some shitty women. Or your behavior is repulsive to most women, doesn’t mean that all women will act the way the previous women you have been with will.
With that being said there’s no reason to live in a constant state of paranoia thinking because Stacy McSuckacock cheated on you that all the other women you date will. Just be aware that it can happen. Become a man worth being with and get your SMV as high as possible that it doesn’t matter if she does or doesn’t.
I see some of you guys come here and get so paranoid by what you read that you can’t even function properly the second your plate leaves your sight. That shit will literally kill you inside and ruin all your future relationships. So become the best version of yourself, assume loyalty until proven wrong. But don’t be naive.
Next!
Holy shit guys the answer to every fucking issue that arises isn’t always next. I read like 4 post in row of minor shit happening and everyone is screaming next.
There was a guy who was interested in a girl he just met. He invited her for coffee that week she said she was busy but SHE went ahead and tried to postpone. (Most women won’t even do that on their own without a little shove). He proceeds to punish her for not accepting the first date by ignoring her. She then tries to give this idiot another try and plan something else. And he said “DERM, do u guyzes think she’s interested or should I next her?”
Another guy said his girlfriend was gaining some weight. The relationship was good but he wanted her to start working out. The AlfAlpha gang screamed next her! Um? And do what? Find another chick who doesn’t feel the need to stay on top of her game for your lame ass? How about trying to lead by example.
I’m not saying never next a girl. I’m saying sometimes there are things YOU can be doing to help the situation. Or sometimes the problem IS you. So maybe look at yourself before screaming next every time your girlfriend sneezes wrong.
Sometimes nexting is the way to go. But the shit I was reading was just being lazy and not owning your shit. So they were saying next and try to find another women who will put up with your lazy not worth a half assed blowjob havin ass. You’ll be nexting all day if that is the case.
Mission, Purpose, Goals, Direction, FRAME
Most of you don’t have any of the above. You’re missing the foundation and solution to all of your problems and questions.
You’re asking how to pass a shit test, but if you’d actually do what is told of you here. You could use AM Effortlessly because you know what you want, where you’re headed and living with a purpose. So anything that comes between that is funny to you, and won’t be tolerated.
We don’t know you. Or the women you’re trying to fuck. We don’t know if you should next them. We don’t know what you’re like, what your goals are. So stop asking US what YOU should be doing.
Figure that out for yourself. We can help you out with some witty responses but that shit will only get you so far. Because after you Fuck her for the first time and continue to plate/date/etc. the real you is going to come out and she’s going to see who you really are and you’re going to look like a dumbass.
Most of the answers to your questions involve you camping out in her frame. I’d say 80% of the questions on how you should response is because you give way too many fucks and are outcome dependent as a newborn in search of a nipple. Stop being afraid to say something stupid and just say it. Be authentic. Stop trying to be like everyone else and learn how to be the best you. That involves fucking up... a lot. We all do. Deal with it. Learn to love it.
Trust Your Gut
If it looks like shit. Smells like shit. It’s probably shit. Stop making excuses for your oneitis shitty behavior. You come here asking for advice on her. We tell you the harsh reality of the situation from an outside perspective. And you get all butthurt because it’s not what you want to hear. But you’re coming here for a reason. Something don’t seem right.
“My unicorn LDR hasn’t texted me in 2 days. She said her phone has been lost. What should I do?”
Don’t get into a LDR. She’s probably banging other dudes
“No way man! I know her she wouldn’t do something like that”
Yes she would
“ well she says that she has 2 guy friends that come over every night to help her study. It’s probably harmless.”
Okayyyyyy
You’re not looking for advice, you’re looking for us to confirm your fucked up sense of reality or for us to tell you it’s okay to do what the fuck you were going to do anyway. Cut it out.
My gut has never been wrong. If your guts telling you no. And we’re telling you no. It’s a fucking no.
Do The Fucking Work
Stop coming here looking for a handout. Stop saying you read the sidebar when you didn’t. We can sniff you lazy fucks out from a mile away.
“I been hanging out with this PLATE I just met. We haven’t kissed or anything yet. And I’m wondering if she is shit testing me or not”
Sidebar!
“Typical red pill garbage response. No advice”
We’re not giving you advice because you’re wasting our fucking time.
You’re trying to skip steps. You’re trying to get us to teach you how to hit a home run off a 87 mph slider in the bottom of the 9th. World Series. 2 outs... When you never even played T-Ball.
Stop being lazy and do the damn work. Read what we say. Put the shit to test. THEN ask questions. You will yield much better results if you take the time to do that shit. Rather than half assing it By Putting a bandaid on a sliced artery. Do the fucking work and stop wasting our time/watering down the sub.
TRP Is A Toolbox
The red pill is a tool box you use what is necessary and toss the rest. Just because Its here doesn’t make It law. These are theories. Some of the shit might make sense to 90% if the sub. The other 10% it might mean nothing to them. That doesn’t make it wrong or right. It just means that it doesn’t work for you. I run gear and I always tell people who are first getting into it. Do your research from valid sources come up with an educated cycle and give it a try. Don’t listen to “pickthingup46” you don’t know what he looks like or how his genetics work with the shit. Just because it worked for him doesn’t mean it will work for you.
Same goes with this shit. Just because a dude on here got success by going to bars picking women up and spinning them around doesn’t mean that type of game will work for you. Trial and error is your best friend.
I realize that the people I’m trying to reach with this are going to be too lazy to actually read this post so I’m sure this is pointless but for those of you who read it. I hope you take something from it and go out and kick ass. Get to work.
TL;DR stop being lazy and read it. If you came here for the TL;DR this post is for you.
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"My mom made me a grilled cheese with Swiss instead of American"
Everyone on asktrp: "hard next, ghost her"
Frenetic_Zetetic 5y ago
Yo bro, you done fucked up! Swiss is a sign of disinterest, and she's fucking someone else. If only you did everything the other way, you'd be balls deep in both American cheese AND that pussy! /s
The_Lightskin_Wonder 5y ago
The worse answers are the super Chad's : "Pssh , I would just handed the plate back and told her to make it American and then fuck her brains out"
NormalAndy 5y ago
The issue is that you have a lot of confused kids on here, brought up on the blue slime and attracted by the idea of snaring chicks.
If it wasn't for the whole 'sexual strategy' thing they probably wouldn't even end up here in the first place (so I like the way this sub hooks 'em) but the issue is most definitely that they are still looking the other way- in denial over the dawning horror over their 'nice guy' beta behaviour and damaging blue pill relationships.
Some will get the message and start reading- the others have to just be dealt with bluntly. If you don't 'get it' then I guess you get out....
Capitan_Scythe 5y ago
A-fucking-men!
Great post OP, and welcome back from wherever you've been.
ApexmanRP 5y ago
"The AlfAlpha gang screamed next her! Um? And do what? Find another chick who doesn’t feel the need to stay on top of her game for your lame ass? How about trying to lead by example. "
Yeah, "Next!" becomes a buffer against looking at yourself and how you contributed to whatever situation you are in. You got the girl, but you can't keep her or lead her, so I guess "Next!"..
I think more guy should keep her, do the work, play it through and will probably learn more about themselves than if they just next..
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TrenGod37 5y ago
I think a lot of guys do. They come here because they have shitty behaviors/habits that cause women to drop them like flys. Then they read a little bit and get stuck in the anger phase. Blaming women for all their problems and painting this crazy negative picture of women.
When the real issue is usually these men themselves. Women are just being women. Now if the men can just be men. We wouldn’t haven’t these toxic posts. But it’s much easier to claim “AWALT” they way they see it. Than to put in the word and understand to improve their situation
MySpeed 5y ago
Thanks for not saying some paranoid shit. Some posts here read themselves like you cant trust any woman just because the have a vagina
TrenGod37 5y ago
most guys come here because they have been hurt in the past so I do understand why it happens. But it doesn’t make it right
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NewBoomAction 5y ago
Hey bro. I read the entire post. Thanks for the input. Loved reading it. You're just keeping it real and laying down TRP law. You gotta actually try and kick your own ass before you start to pull ass.
From my outlook (been reading/ applying trp for 2 years now) the whole "red pill" thing is mainstream. This isn't fight club. We're a major platform for A LOT of people. I mean fuck the # of subs keeps skyrocketing. Imagine the number of lurkers. I overhear our rp terms in real life all the time. Especially "Chad". I hear it everywhere used in a alpha-male context.
Anyway... there's also probably a lot of young men. I think we have a culture problem that runs very deep. These men need trp. I needed it.
Thank you for the post bruh. I think anyone who is new here will do themselves a favor by reading it.
Trp, to me, is a lifestyle. It's a philosophy of life. A tool that can be used to drastically change your life. Or something to ponder about in your cubicle at work.
Once I bagged my first chick using info I learned FROM THE SIDEBAR there was no turning back lol. That escalated into other life enhancing experiences outside of women.
Confidence: some days I feel my dick swing like Thor hammering his godly weapons.
Women: read up on maintaining eye contact. Game changer.
Gym: being yoked is like having cheat codes lol.
Social life: just finished running 2 miles and hit gym with a really sweet (eye candy) lady friend. High smv ppl hang with high smv ppl. That's life, get over it and join the party.
This turned into a ramble but I love trp and so does OP. If you're barely starting your journey, I welcome you. You're among friends.
Frenetic_Zetetic 5y ago
I've found that a good 80% of the time, TRP content is absurdly out of reason.
The other 20% of the time, like this post, it's spot on.
SaithusX 5y ago
I found this refreshing. When I stumbled onto TRP I was in the anger phase. I couldn't believe my gf of 3 years would leave me when I got out of the drug and rave scene for a dude who was still in it. A person I grew up with.
I read the sidebar. I engaged in meditation through ambient music and repetitive motions, no thoughts going in my head. It was amazing what I learned from this sub.
I learned about stoicism. I started practicing stoicism. After 6 months by myself, meditation, stoicism, I go to the bar for my first social outing. See some old girl friends there from the party scene. First night they actually say the words "wow, you're so stoic" educated raver girl. It was amazing what this place taught me. Field reports were few and far between. I started lifting, got a plumbing apprenticeship, and I help my guy friends make sense of their troubled with women. It's easy because of the teachers of old that used to be here.
Good on you for coming back and trying to bring a kick in the balls to us all. I've never posted before but I do know exactly what you're trying to say.
RedsideoftheMoon 5y ago
We always need posts like this.. by definition people are unfamiliar with new concepts and don't know how to apply them well in the beginning stages. It's natural to get a taste of TRP and spread that shit like peanut butter and jelly all over your fucking life, until you figure out where and how to apply it best. The problem is when people come to TRP and think every fucking barista, cashier, and passerby is in some alpha beta standoff
shit test with you where the prize is a mindless fuck marathon
basscatcher01 5y ago
Did you learn about stoicism in books or mainly online? Because I would like to integrate stoicism like you
Pdq516 5y ago
Check out “A Guide to the Good Life” by William Irvine, or read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius for a great starting point on Stoicism.
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madrealworld 5y ago
this would be great if its possible.
NormalAndy 5y ago
SMV score?
Add up totals for bench, deadlift, squaut. Multiply by how many days nofap. Add daily calorie intake+ yearly income+ current plates spinning.
Divide whole total by (number of hours spent browsing online + all video game high scores)
;-)
redpill_mental 5y ago
You're turning me on with all this choreplay...
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chubz4you 5y ago
He didnt say how many days youve read all the posts on Nofap. Just how many days you havent beat off.
That sub is lame, but i can tell a big difference in my testosterone levels and rigidity after 7 days of no beating off.
NormalAndy 5y ago
There's little science to back it up but there's no doubt you are saving energy that could be employed elsewhere. Placebo perhaps but it works for boxers.
It's mainly a symbol of self control. Those who can't keep their hands to themselves are the ones with the problem- let's be honest.
NofapFrance 5y ago
225lbs x10 Bench, 550 DL, and 305Squat x10 minimum to be authorized to post. /s
MrSnow702 5y ago
Actually I know certain subreddits require a certain amount of karma to post maybe the mods should do that for TRP & askTRP. I use to love reading askTRP late at night as something to read and just forget about my day for a minute as I am going to sleep but like OP said it’s a bunch of incels who are migrating over is all
TrenGod37 5y ago
The steroid sub doesn’t allow you to post for 30 days after subbing. I think this is a great start in cutting back on the consistent floods of shit being posted. It will give guys time to lurk more and hopefully do some reading. At the very least it will keep trolls away and give new guys time to read some posts before vomiting nonsense.
I been saying this for a while now. but I don’t know if it will ever happen.
seiretnemeS 5y ago
What happened to RSD? Did Owen give up and settle with a "I love your belly, baby" girl?
TrenGod37 5y ago
They’re still consistently posting stuff I’m pretty sure
cirrusice 5y ago
No but they are going down the "spiritual self help" route. They should tbh. Mainstream can't handle their gangster pickup like in 2011-2014
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telytuby 5y ago
Thankyou, I’m still a beginner but I’m already sick of seeing “if you show any emotion ever she’ll leave you” several times around here. This was great though and you’re totally right, when you look back at the top posts from a while ago there’s a clear difference.
Msmith68w 5y ago
I really enjoyed this post. I've not been a super active TRP member, but in my experience, there are two categories of people here. I think of them as the Men and the Boys.
The Men are mentally mature, and understand that everything is situational and there are no absolutes in life. They take what they find valuable and ditch the rest...and most importantly, they never compromise their values for the sake of getting laid.
The Boys are this weird kind of troll that is more invested in how smart they can appear on a forum than on being a person who lives their values.
The_Chiselnator 5y ago
Boils down to internal locus. If you want to navigate by the light of torch of another guy over the internet then you are fucked. You get the tools here with which to map, read and navigate the terrain of your own life.
But it is still your life. Only you live it.
BurnDownTheMission68 5y ago
That’s why one of the plagues of the Old Testament was internal locusses
Them things is nasty
Taipanshimshon 5y ago
Look. Seriously. Most of the boys here are just worth as much as the girls they are trying to bang. They are jealous of how easy they think girls have it. They forgot that difficulty and stress create. Create better and stronger. Bigger. More developed. Smarter.
But no. Popping the next bag Of Doritos is easier
TrenGod37 5y ago
I agree but the issue is they’re popping the next bag of cool ranch Doritos when they hate cool ranch. So why not stop buying cool ranch? Instead of popping each bag of cool ranch expecting nacho cheese.
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ex_addict_bro 5y ago
How’s that registration plate thing going
TrenGod37 5y ago
Alright bro you don’t need to get all butt hurt and comment on all of my shit.
Go out and talk to women instead. Or post something of value
CrazyHorseInvincible 5y ago
He won't be able to post anything.
TrenGod37 5y ago
That’s Good. but I’m sure he will just log onto his 13 other troll accounts.
CrazyHorseInvincible 5y ago
We don't ban by person, we ban by account.
What this means is that we have absolutely no problem with someone creating a new account and coming back, because if they misbehave with that one, we'll ban it, too.
Since we have filters in place which require certain (secret) criteria for account establishment, we can always ban faster than they can sockpuppet. We also have other (secret) safeguards in place.
In fact, over the years, we have been subjected to large scale concerted attacks of this kind. All of them failed so badly that you probably didn't even notice.
All that we need from you to keep this place going smoothly is profligate use of that report button, ideally with a clear and descriptive comment to go with it.
rpsheepdog 5y ago
Damn, best post in a while!
Also had me thinking with regards to the askTRP, some of these younger guys might not even understand the reference the red and blue pills because the Matrix came out 19 years ago, could that be a sidebar movie to add to the list??
harbinger1945 5y ago
I just recently finished some articles from sidebar and nothing is more brutal than Michal's story. It's basically world shattering and I think everyone should read it. Damn, I read it yesterday and I am absolutely certain that story will be anchor for everything I want to change in my life(even though I have certain amount of success with women, it's much more likely thanks to my genetics than anything else - and I don't want to be a 3rd wheel anymore).
I agree with this post. Read sidebar, then ask questions. After yesterday I am certain that I will.
IcyToe 5y ago
I found out about TPR about two months ago. I’ve read the side bar and will do so a couple more times . However TPR has helped me improve myself and focus on me in terms of starting gym and balancing my diet. Also when it comes to keeping cool in situations for the most part. I still have a long way to go and most importantly I appreciate post like these that reinforce that hard work and effort is needed to achieve results and accept the failures as well along that path path to success.
banthrow 5y ago
Basically all my answers on TRP and askTRP about a LTR or plate has been "next'. I haven't given a single piece of useful advice, even when I clearly didn't want to "next". (Well to be honest, in many of those situation the correct answer may have been to next).
About the topic of reconnecting with a ex, I get "no, forget it, impossible, next, wont work" even if in the same thread there were numerous cases from TRP-aware men that say it worked for them.
Somehow I think many people here live in some kind of bubble where everything is ultra-RP, you go through girls like they were whores in a catalog. I think it's a very psychopathic way to live.
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TrumpOrTreason 5y ago
I’m not qualified.. but.. I had an idea, someone should make ‘Red Pill Classes’ or seminars.
I’ve been applying the knowledge and it works great..
“Maintain frame” ( rule #1)
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Good as the advice can be, I can’t help but read these posts in the POWERTHIRST voice after so many “fucks.”
Crossed_Rubicon 5y ago
Who the fuck is this dude? And why the fuck does he think he owns what it means to be red pilled. Dude your opinions is no more valid than anyone else’s so less of the preachy “I am the red pill authority’ .. you sound like a hamstering, all knowing plate.
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Just blast the trenbolognese sauce and let everything fall into place, it absolutely red pillening'd.
FZ_BA 5y ago
A quality post so much needed in these times.
Me_ADC_Me_SMASH 5y ago
Scarcity mentality is very strong here
ZiraVer 5y ago
Being a newbie is scary. I started my TRP journey with googling "How to attract women" and stumbled upon Mason's Models. I guess it was perfect for a new guy.
The thing is, when you spend so much time learning these self-help books, like 48LoP/Mastery or 7 habits of effective people it is hard to shut up about it, but it is THE STEP that needs to be done first.
You need to understand, all you learn, all you do is for YOU. If you want to help a friend just give them a hint where to look, don't shove TRP down their throat, they will puke hard, on your new shiny boots.
It took me about a year just to stop talking this shit in social situations, the outcome is I had to let go of the people I tried to brainwash. I was talking the talk while half/quarter-assing the walk.
Finding TRP helped me sort my mind. Thank you for your time and contribution.
Shredderick420 5y ago
The instant nexting advice on asktrp is too much. Sometimes i feel like people dont read the whole post and skim through it somehow cherrypicking some details and boom next that bitch. One word post replies are liberating
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Good post. Maybe I’m guilty of enabling them. Glad you’re calling out the alpha-bro bullshit responses.
It was turning this place into a circle jerk of alpha alphaing alpha bros.
“Yer asking an opinion on a choice you have to make for you life mission? Bro, you obviously ain’t living life for yourself. If you were alpha you’d never ask for anyone’s opinion!” ^ an alpha bro actually told me that.
therealpkg 5y ago
Was thinking the same. I rarely comment but have seen some ridiculous stuff posted and highly up voted as of late, and it's more than the AMOGing comments. I'm always torn between chiming in more while ultimately knowing the ones who need it most won't read or grasp it. So much cart before the horse and incorrect strategies or tactics.
Good seein ya man!
TrenGod37 5y ago
I don’t think it’s considered “beta” to ask for help or an outside perspective. But there is a time and place for it. After you’ve put in the work. Tested it yourself and maybe are in need of guidance. But these guys just coming here. Don’t read a damn thing and demand answers
JensenMse 5y ago
Couldn't have said it better. A lot of us come onto TRP simply because "we want to be like Chad Thundercock, and copy his game exactly 100%". Every man is different, find what works best for your style and personality. Take whatever works for you and discard whatever works against you.
For example, every year my brothers and I take time off work to go on holiday touring the world. Every time we lay girls, our style of game is different. My brothers prefer the shotgun approach...laying as many girls as possible, while mine is more subtle...I like to call it Slow Game. While my brothers approach and lay as many girls as they want, I've made "girlfriends" that I lay as many times as I want, basically creating plates for the trip. Many of these girls are sluts but I find they always fall in love with me like little girls, fully unleashing themselves onto me in any way that I want them to. With this in mind, I've tried their shotgun approach many times and failed miserably, while they can't see themselves trying my slow game approach. Just because we are brothers doesn't mean we have to be identical. We all use different strategies that benefit us the most to reach the same basic goal.
Never blindly follow what others are doing because "it looks cool". If you can copy and it works for you, great, but you will eventually reach a limit where that copied game's crutch ends. Recreate yourself, integrate successful strategies from other great men that work for you, and work hard on yourself because that is the path to growing into a successful man.
falecf4 5y ago
This is pretty much the post I've been wanting to write. No doubt, yours is worded much better than mine could have ever been.
Too many guys here take everything at black and white face value. TRP states things in absolutes: AWALT, always lift, never break frame, ect. TRP is written this way because newcomers don't know any better and they NEED to be told what to do. These are musts for newbies because they haven't had enough success or aren't yet able to discern what aspects of TRP they can take and what they can leave or to what degree. If we gave new guys a choice they would hamster a way to take the path of least resistance.
Finally, I wish we could implement some tiered form of redpill-ed-ness. Guys posting in askTRP saying they are redpilled but asking stupid ass questions irks the crap out of me. How about if you just discovered redpill but aren't really practicing you are redpill aware. Practicing redpill if you've read the sidebar and are starting to used what you've learned. Being fully redpilled is when you have got this stuff down without a thought and what the rest of us should strive for! Obviously we are always working on becoming better but most of the guys here will practice some redpill advice without ever really becoming fully redpilled.
bansi123 5y ago
I'm relatively new to TRP (3 months lurking). I haven't posted much in ways of questions or comments because I wanted to spent time focusing and following as much of the literature I could. I'm still reading The Manipulated Man and have been trying my best to keep up with current posts from keeping frame to understanding female instinct. After doing my own research I found a program and began lifting in June so I could finally follow the #1 rule.
As I've been lurking I realized how repetitive posts can get. It almost seems like betas as still being beta while roaming TRP and then blabbering about it on the sub. I think it's pretty annoying but since I'm pretty new I assumed it was business as usual. Thank you for opening this up as an obtuse trend, it helps reinforce a lot of what has been mentioned in my studies so far.
Jreamss 5y ago
Thanks buddy, I’ll make sure to thoroughly go through it!
AmazingAstronaut 5y ago
To be fair, since I'm new I just tried to read the sidebar and found this:
So this phrase makes it sound like all you need to read is the 5 links right underneath the sentence plus everything contained in the Theory Reading. Tell me if I'm misunderstanding something.
BlackFallout 5y ago
The biggest thing I need help with is Shit tests. Is that in the side bar?
Edit: Fuck yeah it is.
domable19 5y ago
I do read 80% of everything here, used to read 100%. You guys said not to obsess or over indulge on the RP remember? I will however trust my gut more, your right about that.
TrenGod37 5y ago
We say that because guys do come here and obsess over it. They read everything and don’t put an ounce of it to the test. I think it’s fair to say read all of it. And find out what works for you, without becoming obsessed (meaning just reading and reading without trying anything) I added another point in there talking about this
Pezotecom 5y ago
Thanks for this post, I just had a fight with my LTR who I love very much but has this "that's just who I am" responses that make me sad. And I'm here trying to figure out how to use my TRP knowledge to tame the situation, just to realize that I'm giving too many fucks, and I'm not being as valuable as I want to so that she doesn't throw back those responses. Thanks man, now I can have a good night sleep.
PS: wtf with your punctuation, it's confusing.
KBeer01 5y ago
We absolutely need posts like this every now and again because everybody including myself tends to lose sight of the goals of TRP.
Thank you for this post OP. It will help me contribute towards TRP in a much more useful way going forward. Appreciate you taking the time.
Bad_nuggets69 5y ago
I think it is lack of patience. There has been a few times I’ve wanted to make a post, written it, but not posted for a few days as a cooling off period, and deciding against it.
I think it is a balance between lurking more and limiting advice to the basics until you have built up a respectable N count.
Self-honest 5y ago
Ego tripping is what I see the most of. People afraid to be honest and accept the fact that they don't understand the dynamics at play, acting like they're masters. Probably because they are so good at lying to themselves and believing their own bullshit that they just feel good about parroting things they don't actually grasp. Maybe because they're lazy or lack patience.
NewBoomAction 5y ago
That last sentence is deadly thinking brother. Never fucking ever base your worth over how many times you got your willy wet.
YOU'RE THE PRIZE. She's an accessory who compliments your life.
Cut that type of thinking in the bud NOW.
Auvergnat 5y ago
You would be right if that was what OP said, but it wasn't.
He didn't say it would be his worth that he would base on his N count, but the worth of his posting to TRP. And he is right to do so.
For the sake of this sub's future and yours, do NOT post unless you are sexually successful
TrenGod37 5y ago
The steroid sub makes you wait 30 days after subbing to post anything. While this doesn’t guarantee anything it will help wean out some of the trolling/bullshit
NewBoomAction 5y ago
Just read it. Good stuff. I lol'd at blind leading the blind. You're right though. It's a growing issue.
Trp has gotten me laid since I started this journey. I'm far from a teacher. I'm proud to say I do read a lot of material. Post on askTRP. I own all of rollo's books. The first I will give to my son. I've read it a few times.
But I still have so much to go. The gym is my greatest obstacle. Like you said in that post, we don't make it until we turn our lives around.
I feel like my path has just started.
Bad_nuggets69 5y ago
Yeah. I don’t have an issue with that.
My point is with experience comes knowledge. If you want to talk about how to score chicks, you actually need to do that.
Auvergnat 5y ago
See my answer too.
Congrats. You're one who will "make it".
Bad_nuggets69 5y ago
I contextualized poorly, but I agree with your other post - that was the point I wanted to make.
btrpb 5y ago
Thank fuck for some sensible words about AWALT.
Liart13 5y ago
This sub slowly but steadily becomes what feminists want it to be: a bunch of bitter, vengeful men. Lots of post lately are focused not on self-improvement but on getting revenge, which is alarming.
Zech4riah 5y ago
It's been like that for awhile. Guys here just disguise their responses as mega-aggressive super-alpha behaviour but most of the time just seem really butthurt and bitter.
Most of the time I give constructive feedback and recently I only get attacked by butthurt individual who cannot take the criticism.
AmazingAstronaut 5y ago
Yep. Browsing this sub requires the ability to filter the bad shit from the good shit, and it's why I'll never wrap my head around the fact that there are even 15 year old boys lurking. You don't even know what career you'll follow let alone tell the good shit from the bad shit.
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colovick 5y ago
I don't stop in here often anymore, but the least few times if it wasn't a name I recognized, the posts were often too early to be made if they had any redeeming qualities to begin with
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TrenGod37 5y ago
Too lazy to read. Check Wants a handout. Check Shows up on askTRP with some dumbass question that could easily be answered by reading/doing the work. Check. [Deleted]. I’m sure it’s coming.
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Self-honest 5y ago
Nah man. He made good points. It's annoying and unfortunate that some people come here and shout uninformed non-sense without first understanding the core concepts. You do you though. It's easy to tell who has something valuable to offer and who doesn't.
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It’s a troll account. Save your breath
Self-honest 5y ago
Fuck. You're right. I don't internet good.
ReefaShark 5y ago
Yeah, it feels like no one has something useful so they’ll just “hey guys, some of you know I’ve been gone a while, so here’s my rendition of the simplified sidebar that no one asked for”.
We know asktrp is toxic and full of losers who can’t do the reading, then these posts discourage reading because they’re wasting time with the 17th vague definition of frame instead of something new in the book of pook.
TrenGod37 5y ago
If this wasn’t an issue it wouldn’t Happen Constantly. clearly it should be addressed.
It’s funny how the guys who always have something to say have added zero value to this sub
ReefaShark 5y ago
It’s addressed every time it happens in that sub. Ruthlessly. Redundantly making every post in this sub a sidebar boil down is not the solution.
If asktrp dies let it die. Toss not pearls before swine. These are guys that don’t want to see the light yet because they’d rather “give it a shot”, fail, and go back to BP ways. When they decide they want to make genuine progress they can read the whole thing and act on it.
Self-honest 5y ago
It needs to be hammered over and over again until it gets better (before it gets worse). Echo chambers can get out of control quickly when misunderstood concepts or ideas start to spread exponentially.
TrenGod37 5y ago
I agree and it’s clear they aren’t reading the sidebar but are reading posts. And if they are reading the sidebar this is the basic shit they aren’t understanding It needed to be said.
Fungions 5y ago
Thanks for this post. Came to terms with the fact that I digested a percentage of the information found on this sub, found success with some women, fell on my face with others, and plateaued.
I have the bare essentials, but not enough to survive out there. I’m trying to kill five nazis with four bullets, and I’m sure many of us reading this are in the same position.
Back to work.
TrenGod37 5y ago
First step to fixing the problem is realizing its there. You sound like you’re on the right track. Keep at it
madrealworld 5y ago
thank you! this should be stickied in the asktrp subreddit and mandatory read for all the wannabe chads there screaming 'next' at every question.
Jreamss 5y ago
Hey I’m kind of confused, is the sidebar on this subreddit? Or is it some internet website? I’ve been trying to find it but I don’t really know how. Thanks in advance
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If you’re on mobile it’s kinda a bitch. Since you just want help finding the work I’ll tell you that there are three dots in the upper right side of the mobile app. Hit it and one of the pop down options is “community info”
That is the sidebar. Good luck!
Self-honest 5y ago
You got this. Figure it out.
TrenGod37 5y ago
Are you using the mobile app?
Zech4riah 5y ago
I'm tired of these "reminders" because they provide no new information for the people who have actually read and internalized side bar but for some reason this was good reading - especially the way how you addressed over generalized advice given here (like: "Next her!" and "AWALT" in the sense that she will 100% cheat on you).
TrenGod37 5y ago
“It doesn’t pertain to me! Why is this here!!”
“I DONT CARE IF IT CAN HELP OTHERS! What about meeeee!?!”
Zech4riah 5y ago
Well, like said this was a good one even tho it didn't provide too much new information.
And no, I don't care about people who do not care to read sidebar or top rated posts before asking questions.
It's good to have people who like you who care about lazy and ignorant people.