So, here's the thing: Mr. Male Feminist BetaFag 'wif no girlfriend would be the first MFer to sell RP man down river the very first chance he got - who do you think he thinks the "abusive sexists" he complains about are? If you took him aside and said, "Hey, 'bruv. There's a place you can go and learn about how to be the best version of you that you can be, and also about the skills you need to learn to do better with women." If you told him about TRP how would he react?

This way: "GET AWAY FROM ME YOUR MISOGYNIST BASTARD!!!"

Mr. "Nice Guy" ain't so nice. Women are not vending machines that you put 'nice guy' coins until pussy comes out of the slot (as it were). Be as much of a "feminist ally" as you want, but no woman is going to say to you "YAY! You finally got the 10th stamp on your 'Nice Guy' Card! Now I can finally give you all the sex you deserve!!!"

What he really wants is a different kind of card. But no way he's getting it going about shit the way he is. Feminism is a giant shit test. MoFo listened to what they said instead of watching what they did. We smash, he don’t, he mad.

So yeah, fuck this guy, up the ass, with a pineapple.

How would women react if men told their daughters how to be women?

Dress like this Look like that Cook Keep a nice home Be able to entertain A “real woman” does xyz that men like.

Women would go absolutely apeshit and try to take the kid away. Yet that is exactly what single mothers do. They try to raise boys to be what they think men should be and then when the boys act like that they get shit on. Soy boy Beta’s are like the vegan, gluten free food that women claim they like during the week when talking to their friends... but at 2am on a weekend they are gobbling down alpha dick and Double Cheeseburgers. On Monday morning they go back to saying they want the exact opposite of what they really want. Actions speak louder than words.

Society nowadays reward the bad and punish the good. 41 years is probably more than half his lifetime. What a waste!

Hate to say it, but this guy is probably lost forever. He is drowning in BP mania. Obviously did not have any apparent strong male figure in his life, and at 41 and this desperate, he is basically the equivalent of the 35 year old post-wall ham beast green-haired feminist who hates everything in life, especially men. They just aren't coming back. They are lost causes. This is now this mans identity, and thinking anything else is true besides the BP fantasy he was taught would be cognitive dissonance that would shatter his reality. He would not be able to process it without having a mental breakdown. So instead he will likely just double down...or scarily...eventually become an INCEL psycho.

You don't win Mario by going left.

I can empathize with his situation but some people aren't capable of being introspective. Some people do the same thing over and over regardless of their actions yielding the same results. It's like when you try to drop some red pills on people and you just end up making yourself look like shit in their eyes and them reinforcing their beliefs. Help can only be given to those who want to help themselves. Also I don't believe any straight man taking a Women's Studies course is doing it other than a cheap attempt to get pussy.

Wow, I've seen the post on Niceguys (not allowed to post the link here) and ended up taking his defense against some heartless feminist or whatever.

- Knowing someone with this attitude was working with women who were emotionally and psychologically vulnerable makes me ill

-- What attitude? Obviously he never made a move towards anyone.

--- That's not obvious at all. Thinking women owe you sex for not being a shitty person seems incompatible with helping rape survivors.

---- I read his messages as him vented he never got any but not as women owe him sex. Which is a fact because he is 41 and never got any. Seems like he was expecting that being so nice women would come at him... he was obviously wrong, that's not how it works. But it doesn't make him a bad person. He probably helped lots of women who saw a friend in him and not a predator.

----- Fair enough. I jumped to conclusions about how he would have acted. Honestly, if I had worked with someone to get past a sexual assault and found out they thought this way I think I would feel creeped out, but I shouldn't have assumed he was walking around thinking that way constantly. I am a therapist and have very shitty, non-therapeutic thoughts sometimes so I bet he was the same way

Yeah! I'm the real SJW

Women will never understand the nice guy debate because they're unaware of their nature. Which is a shame because if each gender understood it, it would save a lot of misery and frustration for both parties.

I recently tried arguing on the women's RP sub with one of their endorsed contributers that both genders would be better to understand how 'niceness' is a turn off to women because it invokes disgust and a show of weakness. You know rather than it being a calculated act of entitlement to their vagina.

I was accused of 'thought policing' and defending potential date rapists. She even got her husband to chime in and label me as weak (the kind of husband who posts alongside his wife on a woman's relationship strategy forum...). It was one of the most bizarre online exchanges I've had.

I am honestly surprised this guy hasn't gone on a killing spree yet; I wonder how long until he gets a AR-15 with a bumpstock and sprays the next women's march with a hail of bullets.

Jesus I couldn't even imagine being a 40 year-old virgin because I know I wouldn't have made it that far even without a bunch of worthless feminazi cunts ridiculing me for the terrible crime of being a man and wanting to have a sexual relationship with a woman.

The blame has to be shared with the guy himself and the BP conditioning he's been given. Also how has he not realized that acting the same way with them doesn't yield different results? I do feel for him but I cannot empathize with the fact that he didn't modify his behaviour and interactions with women after he got turned down and rejected so much (he might have never even asked, I don't know). He should just get a prostitute and get it out of his system, it might give him some confidence.

The worst part is that this will lead to nothing more than his heart being filled with hatred. And who will he hate? Men. What a crock of shit. Poor bastard will be alone the rest of his life.

Lol identifying as a male feminist is like an instant no to any girls.

Don't be this guy.

So much hate in the comments, as RPers we should be doing our part to inform this man of his lifetime of wrongdoing and point him in the right direction to make changes if he's willing to put the time in. He's past his peak maturity obviously, but he's not dead yet. The hate projection is so strong in the comments that I'm doubting most people have even read the Rational Male. Tomassi would be embarrassed to be honest.

Dude needs to lift, maybe diet. I went through a period where I couldn't even get girls to look at me and it was because I was a fucking slob. Tighten up then pick up some dumb-shit 18-year-old at McDonald's and darken her soul. (Bonus points if you record it and upload to Spankbang later.)