I get a lot of positive IOIs from women. And just unfortunately a lot of them tend to (100% confirmed) have boyfriends. I am in social ecosystems as well.
I normally like to autistically cold approach them after just 1 or 2 of encounters. I don't like talking to a girl over and over then ask them out just to get potentially rejected wasting time.
BUT....
Would it be smarter to? If the girl is positively responding to talking? Warming her up and getting her comfortable with me. Like basically have her monkey branch to me?
Quality approach vs. Quantity Approach
Ideally both. Just wanted your guys thoughts on letting a woman monkey branch to you I guess,
Cause these women don't act like taken women. They get close to me. We have sensual eye contact. How df do I tell?
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1d ago
1) if it's anything past the first time you see them, it's no longer a cold approach.
2) I always got better results with what PUAs called a warm approach, which was don't bother her unless she shows interest first. A true cold approach is disruptive and intrusive, and thus more difficult to get what you want. Cold approaches are great for just practice and to build outcome independence, but if you are too invested in outcome (sex), you're going to be disappointed.
3) you shouldn't "autistically" approach anyone, cold or otherwise. Fucking be normal. Have a conversation. Learn to talk to anyone and everyone and be relaxed.
I've never knowingly let that happen. I don't advise inviting complications into your life.
1) bad character. If she does it with you, she'll do it to you. If it's just a one-time encounter, then who cares, but then...
2) jealous men can be very dangerous. I don't care how badass anyone fancies himself, but inviting that kind of trouble into your life is stupid. There are plenty of women who aren't taken. I advise finding some of those.
Escalate until they stop you. Escalate until you either get sex or get rejected and know to stop wasting time and energy on her, and move on to the next one.
mattyanon Admin 1d ago
Women are often socially-friendly like this, even though they have boyfriends. It's how they are: they flirt for attention, and they flirt to have the option for cheating.
What is this social ecosystem that you have in common with these girls?
From reading your post, it sounds like you are steeped in TRP theory that you don't fully understand in the context of real life. I would suggest learning basic social skills before you learn sexual-skills, otherwise your thinking will be full of"alpha beta monkeybranch platespin" rather than understanding how people really are.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 2m ago
LMAO this reads like some of the stuff we've posted in Vermy's shitpost tribe over the years.