Went out with some guy friends on the weekend. Went to three bars that night.
First venue
- Uninterested
- Opened with "hey what's your name". Talked a bit. Got the number
- Small talk but uninterested.
Second venue
Talked to two girls
- Platonic convo. I wasn't very interested either
- Good convo, but not very sexual. Got the number
Third venue
Talked to three girls
- Girl wasn't hygienic so I left
- Uninterested
- Opened with "Hey you're so cute". Good convo. Got the number
So far my night game has been mostly direct. I want to expand more on situational openers or random questions. Wanted to hear some favourites of you guys. During daytime situations I can come up with situational openers better. During night game I find it a bit trickier because everyone's doing the same thing and it's harder to comment on the situation.
Second thing is I need to redirect the conversation from just platonic. Or even if it's interesting I need to sexualize it more. I'm holding eye contact and doing kino and this helps. Not sure if anyone recommends ramping up the innuendos and dirty talk at a venue or save that for later.
Lastly logistics regarding a girl in a group or with her friend. Do you find yourself trying to move venues with just her?
mattyanon Admin 22h ago
"You're cute" is pretty direct, make sure to follow it up with some touching at the point she seems interested.
Opinion openers are a safe bet - they can be fun, bring other people in, and you can always have three lined up ready to go.
Definitely not.
Mutual attraction, fun, comfort and touching is plenty. Innuendo or sex talk mostly works against you, but if she does it then you can join in and shouldn't be afraid of it. But mostly it's a no.
Girls stick together and tend to have a plan for the evening.
Don't abandon their friend: women see each other as vulnerable, abandoning her friend is a massive social faux pas.
You can ask early "What you up to later" and "Who are you here with". You can work with logistics as it comes up, but don't try and exclude anyone.