Seeing a FWB, both started getting feelings, clear signs cooking me dinner, buying me gifts, etc... Disrespected her twice, unintentionally. Ended with her blocking me on EVERYWHERE after a big argument, saying im the worst person on earth blah blah blah.
Im not asking if she would forgive me, but Ive never had a girl block me before, and Im stood aback about it. But today has kind of hit me in the spot.
Do girls recover from this? Or is it all done and finished? Im happy with any outcome, as I have other plates to get my mind off it atm Thanks gents
spartanblood1 1w ago
UPDATE*** A week without contact, she decides to contact my mother, about how I treated her, being disrespectful, etc..
Im not sure why she has bothered to do this, even after I apologized to something so non offensive, bringing other family members involved. However I'm very disgusted in her doing so.
I certainly DO NOT ever want to be in contact with this girl again.
Lionsmane8 1w ago
Dude, Context, context!
What did you say or do?
spartanblood1 1w ago
Told her, her legs are getting fat as fuck
Lionsmane8 1w ago
Were you blunt about it or diplomatic?
They don't process brutal honesty well you know.
spartanblood1 1w ago
blunt. Said it how I typed it out
Lionsmane8 6d ago
yeah, not sure what to tell you. unless she's the kind that gets off at having insults thrown at her, she'll be busy licking her wounds and quietly resenting you.
whytehorse2021 1w ago
Yeah I don't think she's coming back. I sure as hell wouldn't if I were her.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1w ago
Why do you guys always pedestalize the cooking? Yes it's a green flag but you guys worship it to undeserved amounts over every other more important green flag.
A hoe that fucked me on a tinder date who invited me straight over off a message i sent when I was on the verge of being about to ask her out for simple coffee made dinner for me unsolicited right when I walked through the door then banged me like the cheap hoe she was/is
Why do you guys come in here and write posts at all only to leave out, I don't know, the more important context? It's not like we need to know how severe this episode or two was to give you appropriate advice for the situation or anything crucial like that
No-Stress-Cat 1w ago
Because it's a rare skill these days. This maybe hyperbole, but out of all the women I know (a couple hundred), not a single one of them under the age of 40 knows how to cook. It's a damn shame.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1w ago
There is far more that matters for green flags than cooking and cleaning, these guys on here are commiting to the first trad thots that throw chicken on the stove and bring out a vacuum cleaner. The bar shouldn't be this low...
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1w ago
It IS a shame but my point is i had a complete whore or two cook for me. Dudes be pedestalizing female cooking in a vacuum with zero regard to whether she genuinely has green flags or not
Whores cooking be duping n00bs on here like fuckbois saying the magic words "I'm looking for a relationship girl"
It's stupid. That's my point. Guys on here eat up the women cooking and cleaning shit like fuckin candy. it's disgusting. I keep seeing guys saying she cooks and cleans and then lists 10 red flags she has. These guys pedestalizing cooking and cleaning as girlfriend material instead of shit that actually matters
This is the shit that actually matters:
https://www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/320102/women_are_the_gatekeepers_of_sex_men_are_the_gatekeepers_of/7807635
Edit: Vulgarity aimed at n00bs in AskTRP, not you
No-Stress-Cat 1w ago
I agree. I think the problem is that most guys these days have never seen a woman who can cook and clean. They grew up in a generation where "strong and independent woman" doesn't do domestic "slave labor" and they get all wide-eyed when they see it happen, like some kind of magical moment (cue the choir and the sunlight bursting through the clouds as the angel with the magical vagina descends from the heavens).
Reality is, cooking and cleaning is what a woman is SUPPOSED to do. It would be like my boss asking if I did my job today and when I said yes, they respond with, "WOW! THAT'S AMAZING! YOU ARE AWESOME!" Umm...Boss, I'm SUPPOSED to do my job. That's what you hired me for.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1w ago
FYI the sarcasm isn't aimed at you specifically, too many mofos on here do the exact same trope
spartanblood1 1w ago
Well I called her fat, because she has been gaining weight recently, and its starting to show. Wasn't the best way to approach her about it, I could have been nicer about it. Oh well the truth always hurts In the end.
No-Stress-Cat 1w ago
No, the problem isn't that you called her fat. The problem is you called her fat and then fell to your hands and knees profusely apologizing to said goddess standing before you.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1w ago
Yep. Good luck recovering from telling her she is sexually dead to you
spartanblood1 1w ago
Yea thought so, wasn’t nice to say on my behalf
mattyanon Admin 1w ago
NEXT.
Look..... if she's overreacting like this, she has problems. Or she's genuinely that pissed off. Either way: get more options, this lead has been burned to the ground.
If you go back, there will be more drama in your future.