I was on one meeting 1) ulgy fat 2) single mothers 3) those who were attractive, were SO TALL.. and I'm 6.3 so they were taller than me - that's why they were single => loss of money and time and dignity - should never go there

that shit just sounds incredibly lame. I’d imagine the only broads that would actually subscribe to such a concept would be the morbidly obese fugly trolls

I got falsely accused at one. The vast majority were sluts that fucked random men who would show up to the bars and not even the men in the singles group

I'm jaded about it so take my experience with a huge grain of salt

IME, singles events are an older crowd with thirsty men of all ages and over the hill carousel riders and professional women. If you're looking for relationship, it's a carnival game with a competitive crowd and lousy prizes. If you're just looking to fuck, it can be great, though.

For younger women, every event is a singles event, they don't need to show up unless they want especially want desperate men giving them free shit. More than usual, anyway.

These events are usually grouped by age, so it's easy to know in advance.

Never go to these events.

The women that are there are the leftovers. Think about it - women, by simply existing, have plenty of opportunities for dating. Worst case scenario, they can tease a bit of sex and those opportunities increase exponentially.

If a woman is forced to put in effort it's because there is something so fundamentally broken about her that men don't see the trade-off worth it. Worse, they lack the insight to think "maybe it's me?" so they come to resent men and go full FDS and "rAiSe tHeIr StAnDArDs".

Pair that with hypergamy and their fucking herd mentality and you're in for a bad time - a room full of leftovers that all demand a man be perfect in every way and none of them will have realistic standards because the herd will judge them for it.

Hard pass

Bunch of used-up old windbags and tossed-aside feminists. I'd like to drop a busload of incels off at one of those events, pay their way in, and tell them to have fun. Then, I would interview every woman that came out of the place alone, and ask them out of all those available men, why they came out empty-handed.

I would have thought not. Try and think it through a bit - why would a single woman aged between 18-30 go to a singles event? Why? If a woman is a 5 (average looking) she gets attention wherever she goes. Even if she is finding it hard to get a date (very unlikely) she is never going to go to a singles event, because she knows she would only meet men there that can't pick up girls.

And nothing gives women the ick like a man that can't pick up girls.

So no, I very much doubt you are going to meet anything worth having at a singles event. The profile of women at these events is usually going to be women that hit the wall at about 33, then spent a solid decade failing on OLD. That is when they go 'ok, Imma try something new'.

if you want to meet quality women, here's my tip: just forget about chasing women for a while. Focus on your career and your life. Men are always looking in the wrong places for women. Not going to find it at the bar. Not the club. Not on OLD, not at singles events, not at the gym.

Live well and you will meet good quality women. You will find them at work, in offices, on the airplane, at the tennis / polo / country club, at the yacht club, the art gallery, the philharmonic. If you live a good life, you will meet good people. If you live in the trash can, all you will find is trash.

Hedge accordingly.