All of the women I've had long-term relationships with eventually want me to "work" for them. Whether it's repairing, painting, or other random things, they eventually start nagging me to do things for them. It seems like a universal thing. Is it just validation, or some kind of metric of commitment? The more redpilled I get, the more I resist doing this work, but it still makes me wonder... why.
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DragonNuts 1mo ago
I believe its the rational male that mentions a great point. Women had their trad roles as wives and work they had to do. Women were observed enjoying their efforts.
Man decided that since hard work keeps us from doing what we love, we projected that desire for freedom on ti Women. We did this by automating the work Women would do.
Now Women don't do shit and just expect shit. The men in their lives were also doing shit keep them and their wives happy.
I personally believe that if you don't want to do something, you say No. Be direct, be selfish, they can do it
Or you can flip back on them. "Babe grab me water". smacks ass "thanks grab me one too". Tried that once and they do that shit right away.
DonDripp 1mo ago
Matter of choice.
If all men would say today: 'Hey, no money for me, then you don't get: no dick nor protection nor attention'. You'd be swimming in pussy and money and would have life of leisure.
What we have is nature trying to balance.
Nature is not perfect. Homo sapiens killed many other species, it means the other species didn't go well with mother nature.
If you read Calhoun rat/mouse experiment you'll see eventually that we can become extinct without even firing one nuke.
don't, be demanding and observe, the only limit you'll have to see the pattern, is sample number
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Kreaton01 1mo ago
You know, women do their best to betaify you in ltr so you stay theirs. Doing things is just another form of service, just like they expect you to look after their baby and them until they die.
It's just how people are raised these days. Girls learn at an early age to get men to do their work. Whether their dads, boyfriends or society. They can observe their moms, see it in cartoons, watch their classmate get a free icecream by being cute to the seller, it's everywhere.
I almost never do anything unless they've done or will do a lot for me recently. I see it as a fair trade, not something they can get for free for being a woman.
EurasianChad 1 1mo ago
Compliance test.
If she ain't providing value to you, just don't reply. Say "can't I gotta do x that day. Ask someone else"
MrSupreme 1mo ago
If you can afford it,get someone else to do it. Its on their DNA,you are supposed to provide safety and resources, they look pretty
Hamza99 1mo ago
That's why one shouldn't lead with money/resources/provider vibe.
Lead with fun, excitement. DGAF attitude.
Fuck her, use her (like she desires), toss her to the side. Rinse and repeat.
Hamza99 1mo ago
But why do they view the guy that provides safety and resources as undesirable for sex and LTR(then settle for that kinda guy when they hit the wall)?
MrSupreme 1mo ago
Because they do,it is called Hypergamy,there's a term for it,it is in their genes. If you can provide safety/resources and still be fuckable then you're doing it right. You should definitely NOT worry about the safety/resources until later on in a relationship,and she's probably gonna be the first one to talk about such stuff. Most women I know are my age ended up focusing on career and they live pretty economically stable lives,but they're disfuncional women and can't keep a man. Keep trying but don't expect Miss Perfect.
Hamza99 1mo ago
Women make ZERO sense.
This guy is a "provider" and is faithful = Lame
That guy obviously has options and WILL cheat on me/fuck other women = how exciting! let me go for him.
Then they cry later.
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1mo ago
Women are mostly sex objects to us, and occasionally (heh, rarely) add other value.
We are mostly utility objects to them. They will almost always try to neuter us, put us to work, and then lose attraction to us as we cave to them. Much of TRP & especially MRP is learning how to counter that loss of attraction.
Check out the book "Practical Female Psychology For The Practical Man" by Joseph South and David Franco.
First-light 1mo ago
Men and women have evolved to have a division of labour. Its just natural. Just as we feel more happy than we really should when we get our meals cooked and our clothes washed. Its not like we can't do these things ourselves but they make us happy.
Of greater relevance, it should also be noted that Courtship works according to Briffault's law. The woman receives benefit. Women need continual courting. They need continual benefit. Once things get past the benefit of tingles, they want to see something useful.
whytehorse2021 1mo ago
It's called gender roles. It has become less relevant over the years as life gets easier. There was some reality TV show where a couple made a homestead. They learned really fast that she couldn't lift a plow and he couldn't cook.
As for modern women using men for their own personal gain, that's just because guys are simps.
Maturin_nj 1mo ago
Read the manipulated male ester vilar. You have a lot to learn OP with a question like that. Many LV guys, nice guys, romantic guys, offer this kind of thing up front to their detriment. This is where she'll be having sex with another male and the above guys become her friend and chauffer. They are another form of orbiter.