Ex red pill used to get laid lots, now I seem to have gone my own way.
I have a bad time with drug and alcohol use, they’re just doesn’t seem to be enough time in the day and I need to kick my addictions.
I’m just not that guy anymore, perhaps I spend way too much time on my own but everyone I know just seems to be a loser.
Even the guy I feel your call chad seems like a bad guy to be around.
I try to get going again but don’t last long, I’m high all day everyday and never sober and I think this is related.
I just feel that if I go t total that it shows some kind of weakness because I bet y’all can have a bit of moderation.
I’ve defo been on my own too much and gone weird,
Thoughts?
I just want to be a bit more alpha again but without all the going out to bars etc
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whytehorse2021 1mo ago
Yeah I used to hang out with a lot of losers and use drugs/alcohol. They completely ruin your testosterone and then you start to have low T symptoms including brain fog, poor muscle recovery, difficulty sleeping, lethargy, etc. Get off the drugs/alcohol. Get up in the morning, take a shower, and go for a walk every day. Find some hobby groups and make new friends.
Cynicalvx 1mo ago
When you say get off the drugs alcohol
If I stop blazing I seem to abuse caffeine and cigarettes
Just go water and clean diet ?
I can’t go a day without drugs
whytehorse2021 1mo ago
I'm the same... as I sit here smoking a pack a day and drinking decaf all day. Everybody has vices. You can swap them around though to less harmful things, use moderation, etc.
Something that really helps me is to set a goal like "I'm going to get 3 things done today before screwing off". Then I go run to the bank, mow the lawn, and change a bike tire. Shit gets done and I feel useful and I'm not thinking about smoking, coffee, alcohol, etc.
Intrepid_Place53900 1mo ago
(I can't go a day without drugs)
yes you can, but do you want to
Start working out, lifting weights, eat well.
get some outdoor hobbies, biking clubs, etc.
Only you can kick a drug habit, no one can do it for you. This has to be the first step toward improving your life.
Cynicalvx 1mo ago
Well yes,
My point is I often try to moderately control the legal stuff but I’m kind of looking for someone to say stop everything because it can’t be controlled
Intrepid_Place53900 1mo ago
ok, so stop it, all drugs.
start working out, working out is your new "high". Cardio and weights for sure.
Get some hobbies, find things that you enjoy doing
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
So are you saying you are red pill now or no?
Yeah that has nothing to do with being alpha. Makes me wonder if you ever swallowed the pill correctly the first time
Cynicalvx 1mo ago
I mean if your hamster is spinning then you do you
For me I’m just quitting every drug legal or non legal as it’s all accumulative
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
Lol. Unserious user comes into forum and leaves comment like this. Good luck dude
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
Wow... this sounds like a mess.
You need to quit all drugs and booze, today. If you can't even control yourself, how on earth do you think you are going to be of any use to anyone else?
Get sober today. That is all you need to know.
No-Stress-Cat 1mo ago
It's been over a year and you still haven't changed. You've been given plenty of advice along the lines of "get your shit together" yet here you are again.
You get no sympathy from me, dude. You know what to do. Now, go do it and stop wasting our time.
Next post I see from you, I'm expecting a field report of how you got clean, got a good job, and are at least working on making bank.
MrSupreme 1mo ago
I'm gonna tell ya what I told the guy on some other post today recovering from porn addiction. Take it slow,calm down. Do one day at a time, you'd me amazed just how powerful a single day can be without addictions. Then do a second day,then a third and so on. Anyone can do it,it is very easy cause all you gotta do is nothing,no cigarettes,no weed,no liquor.
Cynicalvx 1mo ago
This answers my question, I’m going cold turkey in every drug, I’ve been buffering trying to control things
Thank you