EDIT: I’ve been living off the forums, and this was such a chronic overthink. leaving this up for the autists.
Before I took my fwb to airport we had sex.
Last night I got off the phone with my fwb and she asked if I could pick her up. She said that in context so “we could spend a couple hours together.” I couldn’t read her, if anything there was a slight negative energy shift when I didn’t immediately agree to picking her up (20 minute drive).
I have classes and honestly poorly conveyed I need to see my schedule. Didn’t even ask what time her flight landed so now I’m in this situation.
Would picking her up (the short drive) be a compliance test? Otherwise her mom would do it, and I don’t think she likes that idea.
Problematic_Browser 1 1mo ago
You're overthinking shit. If it's not an imposition, just pick her up
EurasianChad 1 1mo ago
If you've fucked before + gave her good sex + and she respects you, she will jump on your D in the airport parking lot if you lead it like a Don.
Judge how much she respects you by. How's her relationship with her mom? Is it true what she tells you?
Most important: is picking her up gonna take a big time out from your schedule or no? Is it convenient for you?
Put yourself first but you don't have to be a complete asshole
pofkaf 1mo ago
You're overthinking. Log off this forum for awhile and stop nitpicking every scenario.
Pick her up if you want to. But if it's inconvenient for you, communicate that to her. It's really that simple.
idontdesireusername 1mo ago
well let me tell you different - if you do it once, she will expect it every time after - which is good - you will have something to use if you are smart
First-light 1mo ago
Its not a compliance test if she is just a FWB, she just wonders if this will be another benefit for her. At he end, either she would owe you or she would be taking liberties but whether or not it is a reasonable request depends on how everything else is with her. Does she do return favours? Id putting out considered payment? Are you happy with that if it is considered payment?
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1mo ago
Overthink much?
FWB stands for Friend With Benefits.
Friends give each other rides to and from airports, especially when it's only 20 minutes. I've had friends give me hour-plus rides to or from airports, and I've done the same for friends.
What matters is: can you do it without missing your main responsibilities (work, classes with attendance policies, etc)? If you can't, then let her know so she can make other arrangements.
This isn't that difficult.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
OP is way too deep and has been for a long time. He is still overly preoccupied with PUA and not much big picture. OP still struggles with basic TRP
lurkerhasarisen 1mo ago
Maybe we need some sort of checklist for red pill calibration. If only someone could codify what to do…
Didn’t CIF issue this guy an onion, a bouquet, and a stopwatch?
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1mo ago
LMAO
For those who didn't catch the reference:
that elusive magic bullet to make any woman anywhere want you without any goddamn work on your end!
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
Acronym? What stands for?
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1mo ago
Central Issuing Facility.
Each duty station has one, and it's where you get issued various gear and then turn it back in when you go to a new duty station or get out of the Army.
They're a pain in the ass to deal with.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
Lmao thanks
Testme 1mo ago
I don't think you are wrong to analyze these kinds of interactions and make sure you are handling them correctly.
It is probably correct not to act as her chauffeur because it puts you in a position of servitude.
Why isn't she taking an uber? Because you are not worth her paying a $15 cab fare?
If it were me I would have said, "I am not your chaffeur, take an uber." You need to make it clear to her that you are not her servant. Just to make a comparison, neither of the two girlfriends I have currently would ever in a million years ask me to drive them somewhere.
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1mo ago
Be honest: have you ever actually had sex? Or any friends? Or done anything in meatspace besides make an ass of yourself?
Testme 1mo ago
Do you go through life insulting and criticizing the people you come into contact with or just do it online when you have the protection of anonymity?
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1mo ago
Yes, especially when their retardation becomes too overwhelming to ignore the way yours has.
Edit:
Way to dodge the questions. Superb.
mattyanon Admin 1mo ago
it's a beta text....... if it doesn't fit with your sched. don't do it
MyBoyJob 1mo ago
This post is pure neuroticism kid. Pick her up if you’re not busy and want to fuck her.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
I mean this with care, but breh
Did you get pussy or nah. Then stfu and get off the Internet
imtranscending 1mo ago
Just did. Sex was good, and cut short because her daughter was gonna come home via grandma. Also she thinks she saw her Dad just standing outside her apartment when she looked through a peephole, no knock. Huge emotional spike there. I just walked in the closet and got dressed and waited. She accused me of hiding, and I said "unless you want me to meet him, then sure." She said he wouldn't come in, but I should just hang out in the living room "as a friend" next time. I wouldn't be surprise if I get shit tested for this now. All is good though, she really enjoyed the sex.
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1mo ago
You were hiding. Own it.
Response: habit from jealous husbands getting home early.
Say it mischievously, so she suspects that you're fucking with her.
nicknack 1mo ago
I pick up girls and do them favors when I want to see them and usually cum from them