I have always been open and pretty much everyone knows about everything I do, Having learned about the power of being mysterious, I would like some advice of how to work on it from now on. Pretty much my entire class knows my interests, hobbies, what I'm like etc.
I am only 17 so I have lots of space to grow, Any advice is appreciated.
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Impressive-Cricket-8 1y ago
Just talk less about yourself. Let people ask - and even then, speak only about what was asked. Do your own things by yourself (and make it interesting - learn new stuff, meet new people, go to new places). Let people talk about themselves and ask more questions to keep them going (they'll love it and hardly realise you haven't talked much). When something happens to you that's somewhat out of the ordinary, don't explain - no need to go on a full report about how you met this cute girl that just said hi to you or why you could explain how to get to the mall in spanish to this guy who was lost. Don't brag nor gloat about what you have seen and done and what you can do; it's just a small part of you, after all.
Ong252 1y ago
Thanks a lot, I will implement this in my future conversations
jefferson 1y ago
My small advice is to keep calm and cool. Don't express your feelings suddenly and talk to other people very less. Please continue to this attitude for 6 to 12 months. Surely you can change your personality based on your wishes.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Talk less, be brief, say less than what is required (hard to do).