Rollo uses the phrase "Alpha ****s, Beta bucks." for the two sides of female hypergamy.
Since I'm very young (20), it makes more sense to work on my "alpha" side, bc. girls my age are more attracted (or aroused as Rollo says it) to that than to a "good faithful provider".
Now I don't wanna be cringe with asking "how to be alpha", but apart from lifting I don't really know what I can do to become more 'arousing'/alpha?
What are aspects a younger guy like me could work on to develope this side?
I'm asking bc. I don't wanna just learn quick-fixes for deficiencies, but to "become more".
(As I said I do lift already. And stuff like money, being on your purpose/mission are not really relevant for the alpha ****s side. Maybe stuff like utilizing the darker part of your personality, but I have no clue how to do that.)
financehardo420 1y ago
easy lol get heart broken
Boosted_Arrow 1y ago
Wow, funny you should say that!
Am I gonna be a double alpha now?
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
You learn Game. Like half the sidebar is dedicated to it. Read it.
Some pointers:
Boosted_Arrow 1y ago
True, but those are not things I can do to work on 'myself'. I'm looking for what I described in my post.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
You can, it just requires practice. The alpha-beta dichotomy is all about Game, social skills.
Also try dressing the part. If you look like a geek you wont get the fuckboy treatment.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Age is not a straight jacket. You can fuck 40yr old women. I sure as hell did when I was your age.
Boosted_Arrow 1y ago
Yea, but I wanna be with girls my own age. I'm not attracted to cougers rn.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
What's your SMV relative to a 20yr old woman? I bet she's at her peak and you're at your bottom. Maybe you can get 18yr olds. I mean GigaChad can probably pull it off but what's you're SMV relative to gigaChad?
Boosted_Arrow 1y ago
Well obviously my SMV is low as a 20 year old. That's why I'm asking the question.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
And that's why I answered you should fuck old women(low SMV).
Boosted_Arrow 1y ago
And that's why I said I'm not attracted to cougars rn. I wanna become 'alpha' so I can do that. I don't care if I have to put the work in, I just need to know what to work on.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Oh, just lift and read the side-bar.
Boosted_Arrow 1y ago
In my OP I said I already lift ffs.
Why can't you just answer my initial question?
whytehorse2021 1y ago
There isn't really more to it than looks and game. You're going to be stuck with the notion that women have to take a risk that you're a winner in the making. Women wait at the finish line and pick the winners. So you're creating that illusion through appearance.