Help me decipher this.
So I'm moving into a new house in a month.
The Roommates:
1) Girl who I'm really good friends with but haven't fucked and have barely any desire to. She's pretty hot, a bit of an attention whore (fishes for compliments, etc.) but all in all a solid girl to have around.
2) Girl #1's best friend. She showed me a picture of her, and she's gorgeous. I told #1 that her friend is hot and pretty much laid it out that if I get the chance I will for sure fuck her. We seem to have a lot in common from what I know about her so far, so I'm interested.
So I'm constantly teasing girl #1 (my good friend) about how hot her friend is and stuff, and of course as she does, she marks her territory so to speak and says "You can't fuck her!"
This made me laugh, but I'm more interested in the meaning behind it and why she would say that.
Is there more to this, or am I just reading into this too much?
Big_ol_Bro 8y ago
Women are competitive and she doesn't like hearing that you want to fuck her friend instead of her. Probably.
OneInAZillion 8y ago
That's true. I have constantly avoided giving girl #1 compliments by the way. So maybe this ups her natural competitiveness and makes her want to "win" more.
Overzealous_BlackGuy 8y ago
To piggyback on this, you even mentioned she's an attention whore. Youre showing attention to her friend who isn t present and she has to listen to you talk about it. There is no doubt it picks at her she probably beeb assuming you were interested in her and now the focus has shifted.
OneInAZillion 8y ago
Please elaborate.. what should I be expecting in terms of her behavior going forward?
Overzealous_BlackGuy 8y ago
It all depends on how much she's attracted to you. I had a female bestfriend that liked the exclusivity I gave her, but were fucking friends. Of course I'm going to spend a lot of tine with her alone , and peioritize her over others. But she would get catty the moment her time got cut even a little by another women.
secret_barber 8y ago
Good luck to you, living with female friends. She simply wants to control you. Of course, you won't let her, so first she will want to fuck you, then she is going to hate you.
NidStyles 8y ago
I don't understand dudes that do this shit to themselves.
aboveaveragebabydick 8y ago
What are your circumstances? You sound young, if you're a student, take a swing. Don't listen to the squares telling you not to shit where you eat.
OneInAZillion 8y ago
I am young. It's just a situation for my final year of college with a couple of girls from school.
aboveaveragebabydick 8y ago
Hell yeah, you're young as fuck, have fun man. Don't chase, be aloof, let her come to you.
intelcorei5 8y ago
You seem to be in the sweet spot. You could fuck #1 with the attitude you have and the way you frame her. Expressing attraction to #2 helps because competition.
Realistically, if you haven't met #2, you shouldn't seriously consider anything with her. It's fine to joke about it, but if you've already decided to fuck her before you met her, then she hasn't qualified herself to you and you haven't built any attraction with her. So you're the horny/needy friend-of-friend, not good for anything but a ONS at this point.
But you're going to be roommates, so that's a bad idea anyway. You will have the opportunity to attract her and run social circle game with both of them. Assuming you avoid fucking either.
NidStyles 8y ago
Room-mating with women is a bad idea on so many levels.
OneInAZillion 8y ago
Elaborate
NidStyles 8y ago
They are the worst people to room-mate. Everything from lack of cleanliness to invasion of privacy.
redpillcynic 8y ago
Well, live and learn
pogiface 8y ago
Invite her friend over and openly flirt with her. See if girl 1 gets jealous about all the attention she doesn't get.
FrameWalker 8y ago
I hate talking before I act. Whatever happens in the future is infinitely mutable. It's just teasing for now - don't expect anything else to happen. Action is your friend, not talk.
oddmeister 8y ago
The easy answer is FFM.
OneInAZillion 8y ago
Lay out the blueprints for me.
redpillcynic 8y ago
Game them alternatively, in front of each other, like a high AC current. Shower one with your full attention on one instance, the next on another, while completely ignoring the opposite.
You've got to get them on hook, start making them qualifying themselves against each other. Eg. I like your friends hair more today.
Keep your SMV up, dread the fuck out of them both. Then when you want to pull the trigger, get both drunk
NidStyles 8y ago
You are going to end up in jail, but it's dread game 100%. You have to get them to compete with each other first. Whatever you do don't fuck either of them before you fuck them both, that will just end it before it happens.
rokr1292 8y ago
Prove her wrong
Shaigan 8y ago
Why do you keep telling your friend how hot her friend is and that you want to fuck her?
JackGoldsteinWrites 8y ago
mischievious smile, "OK". Saying "I am soo going to do it" with your eyes. And if she flips, remain unphased.
I'd tell you not to fuck roommates, but honestly, you aren't going to listen.
tepper2 8y ago
Don't fuck women you live with.
She, like every other woman, is trying to control your actions because she thinks her vagina makes her special.
MeatCurtainRod 8y ago
1) don't shit where you eat. This means don't fuck your roommate.
2) if you understand some of women's thought patterns, jealousy and competitiveness is among their top priorities. You'll find that women don't dress provocatively to show off towards guys; they dress like that to show that they are better than the women around them.
TheBigO420 8y ago
Fuck her friend.
OneInAZillion 8y ago
You just want to see me burn.
TheBigO420 8y ago
You know you want to.
T4CK 8y ago
Do not have sex with your roommates. It could only end badly. As many say, don't shit where you eat.
Epicureanist 8y ago
"Well I've got to fuck one of my roommates. And it's definitely not you so ...."
Make her qualify herself
Mustaka 8y ago
When you fuck the friend be sure to post the drama here.
Fucking a roommate is bad bad news and it will not end well.
redpillcynic 8y ago
Yes OP, you need to deliver, and post an FR about it
Ivabighairy1 8y ago
I've seen this numerous times before. One or both will wind up pregnant.
OneInAZillion 8y ago
I wrap it up.
NidStyles 8y ago
lol, won't matter bitch will steal your shit. Hope you have a lock on your room's door, because your shit will be their snooping territory.
night-addict 8y ago
Sounds like girl 1 may want your dong. But yeah don't fuck either of em.