So my gf (10 years rationship )went on a hunting trip with the company she work for all upper management went she is part of it. Sounds like they had a great time allot of drinking happened. So she have been back for a few days 3 or so now and tonigt i thoight i would get some. Everytime i touched her like sexualy she gigles she didnt use to do it so bad. And also when i stroked her lightly on her v she looked like she was enjoying it but she then told me she wasnt in the mood. Please give me some advice. Or am i just overthinking?
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VasiliyZaitzev 10y ago
Dread game. And you should be gaming other women anyway.
Always Be Closing
juliusstreicher 10y ago
WhyTF did it take so long for somebody to point out the need for Dread? OP's ass is 1/2 way out the door, if not already.
Girl goes on a hunting trip w/management? This was one big orgy, planned in advance. She pulled a train, at the very least, IMO. If there even was a 'management trip'. Does her AF like to hunt???
kingofpoplives 10y ago
Trips and drinking with other men. No longer wants to have sex with you. Your LTR sounds pretty fucked.
ThrowingMyslfOutther 10y ago
Upvote for a dual use of the word fucked.
JavelinMint 10y ago
It does but it's also not definitive. If OP ever confronts her, which OP might want to think about, he shouldn't be mad or angry.
What would be interesting to see is how nonchalant he is about it and then the girl might even confess just to see if he even cares about her. Like her mind will be racing with thoughts of "does he even care about me at all?"
There's always a reason why they don't just pack their bags and leave after an affair to join that new guy.
kingofpoplives 10y ago
Usually it's because the new guy just wanted some cooz and won't have her for an LTR, so it's not an option.
OP needs to start opening up to idea of being single and fucking other women again. He needs to regain his self respect and masculinity if his woman is ever going to respect him again.
mada0207 10y ago
Get ready to become TRP
MeatCurtainRod 10y ago
Yes. This thought process, jumping to conclusions, over-thinking things, and letting your emotions control you, is a VERY bluepill trait. Notice how I said "trait". You aren't bluepill. Your behaviors are. You can change.
vandaalen 10y ago
If you have to ask: Yes.
_Tactleneck_ 10y ago
I'll rephrase your question: if you thought you were red pill, would you have to ask "am I blue pill?" if you said yes, you do not understand the difference in the two.
Understand the concept of AWALT and your girlfriend drinking and partying without you. Are you willing to accept that? I honestly could believe she didn't flirt with anyone the entire time, but I'd be lying to myself as I am still unplugging.
You waited 3 days before assuming you would get sex: blue pill (unless she was on her period)
She giggled and your response is to stop: Blue pill
She was enjoying your touch, then said stop, and you actually listened to her instead of escalating further: blue pill
You've got a lot of work to do, but we all started at day 0. There's so much good material on the sidebar of the parent sub, r/theredpill, just read it. NOW!
WillWorkForLTC 10y ago
Thank you for offering solutions rather than mindless insults to this poor schmuck. For the record, yes insults are OK if they ALSO come with harsh truths folks.