Do you work out?

I'll share my own experience, maybe it'll help you. I have a limp and a cane, and it's part of my character/charm. The way to do this is to deal with it the way everybody in the game deals with their ''disability'': pretend it's an advantage!

What you should aim for is the attitude that you're so confident, and so deserving of that confidence, that what would be a disadvantage for others is either a non-issue for you, or is simply part of who you are, and maybe even what makes you special. Think in line of Robert De Niro's nose, it's one the ugliest motherfucking noses in the known galaxy, but people either don't notice it at all, or they actually believe it's a massive part of what makes him so handsome! How? Because he has enough alpha cred to make up for his gigantically disfigured nose.

I ''walk'' around the bar with my cane like I own the place, I use the limp as material for pseudo-self deprecating humor to break the ice and establish rapport, when I see women staring at it, I use this as an opportunity for a good opening line: ''want to see my fourth leg?'', ''Sexy isn't it?'', ''Oh God you're one of those girls aren't you?'', ''You have a thing for scarred guys don't you?'', ''We should go upstairs, it has a fascinating view, but I should warn you, you might have to carry me a couple of stairs''. Almost all girls(99.9%?)will answer positively and laugh, it's a combination of political correctness, them wanting to appear nice and a vague sense of pity, you should use all of these things to your own advantage and manipulate the hell out of her, all she needs a push!

Even your show of confidence doesn't need to be as tight an flashy as other guys(but it has to be genuine), just a couple of cocky comments plus a playful attitude will turn a pitying heart into a tingly vagina in a matter of minutes.

Try to avoid a couple of mistakes:

1. Don't overplay their pity. Remember you're a cute, little wounded bird to most of these girls, and pity only helps you at the beginning, if you don't switch immediately to cocky/dirty confident player, no matter how much flirting you do, you won't get any further than the brave handicapped friend that they sometimes ''roll'' with. You can't guilt them into bed, it's just enough for getting a response to your opening and make them a bit less bitchy.

2. Work on your inner game. As I've said before you don't need too much confidence, but what you have has to be real. You can't fake confidence with a disability, I mean you can, but everybody, including women, will be much better at smelling it out. Everyone expects you to be insecure, this is why self deprecating humor is so good for us, not only it shows we're of with whatever problem we have AND makes them more comfortable looking past that thing and see you as a human being.

3. If you're playing the asshole game and she isn't engaging(real laughing, and teasing back, or blushing ... awkward smile isn't engagement!)it means she's hurt and shocked but is trying to be nice. Change tactics, or just walk away to the next gal.

4. The second that the initial awkwardness about your wheels is gone never mention it again. You've just established that you don't give a crap, and there are tons of other things in this world to talk about. Converse, and game the hell out of her for the rest of that night. Pull-Push, neg, tease, flirt, one minute isolate her from her friends and the next be all engaged with her cuter friend in a deep conversation, go all in, but don't appear desperate.

tl;dr: Turn you disability to what makes you special, or something irrelevant and then game girls like a regular guy. Or better yet, use it as an advantage and milk that sensitivity cow hard.

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Hmm I read your post and instantly thought of Sean Stephenson. He's not only in a wheelchair but he's 3 feet tall and has a bone condition. But some of the stuff he comes out with is just fantastic. And apparently he was very successful with women before he got married.

Although he is into some 'woo-woo' stuff like the law of attraction which I tend to screen out. Here's a vid from a few years back:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mo6jUXEpECI