Before anybody asks: no, this isn't with an LTR. And I can fuck other women quite easily - I don't need a club.
Yesterday I matched with a chick on a dating app. We started chatting. She was very upfront about being a swinger.
I said I had never been to a club, but had always been intrigued by it (truth). We had a long conversation about it, what it entails, etc. It seems that most swingers are quite safe in terms of STDs and consent.
I noticed that she seems to be using swinging as a way to get attention. She straight up mentioned that she is going thru a divorce and that the swinging community makes her feel accepted.
With that in mind, I have no emotional attachment to her, and this might be a cool opportunity to try some new things and meet other experimentalists.
Just curious what your thoughts are? Have you ever been to a club? What is it like? Should I go with this chick to a club? How safe is it really? Etc.
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pofkaf 1y ago
Nah. That probably goes along with the consent thing. Just reading about it, swinger clubs are very very strict about consent.
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mattyanon Admin 1y ago
If it's anything like the bdsm community it will be full of men desperate for ANY woman to join them. Women in sex clubs get showered with acceptance and attention, because they are rare and desperately needed. The quality of women is likely very, very low.
Try it once for your own research.
pofkaf 1y ago
As I've been reading, it seems like alot of swingers clubs require couples to come together. Men aren't allowed to come alone. So there's a balance of men and women
SheLarror1234 1y ago
Wouldn't even talk to this chick. Like guy said above, only the worst of the worst of females go to swingers club. Women should not have problems finding a male so its onlly likely she is a turbo slut and your chances of disease from her are also quite high.
Not to mention other fetish stuff that imo is just not healthy and is the opposite of male improvement.
hornetsfalcons12 1y ago
Also, they’re a headache. Swinging is basically the CC for post-wall chicks who need another name for their sexual degeneracy
pofkaf 1y ago
Good points
HopelessRomantic 1y ago
Don't get roped into sacrificing your ideals and principles for another woman. It's very easy to fall for the "you should be open minded" take on things. All it means is "I want you do to this, and you're gonna do it". Fuck you - I'm gonna do my own thing.
pofkaf 1y ago
I feel ya. Like I said, I've always been intrigued!