I am 21 years old ethnic.I have problem with making friends.I mean I dont have,but people around me obviously have.I always used to have like one or two friends that I trust and never felt alone or in need to have 20.For some people usually ones that dont like me spread lies how I dont have no friends or dont have where to go out and that its because I am either bad person,or loser. Since I was young I was being kind of introverted,intrested in drawing,reading books and math.I never really cared about hanging with people all my free time and never found a value in superfucial things like how many friends someone have.First time when people meet me either tough guys from underground or normal nice people they talk how likeable I am and ask their friends why they havent get to know us earlier. I dont want that bad people spread such things about me through city. How can I expand social circle.I used to go to cross and have a hard time developing relatiships outside of hobby. In past it was easy to make friends during primary school,highschool,we would share a lot of time and bonds would be created over time,but now at uni where we are going online. Any books,any tips?
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markbulax 1y ago
Be more open with other people or something. I know it may sound hard and impossible to do, but you have to change yourself little by little if you want to. As you said above, first you need to get yourself in order, your appearance. I'm not saying that you need to become the most beautiful and pumped up person on the planet, no, you just need to clean up your appearance and be neater. Iron your shirt, straighten your back, and smile - a positive attitude will come out of you. Next, develop yourself as a person, read books, find new hobbies, and keep your mind occupied. As strange as it may sound, I found most of my friends in the hobby club. I loved going there, talking to everyone, sharing thoughts, joking around, and solving riddles. By the way - riddles are a great thing, that's how I met two friends, they love riddles too. What's wrong with that? It develops erudition. If you want to practice - keep the site https://riddlesbest.com/category/sun-riddles/ may come in handy someday. In general, clean up, your appearance and your mind, find some club on your interests and be more open. People don't always carry evil bro
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Firstly: learn to use paragraphs. It will make your writing more legible.
You are treated badly because you are seen as either low value, or you are seen as a threat to group dynamics. Possibly both. Do everything you can to appear high value (clothes, looks, bodyfat, muscle, etc).
Read my blog on here, I've got a few articles on meeting and making friends
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Here's a couple comprehensive posts:
https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/how-do-i-make-more-friends-by-providing-value.296416
https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/how-to-be-one-charming-motherfucker.42685
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
That second link is especially good ;)
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Sounds like undiagnosed autism. Same thing happened to me. It only gets worse with employers, police, judges, etc. I wrote a book on how to deal with non-autistic people https://www.amazon.com/Social-Autist-Autists-Allocentric-Universe-ebook/dp/B09JSQ42TR
tierteen 1y ago
You could add few examples who is autist. Not everyone is diagnosed.
You could do it every time you add the link, from template